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By *hiteGuy4Desi OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hi there,

Thanks for reading my post - Im a single, white, professional Scottish guy and in my late 30s, I travel for work and currently Im based in NW London and seriously attracted to Desi(Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Bengali, "brown" etc) women.....!

Unfortunately, Im just not sure how to meet an Indian lady who might be open to being enjoyed by a white guy.

An ex of mine (white) had quite a number of Indian friends, almost every one of them I found very attractive - yet as they were all married and friends of my then girlfriend, so very untouchable!

Due to my experiences above, I find that I love the look, the smell and Id just love to be able to touch and enjoy - and even having looked at some of the real Indian porn films online, it has only bolstered my opinion about Desi women...(Im talking not the professional stuff, but the home made real women).

Im really just looking for a play and willing to do anything in return - whether its just something basic and simple or something hot, hard and horny - I love licking out and happy if its just fondling and cuddling too - but Im also extremely open minded...so up for almost anything the lady could fancy...

Hoping someone here might be able to help or at least set me off in the right direction!

Steve

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

You should start by using the search button on the here to find women in a set radius from your home and look at pictures and read profiles for indications that they may be what you are looking for .

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By *hiteGuy4Desi OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Alan,

Thanks for the idea - unfortunately, that tactic has not worked particularly well for the last year or two, so, thought I would try something different and post in the Forum.

Steve


"You should start by using the search button on the here to find women in a set radius from your home and look at pictures and read profiles for indications that they may be what you are looking for ."

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By *hiteGuy4Desi OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Any more thoughts anyone?

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By *artin TorMan
over a year ago

London

You have one photo on your profile and it's of your limp dick. Good luck finding anyone who would be interested.

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By *hiteGuy4Desi OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Thanks for the constructive criticism Martin. Unfortunately you forget that there is also the avatar and as I mention, other pictures whilst we are chatting!

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By *rimtonMan
over a year ago

Bromley

FYI- the word desi means porn.

Or maybe it doesn’t literally mean porn, but in normal lingo it does.

So your request reads to me like you’re looking for a porn star?

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By *adam07Man
over a year ago

london


"FYI- the word desi means porn.

Or maybe it doesn’t literally mean porn, but in normal lingo it does.

So your request reads to me like you’re looking for a porn star?

"

That's a new one.

"Desi means porn"

First time I heard that.

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By *hiteGuy4Desi OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hmmmm......from wiki .... I do think you may be wrong and are confusing a general term such as Anglo Saxon.

Desi or Deshi is a self-referential term used by South Asian people.

Desi may also refer to:

Desi (raga), a raga (also known as Deshi) in Indian classical music

Desi daru, an Indian alcoholic beverage

Desi ghee, a term used to differentiate between country-made ghee and vegetable ghee

.desi, an internet top-level domain

Desi [d?e?si] are the people, cultures, and products of the Indian subcontinent and their diaspora, derived from Ancient Sanskrit ??? (desá), meaning Land or Country.As "desi" is a loose term, countries that are considered "desi" are subjective; however, it is often accepted that India, Pakistan, Bangladesh are Desi countries.

Etymology

The ethnonym belongs in the endonymic category (i.e., it is a self-appellation). Desi is borrowed from Hindi-Urdu desi 'national', ultimately from Sanskrit desiya, derived from desa (???) 'region, province, country'. The first known usage of the Sanskrit word is found in the Natya Shastra (~200 BCE), where it defines the regional varieties of folk performing arts, as opposed to the classical, pan-Indian margi. Thus, svadesa (Sanskrit: ??????) refers to one's own country or homeland, while paradesa (Sanskrit: ?????) refers to another's country or a foreign land.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Hi OP.

There are plenty of South Asian women on Fab, but I doubt that many of them are going to want to meet with someone who so clearly fetishises them. Everyone wants to meet people because of who they are rather than what their heritage is. Otherwise, you might be far better looking on an escort site. My advice is to lose the profile text and start again much more considerately. You haven’t really sold yourself at all, and your current text is both extremely needy and does not state what you can offer. Your pictures are non-inspiring, and phrases such as “I love licking out“ make you sound like a teenager.

Good luck in your search, but it’s almost certainly going to amount to nothing if you aren’t prepared to up your game and really stand out.

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By *rTravellerMan
over a year ago

Essex

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By *gnatzmacmouseMan
over a year ago

London


"Hi OP.

..... but I doubt that many of them are going to want to meet with someone who so clearly fetishises them. "

Try Fetlife?

Good luck, old man

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By *hiteGuy4Desi OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hi,

Thanks for the idea - I already have a similar profile (same name) over there....

Good thought though!


"Hi OP.

..... but I doubt that many of them are going to want to meet with someone who so clearly fetishises them.

Try Fetlife?

Good luck, old man"

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