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"I was in the foyer this evening behind two young men, waiting to pay my entry. One of the men asked the woman at the desk "Is it busy?", a question I have often asked. The woman replied "There aren't many women and the ones that are here are with men". Whereupon he turned round and ogled me up and down, which has never happened before. And I have never been the only single female there. I turned tail and went home, feeling suddenly vulnerable. To the staff at Rios: single women are not fodder for your male clientele! And he didn't even mention women!" . The woman behind the desk didn’t need to say there aren’t many women just a simple yes or no would have done.You didn’t need to be made to feel uncomfortable and feeling vulnerable.I hope this unpleasant experience doesn’t put you off. | |||
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"This is awful, pity you didn't post this is club discussion or in reviews so the club would be more likely to see it and know how vulnerable they made you feel xx" Technically it's not a club. It's MEANT to be a health spa. No matter what anyone says to the management, they are rude and defensive. I am going to stay away for a while. | |||
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"I was in the foyer this evening behind two young men, waiting to pay my entry. One of the men asked the woman at the desk "Is it busy?", a question I have often asked. The woman replied "There aren't many women and the ones that are here are with men". Whereupon he turned round and ogled me up and down, which has never happened before. And I have never been the only single female there. I turned tail and went home, feeling suddenly vulnerable. To the staff at Rios: single women are not fodder for your male clientele! And he didn't even mention women!" Hope this doesn’t put you off going to Rios. Unfortunately there are some ignorant guys out there but the lady behind the counter shouldn’t have said if there was many or little females in. There is some guys who do go to Rios and enjoy it whoever is in Be good to hear if you’ve been back since | |||
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"Tend to agree with Rios on the decline and has been for a while - it is really convenient though ! I can’t think of another venue which gets close in terms of location and ease for access . Probably explains why there are so many low life scavenger men there ! " 
Hardly surprising when the manageress at the door is telling them how many women are in. The biggest lowlife of them all. She clearly didn't see me standing there. | |||
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"Tend to agree with Rios on the decline and has been for a while - it is really convenient though ! I can’t think of another venue which gets close in terms of location and ease for access . Probably explains why there are so many low life scavenger men there !
Hardly surprising when the manageress at the door is telling them how many women are in. The biggest lowlife of them all. She clearly didn't see me standing there. ". It was wrong of the manageress to tell anyone how many people are in there especially how many women are in there as unfortunately Rios does seem to get more negative reviews with regards to standards of behaviour especially amongst the men. | |||
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"I can't bring myself to go back. So sick of the rude staff bawling people out for every minor thing, bursting into the saunas for no reason, prodding you if you have your eyes closed in case you've fallen asleep - even in the garden! There are better, classier places to splash my cash." Where are the other naturist saunas that you go where you don’t have idiots disturbing you as I agree that even as a guy you have people disturbing when relaxing | |||
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"That’s shit. Sorry you had that experience, OP. This story even puts me off. I’m a guy. I’d love to “get the most” from a visit but I have no expectations whenever I go there other than to enjoy the facilities. Even I don’t want to be in a space that’s using women as bait and luring men in for the £££s. What a shitty business model, and a shitty attitude. It holds back everyone from having a good time."  It was the inference 'women with men are out of bounds, but single women are fair game', and lo and behold there's lil old me right behind him! I actually think I was looking for an excuse to stop going because it's quite miserable there now, but for the first time ever felt compelled to post to Forum and expose this as the manageress is clearly complicit in whatever harassment women experience there. | |||
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"I was in the foyer this evening behind two young men, waiting to pay my entry. One of the men asked the woman at the desk "Is it busy?", a question I have often asked. The woman replied "There aren't many women and the ones that are here are with men". Whereupon he turned round and ogled me up and down, which has never happened before. And I have never been the only single female there. I turned tail and went home, feeling suddenly vulnerable. To the staff at Rios: single women are not fodder for your male clientele! And he didn't even mention women!" Friday last week the lady at the foyer told me the same thing,but I didn't even ask. I was paying and she said 'Before you ask,the answer is 'no' there are not many women inside,and you know why? It's because the price is too high' Maybe she is an unhappy employee trying to boycot the place. :-S The same evening a couple were told by the security guy that they couldn't get 'more that two people into a room' 
No point to complain to management,they just don't care.
