FabSwingers.com forum: Calling all Asians!

By *ists003 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Hi guys

How comes there's no exclusive meet for Asian men and women?

If we can get enough people down, I would love it if we all get together in one place for a social... maybe make it a monthly thing?

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By *iceboy200Man
over a year ago

Dagenham

Perfect

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

Reading

Define Asian, does it include south Asian ie Pakistani and Indians, or are we talking south east Asia Korea, Vietnam, Chinese and Japanese?

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By *otwife_tamerMan
over a year ago

West Harrow

"Hi guys

How comes there's no exclusive meet for Asian men and women?

If we can get enough people down, I would love it if we all get together in one place for a social... maybe make it a monthly thing?"

Great idea! There needs to be a small community of Asians/ South Asian meets. I'm down.

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By *ists003 OP Man
over a year ago

London

My bad.. specifically South Asians

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By *ists003 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Nice one... I'm curious to see the ratio of men to women for this as I'm pretty sure there's hardly any Asian women at all on this site

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

Reading

I suspect that you will get a more limited response if you keep it to south Asians, better to open it up to all Asians. You might get a better response.

Socials only work if lots of women and couples turn up, otherwise it'll just be a sausage fest

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By *aj 123Man
over a year ago

ilford

I'm in

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By *sianTravellerMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It will never happen for the below reasons:

1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here

2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut

3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

If suggest perhaps no demand for it?

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By *tanlee1512Man
over a year ago

Epsom

No females in this thread!!!

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By *nterracialDesiresCouple (MM)
over a year ago

London / Essex

We used to run parties exclsuively for Asian and Middle Eastern ladies under the aegis of Bollywood Private - There certainly is not a lack of them here but they invariably seem to block out single guys from messaging. From experience I would say it is no more/less difficult to arrange meets with Asians than it is with people of other races. You just need to know how to out the fantasists who only want to talk about it.

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By *omeGamwPlayCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I can wholly understand the need for south Asian and Asian only groups, with the noticeably hostility from the general non Asian community here.

I can’t see us attending any events but like above said, if there is a way to remove fantasist then that’s a win for those wanting to have a fun social .

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By *rtfulDoggerMan
over a year ago

Tower Hamlets

I’d be up for this! It would be nice and refreshing. If all goes well, it would be great for the south Asian community on here.

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By *ists003 OP Man
over a year ago

London

I definitely agree it would be great to have one but trying to get logistics sorted etc is hard. Are there any bollywood clubs around in London?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are clubs/shisha bar that do bollywood nights.

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By *omersetsmithyMan
over a year ago

Horfield

I love to meet an Asian lady

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By *risis_rocMan
over a year ago

Essex/London/Kent

I’m game

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Hi guys

How comes there's no exclusive meet for Asian men and women?"

What's an "exclusive meet"? What does it entail? What are the connotations of it?

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

travelling

Just go to one of the desi club nights like kuch kuch in London for a social and build from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in

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By *hanfunnewMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"It will never happen for the below reasons:

1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here

2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut

3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others"

Sadly this is true

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By *z-Dog93Man
over a year ago

London

I currently suffer with yellow fever aswell. Had to call lady ming for a back massage and she kindley gave me a happy ending. My name was Mr john when i left

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By *ondondesi2019Couple
over a year ago

holloway

Add us

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Add us"

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You are duly added, forthwith!

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By *tanlee1512Man
over a year ago

Epsom

Always on the look out

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

"It will never happen for the below reasons:

1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here

2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut

3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others

Sadly this is true "

This is precisely the reason why we are out!!

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By *iguanLdnMan
over a year ago

london

"It will never happen for the below reasons:

1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here

2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut

3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others"

Quite the generalization. Do you have numbers to back this up?

At any rate, I’m in.

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Maybe I've been lucky - had a fair few meets off here, and even a long relationship.

