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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering what the take is on this subject, I joined about 9 weeks ago and not one single meet,even though I tried sending random messages as well as chat. Seems only the single females and couples have all the fun, what about us single males. Anyone interested. I always provide face pic once I know someone is genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perseverance matey. well I never send a face pic to anyone via the site or anywhere else for that matter. pics can be very deceiving and misleading and can be sent by minors too. I verify via cam, which I feel is the only sure way of knowing who or what u are chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why dont you improve your profile, you dont tell people anything about you except that you have been to a couple of clubs and you have photos.

There are hundreds of single men out there, some do well and some never do, those that do put a great feal of effort into it, you have to make yourself look better than the next guy

What are your likes, your dislikes?, what can you offer a woman or couple?,.. talk to people through your profile, make yourself sound interesting.

S&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

y repeat questions as ikt has been answer already

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"y repeat questions as ikt has been answer already "

You're a happy bunny around here are'nt you?.....Not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"y repeat questions as ikt has been answer already

You're a happy bunny around here are'nt you?.....Not "

whats the point in repeating things when it has been answer

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Lol,.. to be fair I've been on this site some 18 months, but as yet not actually had a meet off here (verifications from people I admittedly had meets with off other sites and we later found each other on here, but does it matter what site we found each other?) but to the original point of actually sourcing a meet on this site, I'm still waiting but hey ho: if its meant to happen, it will at least I won't get called pushy or timewaster

Happy Swinging! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single guys can do very well on this site i myself was fortunate to meet with a wonderful woman on here as a single male .....we have been together over a year now ...makes you think huh ?

jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just our two-penny worth...

A lot of couples, like ourselves are not looking for single men in the first place, or MMF 3sums, which tend to rule out a lot of people on this site.

Secondly, because the ratio of single men to others is very high you have to have that 'little bit extra'. It's like going for a job interview... the one that stands out is more likely to get a meeting.

It also helps to read peoples profiles... If it says NO SINGLE MALES.. then no matter what you do, your not going to get anywhere.

A lot of couples go on word of mouth or recommendation, so it doesn't really pay to upset too many people.

Also try going to clubs/parties.. that's the only place WE meet single men in the first instance

Hope this help, but keep trying...

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By *roupPlayCouple
over a year ago

Near LHR

We have been on this site for 1 month in which time we have met 4 single guys and had 3 MMF's (plus one guy we met at a house party).

Now in the time we have been on here we have had well over 150 messages from single guys - 99% of the messages get ignored because they clearly have not read our profile and responded to our very clear requests.

Any message that is less than two lines is deleted. Any messages or profiles that have 'txt spk' are deleted or ignored.

If someone has put some effort in we always reply. If someone has a good profile we might even contact them when we are browsing for new playmates.

In our view a good profile for a single guy should include:

List of previos experience

List of what they are looking for

Details of what they would like from a first meet with someone

Vital stats! We like to know if the person is small or VWE

A body or sexy pic (plus a face pic if brave enough)

If you are not verified then we would want to know why

If you have a GSOH then make it show!

The initial message should also specificaly refer to the profile you are interested in. We make it real easy for people yet single guys still can't be bothered!

Yes all of the above is a bit more work/effort but couples and single women haves a huge amount of choice of who they should play with. Why waste time with people who can't be bothered to put some effort in...

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By *eith28Man
over a year ago

uxbridge

i agree with southbucks couple - a single guy wouldn't walk up to a girl in a bar and expect to 'get lucky' on the basis of ....."hi - great pussy, fancy a shag?"

Make the effort and it can pay off and a lot of fun can be had! Most of all show some respect for the people that you are hoping to meet with - be civil and make an effort!

and Good Luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done a lot better with this site than any other, my profile is now very long as I wanted to cover all my bases but I think its the verifications that help, even if only one in four people you meet tends to write you one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done a lot better with this site than any other, my profile is now very long as I wanted to cover all my bases but I think its the verifications that help, even if only one in four people you meet tends to write you one.

