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By *nlyIfItsWorthIt OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *nlyIfItsWorthIt OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Is it possible (in your experience) to love more than one person at the same time? Romantic love, not family etc.

Has anyone ever been in this position, how did you feel and did you feelings change as time went on?

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this someone on your hotlist? I feel your pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this someone on your hotlist? I feel your pain."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people asking for friends

I’ve not been in love with two people at the same time, but that doesn’t mean it’s not possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a very polyamorous person, its happened. Im more careful now though x

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By *nlyIfItsWorthIt OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Im a very polyamorous person, its happened. Im more careful now though x"

Mind me asking how it went, especially from an emotional perspective for you ?

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By *nlyIfItsWorthIt OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Is this someone on your hotlist? I feel your pain."

No, not from on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, in all seriousness, yes I think it's entirely possible and was in such a position and the potential for polyamory was there but didn't pan out and the three of us didn't have the emotional know-how to handle all the difficult feelings that arose.

In the end, I had to make a choice. I choice one. Not sure if it was the right choice to this day (I'm not with her but do have a friendship with the other).

Tread carefully and good luck

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By *nlyIfItsWorthIt OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"OP, in all seriousness, yes I think it's entirely possible and was in such a position and the potential for polyamory was there but didn't pan out and the three of us didn't have the emotional know-how to handle all the difficult feelings that arose.

In the end, I had to make a choice. I choice one. Not sure if it was the right choice to this day (I'm not with her but do have a friendship with the other).

Tread carefully and good luck"

Thank you x

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Yes it is absolutely. Why would it not be possible .. love is not limited to one person in any other area of life.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is. It’s a horrible thing though, I hated it.

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By *nlyIfItsWorthIt OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Yes it is absolutely. Why would it not be possible .. love is not limited to one person in any other area of life.

X "

But some things are exclusive, how do you share the unsharable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's entirely possible and polyamoury is an Avenue well worth exploring

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm poly. I've been with my longest partner over 4 years and he's been seeing another girl for about 18 months. Currently I've been seeing someone else for about 2 months but I previously was dating another for a year. It works for us and we're happy. Absolutely you can love more than one person.

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Very romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not too sure. But lust can give you very similar feelings in the beginning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's perfectly possible but probably a recipe for disaster

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?"

I have been in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not made that way

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell


"Is it possible (in your experience) to love more than one person at the same time? Romantic love, not family etc.

Has anyone ever been in this position, how did you feel and did you feelings change as time went on?

Asking for a friend "

Being in love with a male and female at the same time?

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell


"Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?

I have been in the past."

Did it last a long time? Did they know about each other ?

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell


"Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?

I have been in the past.

Did it last a long time? Did they know about each other ?"

Who do you date on Valentine’s Day? Both of them

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?

I have been in the past.

Did it last a long time? Did they know about each other ?

Who do you date on Valentine’s Day? Both of them"

About a year. They knew about each other and all three of us are still in touch.

Thinking back, the Valentine's we were together for I was living about an hour either side of each. He visited me on the day and she sent me lingerie in the post

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I personally don’t think you can love 2 people at once I think sometimes lust can get mistaken for love ...This of course is only my opinion ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few years ago I would have said no, but now I think yes you can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is.

Guy I know was dating 5 women at the same time.

They all lived in the same block of flats and none of them knew.

Bloody magician he was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its lust babe..not love

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

I think you can yes , love is a massive spectrum , and can love in different ways , imo

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell


"Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?

I have been in the past.

Did it last a long time? Did they know about each other ?

Who do you date on Valentine’s Day? Both of them

About a year. They knew about each other and all three of us are still in touch.

Thinking back, the Valentine's we were together for I was living about an hour either side of each. He visited me on the day and she sent me lingerie in the post "

Shame it ended but you are still in touch maybe as fwb.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?

I have been in the past.

Did it last a long time? Did they know about each other ?

Who do you date on Valentine’s Day? Both of them

About a year. They knew about each other and all three of us are still in touch.

Thinking back, the Valentine's we were together for I was living about an hour either side of each. He visited me on the day and she sent me lingerie in the post

Shame it ended but you are still in touch maybe as fwb."

It ended on good terms, we just all live pretty far apart now. He's in Singapore! She's still in the UK but we live about 3 hours apart. We met up last year for a meal while we were both in London which was awesome and if we were ever passing each other again we would try to meet up.

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By *andaele50Couple
over a year ago

Fcuksville

Very possible! Been there done that. Still with one and not the other. It's as complicated as you make it.

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