FabSwingers.com forum: London Surrey Social 20th October 2023.... HALLOWEEN THEME

By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

Next date for the social @Abfab is 20th October from 7-8.30pm…

LAST ENTRY WILL BE 8.30PM

HALLOWEEN THEME

Please add your name below to be sent the info… we have a new way of confirming your attendance as we have had-so many time wasters you will be sent the link….

Dress halloween sexy and smart …

Everyone is welcome to attend… FREE NEW MEMBERSHIP ONLY… HALF PRICE ENTRY between 7-8.30pm only.

The club then is open for everyone to stay on into the evening if you wish. There is no extra cost for this.

Remember HALLOWEEN THEME...

PLEASE BE AWARE THAT THIS IS FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO ATTEND THE SOCIAL... IT'S NOT A WAY IN FOR HALF PRICE ENTRY...

ONCE THE LIST IS CLOSED THERE WILL BE NO LATE ADDITIONS.. THIS INFO IS IN THE FORUM EARLY ENOUGH TO GET YOUR NAME DOWN!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you add me please Sally

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By *hyes2023Man
over a year ago

Walton

Add me to the list please Sally. Looking forward to it already! xx

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Can I come

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By *dsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

Yes please

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By *ou 1978Woman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Yes please

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By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham

Yes please! I look to be free that night

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By *exyman300Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Add me please Sally

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Please can you add me to the list Sal?

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By *iteMeNow1980Woman
over a year ago

Havant

Can you add me to the list please. Was really good seeing everyone last night xx

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By *likat50Woman
over a year ago

london /bracklesham bay

I’m in xx

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By *iamondsandleatherWoman
over a year ago

Windsor

Yes please Sally x

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By *illionaireboysclubMan
over a year ago

London

May I be added too - please and thank you

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By *urse234Woman
over a year ago

somewhere in Essex

Looking forward to another great Soical!

Best dig out my fancy dress

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive

Me please. X

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By *iamondsandleatherWoman
over a year ago

Windsor

Can you add sparkle789 please sally x

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By *ugahMan
over a year ago

London

Yes please to being added

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By *atesur2021Couple
over a year ago

Dorking

Please add us to this too

Thankyou!

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By *arco1978Man
over a year ago

Redhill

Yes Please Sally - Thanks

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By *likat50Woman
over a year ago

london /bracklesham bay

"Yes please "

Please pm as I can’t message you

All added and link sent

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

Wow 18 bookings since sat think this one will be a goodun x

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By *imixedkinkcplCouple
over a year ago

Reading

May we come too please Sal

Danny & Lin xx

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By *oybCouple
over a year ago

West Sussex

Morning!

Please could we be added to this one, love a fancy dress party!

Thank you! x

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By *ickjones993Man
over a year ago

heathrow

hi sally ! id love to come to this ,please add me ! x

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By *likat50Woman
over a year ago

london /bracklesham bay

All Added and sign up info sent.

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

Now what to wear..... any ideas

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By *ent GentlemanMan
over a year ago

rochester

Evening Sally

Could you please add me to the list, many thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Morning, could I be added to the list please, thank you

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By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham

"Now what to wear..... any ideas"

Something devilish

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By *nly us 4448Couple
over a year ago

London

Can we put our name down please? X

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By *likat50Woman
over a year ago

london /bracklesham bay

All added and sign up link added

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By *1godessWoman
over a year ago

Shoreham

Please add me. Thanks x

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By *andy and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Leatherhead

Hey, can you add us please

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

"Now what to wear..... any ideas

Something devilish

"
aptly named me thinks xxxx

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

added xxxxx

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By *iteMeNow1980Woman
over a year ago

Havant

"Now what to wear..... any ideas"

I've got a red sparkly dress and devil horns for the social.

Need to find some red underwear for later on though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As always, yes please Sally

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

"Now what to wear..... any ideas

I've got a red sparkly dress and devil horns for the social.

Need to find some red underwear for later on though!"

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Can I get link for the party please. X

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By *iot58Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

Please add us to the list, it's always a good night.

