FabSwingers.com forum: The sexual void that is Sidcup and Bexley

By *exleybuffboy OP Man
over a year ago

sidcup and Spain

My god, it is drier than the Ghobi desert, there seems to be a distinct lack of people interested in meeting for anything. Please prove me wrong!

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By *an GleebawlsMan
over a year ago

Greenwich

It is…. Greenwich is the same! Seems the A2 out from here and down past Bluewater is a swinger free zone!

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By *exleybuffboy OP Man
over a year ago

sidcup and Spain

Well at least you replied! These posts just linger out there. The people who live here must be soo boring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first started off on Fab when living in Manchester, it is much busier and better known for some reason up there. Down south it seems a bit sparser which is a shame

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Your not looking in the right places, if your prepared to travel a little you've got 3 clubs, Eurekas, Pleasures & DV8 plus Silverleighs Naturist Spa all within about 15 miles

There's also a big social group called something like the Gravesend Group, that go to clubs together and host parties

Maybe try heading to one of the clubs, it's so much easier face the face than it is trying to get a response to a message

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Just noticed your Bi, there's also ME1 Sauna in Rochester, it's one of the nicer spa/sauna places

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By *exleybuffboy OP Man
over a year ago

sidcup and Spain

That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x "

Your welcome

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

OP I am based in Edmonton North London and been a straight guy I guess I am fortunate that I have OP4F and Rios less than a hour away via car I appreciate Rios has a hit and miss reviews / reputation but for me it’s convenient.However other places like AbFabs / Kestrels , Radlett, the house in Sutton as well as the places mentioned in Kent are a bit of a trek for me in my 17 years old 1.0 litre Corsa on the motorway and family reasons I can’t do overnight stay at a hotel otherwise as has already been stated if you can travel there are some nice places in Kent as well as just outside London.

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By *r.snutzMan
over a year ago

bromley

I have a house in Orpington hosting for group meets this Thursday/Friday

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By *exleybuffboy OP Man
over a year ago

sidcup and Spain

"That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x

Your welcome "

You’re xx

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By *an GleebawlsMan
over a year ago

Greenwich

"I have a house in Orpington hosting for group meets this Thursday/Friday "

Sounds good? DM the dets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x

Your welcome

You’re xx "

Oh you didn’t

* face palm *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to add Bromley to the void lol

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By *2699Man
over a year ago

maldon

Speaking to people in clubs,some people won't meet if they have to travel inside the North or south circular now ,as they would have to pay a ULEZ charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is…. Greenwich is the same! Seems the A2 out from here and down past Bluewater is a swinger free zone! "

Sounds like a mean time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speaking to people in clubs,some people won't meet if they have to travel inside the North or south circular now ,as they would have to pay a ULEZ charge "

What if they promise not to fart while cumming?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x

Your welcome

You’re xx "

& you wonder why people aren't interested in meeting you

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Feel free to add Bromley to the void lol"
. How far are you from Sutton there is the House of Poltier in Sutton that do various events it maybe worth your while looking into it see what sort of days , evenings and times they have that are suitable for you.There is also the Croydon social if you keep a eye on the London forums you will see details of the next one coming up.

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By *oneypenny2018Woman
over a year ago

Gravesend

There’s also a West London Social coming up on 26 March. If you are interested.

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By *exleybuffboy OP Man
over a year ago

sidcup and Spain

"That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x

Your welcome

You’re xx

& you wonder why people aren't interested in meeting you

The ampersand symbol should not be considered a replacement for the actual word. Especially at the start of a sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speaking to people in clubs,some people won't meet if they have to travel inside the North or south circular now ,as they would have to pay a ULEZ charge

What if they promise not to fart while cumming?"

That made me laugh

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x

Your welcome

You’re xx

& you wonder why people aren't interested in meeting you

The ampersand symbol should not be considered a replacement for the actual word. Especially at the start of a sentence. "

Belittling someone over a simple spelling mistake says more about you than it does about them

Especially when they've gone out of their way to help you, I've currently got a broken arm meaning typing is difficult and painful but because I thought I could offer you helpful advice I replied

You said thank you, I said 'your' welcome, no further exchange was needed

As they say in a very famous film 'if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x

Your welcome

You’re xx

& you wonder why people aren't interested in meeting you

The ampersand symbol should not be considered a replacement for the actual word. Especially at the start of a sentence.

Belittling someone over a simple spelling mistake says more about you than it does about them

Especially when they've gone out of their way to help you, I've currently got a broken arm meaning typing is difficult and painful but because I thought I could offer you helpful advice I replied

You said thank you, I said 'your' welcome, no further exchange was needed

As they say in a very famous film 'if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all'"

Too right

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x

Your welcome

You’re xx

& you wonder why people aren't interested in meeting you

The ampersand symbol should not be considered a replacement for the actual word. Especially at the start of a sentence.