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"I was in the foyer this evening behind two young men, waiting to pay my entry. One of the men asked the woman at the desk "Is it busy?", a question I have often asked. The woman replied "There aren't many women and the ones that are here are with men". Whereupon he turned round and ogled me up and down, which has never happened before. And I have never been the only single female there. I turned tail and went home, feeling suddenly vulnerable. To the staff at Rios: single women are not fodder for your male clientele! And he didn't even mention women! Friday last week the lady at the foyer told me the same thing,but I didn't even ask. I was paying and she said 'Before you ask,the answer is 'no' there are not many women inside,and you know why? It's because the price is too high' Maybe she is an unhappy employee trying to boycot the place. :-S The same evening a couple were told by the security guy that they couldn't get 'more that two people into a room'
No point to complain to management,they just don't care.
"I had some amazing experiences at Rios that will be forever etched in my memory. This was in the good old days. Now everyone tiptoes around, afraid of being shouted at by staff. | |||
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"Tend to agree with Rios on the decline and has been for a while - it is really convenient though ! I can’t think of another venue which gets close in terms of location and ease for access . Probably explains why there are so many low life scavenger men there !
Hardly surprising when the manageress at the door is telling them how many women are in. The biggest lowlife of them all. She clearly didn't see me standing there. . It was wrong of the manageress to tell anyone how many people are in there especially how many women are in there as unfortunately Rios does seem to get more negative reviews with regards to standards of behaviour especially amongst the men."There's a good reason for that. | |||
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"Sorry to hear about your experience OP. I can totally understand why you left straight away. As much as I miss some aspects of Rios (locational convenience being one), I've not been tempted to return post-pandemic and reading threads like this make me feel even less likely to go outside couples only night. Poor behaviour by predatory single guys is one thing but when a member of the staff is almost complicit in women being used as bait in a meat market, that's just utterly terrible. If I took over that place the staff member in question would be gone and I'd add a compulsory membership (nominal annual fee) as soon as I could. Any bad behaviour would see the guilty party having to leave with their membership discontinued. No membership, no entry. Might take a short term hit, but I'd hope many would return." Oh yeah, and it would become naturist again instead of clothing optional. | |||
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"I was in the foyer this evening behind two young men, waiting to pay my entry. One of the men asked the woman at the desk "Is it busy?", a question I have often asked. The woman replied "There aren't many women and the ones that are here are with men". Whereupon he turned round and ogled me up and down, which has never happened before. And I have never been the only single female there. I turned tail and went home, feeling suddenly vulnerable. To the staff at Rios: single women are not fodder for your male clientele! And he didn't even mention women! Friday last week the lady at the foyer told me the same thing,but I didn't even ask. I was paying and she said 'Before you ask,the answer is 'no' there are not many women inside,and you know why? It's because the price is too high' Maybe she is an unhappy employee trying to boycot the place. :-S The same evening a couple were told by the security guy that they couldn't get 'more that two people into a room'
No point to complain to management,they just don't care.
I had some amazing experiences at Rios that will be forever etched in my memory. This was in the good old days. Now everyone tiptoes around, afraid of being shouted at by staff. "You mentioned Silverleigh, where is this place exactly..?? | |||
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" Oh yeah, and it would become naturist again instead of clothing optional." yeah is it not nudist anymore, can't see that on their site? :/  shame! | |||
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"Sorry to hear about your experience OP. I can totally understand why you left straight away. As much as I miss some aspects of Rios (locational convenience being one), I've not been tempted to return post-pandemic and reading threads like this make me feel even less likely to go outside couples only night. Poor behaviour by predatory single guys is one thing but when a member of the staff is almost complicit in women being used as bait in a meat market, that's just utterly terrible. If I took over that place the staff member in question would be gone and I'd add a compulsory membership (nominal annual fee) as soon as I could. Any bad behaviour would see the guilty party having to leave with their membership discontinued. No membership, no entry. Might take a short term hit, but I'd hope many would return. Oh yeah, and it would become naturist again instead of clothing optional." Agreed. | |||
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"Really I can't believe what iam reading all places have asshole men the staff are not rude to me if I have trouble they deal with it stop running a place down if u haven't been make up ur own minds instead of listening to other ppl " I'm glad to hear the staff are not rude to you, but some of them can be rude to others, which still makes them rude overall. I used to find that one or two were consistently nice, but many of the others were either downright rude and/or had fairly appalling customer service skills with no reason generated from me whatsoever. There were even times on bad days when I was hesitant to ask for some water!! Admittedly that was all pre-pandemic, but it doesn't sound like much has changed. As far as 'stop running the place down if you haven't been' goes, the vast majority of comments, including my own, are experiences and observations from having been. In my case on numerous occasions on many different days or the week and times of the day over several years. Sure most places have 'asshole' men (and even the occasional 'asshole' women/couple), but with Rios I find it's more about the high proportion and extent of that compared with other places. The one thing I do agree with you on is that anyone thinking of going should go and make their own mind up, but go with open eyes and be forewarned of what the place can be like and, by the sounds of it, still often is. | |||
