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By *nlyThaBest OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I never seem to get any replies, even though I DON'T copy and paste and always polite, where am I going wrong ???? And it's so annoying the way people ask you to not copy and paste and put thought into your message but then don't even take 10 seconds to write back no thanks !

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I never seem to get any replies, even though I DON'T copy and paste and always polite, where am I going wrong ???? And it's so annoying the way people ask you to not copy and paste and put thought into your message but then don't even take 10 seconds to write back no thanks ! "

Haahaahaahaa!!!

Really?!!

Rude, arrogant, too good for us mere mortals so people leave you alone to bask in your own glory I'd guess...could be wrong...*sniggers*...but I doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are your messages as charming as your profile?

Good to know you aren't desperate, be good if you could state likes adislikes without sounding rude and arrogant.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Who knows...

Maybe the people you're mailing think they're

Too Old

Too Large

Too Ugly

Too out of shape

for you .... so they don't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and the warnings are longer than your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these must make up for it though

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Blimey, your Sydney University warnings are actually longer than your profile. Hmmmm.

Afraid I am far too strange and ugly for you, but I'm sure Kate Moss will be along soon. Oh sorry, she's a bit strange too.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i was waiting on someone to pick up on that... actually.. since i am probably "old, ugly and out of shape" but i am getting meets.... no help from me...

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By *nlyThaBest OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

??? Don't quite get that reply, are you suggesting I think I'm to good, hopefully you mean alot of people just think there are ???

Thanks for replying to the thread though or that woulda been kind of ironic if no one had and been pretty fynny wouldn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"??? Don't quite get that reply, are you suggesting I think I'm to good, hopefully you mean alot of people just think there are ???

Thanks for replying to the thread though or that woulda been kind of ironic if no one had and been pretty fynny wouldn't it

yep... that is exactly how your profile reads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fella your profile makes you sound so arrogant its untrue, change your profile and you might have more luck

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Haahaahaahaa!!!

Really?!!

Rude, arrogant, too good for us mere mortals so people leave you alone to bask in your own glory I'd guess...could be wrong...*sniggers*...but I doubt it!

Op why do you think you are entitled to a written reply simply because you have deigned to send a message to someone...lets play a little game of lets pretend...

You arrive home from work after a hard day, there is a pizza delivery leaflet on your door mat.

You like pizza, you have ordered pizza from them before, the pizza shop is clean and attractive, but tonight you fancy Chinese,

Do you...

a, call the pizza shop and apologize for not ordering from them

b. bin the leaflet.

i have a theory about men who demand replies...they are so full of themselves that they cant believe that the site is right, no reply means no thank you, so they sit there waiting for the replies to come flooding in saying yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heres a tip just delete every thing you have put on your profile and replace it with the following

I LOVE MYSELF SO NO NEED FOR ANYONE ELSE TOO

that should make it easyer to read

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"??? Don't quite get that reply, are you suggesting I think I'm to good, hopefully you mean alot of people just think there are ??? "

Nope, your profile states quite clearly your likes and dislikes. However, your dislikes do seem to rule out a lot of the site, so I reckon your may struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

That is one scary profile!

Make it sweet and delightful

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By *nlyThaBest OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Wow some replys wooohooooooo !!!!! Hahaha. Thanks to the people takin the time With helpful tips which I'll take on board, now I read my profile yeah I do sound a bit of a tit so I'll edit it, or even if it's a bitter one because youve at least given us a laugh so thanks ya miserable gits haha, happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with honeypot ,,,u r so far out of reach with real ppl u shud b on planet ga ga ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow some replys wooohooooooo !!!!! Hahaha. Thanks to the people takin the time With helpful tips which I'll take on board, now I read my profile yeah I do sound a bit of a tit so I'll edit it, or even if it's a bitter one because youve at least given us a laugh so thanks ya miserable gits haha, happy swinging

nice when your advice is appreciated

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

so thanks ya miserable gits "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"??? Don't quite get that reply, are you suggesting I think I'm to good, hopefully you mean alot of people just think there are ???

Nope, your profile states quite clearly your likes and dislikes. However, your dislikes do seem to rule out a lot of the site, so I reckon your may struggle."