Flip side is a lot of profiles do say no Asians, and no issue with that as everyone has preferences - same way I prefer curvy girls as opposed to slimmer ones, although the 'no asians' thing I'd suggest is partly how I've seen behaviours at clubs etc that Def don't do decent Asian guys any favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been with 1 Asian woman so would love to date another one again

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By *iguanLdnMan
over a year ago

london

How did a thread for wanting more inclusivity for more Asians - a fairly innocent thread I might add - become a tirade for racist comments under the guise of “their behavior” and “preferences”?

I doubt the poster wanted to know about your personal feelings about Asians.

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By *inkyguymkMan
44 weeks ago

Milton Keynes and Central Pattaya

"How did a thread for wanting more inclusivity for more Asians - a fairly innocent thread I might add - become a tirade for racist comments under the guise of “their behavior” and “preferences”?

I doubt the poster wanted to know about your personal feelings about Asians."

I think if you read the post correctly, it not inclusive whatsoever. It clearly states "exclusive".

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By *tanlee1512Man
44 weeks ago

Epsom

Interested to know if there has been much interest from women/couples

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Interesting idea but will need a lot of work and I suspect the first few metres will not be great but build on it and I think with the help of a free more people it is something that could be worth trying. Let’s not leave it to one person. These comments of how Asian men behave etc well there are aholes in all races and so much of this is just stereotypes.

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
44 weeks ago

Londontown

Sounds like a great idea, definitely up for building on this

Agree with the generalisation that Asian men don't know how to behave/treat others.....been to many clubs and events and it's not the Asian guys that don't know how to behave, it's most guys who don't understand boundaries / consent / communication/ lack social skills

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By *ixed SpicesCouple
44 weeks ago

Portsmouth

We'd be in too, if it wasn't for the fact other asian men dont know how to restraint themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I think this idea needs to start on a smaller scale. Limited numbers so it’s easier to control and also build the reputation up somewhat. If anyone is interested in the South London area then let’s chat about it a little more.

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By *untimeswithme69Man
43 weeks ago

London

Would be a great idea, have had some good meets with both Asians and non Asians in the past, both from fab and through meeting people at events, there's definitely a good crowd out there.

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By *ndianbuddyMan
43 weeks ago

sevenkings

count me in if you have formed a group i want to be part of

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By *ixed SpicesCouple
42 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Can someone set this up

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By *ists003 OP Man
42 weeks ago

London

Sorry for being radio silent

I completely forgot I posted this in the first place and was never getting any notifications on my phone,as a result a whole parade of conversations had taken place without me providing any input so I do apologise for this...

Now in terms of setting a meet, I'm not sure how to go about doing this. Would it be best if everyone can commit to a certain date to meet in a bar or pub?

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
42 weeks ago

Londontown

A social sounds like a good idea as a first step/tester to guage interest.....

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By *ists003 OP Man
42 weeks ago

London

OK guys. I'm gonna setup a group on telegram. Spaces are limited

Message me with the following details

Female/Male/Couple

Age(s)

Location

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By *ists003 OP Man
42 weeks ago

London

"OK guys. I'm gonna setup a group on telegram. Spaces are limited

Message me with the following details

Female/Male/Couple

Age(s)

Location

My telegram ID is _ists003

Thanks in advance

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair

These events that you speak of, are you referring to socials held in a cøcktåil bar 🍸...or do you mean clubs/swinger's venues...❓

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By *ists003 OP Man
42 weeks ago

London

Club/cocktail bar. I cannot hold them in a swingers venue as this is the 1st time such a community will come together so we won't know what to expect.

Also it's safer as its the 1st one

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Club/cocktail bar. I cannot hold them in a swingers venue as this is the 1st time such a community will come together so we won't know what to expect.

