FabSwingers.com forum: Permitted affair advice

By *ast75 OP Man
1 week ago

north london

So my wife, who is fab but has no interest in anything sexual anymore has told me shes happy for me to find a sexual relationship with another woman. I guess what i dont know and therefore asking for advice is where is the best place to start to maybe meet like minded women?

By *elaninMaverickWoman
7 days ago

near Putney Heath

"So my wife, who is fab but has no interest in anything sexual anymore has told me shes happy for me to find a sexual relationship with another woman. I guess what i dont know and therefore asking for advice is where is the best place to start to maybe meet like minded women? "

As a single woman, I don't ask too many questions in clubs because cheating puts me off. People think that they can hide it but they eventually slip up. A one off is ok in clubs for me.

I have married playmates but I get permission from the wives by actually talking to them as a couple to understand the dynamics.

As swingers, most of us have the highest respect for people's committed life partners and we know we are dealing with couple dynamics.

That said I do know swinging which has caused couples to split because their relationship was on the rocks anyway and swinging just confirmed it.

By *hrisukbishareCouple
3 days ago

Edinburgh

Great answer from Melani. I am also allowed, as is my wife, to have other partners. We make sure the other partner has a real name and phone number. Sometimes K will meet a new lover if it feels like it may get long term.

I really try and avoid having a fling with someone who is keeping it from their wife or partner.