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Where are all the experienced Dom/Masters?

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By *abygirl6969 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Where are all the experienced Dom/Masters?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Usually on a fetish site. You won’t find many experienced Doms on here that actually know what they’re talking about.

I’ve chatted to many who think they’ve Doms but they don’t have a clue.

If you’re an experienced sub you’ll eventually find what you’re looking for. They are a rare breed.

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By *eacupsbearCouple
over a year ago

York

Try F-E-T-L-I-F-E remove the dashes!

I'm not sure what the link scene is like in Scotland but in London we have the LAM London Alternative Market the frost Sunday of the month. It takes a while to find a decent Dom and one that is right for you

T x

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By *ijay_AnansiMan
over a year ago

Wembley


"Where are all the experienced Dom/Masters?

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Different sites will help you. I can't post a few of my good pics and vids on here cos they're "too rude"

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By *abygirl6969 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Usually on a fetish site. You won’t find many experienced Doms on here that actually know what they’re talking about.

I’ve chatted to many who think they’ve Doms but they don’t have a clue.

If you’re an experienced sub you’ll eventually find what you’re looking for. They are a rare breed. "

Agree with what you’ve said honestly.

Thanks to all the others for suggestions too.

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By *abygirl6969 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I don’t think that ‘life’ website has many people from Scotland on it sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few on here, myself included. But you may be better off looking elsewhere as others have mentioned

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few on here it seems

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Echo all of the above, this isn’t the best site to seek a D/S relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above that’s a better source. But they are a few experienced Doms on this site. After all it’s easy to tell the fakes with a few simple questions.

It takes a lot of practice and no matter how many years you do it you’re always learning.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"As said above that’s a better source. But they are a few experienced Doms on this site. After all it’s easy to tell the fakes with a few simple questions.

It takes a lot of practice and no matter how many years you do it you’re always learning. "

I echo this.

There are other sites but there are the same amount of people that are not right. D/s is personal and individual and not cookie cutter.

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By *ust JuicyWoman
over a year ago

east london

There are some but they take a bit of finding x

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Zensual and ruberfun are two who really know what they are doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zensual and ruberfun are two who really know what they are doing "
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Why Thank you Scottish guy

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have no experience in been a Dom / Master but if I wanted to build my knowledge and seeing if I would make a Dom / Master I would perhaps look to attend a specialist club that caters for these lifestyle / events.My thinking is if I am looking for a experienced Dom / Master I may be more likely to find them in a specialist club for these events.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Usually on a fetish site. You won’t find many experienced Doms on here that actually know what they’re talking about.

I’ve chatted to many who think they’ve Doms but they don’t have a clue.

If you’re an experienced sub you’ll eventually find what you’re looking for. They are a rare breed. "

Then why don't you use your experience to show them? If you want experienced doms first they need to be educated.

Use your skills to help or give advice instead of complaining they are rare do something about it.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Where are all the experienced Dom/Masters?

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We are here, Babygirl. You just have to come and say ‘please Sir, …….

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By *oulkissMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"I have no experience in been a Dom / Master but if I wanted to build my knowledge and seeing if I would make a Dom / Master I would perhaps look to attend a specialist club that caters for these lifestyle / events.My thinking is if I am looking for a experienced Dom / Master I may be more likely to find them in a specialist club for these events."

The only problem is that the specialist clubs that most people know of are NOT actually specialist clubs - they are too mainstream and are basically just regular clubs with a different dresscode.

The real specialist clubs are not hidden, they just don't have the same marketing/advertising.

At least thats my experience/thoughts on the matter.

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By *oulkissMan
over a year ago

Croydon


"Then why don't you use your experience to show them? If you want experienced doms first they need to be educated.

Use your skills to help or give advice instead of complaining they are rare do something about it."

While I know a few subs who could do this, it's not what they want.

They don't want, and in some cases are not capable, of taking the control that is needed to "teach" in the BDSM world.

Having that control just breaks everything for many subs, they want to feel safe, protected yet challenged, not be bored waiting for things to be interesting.

A switch could probably help, rather than a sub.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"Zensual and ruberfun are two who really know what they are doing "

Thank you Scottish guy.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

No worries, I have seen you both at play and you know what you are doing. I have found your rope demo's very informative. Just wish I could tie a knot

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