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"I haven't been there myself, there's too many bad stories of the wanking dead tbh. Have you considered going to a couples night? With no single guys it tends to be more relaxed in the clubs. I live 5 mins away from ignite myself. Have you been there OP?" What's ignite like? I've never been. Rio's is ok but I think the facilities are a bit knackered. I went during the day and it was relaxing. During the evening it was very noisy with a lot of single guys and couples. | |||
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"The facilities themselves are great, but unfortunately our overall experience was very disappointing. The venue was dominated by very disrespectful single men, which completely ruined the atmosphere. Until couples-only nights are reinstated, we will not be returning. On top of that, many guests were wearing regular swimsuits and trunks, which felt completely out of place and undermined the concept. Overall, a very frustrating experience and won't return. " That’s such a shame, and a reoccurring review unfortunately. Have heard good things about Rios (from a couple of years ago) and Bristol Gardens in Brighton. Might have to head to Brighton instead! | |||
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"I haven't been there myself, there's too many bad stories of the wanking dead tbh. Have you considered going to a couples night? With no single guys it tends to be more relaxed in the clubs. I live 5 mins away from ignite myself. Have you been there OP?" It keeps getting bad reviews eh? I was hoping it’d gone back up but apparently not. I’ve never been to ignite, what’s it like there? | |||
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"Personally I like the couple nights at VA best myself " Where’s VA? | |||
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"I haven't been there myself, there's too many bad stories of the wanking dead tbh. Have you considered going to a couples night? With no single guys it tends to be more relaxed in the clubs. I live 5 mins away from ignite myself. Have you been there OP? What's ignite like? I've never been. Rio's is ok but I think the facilities are a bit knackered. I went during the day and it was relaxing. During the evening it was very noisy with a lot of single guys and couples." Ooh maybe during the day is a good shout! Ease in gently haha | |||
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"We’d suggest trying Iqnite near London Heathrow. Bristol Gardens Brighton is another option with great facilities we found, but it’s quite tame if you’re looking for a swinger-focused environment." Thank you, will check ignite out. Definitely not looking for anything too tame! Do you ever go on a Sunday? What’s the vibe like then if you do? | |||
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"The facilities themselves are great, but unfortunately our overall experience was very disappointing. The venue was dominated by very disrespectful single men, which completely ruined the atmosphere. Until couples-only nights are reinstated, we will not be returning. On top of that, many guests were wearing regular swimsuits and trunks, which felt completely out of place and undermined the concept. Overall, a very frustrating experience and won't return. That’s such a shame, and a reoccurring review unfortunately. Have heard good things about Rios (from a couple of years ago) and Bristol Gardens in Brighton. Might have to head to Brighton instead! " We enjoy Bristol Gardens..all very clean and very well run. You can be flirtatious with others in the spa/jacuzzi area downstairs but any sort of touching or even kissing can get you a telling off. There are plenty of private playrooms upstairs if you fancy some fun but like I say, any sort of playing in the spa area is totally frowned upon. | |||
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"I don't know how it is now haven't been since COVID,but my fav club by a country mile is eureka in kent.its great in the summer being so big,if someone annoys you there's plenty of space to avoid them.have been to a few parties & events there,but like I say not been since COVID " ‘Pre-covid’!!!! That’s as helpful as saying Woolworths is the best place to go for pick n mix. The worlds moved on since then. The only good thing about Eureka is that is has an outdoor space. Inside needs money spent on updating & maintenance Ignite & VA get my vote. I’m wanting to try Jaydees as not been back since the reopening | |||
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"We’d suggest trying Iqnite near London Heathrow. Bristol Gardens Brighton is another option with great facilities we found, but it’s quite tame if you’re looking for a swinger-focused environment. Thank you, will check ignite out. Definitely not looking for anything too tame! Do you ever go on a Sunday? What’s the vibe like then if you do?" Sunday is a great day to visit and a lovely chance to socialise (we usually go on Sundays too!). If you’re hoping to meet single men, there are usually a few around, and the atmosphere is generally relaxed and respectful. Like anywhere with single guys, they may follow you around which we personally find very annoying and irritating!but staff are always nearby and very approachable if you ever feel uncomfortable. Over the year, we’ve reported a few when needed, and it’s always been worthwhile doing so. We don't want this sort of single guys attending in the future. Everyone is supportive, and the priority is making sure all members feel comfortable, welcome, and able to enjoy themselves. It really doesn’t take away from the positives of the club at all — the facilities are great: a heated pool, a couple of four-person jacuzzis, a nice bar area, plenty of playrooms, a dark room, dungeon, and cinema room. What’s not to like! | |||