Belittling someone over a simple spelling mistake says more about you than it does about them

Especially when they've gone out of their way to help you, I've currently got a broken arm meaning typing is difficult and painful but because I thought I could offer you helpful advice I replied

You said thank you, I said 'your' welcome, no further exchange was needed

As they say in a very famous film 'if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all'"
. BoobyHotwife you have always come across as helpful to me.You have directed the OP what is near him within a 15 mile radius and in the past when people have been visiting London you have given them plenty of helpful advice.For the record I am a rubbish at spelling and I probably would have said Your Welcome.Hope all goes well with the surgery on your broken arm.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"That’s a kind and helpful response, thanks x

Your welcome

You’re xx

& you wonder why people aren't interested in meeting you

The ampersand symbol should not be considered a replacement for the actual word. Especially at the start of a sentence.

Belittling someone over a simple spelling mistake says more about you than it does about them

Especially when they've gone out of their way to help you, I've currently got a broken arm meaning typing is difficult and painful but because I thought I could offer you helpful advice I replied

You said thank you, I said 'your' welcome, no further exchange was needed

As they say in a very famous film 'if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all'. BoobyHotwife you have always come across as helpful to me.You have directed the OP what is near him within a 15 mile radius and in the past when people have been visiting London you have given them plenty of helpful advice.For the record I am a rubbish at spelling and I probably would have said Your Welcome.Hope all goes well with the surgery on your broken arm."

Thank you

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By *hris5320Man
over a year ago

London

So handjobs out question booby wife what other body parts could you use

lol

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By *hibarimanMan
over a year ago

bromley

It is acceptable, in a limited way, to use a coordinating conjunction such as ‘and’ at the beginning of a sentence. Shakespeare did.

And we all forgive a lady with a broken shoulder for substituting an & for and. That’s how language works.

I’m off back under my rock now. Xx

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By *exleybuffboy OP Man
over a year ago

sidcup and Spain

"It is acceptable, in a limited way, to use a coordinating conjunction such as ‘and’ at the beginning of a sentence. Shakespeare did.

And we all forgive a lady with a broken shoulder for substituting an & for and. That’s how language works.

Absolutely, and harts of to that guy for pushing for a boob job from a lady with a broken arm. Huzzah

I’m off back under my rock now. Xx"

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By *exleybuffboy OP Man
over a year ago

sidcup and Spain

Hello? Hello hello (echoes)

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By *exleyboyMan
over a year ago

Erith

Agree with you, so why dont we organise a social in Bexleyheath?

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
over a year ago

Gravesend

Thats the answer. Of there is nothing out there, then create something. I'm sure you won't be alone if others feel the same.

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By *liandaCouple
over a year ago

london

"My god, it is drier than the Ghobi desert, there seems to be a distinct lack of people interested in meeting for anything. Please prove me wrong! "

Things must have changed! A long time ago, but I had a girlfriend from Sidcup. She came to a party at my (shared) house with her friend, also from Sidcup. It was fun, went on into the small hours, before people started crashing out all over the house. My girlfriend and I were still in the living room when her friend started snogging this older black guy I worked with. it wasn't too long before his hand was between her legs and she was holding the hem of her skirt down, not to stop him but to make sure it didnt ride up and expose her. But it was obvious what was happening as his arm pumped back and forth. It didnt go any further, but i think it is at the root of some of my interests these days! If it is, Ali is very grateful to the girls from Sidcup!

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By *exleybuffboy OP Man
over a year ago

sidcup and Spain

Wow! Sounds hot

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By *nglishrose14Woman
over a year ago

Bexley

Definitely about branching a little further to the clubs to make connections

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

I am at Welling. Let’s try to improve the area. Any locals for social this weekend

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By *exleybuffboy OP Man
over a year ago

sidcup and Spain

Happy to help, me old plum. But it’s hard

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By *ayjay199xMan
over a year ago

london

I’ve met a few from that area

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By *ondonerMan
over a year ago

London / Essex borders

Having lived between Bromley and Dartford for a Number of years, it's not a *total* void, but nowhere near as busy a lifestyle as it seem in the Midlands / North.

I'd recommend getting out to Eurekas and joining some of their parties as they tend to full of local(ish) people, and it's a nice friendly venue.

It was a great intro to the scene for me many years back anyway

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By *exleybuffboy OP Man
39 weeks ago

sidcup and Spain

Hi?

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