FabSwingers.com forum: Finding fun as a non extravert, older (50) bi guy

By *jay1975 OP Man
2 days ago

London / Barcelona

I'm a 49 yo old married bi guy (in decent shape i think), I'm in a "don't ask, don't tell" partnership, so I'm discreet.

I'm not horribly introverted, but I'm no extravert either. Big groups are just not my thing, and I've stopped using alcohol to make it easier (maybe that's my mistake!)

I've played and experimented with singles (f,m) and couples (ff,mf), mainly with adult service providers over the last twenty years or so (Bi-mmf or mmff is probably my favourite). I'm usually the visitor, the newbie, that's just how it is.

I'm not sure where to go from here, I see single males posting meets ("in a central hotel...") and wondering if they get replies.

In an ideal world i guess I'd meet someone in a similar situation (feel free to say "hi") who's quite tactile like me and has similar tastes.

Can you suggest a way forward?