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"I haven't been there myself, there's too many bad stories of the wanking dead tbh. Have you considered going to a couples night? With no single guys it tends to be more relaxed in the clubs. I live 5 mins away from ignite myself. Have you been there OP? What's ignite like? I've never been. Rio's is ok but I think the facilities are a bit knackered. I went during the day and it was relaxing. During the evening it was very noisy with a lot of single guys and couples." Ignite is ok, it's probably one of the larger clubs in terms of size, the clientele is a mixture of good and not so good. | |||
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"We’d suggest trying Iqnite near London Heathrow. Bristol Gardens Brighton is another option with great facilities we found, but it’s quite tame if you’re looking for a swinger-focused environment. Thank you, will check ignite out. Definitely not looking for anything too tame! Do you ever go on a Sunday? What’s the vibe like then if you do?" Sunday tends to have a lot of naked men walking around with cocks out, it can be intimidating for a newbie. there's a handful of couples. I'd be happy to join you if you like as I live 5 mins away from it. Send me a message as your filters are blocking me from messaging you. | |||
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"Personally I like the couple nights at VA best myself Where’s VA? " VA is just outside London to the north. It's kind of in the middle of nowhere, you need a car to get there really. But that is the reason I think that it attracts a better more sophisticated clientele. If you fancy checking it out let me know. | |||
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"I haven't been there myself, there's too many bad stories of the wanking dead tbh. Have you considered going to a couples night? With no single guys it tends to be more relaxed in the clubs. I live 5 mins away from ignite myself. Have you been there OP? It keeps getting bad reviews eh? I was hoping it’d gone back up but apparently not. I’ve never been to ignite, what’s it like there? " Ignite is ok, it's large, it has a swimming pool, clientele has a lot of what is known as the wanking dead. First time around you might be more comfortable going with a man to ward of some of these guys a bit. As they can and do follow women around, which can make a woman uncomfortable. There's a porn cinema inside where you can get it on. A lounge and bar, the ground floor is a health club actually. | |||
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"Hey hey hey, I’m planning on going to Rios between Christmas and New Year and wondering what other people's experiences have been during this time? The website isn’t very helpful and I haven’t been before so any insight would be helpful ❤️ " . The club reviews on Fabs club reviews page are hit and miss perhaps more miss than hit.My last visit was about 6 months ago.I usually go with a lady friend as it’s a nice place to chill out for a few hours.We always have a good time using the facilities even though they are a bit dated.Yes it’s mostly single guys that go there of all nationalities and some can be pushy.If you are going as a single lady you may be in the jacuzzi and a man sitting next to you trying to make conversation and his hand may accidentally or not accidentally may touch or go up and down your leg. How will you deal with that.A strong glare or a firm no and pushing his hand away he should get the message.Be prepared to be followed by a line of guys going from sauna to steam room to jacuzzi.This happens to single ladies and couples.For what it’s worth I would advise to go with a male friend if that is practical.If not go by yourself but be firm with any unwanted attention.I believe you should not listen to too much opinions on Rios or anywhere else just make your own judgement.Do what feels right for you.Best of luck with whatever you decide and have a great Christmas & New Year. | |||
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"The facilities themselves are great, but unfortunately our overall experience was very disappointing. The venue was dominated by very disrespectful single men, which completely ruined the atmosphere. Until couples-only nights are reinstated, we will not be returning. On top of that, many guests were wearing regular swimsuits and trunks, which felt completely out of place and undermined the concept. Overall, a very frustrating experience and won't return. That’s such a shame, and a reoccurring review unfortunately. Have heard good things about Rios (from a couple of years ago) and Bristol Gardens in Brighton. Might have to head to Brighton instead! We enjoy Bristol Gardens..all very clean and very well run. You can be flirtatious with others in the spa/jacuzzi area downstairs but any sort of touching or even kissing can get you a telling off. There are plenty of private playrooms upstairs if you fancy some fun but like I say, any sort of playing in the spa area is totally frowned upon. " Thank you, maybe not what I’m looking for this time but keeping it on my list of places to try  | |||