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By *ust_Winging_itMan
over a year ago

camberley

Would love to be added please

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By *iteMeNow1980Woman
over a year ago

Havant

"Can I get link for the party please. X"

I was hoping to see you at the last one! Xx

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By *iamondsandleatherWoman
over a year ago

Windsor

Please add sparkle789

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Can I get link for the party please. X

I was hoping to see you at the last one! Xx"

We keep missing each other. Definitely coming to this one

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By *lift and FCouple
over a year ago

Chalfont St Peter

"Wow 18 bookings since sat think this one will be a goodun x"

Can you please add us as well?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

Seeing as how I missed the August and September socials! Blame family holidays. I'm gagging at the bit for October! Lol! Yes please add me!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

I usually go as dead historical figures...or an angel is quite good.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have been as a undead skeleton, werewolf, clown, flash. I don’t know what I will go as this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in plz x

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By *ittleFoxBBWWoman
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Please can you add me. It will be my first time there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please xxxx

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Please can you add me. It will be my first time there. "

Woohoo! Can’t wait for this. It’ll be busy night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggling with what to go as, any suggestions? And please be practical haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FireFaePrincess would like to be added but she can't currently post to the forum, because her profile is too new

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By *att_94Man
over a year ago

Reading

Please can I get on the list for this?

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

"Struggling with what to go as, any suggestions? And please be practical haha "
dressing up is optional so please do not worry xx wear whatever u feel comfortable in ..just read the clubs dress policy for men

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
over a year ago

West London

Can you add Paul and myself please. Not a certain but we will try our best

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By *igzee96Man
over a year ago

london

Can you please add me and Bigmoses to the guest list

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

have sent everyone the link xxx or Alikay50 has x

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By *lackeagle69Man
over a year ago

London

yes plz add me

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By *ames B100Man
over a year ago

Hampshire

Hi! Sally, please add me to the list. Thanks..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you add Me please

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By *andcar2Couple
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Can you add our names down please Sally

See you soon

K and Carl xxx

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By *andsomegentMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Can you add me please? Thanks x

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

all info sent xxxx

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By *oxie coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

Can put us down please x

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By *arky72Man
over a year ago

Walton on Thames

Hi Sally

Could you add me to the list please.

Many Thanks

M.x

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By *est London bwcMan
over a year ago

london

Hi Sally sounds amazing would love to come put my name down asap please.

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

all info sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost party time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t been before please add me to the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven’t been before please add me to the list "
please send me the link

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By *immyb691000Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Hi Sally,

Please add Squirtylicious and myself. Looking forward to things going bump in the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious_smiles please x

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By *yson jacksonMan
over a year ago

Stoke Newington

Can you add me please Sally, about time I attended this x

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By *oveitall321Woman
over a year ago

gosport

Can you add me please

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Right this one ... nothing should mess it up... please add me hun. Mwah xx

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

all info sent x

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By *ime to shineMan
over a year ago

Away

Room for a little one?

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By *alhamCoupleCouple
over a year ago

London

Hello could you please add us? We really enjoyed the social in June. Thanks.

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By *HE85Man
over a year ago

Shepperton

Hi can you add me please, I’d definitley like to attend

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By *lue eyed GoraMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

Room for a little one?

If there is still space, I would love to go. Thank you

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By *oybCouple
over a year ago

West Sussex

Already looking forward to this! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Sal

Can you add us please

Thanks

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

"Hello could you please add us? We really enjoyed the social in June. Thanks. "
Sorry i cant message you the info as im blocked please message me

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

all added

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By *ellobluMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Hi,

Can you add me to the list please...

Many thanks

Stuart.

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By *winger coupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading Berkshire

Add us to the list please

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Oooo I am getting excited for this

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London

Can you put me on the list please.

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

all added x

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By *oastofReadingMan
over a year ago

Reading

Hi, can I be added. Will be my first time there.

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

Reading

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By *iss LemonWoman
over a year ago

Farnborough

I signed up to the event link as a couple but now just me coming, do I need to sign up again separately with my username?

