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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I often see guys posting on my news feed asking for meets that night. I want to hear from males and females - what's the success rate of this?

Guys, do you find women up for last minute meets quite often? Women, do you usually do last minute meets?

I'm curious because I'm the sort of person that needs a bit of notice for anything (even a drink out with my friends) so I'm wondering about others.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I don't remember what a last minute is.. I seem to be averaging 6 months.... to 5 years in some cases - everyone seems so busy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute meets very rarely work out in my experience. I usually need time to plan and building a little bit of rapport/banter usually makes for a better night...?

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington


"Last minute meets very rarely work out in my experience. I usually need time to plan and building a little bit of rapport/banter usually makes for a better night...?"

totally agree and last minute meets tend to make me feel they are desperate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet was someone I've been talking to on here for a while and we were both at home bored so I suggested popping round and within ten mins I was there naked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our experience. Last minute meets are the best. For one reason, they actually want to meet and turn up. Lol

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By *issAngel57Woman
over a year ago

Barnet

Last minute with guys I've met before is great, total strangers/initial meets? No, sorry!

Lxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a spur of the moment meets some back out some play if ive time and horny then off we go

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

When ever we have replied to a last minute meeting, usual talking about going to a club, it has never happened.

Must be us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still yet to manage a meet at all, short or long notice. All my fun comes from clubs

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By *icker2010Man
over a year ago

cambs/london/Norfolk


"Last minute with guys I've met before is great, total strangers/initial meets? No, sorry!

Lxx"

Similar ... Spur of the moment with my fb friends very hot ... Everthing else takes an age to organise with low chance of an actual 3d appearance for many .... Why is that ... I often wonder how so many horny ppl can fail so often

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I've done some spontaneous meets and they've worked out well. I'm usually in the mood by that time anyway. Getting ready time and travel time and hey you're there!

Go for it. Carpe diem as they say.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few last minute meets - one of which was after 5mins in chatroom, went over (1.5hr journey) and was fucking and sucking each other like crazy!

It's all down to timing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. It never works. I usually put up a meet mostly for a social meet, as im free for the evening so be nice to meet someone likeminded.

But, i dont get many responses. However, i have found members from London quite hard to message. Many that catch my eyes are all looking for something im not..

Nonetheless, outside of London i get a lot of messages back and have made fab friends from outside of London...im not sure what it is about London.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Last minute with guys I've met before is great, total strangers/initial meets? No, sorry!

Lxx"

+1

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Nope. It never works. I usually put up a meet mostly for a social meet, as im free for the evening so be nice to meet someone likeminded.

But, i dont get many responses. However, i have found members from London quite hard to message. Many that catch my eyes are all looking for something im not..

Nonetheless, outside of London i get a lot of messages back and have made fab friends from outside of London...im not sure what it is about London. "

I am in exactly the same boat.. as with quite a number of guys I know: seek a meet in London, like pulling teeth - make the effort to breach the M25.. voila!

Here's the scarier thing: its not unique to Fabs, I have found this on several other sites that I am on. If anyone has any insight into why guys in London find it (in some cases) 10 times easier getting meets once they exit the M25, I would gladly consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. It never works. I usually put up a meet mostly for a social meet, as im free for the evening so be nice to meet someone likeminded.

But, i dont get many responses. However, i have found members from London quite hard to message. Many that catch my eyes are all looking for something im not..

Proves there is life outside London!

Nonetheless, outside of London i get a lot of messages back and have made fab friends from outside of London...im not sure what it is about London.

I am in exactly the same boat.. as with quite a number of guys I know: seek a meet in London, like pulling teeth - make the effort to breach the M25.. voila!

Here's the scarier thing: its not unique to Fabs, I have found this on several other sites that I am on. If anyone has any insight into why guys in London find it (in some cases) 10 times easier getting meets once they exit the M25, I would gladly consider it."

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Had one last night... All done n dusted within a 3 hour timeframe...lovely

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Put up a request up yesterday for meet at a club today, and got no end of replies.

Now we have got ourselves sort out and are looking forward to a good night

Will try this again I'm sure.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Put up a request up yesterday for meet at a club today, and got no end of replies.

Now we have got ourselves sort out and are looking forward to a good night

Will try this again I'm sure.

"

Lol.. have tried several times over the years (I think I've only ever had an actual meet ONCE) - one time I got a proposition from a bi guy "with a gf, but she doesn't have a profile" asking for my address so they could come over.

Lets just say I was skeptical - I've seen the old "oh sorry, we were on our way and she got called into work at the last minute", but he on the other hand is at my door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last minute meets work i have them all the time

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester


"Last minute meets work i have them all the time "

Looking at your profile and pictures, I'm not surprised.

We would jump at the chance to play with you to!

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"From our experience. Last minute meets are the best. For one reason, they actually want to meet and turn up. Lol"

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Last minute meets work i have them all the time

Looking at your profile and pictures, I'm not surprised.

We would jump at the chance to play with you to!

"

Geez.. I must be one ugly munter then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last minute meets work i have them all the time "

All depends who and what they seek... Spontaneous meets are great when you have made no plans. Chatting for months is out of the question for me.... boring even, Its like being in a long distance relationship. Forget it.

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By *uud 4-funMan
over a year ago

Dartford

On a couple of seperate occasions I have done last minute meets and have to say that both were really good experiences. Perhaps it's because there is less time to get apprehensive and talk yourself out of the meet or get too nervous to perform.

It's not for everyone of course I could well understand that asingle lady would be wary of a short notice meet especially with a stranger even if it were a social meet.

Best wishes.

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