Also it's safer as its the 1st one"

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Perhaps I wasn't clear: I have no penchant for swingers clubs. Cocktail bars all the way. It's the only way to imbibe. 🌿🌿

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By *ists003 OP Man
42 weeks ago

London

I agree

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By *ilverskin321Man
42 weeks ago

limavady

Why does there need to be an exclusive group within this website. If you require an exclusive club/group of racial people I’m sure there are sites out there. I suggest you go in search of such groups and leave this site as it is.

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By *ilverskin321Man
42 weeks ago

limavady

For the record I’m am part Asian

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By *eroLondonMan
42 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Why does there need to be an exclusive group within this website. If you require an exclusive club/group of racial people I’m sure there are sites out there. I suggest you go in search of such groups and leave this site as it is. "

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Because it's his prerogative.

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By *cLovin2Man
42 weeks ago

Reading

It's no different than all the posts asking for BBC, everyone has a taste, frankly what is wrong with enjoying all the colours and flavours of the rainbow? 🌈

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Have you asked that of the BBC only parties out there

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"... what is wrong with enjoying all the colours and flavours of the rainbow? 🌈

All colours are not invited. I have Indian heritage and in my personal life S Asians are slightly over represented.

But there's no way they are gonna want me rocking up with pale skin and red hair. This is for mid brown people only. No rainbow. Sepia monochrome.

I'm down with it being exclusionary. But let's not pretend it isn't. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I am totally bookmarking this thread for when someone mentions something more like those Bollywood style parties happening in London again tho

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By *eroLondonMan
38 weeks ago

Mayfair

She's bookmarked... ... ... ^

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By *cLovin2Man
38 weeks ago

Reading

This thread didn't really go anywhere, as there was too many guys, and not enough ladies/couples

I'm thinking it might be worth setting up a telegram group for the interested parties, let me know on the thread if anyone is interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"She's bookmarked... ... ... ^"

📖

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By *over.Man
38 weeks ago

Blackburn

Is half Indian good enough to make the cut here? Haha

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
38 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"This thread didn't really go anywhere, as there was too many guys, and not enough ladies/couples

I'm thinking it might be worth setting up a telegram group for the interested parties, let me know on the thread if anyone is interested."

Someone was trying to do this on another thread, but it seems to have gone nowhere!

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By *aron110011Man
38 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm interested in this too. I'm planning on coming to London soon. Let me know if anybody wants to plan something

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By *ists003 OP Man
38 weeks ago

London

Guys I've setup a telegram but I haven't got an actual group. I've got a mixture of responses and so far it's 90 percent men and 10 percent females or couples. If I can get an even balance then that group is created in a heartbeat.

Tbf I've not been monitoring fab much as its too distracting

Will try and keep tabs on this forum though.

Apologies to everyone

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By *blasiansCouple
38 weeks ago

Wakefield

Bookmarked for now

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Keen to learn more if it comes to fruition

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By *areToBe43Man
36 weeks ago

Surrey

Calling all Aslans! CS Lewis wants to write use as a metaphor for Christ the redeemer.

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By *over.Man
9 weeks ago

Blackburn

"Guys I've setup a telegram but I haven't got an actual group. I've got a mixture of responses and so far it's 90 percent men and 10 percent females or couples. If I can get an even balance then that group is created in a heartbeat.

Tbf I've not been monitoring fab much as its too distracting

Will try and keep tabs on this forum though.

Apologies to everyone "

Did this post ever amount to anything...?

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By *ists003 OP Man
9 weeks ago

London

I did setup a telegram group and kept the group split 50/50

However a lack of couples could make the date then subsequently proposed alternative dates... at which point no one was responding so I just shut it down altogether.

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By *o_yeur_eyes_onlyMan
9 weeks ago

Londontown

That's a shame!! Kudos for trying though.

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By *wertyjk01Man
9 weeks ago

NW London/Kent/Midlands

I'd be interested in fostering a little community of Asian swingers, we have a limited time on the planet, let's make the most of it.

