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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that they are just not after me in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! Found that when going on your profile

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Yep! Found that when going on your profile "

Lol maybe I need to lower my age preference;)

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Sorry

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Sorry "

lol I’ll forgive you

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I find that they are just not after me in general "

I’m sure there’s plenty tho are

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

It has happened on occasion, yes.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Yep! Found that when going on your profile "

Oooft

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales


"Sorry

lol I’ll forgive you "

Phew the world is right again

Btw you're hawt

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By *eachyqueen2019Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Yep! Even worse when you’re talking and realise they don’t really want the same just happy to string you along

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve given up looking and reading

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

Just change what you’re looking for, problem solved

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Even worse when they start the interest and then you become attracted to then find it's not gonna happen

It is what it is

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes and tempted to change criteria but didn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

I'd certainly reconsider what I was looking for if you found interest in me mind, very nice fairplay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

Or you're just too far away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I hate that. It’s also annoying when they like the same as you but you’re out they’re age range. So annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

omg tell me about it

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think that’s normal for us male species on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a pound lol

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Yep! Even worse when you’re talking and realise they don’t really want the same just happy to string you along "

I’ve thankfully not been strung along.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I’ve given up looking and reading "

Aww never give up hun, I’m sure there is someone out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep! Even worse when you’re talking and realise they don’t really want the same just happy to string you along

I’ve thankfully not been strung along. "

omg thats the kiss of life

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Just change what you’re looking for, problem solved "

Wish it was that easy lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

All too often

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Yes and tempted to change criteria but didn’t "

Sometimes you have to stick to what you want regardless of how hot this person is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

Or that you're 8 years outside their preferred age range

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Even worse when they start the interest and then you become attracted to then find it's not gonna happen

It is what it is "

Yeah totally agree.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Or you're just too far away! "

Lol should move closer then

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

All too often "

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

Always , gutted

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Or that you're 8 years outside their preferred age range "

I’d be tempted to go above if the right person was to come along

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

I don’t even know if I get along with this guy personality wise, but his profile pic makes me weak in the knees. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Or you're just too far away!

Lol should move closer then"

You move closer! I'm worth it!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Or you're just too far away! "

You are almost as far north as its possible to go in the British Isles. Just don't move to Shetland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Or you're just too far away!

You are almost as far north as its possible to go in the British Isles. Just don't move to Shetland "

Naaaaah, I'm only half way up the east coast!

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Or you're just too far away!

Lol should move closer then

You move closer! I'm worth it! "

Lol we both have baggage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

Happens a lot hahah!! Normally and age thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the story of my life

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Or you're just too far away!

You are almost as far north as its possible to go in the British Isles. Just don't move to Shetland

Naaaaah, I'm only half way up the east coast! "

You are very, very far away, that's all I know. You'll be far-er next week

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

That's almost exactly like us looking at your profile and finding out you aren't interested in couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See now everyone is just too far away so it don't matter who's profile I look at. I'm not what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See now everyone is just too far away so it don't matter who's profile I look at. I'm not what they're looking for. "

Unless people are willing to travel to Elba after the virus can accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently OP!!

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Yes OP quite often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Or that you're 8 years outside their preferred age range

I’d be tempted to go above if the right person was to come along "

Gutted that isn't me. Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

Or you're just too far away!

Lol should move closer then

You move closer! I'm worth it!

Lol we both have baggage "

I'll leave mine if you leave yours haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually find those I’m most attracted to are miles and miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually find those I’m most attracted to are miles and miles away. "

I know....I'm sorry!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

I generally find if their profile reveals we are not compatible I'm not attracted

I usually become attracted when all the boxes become ticked and we've chatted until then I'm not greatly affected by window dressing x

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Usually find those I’m most attracted to are miles and miles away. "

Would you ever travel for the right person??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty more fish in the sea

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

That's almost exactly like us looking at your profile and finding out you aren't interested in couples. "

I know what you mean....I’ve never looked into couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

was it mine because I'm bloody flexible ya know

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Plenty more fish in the sea "

I’m swimming around at the moment lol

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo was it mine because I'm bloody flexible ya know "

lol how flexible are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty more fish in the sea

I’m swimming around at the moment lol"

Just keep swimming just keep swimming

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Plenty more fish in the sea

I’m swimming around at the moment lol

Just keep swimming just keep swimming "

Swim swim swim lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thing about being unable to meet anyone on here virus or no virus. No expectations... I've had better luck travelling Europe than when I was in UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty more fish in the sea

I’m swimming around at the moment lol

Just keep swimming just keep swimming

Swim swim swim lol"

Don’t let the big waves get you down ! Stay afloat and someone will save you soon...sea logic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty more fish in the sea

I’m swimming around at the moment lol

Just keep swimming just keep swimming

Swim swim swim lol"

Swim to Italy I can accommodate, check out my profile for pic of apartment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, the majority of tome for men on here getting a conversation is winning a watch but on dating sites it’s the opposite

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Plenty more fish in the sea

I’m swimming around at the moment lol

Just keep swimming just keep swimming

Swim swim swim lol

Don’t let the big waves get you down ! Stay afloat and someone will save you soon...sea logic "

I know Hun thank you

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Lol, the majority of tome for men on here getting a conversation is winning a watch but on dating sites it’s the opposite "

I’ve never been on a dating site so I wouldn’t know. That’s a good thing for men

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Plenty more fish in the sea

I’m swimming around at the moment lol

Just keep swimming just keep swimming

Swim swim swim lol

Swim to Italy I can accommodate, check out my profile for pic of apartment "

Italy is a bit too far unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo was it mine because I'm bloody flexible ya know

lol how flexible are you"

i can nearly touch my toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty more fish in the sea

I’m swimming around at the moment lol

Just keep swimming just keep swimming

Swim swim swim lol

Swim to Italy I can accommodate, check out my profile for pic of apartment

Italy is a bit too far unfortunately "

Ah well... I offered at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, the majority of tome for men on here getting a conversation is winning a watch but on dating sites it’s the opposite

I’ve never been on a dating site so I wouldn’t know. That’s a good thing for men "

This site is a good thing if you don’t take things personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo was it mine because I'm bloody flexible ya know

lol how flexible are youi can nearly touch my toes "

What about head, shoulders and knees ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo was it mine because I'm bloody flexible ya know

lol how flexible are youi can nearly touch my toes

What about head, shoulders and knees ? "

cmon give me a break I'm worn out trying that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually find those I’m most attracted to are miles and miles away.

Would you ever travel for the right person??

"

I would if it was gonna be a permanent thing where they’d move here in the end.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I’ve given up looking and reading

Aww never give up hun, I’m sure there is someone out there "

I haven’t given up I meant I just don’t bother reading what they write in their profiles as most of it is 99% nonsense. So I just talk and find out for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo "

I can change my settings if you like x

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Don’t you hate it when you find a profile that you’re attracted to, for some silly reason you can’t stop looking. Only to find out that they’re not after the same thing as you

Boooooo

I can change my settings if you like x "

What are you changing it too??

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I’ve given up looking and reading

Aww never give up hun, I’m sure there is someone out there

I haven’t given up I meant I just don’t bother reading what they write in their profiles as most of it is 99% nonsense. So I just talk and find out for myself "

Of course, makes sense especially if it works for you

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Usually find those I’m most attracted to are miles and miles away.

Would you ever travel for the right person??

I would if it was gonna be a permanent thing where they’d move here in the end. "

Here’s hoping that you find that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I stopped reading profiles and posting on the forums

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