"

FFS!!!!!!!

Are you after the award for the longest profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this site is terrible. I've been on here a whole week and haven't met anyone. And i've sent pics of my cock and brilliantly composed messages like FANCY A FUCK LOVE to hundreds of people. I've even tried messaging couples who say they're not looking for single guys as i'm sure they don't mean it.

Well, i'm sure it's only a matter of time until my arrogance pays off.

;)

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

ITS ALWAYS DOWN TO THE SAME OLD THING ALWAYS READ A PROFILE FULLY BEFORE MAILING ANYONE TO MAKE SURE U MEET THEIR CRITERIA ......

ALWAYS BE COURTIOUS N THINK OF THE WORDING IN UR EAMIL .....

I THINK IF U APROACH SOMEONE IN A NICE MANNER THEN UL SOON BE HAVING PLENTY OF MEETS IF U TREAT SOMEONE WITH RESPECT THEN U WILL GET A COURTIOUS REPLY N SOME RESPECT BACK FROM UR EMAIL......

I ALWAYS SAY TREAT SOMEONE AS UD LIKE TO BE TREATED URSELF .........

GD LUCK HUNNI N HOPE UR SOON HAVING LOTS OF FUN FROM THIS SITE XXXXX

LUV JACS

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I just suggest you take a peak at the post by VIEW..a guide to single swingers by an old tart lol , he has lots of experience as a single swinger, read his post it's entertaining and helpful xxxx and good luck to you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i am single fem and like single males probs is ppl let u down but it does happen with cples as well, wish u well, sadley that is the way it is with swinging and single men but u know what i say lol up with single men lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hope u find ur feet, i think the single males who are genuine do get a bit o a bad wrap, but for every 1 single female theres hundreds o single males, and for every 10 mail i get 1 or 2 will seem nice, the others are just hi wanna fuck etc.. and yes i know its a swingers site but as a single female i like to know who im meeting... just chat and dont take the rejection to heart.. happy swinging xxx ooh and ps i hope u find time to read views post as its a great read wrote by a lovely genuine man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to op mr freaknasty, we asked u for a meet but u wouldnt travel and u go to parties every month? thats pretty good going for single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry that sounded bitchy, we talk to mr freaknasty alot and he lovely bloke, love ya leroy xx

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By *areassetsukMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

silly question, but if you are interested in sgl fems, why not go out in the real world and meet them, why are ppl so hung up on getting laid on the net, when they cant even chat to people in the real world. it doesnt matter what pics you ahve , flattering emails or info on your profile, shit happpens, ppl wont always want to chat meet or shag everyone who contacts them, its the same in the real world, you go to a bar, you chat, you dont fancy them, they dont fancy you, so nothing happens. how do you know someone is genuine anyway, unitl i meet someone in person, then at least i know its a real person, dont make them a swinger though or if we will ever meet and lord help us with the fake and multiple profiles on here as well as those that timewaste and want a free porn show on cam

go to a social, go in a chat room, read profile and have something in common, it doesnt always mean you get laid, but who knows what will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would say get your arse on the forums and get yaself noticed mate

it can be hard for a single guy on here but as long as you have a good sense of humour treat the girls well and give them respect things will come good for you

a good personality and a few kind words is a good way to start and if they see you have that then you will get meets

peanut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this thread is funny, the second poster says stay with it, and now is no longer on the site, so much for Perseverance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this thread is funny, the second poster says stay with it, and now is no longer on the site, so much for Perseverance."

hahahahaha funny old world eh hot stuff lol

xxpeanutxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno whats up mate ,, but single guys do get meets ,, so keep plugging away and good luck

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar

Chuckle....

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar


"Yes this site is terrible. I've been on here a whole week and haven't met anyone. And i've sent pics of my cock and brilliantly composed messages like FANCY A FUCK LOVE to hundreds of people. I've even tried messaging couples who say they're not looking for single guys as i'm sure they don't mean it.

Well, i'm sure it's only a matter of time until my arrogance pays off.

;)"

Chuckle....

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