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"Sounds like a plan. .don't know any of the bars tho .." t I was at Westfields today and there are quite a few bars on the outside part walking towards John Lewis so its just a question of finding a suitable one next time i visit there. | |||
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"Does erith count or are we the wrong side of the river?" you'd be very welcome to join us if you don't mind crossing the river to our side! I don't think there is a South London chat thread at the moment. welcome to everyone who introduced themselves on here. Good to know that there are quite a few of us on the East side of Town! | |||
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"Enough people for a social i believe " Not enough Females/Couples | |||
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"Enough people for a social i believe Not enough Females/Couples " We don't want a cockfest | |||
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"West Ham here " West Ham are my team but have now lost 4 in a row and are bottom of table. It looks like were rubbish and will be relegated | |||
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"Does Sidcup count? " we could do with some more ladies and couples on here to get a social organised so Sidcup counts! | |||
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"Since when is Erith and Sidcup considered east london?? Not that I am in anyway suggesting exclusion of course. It'll be a long trek for those from that area though unless its on the Essex border. I am having a demoralising time as a male newbie on Fab and was told that a social is a logical next step to try to solve that problem. I think, as is always the case, there will be a male heavy ratio. Still it is only a social so perhaps its not that important. We all gotta start somewhere. " You want more couples and women but moan about sidcup and erith not being east london but the post asking if sidcup and erith count were from a single woman and a couple. I like your logic. | |||
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"Since when is Erith and Sidcup considered east london?? Not that I am in anyway suggesting exclusion of course. It'll be a long trek for those from that area though unless its on the Essex border. I am having a demoralising time as a male newbie on Fab and was told that a social is a logical next step to try to solve that problem. I think, as is always the case, there will be a male heavy ratio. Still it is only a social so perhaps its not that important. We all gotta start somewhere. You want more couples and women but moan about sidcup and erith not being east london but the post asking if sidcup and erith count were from a single woman and a couple. I like your logic. " I think you misinterpreted there to be any tones of moaning in my reply. I was questioning how SE/Kent got involved in a E London thread.I have no problem with it, just that inferring it is confusing. | |||
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"To anybody who has attended a social of this nature before, what has been the composition of the attendees? Unsurprisingly it looks like 90% single males are interested according to responses with the smaller number of the rest made up of a mixture, but I am guessing that if any females are in attendance then they will be generally aged 35+. I have only been to 1 social event before ever but the responses here and the initial potential interest kind of mirrors the exact scenario I experienced. At the social I attended I met about 10-15 guys maybe and just 3 women aged late 30s to 40s turned up; 1 made her excuses and left after just 1 quick drink. I emphasise the age element as it seems that swinging is very much a more mature lifestyle so naturally it is less likely to be attended by any young girls, though not impossible of course. The most pertinent point is that young girls have zero need to attend a social as they are already bombarded. That will also be the case with all women but more so for the younger females I bet. All of these point are not an issue if people just want to socialise. Lots of people just want to chat with others who share the same attitude and want to share stories etc. But in terms of potential connections it looks like single males may find it to be wanting. I was told that meeting people in real life would yield better results than simply sending dozens or in my case, 100+ unanswered messages on Fab. Without wanting to appear defeatist but rather realistic, is this just another dead end guys?" I get where you are coming from as use to do socials that were more like pre drinks before attending a club and the attendees were pretty balanced as it was upon invitation basis. Initially had a couple that were purely socials and the demographic you mentioned was more or less like that as it was an open invitation. In the kink scene they have munches, which are socials and there's an under 35 and under 25 event, so most that attend are usually within that age range. Lots of single girls and guys, however because that scene is varied in interests and more "socially acceptable" mainstream it's understandable why. I think that parties that do happen with a balanced list of attendees are a very much invite only situation, not one that has an open invitation to every Tom, Dick and Harry. Unfortunately that's the case when we're talking of sex and attraction. So if it's to get a verification to show how genuine you are a social is fine. To actually meet and get "action" a club night it definitely the way forward for single guys. | |||
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"East london Couple, but not really interested in having a social with a group who are mostly single blokes. Sorry guys but just not what we are looking for." I doubt anyone is looking for this. | |||
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol " Indeed... A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone? | |||
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol Indeed... A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?" I’d be interested if the dates work, looks like it could be a Lonely old affair tho? | |||
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol Indeed... A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?" Count us in. | |||
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol Indeed... A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?" I'd be happy to help if you'd like to drop me a line when you're free. | |||
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol Indeed... A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?" Im from stratford area. Be happy to attend/help if something is organised. | |||