Build it and they will come - or something along those lines haha

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By *avelovescouplesMan
9 weeks ago

wolverhampton

I’d love a telegram group with Asians if there was another started up

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By *ichaeltontineMan
9 weeks ago

SWANSEA

Asian women are so sexy

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By *ists003 OP Man
9 weeks ago

London

Yeah it's a Shane... I love an Asian bird but shame most of them are stuck up these days.

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By *over.Man
9 weeks ago

Blackburn

Lol I don't know if it's a stuck up thing. Ladies on here just tend to be quite overwhelmed with interest cos of the ratio of men/women/couples.

And of course with such an overwhelming supply of men, I'm sure anyone would be extra picky with the few that do make it through the door.

Just frustrating from the single males perspective but we can't expect them to be putting out for just anyone and everyone that wants to take them to bed haha

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Yeah it's a Shane... I love an Asian bird but shame most of them are stuck up these days."

Clarify please...?

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By *ovinglife!40Man
9 weeks ago

Hinckley

"Yeah it's a Shane... I love an Asian bird but shame most of them are stuck up these days."

That is a REALLY bad attitude to have.

A VERY rude comment.

Are you bitter because you have been rejected??

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By *ists003 OP Man
9 weeks ago

London

General experience from in person interactions in bars and clubs... when i mean British Indian birds single in their 20s

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By *ists003 OP Man
9 weeks ago

London

I just say what I think

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *atty46Man
5 weeks ago

abbeyshrule

My Filipino wife loves the attention

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By *arry04811Man
5 weeks ago

Heathrow

I’m in

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By *icoDTFMan
4 weeks ago

West Mids

Should get back on this mate, I think you could be onto something if we can make it happen! I’m more than happy to help aswell with logistics or anything that I could do to make it happen. I think the hardest part will be getting a good split of F & Couples compared to Males

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By *ists003 OP Man
4 weeks ago

London

Honestly man... ive tried hard af but not getting any where hence ive moved on

I dont mind creating a small group for us Asian fellas to meet up and find some Asian girls at a bar or club?

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By *wertyjk01Man
3 weeks ago

NW London/Kent/Midlands

"Honestly man... ive tried hard af but not getting any where hence ive moved on

I dont mind creating a small group for us Asian fellas to meet up and find some Asian girls at a bar or club?"

Honestly might be the play tbh, get a group of guys who actually can commit to doing things and then branching out when already established. Id be down to get involved and can help with some of the organisation

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By *ondonlad90Man
3 weeks ago

London

Let’s try and organise something

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By *rbane PlayerMan
3 weeks ago

London

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By *over.Man
3 weeks ago

Blackburn

Also keen here on my end.

Might be an idea for you southerners to coordinate initial stages.

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By *ists003 OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

Yes I agree... let's get something established

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By *ondonlad90Man
3 weeks ago

London

I don’t know how is there a group we can make on here to see numbers

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By *wertyjk01Man
3 weeks ago

NW London/Kent/Midlands

Preferred method of contact for a group, WhatsApp/telegram etc? Carrier pigeon?

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By *ists003 OP Man
3 weeks ago

London

Telegram is best as it stays anonymous... my id is _ists003 if someone wants to add me?

I live near london... can organise a small meet end of may (about to fly away next week)

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By *adcouple2000Couple
3 weeks ago

We would love to join

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By *ohaXXXMan
2 weeks ago

torquay

I would definitely attend if any such event happened

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By *urenutsMan
2 weeks ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

I'm up for it

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

This has to be the most protracted Asian thread ever...with nø light at the end of the tunnel.

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By *nil007Man
2 weeks ago

Iver

"OK guys. I'm gonna setup a group on telegram. Spaces are limited

Message me with the following details

Female/Male/Couple

Age(s)

Location

Sent you my details. Would be great to be in a group with like minded Asians enjoying some fun. I feel like we are frowned up being an Asian male.

The comment about Asian men that don’t know how to respect and treat others is so true. Unfortunately, it’s a lot worse when alcohol is involved. Hopefully, we start to build a better reputation.

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