FabSwingers.com forum: attached/married/cheaters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any experience from people on the site who have fun without their partner knowing?

I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one in this situation but not sure what to do: should I be upfront about it? are swingers generally more open minded about that stuff? or more judgemental?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More importantly everyone likes honesty

By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Swinging is essentially about honesty. Cheating isn't honest.

People will judge you here for cheating on a partner.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your input! This is the kind of responses I expected to be honest (haha, pun intended).

Any experience from attached people? or people that have hooked up with them?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question answered in that case

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any experience from people on the site who have fun without their partner knowing?

I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one in this situation but not sure what to do: should I be upfront about it? are swingers generally more open minded about that stuff? or more judgemental?

yes you should be upfront about it... with your partner

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm V here. I have a slightly different perspective. When I was just playing as a single woman I stayed away from people I knew were cheating on a partner. For no reason other than I didn't want to be drawn into any emotional situations. Now, as FandG, I don't really care too much about others' personal circumstances. We don't ask, and we tend not to judge. We are not looking for relationships (although we found one ourselves and have made some pretty wild friends) Everyone has secrets, everyone has a story. I think for many of us on here, probe a little and you find many fascinating lives and backgrounds. We make choices on based on lots of different criteria. Some people suit, some don't.