Personally I suspect that the way the dislikes are worded will put most people off regardless of whether they fall into them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so thanks ya miserable gits

Says it all really doesn't it?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

so thanks ya miserable gits

That was taken way out of context.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

damn how did i miss the first set of demands.. I only focused on the 2nd set.....

don't change a thing if this represents the true you..... in a way this is the reason i hate giving out profile advice, because you wouldn't have seen the "true" person before they go and change it....

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"damn how did i miss the first set of demands.. I only focused on the 2nd set....."

Aaah... you're admitting to the sin of not reading profiles there

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

so thanks ya miserable gits

That was taken way out of context."

Possibly, or just taken out of the paragraph?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

so thanks ya miserable gits

That was taken way out of context.

Possibly, or just taken out of the paragraph?

No, I think what I said.

The man was laughing at himself on that post and not being nasty by trying to banter after all the replies....out of context is what I still think.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

so thanks ya miserable gits

That was taken way out of context.

Possibly, or just taken out of the paragraph?

No, I think what I said.

The man was laughing at himself on that post and not being nasty by trying to banter after all the replies....out of context is what I still think."

Okay, everyone has different opinions.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You have stripped it all off now !!

Hopefully when you re post it it will help get you some replies....in the meantime, welcome to the forums and stick around, sometimes it can be fun on here while you are waiting for your replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

much better ... but... maybe a little more information about who you are & what your looking for would help

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By *nlyThaBest OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Well thanks for some fair points yep I sounded a tit when I looked at it properly, think the problem was I kept adding stuff and chopping and changing alot as I wasn't getting anywhere and didn't realize that because I use my mobile app not and it's only a small box it was still full a txt that I'd originally put on when I first signed up, Now deleted the nonsense, just lookin to meet fun, friendly swinging people, alot a wound up people now tho bloody hell hilarious, thanks for good advise from some a you people, appreciated, and have fun

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"much better ... but... maybe a little more information about who you are & what your looking for would help"

Guy can't win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But this really has sorted your reply drought man

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"much better ... but... maybe a little more information about who you are & what your looking for would help"

Yep.. focus on what you like and what you're looking for ... not just what you dislike and what you're not looking for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"much better ... but... maybe a little more information about who you are & what your looking for would help

Guy can't win!

sawwy

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

It doesn't matter what is on your profile - you are a single male. It's that simple...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"But this really has sorted your reply drought man

i agree...am i the only one who actually answered the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But this really has sorted your reply drought man

i agree...am i the only one who actually answered the OP

no ... but you made me hungry with all that talk about pizza & chinese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But this really has sorted your reply drought man

i agree...am i the only one who actually answered the OP

"
Nah you ripped him to pieces like everyone else

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By *eon85Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"It doesn't matter what is on your profile - you are a single male. It's that simple..."
agreed

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i wouldn't normally call a 9 word profile "an improvement".... but is this case.... compared to what you wrote before, this may be booker prize worthy....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It doesn't matter what is on your profile - you are a single male. It's that simple..."

Sorry, but I totally disagree with that..

If a guy contacts me ... it's both what's in his messages AND his profile that makes me decide if I might or might not be interested in meeting him

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By *nlyThaBest OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yeah think it's just hard if ya a single male am doesn't help when ya wrote down a load a crap an waffle ha. Gunna add a few bits an keep it short an sweet, an hey if ya take the time to message me am your not my type I'll just be a gent an say thanks an good luck sort a thing, coz I am a gent an I've got respect and manners, unlike a few on here but as if I'd bother havin a row on a computer screen haha, rather leave that to sayin it to haters faces

in the meantime nice one for the true and fair critasisim, taken on board. The narky people, get a grip haha

happy swinging people take care and hope ya have great fun

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

Now your profile is boring and i never got to see what was written on it in the 1st place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look on the bright side. You can say your had heaps of replys from your swinger profile

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

nice when your advice is appreciated

I took it as tongue in cheek.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Now your profile is boring and i never got to see what was written on it in the 1st place! "

It really just said that he was great looking / great body and didnt like or want to meet people who were too old, too large, too ugly or too out of shape... (from what I remember) ... but I'm sure someone will correct me if i'm wrong

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

profiles worse by a long way...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"It doesn't matter what is on your profile - you are a single male. It's that simple... agreed"

bollocks...we got a message yesterday of a guy who has been on a week, good profile, decent pics, message that spoke to both of us and caught my eye, meet arranged for friday...