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"Too many men in here. I'm out." One less sausage | |||
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"Sigh. Get back here! I need a social. A night out to hang with fellow deviants. Come on. Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this. " Your profile name rings a bell from another website from about 5 years ago. Do the letters 'BN' mean anything to you? | |||
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"Sigh. Get back here! I need a social. A night out to hang with fellow deviants. Come on. Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this. Your profile name rings a bell from another website from about 5 years ago. Do the letters 'BN' mean anything to you?" What a memory. | |||
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"Sigh. Get back here! I need a social. A night out to hang with fellow deviants. Come on. Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this. Your profile name rings a bell from another website from about 5 years ago. Do the letters 'BN' mean anything to you? What a memory. " What was my profile name? | |||
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"Sigh. Get back here! I need a social. A night out to hang with fellow deviants. Come on. Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this. Your profile name rings a bell from another website from about 5 years ago. Do the letters 'BN' mean anything to you? What a memory. What was my profile name? " Apologies but I don't remember. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told." Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. " It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. " I did meet and make friends with a few people. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. " I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though..." You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong." I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. " I might have you confused with someone else. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. I might have you confused with someone else. " That is quite difficult to do to be honest! | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. I might have you confused with someone else. That is quite difficult to do to be honest!" I'll just have to live with this mystery. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. I might have you confused with someone else. That is quite difficult to do to be honest! I'll just have to live with this mystery." I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. I might have you confused with someone else. That is quite difficult to do to be honest! I'll just have to live with this mystery. I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied. " I know you weren't. My day has been a little beige so I'm being creative. | |||
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"Mr of couple here working in London this week always up for a social if onenis happening have done a few in my work travel always a good excuse to skip work dinner" Why not bring the Mrs down | |||
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"Sigh. Get back here! I need a social. A night out to hang with fellow deviants. Come on. Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this. Hey I am in East London too & it's one of those horny days again where you trying to organise a meet. Would be awesome to link up somewhere local. I have another mate too, so make that MMF " | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. I might have you confused with someone else. That is quite difficult to do to be honest! I'll just have to live with this mystery. I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied. I know you weren't. My day has been a little beige so I'm being creative." Fancy a row? Lol | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. I might have you confused with someone else. That is quite difficult to do to be honest! I'll just have to live with this mystery. I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied. I know you weren't. My day has been a little beige so I'm being creative. Fancy a row? Lol" I would darling but I'm feeling quite zen today, so no. | |||
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"Sigh. Get back here! I need a social. A night out to hang with fellow deviants. Come on. Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this. Hey I am in East London too & it's one of those horny days again where you trying to organise a meet. Would be awesome to link up somewhere local. I have another mate too, so make that MMF " What? | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. I might have you confused with someone else. That is quite difficult to do to be honest! I'll just have to live with this mystery. I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied. I know you weren't. My day has been a little beige so I'm being creative. Fancy a row? Lol I would darling but I'm feeling quite zen today, so no. " Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. | |||
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"Probably a good thing all told. Yes. Best leave BN in the past. It's a tragedy. It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. I did meet and make friends with a few people. I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound. There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... You know, I think I remember you. You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off. I may be wrong. I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere. Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. I might have you confused with someone else. That is quite difficult to do to be honest! I'll just have to live with this mystery. I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied. I know you weren't. My day has been a little beige so I'm being creative. Fancy a row? Lol I would darling but I'm feeling quite zen today, so no. Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. " Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. | |||
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" Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. " Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then | |||
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" Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then " Ahhh. I see the rolling eyes. Breathe. | |||
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" Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then Ahhh. I see the rolling eyes. Breathe." Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit. | |||