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"Ignite is a amazing club and once a month social are amazing and sell out very . How good they are . Sunday are very chilled. Sit in pool or hot tubs or drinks and chat .hope it helps " It does thank you, I think ignite is looking like the one I’ll try. I see they’re open on Sunday 28th so hoping to go then 🤞🏽 | |||
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"We’d suggest trying Iqnite near London Heathrow. Bristol Gardens Brighton is another option with great facilities we found, but it’s quite tame if you’re looking for a swinger-focused environment. Thank you, will check ignite out. Definitely not looking for anything too tame! Do you ever go on a Sunday? What’s the vibe like then if you do? Sunday is a great day to visit and a lovely chance to socialise (we usually go on Sundays too!). If you’re hoping to meet single men, there are usually a few around, and the atmosphere is generally relaxed and respectful. Like anywhere with single guys, they may follow you around which we personally find very annoying and irritating!but staff are always nearby and very approachable if you ever feel uncomfortable. Over the year, we’ve reported a few when needed, and it’s always been worthwhile doing so. We don't want this sort of single guys attending in the future. Everyone is supportive, and the priority is making sure all members feel comfortable, welcome, and able to enjoy themselves. It really doesn’t take away from the positives of the club at all — the facilities are great: a heated pool, a couple of four-person jacuzzis, a nice bar area, plenty of playrooms, a dark room, dungeon, and cinema room. What’s not to like! " Perfect, I’m sold! Going to check it out on 28th and hopefully it won’t be too quiet! Thank you  | |||
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"I haven't been there myself, there's too many bad stories of the wanking dead tbh. Have you considered going to a couples night? With no single guys it tends to be more relaxed in the clubs. I live 5 mins away from ignite myself. Have you been there OP? What's ignite like? I've never been. Rio's is ok but I think the facilities are a bit knackered. I went during the day and it was relaxing. During the evening it was very noisy with a lot of single guys and couples. Ignite is ok, it's probably one of the larger clubs in terms of size, the clientele is a mixture of good and not so good. " Yeah I think that’s the case everywhere unfortunately. Gotta take the rough with the smooth I guess 🤞🏽 | |||
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"Sorry this isn't personal to you but This should not happen in the first place. A nudist setting does not imply consent, and touching anyone without it is unacceptable. " . I agree touching someone without consent is unacceptable.There are two small jacuzzi at Rios hold 6-8 people.Sometime there will be genuine accidentally shoulders or legs rubbing together.A quick sorry and adjusting yourself I feel that a genuine accident.It’s where a hand is touching and rubbing a leg or other part of the body that is not a genuine accidentally scenario.This has happened to my lady friend a few times we just move away but I say to her if it happens again to let me know and I will speak to him.Fortunately it doesn’t happen a 2nd time not that it should have happened a 1st time. | |||
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"Personally I like the couple nights at VA best myself Where’s VA? VA is just outside London to the north. It's kind of in the middle of nowhere, you need a car to get there really. But that is the reason I think that it attracts a better more sophisticated clientele. If you fancy checking it out let me know." 'Just outside'? Its 60 miles up the A1 from London. | |||
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"Just left Ignite, thank you all for the recommendations it was great! " You're welcome. What's it like on a Sunday? | |||
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"Just left Ignite, thank you all for the recommendations it was great! " It can become very adicktive | |||
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"It was quite busy, lots of single men as per usual, a few couples and I think me and my friend were the only single women. Everyone we spoke to was really friendly, I’d feel happy enough going alone. Will definitely be going back soon. " Glad you enjoyed it. If you let me know when you and your friend go again, I can meet you there. I live 5 mins away from the club. Always helps when you know people | |||
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"Is it still open all night long during the weekend ?" Yeah, Thurs, Fri and Sat nights is till 7am the next morning | |||
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"What is it like on a Saturday night? Is it just the wanking dead or is it friendly enough that if you don't get an invite to play (if there are any couples or females that go) you can have a relaxing amd chilled time" Following as I am looking to go this evening 🙂 | |||
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