Just cos u cant doesnt mean all men struggle....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally...it's not much of an improvement, but if you feel that profile will stand out against the other thousands...go you!

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over a year ago

Give the guy a bit of time to sort it out

Its been literally minutes since he deleted it all

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By *nlyThaBest OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Tell me about it ! Thanks haha, talk about people getting wound up, Gunna keep it short an sweet from now, it's not countdown is it ? Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got your replies man quit while your ahead delete account

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By *nlyThaBest OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hahaha nice1 I think I might do now !

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By *nlyThaBest OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ya didn't want to it was OTT to say the least !!!!!

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By *nlyThaBest OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm amazed they haven't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think they feel sorry for ya it's so bad

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

Tis much better now!!! p.s if ya mailed me and we met single guys then I would have a Cheeky chat with you to get to know better!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, What a lot of negative replies to a newbie post asking for help..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's me out of the running then.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Wow, What a lot of negative replies to a newbie post asking for help.............."

If you saw his original profile the comments here are very restrained. Even the op realised he came across as a tit...his words.

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By *anoman1Man
over a year ago

london

I agree with you mate. It's damn right rude! 10 seconds is all it takes to say no thanks (that took me 3 seconds to write that lol).

It seems like some people on here loose their manners with the arrogance of receiving so many messages.

I reply to every single message I get, whether it's "when we meeting?" to "thanks for the message, but no thanks."

I'm sure everyone likes to be nice with respect and manners, either on fab or in their everyday life. Just because they're on a swingin site doesn't give them reason to be rude.

I still have lotes of fun on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common post on here im afraid mate . Right up there with rate my profile and bareback sex everyday you see that . Single guys outnumber couples and females at least 10 to 1 . Sometimes not answering is their way of saying not interested , you got to realise that as a couple or single fem you can get literally hundreds of messages and folk dont always have the time or the patience to reply . Been said many a time but be patient , make your profile stand out a bit , go to socials get in chat etc etc instead of thinking i want laid asap . try serching the forums lots on there about profiles and single guys . good luck .

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

and thus profile changed... and all those who never saw what was written will be oblivious.....

see... in a way i still stand by what was said... people will now never see that side of the personality that sent people away

it could almost be described as deceiving in that at least people had a choice based on a truer version of you than the glossier version we now have

and that is the danger... people use all sorts of things to decide whether to meet or not, and you just took one of things out of the armory so to speak....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't see the original profile but these kind of threads are fairly commonplace.

I don't think people should change their profiles as they hide behind a generic profile which doesn't give a clear idea of the personality underneath.

There are also lots of guys who open accounts and are astonished that the women on here aren't offering their bodies up to any tom, dick and harry. When they realise that women have choices and are not as free and easy as imagined, posts appear such as 'why do BBW's put the second B', 'women I wouldn't look twice at in the real world ignore me', 'women who believe their own hype and think they are gorgeous when they have to be on here to get anyone to shag em'. Its a hard lesson to learn that the 'ugly bird' in some guys eyes, won't even shag them.

Its always the friendly, fun, chatty, funny guys that get the meets, the ones with the sparkling wit and humour, who make women laugh and who are respectful and fun, maybe some of these toned abs, adonis, types could take a few lessons from the other guys

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

When i first joined the site i had no pics on and a basic profile and i still got over 100 mails a day... The only way to sort them is by being brutal... anything that didn't catch my eye was deleted and not reply sent.. i often went over my reply limit when sending mails back as i tried so hard to reply to all.

I then put on my profile things that should be included and not included when mailing me so that i knew if someone had read my profile or not! I still ended up with too much mail!

Its not that we are being rude.. Its just that we dont have the time to reply to all the mail sometimes..

Now i have mail filters and a couples profile i get less mails... sometimes i go days without a mail!!!

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

I then put on my profile things that should be included and not included when mailing me so that i knew if someone had read my profile or not! I still ended up with too much mail!

Its not that we are being rude.. Its just that we dont have the time to reply to all the mail sometimes..

Now i have mail filters and a couples profile i get less mails... sometimes i go days without a mail!!!

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