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" Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then Ahhh. I see the rolling eyes. Breathe. Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit." Bring it in. Hug? | |||
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" Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then Ahhh. I see the rolling eyes. Breathe. Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit. Bring it in. Hug? " Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread. | |||
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" Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then Ahhh. I see the rolling eyes. Breathe. Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit. Bring it in. Hug? Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread. " *sits obediently* | |||
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" Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then Ahhh. I see the rolling eyes. Breathe. Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit. Bring it in. Hug? Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread. *sits obediently*" Closed the thread | |||
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" Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then Ahhh. I see the rolling eyes. Breathe. Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit. Bring it in. Hug? Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread. *sits obediently* Closed the thread " Huh? | |||
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" Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner. Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then Ahhh. I see the rolling eyes. Breathe. Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit. Bring it in. Hug? Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread. *sits obediently* Closed the thread Huh? " The thread got closed before I could have the last word. Anyway, I feel a bit uncomfortable because I know who you are but you don't recognise me/forgot who I am/was. Throb. | |||
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"Mr of couple here working in London this week always up for a social if onenis happening have done a few in my work travel always a good excuse to skip work dinner Why not bring the Mrs down " I would be she is at home in Ireland | |||
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"hornchurch here hi everyone x" Hey - hope you're both well. Long time, and all that! | |||
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol Indeed... A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?" I guess, to avoid any sausage fests, numbers could be controlled so that there's an even number of all sorts out there (first come first served) - even if it's a social? | |||
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"To anybody who has attended a social of this nature before, what has been the composition of the attendees? Unsurprisingly it looks like 90% single males are interested according to responses with the smaller number of the rest made up of a mixture, but I am guessing that if any females are in attendance then they will be generally aged 35+. I have only been to 1 social event before ever but the responses here and the initial potential interest kind of mirrors the exact scenario I experienced. At the social I attended I met about 10-15 guys maybe and just 3 women aged late 30s to 40s turned up; 1 made her excuses and left after just 1 quick drink. I emphasise the age element as it seems that swinging is very much a more mature lifestyle so naturally it is less likely to be attended by any young girls, though not impossible of course. The most pertinent point is that young girls have zero need to attend a social as they are already bombarded. That will also be the case with all women but more so for the younger females I bet. All of these point are not an issue if people just want to socialise. Lots of people just want to chat with others who share the same attitude and want to share stories etc. But in terms of potential connections it looks like single males may find it to be wanting. I was told that meeting people in real life would yield better results than simply sending dozens or in my case, 100+ unanswered messages on Fab. Without wanting to appear defeatist but rather realistic, is this just another dead end guys? I get where you are coming from as use to do socials that were more like pre drinks before attending a club and the attendees were pretty balanced as it was upon invitation basis. Initially had a couple that were purely socials and the demographic you mentioned was more or less like that as it was an open invitation. In the kink scene they have munches, which are socials and there's an under 35 and under 25 event, so most that attend are usually within that age range. Lots of single girls and guys, however because that scene is varied in interests and more "socially acceptable" mainstream it's understandable why. I think that parties that do happen with a balanced list of attendees are a very much invite only situation, not one that has an open invitation to every Tom, Dick and Harry. Unfortunately that's the case when we're talking of sex and attraction. So if it's to get a verification to show how genuine you are a social is fine. To actually meet and get "action" a club night it definitely the way forward for single guys. " Why do some guys not get what a group social is? It baffles me when I’ve been to ones before and I’ve had verifications from that social and I get messages asking if there was any action there!! It was just a group social to drink and chat and make friends. Clubs are a different thing. | |||
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"What's everyone's take on a social in east London?" After starting this thread i was going to consider organising an East London social but there was just not enough interested ladies or couples so dropped the idea unless there was a limit on the number of single men who could attend like other socials have to make the numbers more even otherwise it just wouldn't work. will start another E.London chat thread when this gets too big and is closed and maybe we can have another discussion about a possible Spring social. | |||
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"What's everyone's take on a social in east London?" I will have a go at that. More central than east though. Details coming tonight. | |||
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"Reminder social in Shoreditch on the 7th; https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/london/844689" Well done that man. Hoping I can make it but if not best of luck and have a great time all | |||
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"hornchurch here hi everyone x" leyton here | |||
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