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By *iAndaCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Can't make it for the 20th as am on holiday; but please count us in for the next one on November 17th and we are looking forward to meeting fellow swingers. xx

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Are there any spaces left?

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By *andC2023Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

Please can we added again

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Hey Sally, popped you a message a few days ago- would love to come to the social if possible. Thanks!

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

Hi sally

it’s been a while. Could you add wife and me please. Xxx

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By *likat50Woman
over a year ago

london /bracklesham bay

All added and info sent.

Please sign up on the link by 9pm Thursday. The list will close at this point and no late entries will be added.

Link for November will be live next week.

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By *hitedemon999Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Can you add us the the guest list please, looks like it's going to be a good night

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By *ot on InstaWoman
over a year ago

Hi Sally and Ali,

Me plus one, please.

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By *likat50Woman
over a year ago

london /bracklesham bay

All added

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Roll on Friday can’t wait to see everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I got a ticket via Eventbrite. I will be coming with MelaninMaverick. Wasn't sure if I still needed to post here

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Need to get a mask

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Looking forward to it

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By *weetpussy0308Couple
over a year ago

South coast

Can we be added to the list please!

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By *imixedkinkcplCouple
over a year ago

Reading

L is hoping to celebrate a special landmark by having fun with as many men as possible on the night. We're both very excited and can't wait for Friday

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By *am69xxxMan
over a year ago

Virginia Water

Hi Sally,

If possible can I add myself to the social

Thanks

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

updated looking a tad busy so whoooopppp lets party !!!!

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Is it Friday yet?

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By *weetpussy0308Couple
over a year ago

South coast

Got our tickets! Now to find something for sexy Halloween!

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Nearly there

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By *hesubtlegentMan
over a year ago

surrey

Morning all. I can’t make the social but will be in the club from 930pm, I’ll look forward to seeing all your outfits

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By *ill PiperMan
over a year ago

West London

I’ll be happy to buy them off of you and attend if that’s ok?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Please add me and my fwb for this

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By *dsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

Thats the hard bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello!

Could I please be added to the list?

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By *asanova1ItaMan
over a year ago

heathrow

Hello, could I please be added to the list? Thank you

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

added xx

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By *likat50Woman
over a year ago

london /bracklesham bay

Please all remember the list shuts at 9pm tomorrow night as we have to get the list to the club before the event.

Also last entry is 8.30pm for the Social. You have to be in the club by then.

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By *nly us 4448Couple
over a year ago

London

Looking forward to a great night x

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

Really looking forward to Friday and dressing up for Halloween! Always a great night x

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By *woplusyou2000Couple
over a year ago

cheddar

Hey we would love to come

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By *jajcMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Please add me and my fwb for this"

Profile is _jajc

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By *ackedoffMan
over a year ago

london

Can you add me to list please

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By *adylerieWoman
over a year ago

Leatherhead, Surrey

Please can you add me xxx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

See you all tomorrow night

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By *tanzaMan
over a year ago

London

please can you add me

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By *luffy FairyWoman
over a year ago

west LDN

Please can I be added to the list

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By *23bbcMan
over a year ago

Romford

Can you add me to list please

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By *likat50Woman
over a year ago

london /bracklesham bay

List is now closed.November social is in the London forun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be taken off the list so someone else can have my place, I won't be able to attend tonight

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By *lift and FCouple
over a year ago

Chalfont St Peter

Really looking forward to a great night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I be taken off the list so someone else can have my place, I won't be able to attend tonight "

Can I take his place please?

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By *anetandjohn666Man
over a year ago

wallingford

I’d love to come if a space is available tonight

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By *illionaireboysclubMan
over a year ago

London

See you all tonight

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By *imixedkinkcplCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Not long to go now. L is really looking forward to her special treat

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By *nly us 4448Couple
over a year ago

London

Of all things to forget...I didn't pack my horns....

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Very nervous… been nearly a year since I last went to a social…

but really looking forward to it!

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By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham

If I ever get off the M25......

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By *waytoplayMan
over a year ago

pembroke dock

Is this still open??

