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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi finding it hard to stand out from the many pervs just want someone I can get to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think you’re finding it difficult?

Self reflection is a good thing. Try it

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Profile photo may help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll never stand out if your pic is a shadow.

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By *ouise2468Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Probably better off on pof or tinder

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Why do you think you’re finding it difficult?

Self reflection is a good thing. Try it "

I did that the mirror not only cracked it fell off the wall

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By *ouise2468Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You'll never stand out if your pic is a shadow. "

And no public pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always send pic with messages but thanks for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you cant beat em join em. Become a perv, it will be your turn one day then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always send pic with messages but thanks for advice"

Would you like advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its.like looking at a stamp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be the body shaming on your profile.

I'm no expert though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be the body shaming on your profile.

I'm no expert though"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gladly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn’t think that was body shaming I see plenty of female profiles who say no skinny blokes or no fat blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t think that was body shaming I see plenty of female profiles who say no skinny blokes or no fat blokes"

There’s stating your preference...then there’s body shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t think that was body shaming I see plenty of female profiles who say no skinny blokes or no fat blokes"

And they're 100% just as bad

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Hi finding it hard to stand out from the many pervs just want someone I can get to know"

Tip - look at the single male profiles on here - make yours exactly the opposite, it’s not hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gladly"

Okay your profile is naff.

You’ve been here before so know how it works? Then surely you’ll have hundreds of meets, seeing as you know how it works.

You body shame skinny women - why? No need. Just say you prefer curvy women (or BBW, or whatever you do prefer). No need to be mean.

No public pics and no profile pic - an instant delete for me.

Grammar and spelling is meh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair play I meant no offence but will take the advice and change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gladly

Okay your profile is naff.

You’ve been here before so know how it works? Then surely you’ll have hundreds of meets, seeing as you know how it works.

You body shame skinny women - why? No need. Just say you prefer curvy women (or BBW, or whatever you do prefer). No need to be mean.

No public pics and no profile pic - an instant delete for me.

Grammar and spelling is meh "

That isn’t advice, but it’s points you can focus on.

Or keep everything the exact same, if it reflects you for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough I will have an update

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Everyone wants the same. There is no winning 'stand out from the crowd' formula unfortunately.

I'm always drawn to profiles that make me smile. Brusque language doesn't appeal at all. Don't say what you're not looking for. There's no point in that. Just concentrate on what you have to offer and what you would like to find. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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