FabSwingers.com forum: BDSM/kink - Fabbers who are the real deal

By *epravedGent OP Man
47 weeks ago

London

Evening Fabbers!

Whilst I appreciate this site caters primarily for the swinging community (I was able to carefully deduce that from the name Fab’swingers’) there are many females, and I’m sure males too, who also classify themselves as ‘kinky’. From my experience so far though, I’d say about 75% of those kinksters seek activities more akin to adventurous and experimental sex/dynamics (eg toys, some tying up, light spanking, roleplay etc), rather than more substantive BDSM, or similar, focused play with experienced and skilled counterparts….

The crux of my query is, are there (m)any women on here who (1) focus more on finding BDSM partners, and (2) have the skill and expertise to engage in these activities safely at deeper levels? Eg… more severe or intense impact play requires skill by the person administering it, so it’s not always the safest bet to try it with someone who only has only dabbled with whips and canes…

The driver of the query is that to usually find women with a penchant for BDSM play at more extreme levels, you’d perhaps have to approach a pro Domme (where the sex side of the fun is off the cards), or go on kink focused apps (which for the most part are pretty awful). Fab seems like the perfect place to have naughty fun, but finding women who are also experienced and skilled BDSM/kink lovers appears to be a narrow pool on here…

Any thoughts? Am I perhaps not going about my search the right way?