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"Once a man kissed me in the hot tub. A male member of staff yelled at me in full hearing of all around "Go to the back room if you want to do that sort of thing". I said we were only kissing. He said "Yes it's what you're doing under the water I'm concerned about". Me and said man were sitting side by side. When the staff member retreated, a man stood nearby commented on how rude that was, and the man I was with apologised for "getting me into trouble". So yes, customer service is sadly lacking." Shocking | |||
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"Looking to head to rios this Saturday approx 1/2pm as a non pushy (mind my own business) single male. Would be interested in interaction if it occurred. Anyone heading there this weekend? Also does it get busy Saturdays during the day? Thanks in advance. " Chat to people and you’ll have a better time | |||
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"Looking to head to rios this Saturday approx 1/2pm as a non pushy (mind my own business) single male. Would be interested in interaction if it occurred. Anyone heading there this weekend? Also does it get busy Saturdays during the day? Thanks in advance. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time " I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon ." You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol " No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. | |||
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" and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol " Best typo I’ve seen so far lolol | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. " Another single guy on a couples account
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" and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol Best typo I’ve seen so far lolol " Lol that was intentional . Lol at you fella . | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. Another single guy on a couples account
Enjoy the spa "Yeah there's a reason for it too you sarcastic tw@t. If you'd just asked why rather than trying to be the know it all comedian I'd have explained. And thanks I'm sure I will have fun! | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. Another single guy on a couples account
Enjoy the spa
Yeah there's a reason for it too you sarcastic tw@t. If you'd just asked why rather than trying to be the know it all comedian I'd have explained. And thanks I'm sure I will have fun!"There’s a lot of couples profile with single male only active on the account. Your profile came across as very suspect . Only pics of you and you attending Rios alone. | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. Another single guy on a couples account
Enjoy the spa
Yeah there's a reason for it too you sarcastic tw@t. If you'd just asked why rather than trying to be the know it all comedian I'd have explained. And thanks I'm sure I will have fun!
There’s a lot of couples profile with single male only active on the account. Your profile came across as very suspect . Only pics of you and you attending Rios alone. "Yes that is correct. But I says "guy" in the description of my profile. It was a profile I shared with a partner about 8 years ago. I havnt b3en on here since until recent. We had made a lot of friends on here and I've come back to get back in touch with them using this profile. I've not claimed to be a couple to make out it says guy in the profile just incase anyone goes onto it. What's wrong with attending rios alone? I said I'd be alone when I posted? | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. Another single guy on a couples account
Enjoy the spa
Yeah there's a reason for it too you sarcastic tw@t. If you'd just asked why rather than trying to be the know it all comedian I'd have explained. And thanks I'm sure I will have fun!
There’s a lot of couples profile with single male only active on the account. Your profile came across as very suspect . Only pics of you and you attending Rios alone.
Yes that is correct. But I says "guy" in the description of my profile. It was a profile I shared with a partner about 8 years ago. I havnt b3en on here since until recent. We had made a lot of friends on here and I've come back to get back in touch with them using this profile. I've not claimed to be a couple to make out it says guy in the profile just incase anyone goes onto it. What's wrong with attending rios alone? I said I'd be alone when I posted? "Your profile isn’t 8 years old. It’s only a year old. So you need to close this account and create your own account. You are hoodwinking folks. And there is nothing wrong with attending Rios alone. Plenty of people do it . | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. Another single guy on a couples account
Enjoy the spa
Yeah there's a reason for it too you sarcastic tw@t. If you'd just asked why rather than trying to be the know it all comedian I'd have explained. And thanks I'm sure I will have fun!
There’s a lot of couples profile with single male only active on the account. Your profile came across as very suspect . Only pics of you and you attending Rios alone.
Yes that is correct. But I says "guy" in the description of my profile. It was a profile I shared with a partner about 8 years ago. I havnt b3en on here since until recent. We had made a lot of friends on here and I've come back to get back in touch with them using this profile. I've not claimed to be a couple to make out it says guy in the profile just incase anyone goes onto it. What's wrong with attending rios alone? I said I'd be alone when I posted?
