FabSwingers.com forum: What does it take

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To get a meet on here? This isn't a rant btw, not going on a mad one here, but been on here a while now. Vast majority of messages are never read, I'm never rude to anyone, take the time to read profiles etc, but when I actually get talking to someone, they never reply after 2 or 3 messages, pretty sure I'm not being weird or anything haha, frustrating really, am new to London and have alot to offer, membership is up in a day or two and not sure I want to renew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) Better photos;

2) Go to clubs/socials;

3) Luck.

Remember, you do not meet "on here" - you meet in real life, and you want to show people that you are worth meeting. Also, if you cannot meet "on here", why not and meet women outside this lifestyle?

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

London

Definitely get to the clubs.

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By *otpair255Couple
over a year ago

Langley

Bear in mind that couples receive many offers especially from male singles

they do not have a time to respond or they are not looking to meet male at all-like us

just be polite and read profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bear in mind that couples receive many offers especially from male singles they do not have a time to respond or they are not looking to meet male at all-like us

just be polite and read profile

Yea that's pretty much it, I always read profiles, messages I send aren't generic, always polite, and never hastle/annoy when it's deleted, or worse, unread deleted. Still, I do understand most people here are swamped, and yes my pics are shite atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of patience and not taking yourself too seriously goes a long way.

Also, be prepared for a bit of travel if needs be. Sometimes that interested and alluring person, that potential meet could be in the next town or just anywhere. I'm by no means saying you are, but if you only want to stick to London, you may be missing out on something.

And yes, clubs and socials. A number of London members' starting point is a club/social/party and there are a fair few of them around.

All the best buddy, I'm sure it'll come good.

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By *ureplesureMan
over a year ago

watford

mate, they might just think you are not there type. keep looking and messaging, its all about fun, if they think you ar alright and could be fun to meet they will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"mate, they might just think you are not there type. keep looking and messaging, its all about fun, if they think you ar alright and could be fun to meet they will"

Of course, I'm not everyone's cup of tea, perhaps I should have gone into more detail in OP, but will stop here as I am in danger of sounding like a whiney little bitch haha, thanks for the advice people.

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