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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How does someone new like me even get a social meet when no one even is interested unless you verified. Thats the reason i left before (just back now) help a decent guy out here

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

1. Stop wallowing in the self-pity.

2. Get photo verified.

3. Go to an organised social .

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

Left and just back now?

Says you joined over a year ago?

Busted!!

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Adding some photos will help

This site is flooded with single men, to the point every woman & couple would need to do 3 meets a week for every guy to get just 1 meet a year

So you need to stand out, many will delete messages from a sillohette profile before even opening them as an easy filter

I personally feel photos will help more than a verification, my last two no shows have both been from well verified accounts

As the other poster has said the big organiser socials are another great way to meet people or go to a club but your profile is your shop windiw so that's what I'd be focusing on

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it is your lack of photos which is the main problem

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford


"How does someone new like me even get a social meet when no one even is interested unless you verified. Thats the reason i left before (just back now) help a decent guy out here "

Mate.

Best advice I can give you is this.

A) get a few phots up of yourself,

B) keep an eye on the forums for up and coming socials near you (but be quick as is single guys are 13 to the dozen and usually get the single guy rota full pretty quickly)

And once they let you go to the social

C) be a social butterfly and talk to everyone, that’s couples, single ladies and single gent’s alike.

Once you establish that. Then worry if no one wants to meet you! Until then. It’s hard enough getting anywhere on here as a single guy unless you put the effort in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay thanks everyone i have photos just not public ones im happy to send them to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay thanks everyone i have photos just not public ones im happy to send them to anyone "

You'll probably won't even get as far as being able to send them to people without having at least one on your profile. We can get up to 100 messsages a day. I delete every message without a picture immediately.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"Okay thanks everyone i have photos just not public ones im happy to send them to anyone "

You are being unrealistic in your expectations . If you send a message and you have no public photos very few people, if any ,are going to respond and ask to see a photo . Go to group socials in your area and chat to people.

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

oooops he's gone

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