Your profile isn’t 8 years old. It’s only a year old.
So you need to close this account and create your own account. You are hoodwinking folks.
And there is nothing wrong with attending Rios alone. Plenty of people do it ."I'm afraid your massively wrong, if you go onto the profile you'll see 2 verifications from when me and my ex used to cam stating they were verified 9 years ago (it's ok I can wait for an apology) I honestly don't know why it says a year old as I have only been back on here recently hence updating my status I think 3 days ago saying I'm back and will be updating my profile. I'm not here to "hoodwinkle" anyone and I've made it crystal clear in the description of my profile and when writing here that I am on my own. | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. Another single guy on a couples account
Enjoy the spa
Yeah there's a reason for it too you sarcastic tw@t. If you'd just asked why rather than trying to be the know it all comedian I'd have explained. And thanks I'm sure I will have fun!
There’s a lot of couples profile with single male only active on the account. Your profile came across as very suspect . Only pics of you and you attending Rios alone.
Yes that is correct. But I says "guy" in the description of my profile. It was a profile I shared with a partner about 8 years ago. I havnt b3en on here since until recent. We had made a lot of friends on here and I've come back to get back in touch with them using this profile. I've not claimed to be a couple to make out it says guy in the profile just incase anyone goes onto it. What's wrong with attending rios alone? I said I'd be alone when I posted?
Your profile isn’t 8 years old. It’s only a year old.
So you need to close this account and create your own account. You are hoodwinking folks.
And there is nothing wrong with attending Rios alone. Plenty of people do it .
I'm afraid your massively wrong, if you go onto the profile you'll see 2 verifications from when me and my ex used to cam stating they were verified 9 years ago (it's ok I can wait for an apology) I honestly don't know why it says a year old as I have only been back on here recently hence updating my status I think 3 days ago saying I'm back and will be updating my profile. I'm not here to "hoodwinkle" anyone and I've made it crystal clear in the description of my profile and when writing here that I am on my own. "You need to clearly state in your profile . I am a single man. I am not in a couple . | |||
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"Was thinking of going here when we visit london but your experience has put me off op but then i thought i will take a look at the website they have on here for reviews and it doesnt even work. If they cant be arsed fixing web page spnt think they would fix their service. Thanks for the heads up op . K" Your other options are membership based clubs Info on these can be found in the clubs review sections Rios is mostly for locals who want cheap fuss free spa facilities with a bit of play if it happens | |||
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"Was thinking of going here when we visit london but your experience has put me off op but then i thought i will take a look at the website they have on here for reviews and it doesnt even work. If they cant be arsed fixing web page spnt think they would fix their service. Thanks for the heads up op . K" Couples are fairly secure there and you'll have your pick of guys. But Rios has an identity crisis: is it a swingers club or a naturist spa? We all go slinking furtively to the back rooms, trying to avoid the security guard, and feeling guilty like children for doing what comes naturally. I prefer going to a club where enjoying the pleasure of other people isn't something you have to do in such a clandestine way as you do in Rios. | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. Another single guy on a couples account
Enjoy the spa
Yeah there's a reason for it too you sarcastic tw@t. If you'd just asked why rather than trying to be the know it all comedian I'd have explained. And thanks I'm sure I will have fun!
There’s a lot of couples profile with single male only active on the account. Your profile came across as very suspect . Only pics of you and you attending Rios alone.
Yes that is correct. But I says "guy" in the description of my profile. It was a profile I shared with a partner about 8 years ago. I havnt b3en on here since until recent. We had made a lot of friends on here and I've come back to get back in touch with them using this profile. I've not claimed to be a couple to make out it says guy in the profile just incase anyone goes onto it. What's wrong with attending rios alone? I said I'd be alone when I posted?
Your profile isn’t 8 years old. It’s only a year old.
So you need to close this account and create your own account. You are hoodwinking folks.
And there is nothing wrong with attending Rios alone. Plenty of people do it .
I'm afraid your massively wrong, if you go onto the profile you'll see 2 verifications from when me and my ex used to cam stating they were verified 9 years ago (it's ok I can wait for an apology) I honestly don't know why it says a year old as I have only been back on here recently hence updating my status I think 3 days ago saying I'm back and will be updating my profile. I'm not here to "hoodwinkle" anyone and I've made it crystal clear in the description of my profile and when writing here that I am on my own.