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

To those that didn’t know me - I was the guy in the clown mask

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

What a night. Never seen it so busy. Thank you Sally for amazing social again. X

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

To the lady in the burgendy dress at the end of the night who I jxoked with that I was looking for a health spa - your underwear set was ummm very nice when you were getting changed.

Also to the couple joined me in the jacuzzi and I blushed and went quite. Lol the lady joke did make make me laugh

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By *alhamCoupleCouple
over a year ago

London

Thank you Sally for a wonderful evening. You were so busy yet spent time to talk to us. Thank you x

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By *dsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

Thanks for a great night !

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By *oastofReadingMan
over a year ago

Reading

Thanks for hosting last night. Was a really fun first experience of the social and abfabs. Definitely wanting to come back for more.

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By *lue eyed GoraMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

Thank you for a really great night and I met some lovely people

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By *ondonSurreySocials OP Woman
over a year ago

Surrey

Thank you what a fab night x sorry I snuck off early as lots to do today…. If I didn’t get around to chat I’m so sorry….if your free see you on the 17th xxx

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By *hesubtlegentMan
over a year ago

surrey

I went after the social. Saw all your costumes. They were very impressive. Nerves got the better of me and I ended up not chatting to anyone. I’ll make sure I come to the social next time I’m able to so I can introduce myself properly.

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By *hyes2023Man
over a year ago

Walton

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By *hyes2023Man
over a year ago

Walton

Sally and Ali,

Thank you both for hosting and arranging another brilliant evening!!

Already looking forward to the November event!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you all for being so friendly and welcoming.

Its always a nerve wracking experience for 'people like me' when attending a new club.

I am glad to say that I needn't have worried x

Thank you!

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By *oastofReadingMan
over a year ago

Reading

Hey, know how you feel. It was my first time last night and I came along with a couple. I felt I stiffled their chance to play.

As a single male it's difficult to stand out and such.

I enjoyed myself and I'm sure in a few months time, I'll know more people and have those sort of connections and ways in to others.

I'd be happy to talk about my first experience and listen to yours if you want to DM me.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"Hey, know how you feel. It was my first time last night and I came along with a couple. I felt I stiffled their chance to play.

As a single male it's difficult to stand out and such.

I enjoyed myself and I'm sure in a few months time, I'll know more people and have those sort of connections and ways in to others.

I'd be happy to talk about my first experience and listen to yours if you want to DM me. "

My advice is as a single male is the following

1) accept early on that you are lower down the list of what people are looking for this means that you won’t always be approached. That is not to say you won’t be. Just us guys don’t have lady bits. You do have to show some assertiveness.

2) an acceptance that you will go to a club and often not play. Playing is not a given. If I play I take that as a good night full stop. If I get to watch also I take that as a win. The social side is as important if not more.. you may not play with that person that night but weeks months down the line it may happen, the flirting the will or won’t I play with someone is fun as well. Getting your self know in the club scene can take a few months to even a year.

3) the couple were obviously happy for you to come with them. I would take that as a positive:

4) I like kink, which puts people a number of people off. But on the other hand it stimulates discussion. I don’t like every type of kink (wax, electric, heat, needles are no no for me), however it is for others. You often find people in to same likes and same dislikes and the thing I like about the scene everyone is so different.

5) don’t overthink a club night, people do I as well to an extent (less so than I used to), take each night as a social and if you play you have and a good night

Hope that helps

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Damned us having to work very early the next day, haha! May have missed some hot action watching…. Had to leave early but hopefully will be able to stay later for the next one.

Need to build my regular peeps list as I now don’t know most people and I’m not precisely the go and introduce myself kind

but brilliant night anyway and thanks to Ali and Sally, amazing organisers. xx

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By *weetpussy0308Couple
over a year ago

South coast

Great night at Ab fabs! Would love to come along again to another social . Much preferred the vibe and atmosphere on Friday x

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

Thank you Sally and Ali for a top night as always! We had so much fun! Def the best social around! See u in November!

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By *Luke87Man
over a year ago

Billingshurst

Thanks Sally & Ali, had a great night and everyone was very welcoming which I wasn't expecting being a single guy.

Will definitely be coming again, hopefully I cam make the next one. X

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