You need to clearly state in your profile .
I am a single man. I am not in a couple .
"Sorry but it says over a year like it does on every profile over a year old. I didn’t think it was anything other than a male profile. | |||
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" (mind my own business) single male. Chat to people and you’ll have a better time I always chat to people and I've always had a good time. I habnt been for 6 years so just asking if it gets busy on a Saturday mid afternoon . You said you’d mind your own business . So I assumed like 90% of the other single males. They just stare and gawp at a female and attempt to toe funk them in the jacuzzi lol No I mean I don't follow women around pestering them. I'll be myself and interact but not pushy. Another single guy on a couples account
Enjoy the spa
Yeah there's a reason for it too you sarcastic tw@t. If you'd just asked why rather than trying to be the know it all comedian I'd have explained. And thanks I'm sure I will have fun!
There’s a lot of couples profile with single male only active on the account. Your profile came across as very suspect . Only pics of you and you attending Rios alone.
Yes that is correct. But I says "guy" in the description of my profile. It was a profile I shared with a partner about 8 years ago. I havnt b3en on here since until recent. We had made a lot of friends on here and I've come back to get back in touch with them using this profile. I've not claimed to be a couple to make out it says guy in the profile just incase anyone goes onto it. What's wrong with attending rios alone? I said I'd be alone when I posted?
Your profile isn’t 8 years old. It’s only a year old.
So you need to close this account and create your own account. You are hoodwinking folks.
And there is nothing wrong with attending Rios alone. Plenty of people do it .
I'm afraid your massively wrong, if you go onto the profile you'll see 2 verifications from when me and my ex used to cam stating they were verified 9 years ago (it's ok I can wait for an apology) I honestly don't know why it says a year old as I have only been back on here recently hence updating my status I think 3 days ago saying I'm back and will be updating my profile. I'm not here to "hoodwinkle" anyone and I've made it crystal clear in the description of my profile and when writing here that I am on my own.
You need to clearly state in your profile .
I am a single man. I am not in a couple .
Sorry but it says over a year like it does on every profile over a year old.
I didn’t think it was anything other than a male profile. "Thankyou! Is anyone heading down to rios today? | |||
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"I can't bring myself to go back. So sick of the rude staff bawling people out for every minor thing, bursting into the saunas for no reason, prodding you if you have your eyes closed in case you've fallen asleep - even in the garden! There are better, classier places to splash my cash." It's for your own safety. They do this to me when I'm in the sauna.I did ask why and was told because people tend to spend more than the recommended 15 minutes in the sauna, it can have an effect, such as fainting or even far worse. Generally they will leave you alone but they are very alert when it comes to health and safety. They have had a couple of fires due to customer's stupidity. This could have become serious incidents if they were not vigilant. They will keep constant vigilance on people on the property, and I am comforted by that. Personally, I have found the staff to be extremely polite and friendly. I go there as a single woman to use the sauna facilities only. There have been occasions when I have been with others to have fun. Please do not let them deter you from going in. Either they don't want to spend the money on the recently increased entrance fee for a single bloke, or they needed to stay in Rio's longer if it was couples evening. Either way, since the price increases Rios has become very mellow and great place to while away the hours. Sorry that you had a bad experience, but I hope you give it one more shot. As a single woman, I can say I feel very comfortable going to Rio's, whatever the purpose of my visit. Cx | |||
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"I can't bring myself to go back. So sick of the rude staff bawling people out for every minor thing, bursting into the saunas for no reason, prodding you if you have your eyes closed in case you've fallen asleep - even in the garden! There are better, classier places to splash my cash." | |||
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"Rios is fine, but I would not suggest to any women go alone. The men are desperate. If any ladies want accompanying. Message me I go once twice a month and I go with a ladie friend as she won't go alone and she likes to attend in the evening. It is a decent establishment too Be honest. But the desperation of men is a thick stench. " It depends how you handle it, and I say that for any club establishment. Simply tell them that you have no sexual interest in them whatsoever. They will move on. The older I get the more I believe that I shouldn't waste people's time, and I say this when I tell them. Generally I get a shrug, and the conversation changes (sometimes to an enjoyable debate!) I've done it in Rio's. The word tends to get around pretty fast and you won't get chased after that. You're free to make your choice to play and if you do then obviously it will depend if the person you want to play with says yes as well! Simples. | |||
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