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Have black guys been given a bad name? - Curious.

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By *rBlack007 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Canvey Island

So this is just out of curiosity and hopefully this will make further changes to peoples profiles, all for the good of the site and the people on the genuine people who use this site....I see a lot of profiles that always NO BLACKS OR ASIANS, with no reason why. Then I see the same again with reason why, just not your taste, fair enough. For those who don't put it is there a reason why? Bad experience? Would love to know and I think others would to. Remember this is just out of curiosity. Hopefully we can avoid pissing people off in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have also seen this on profiles and its simply people who prefer to stick with their own colour. I don't like seeing these words either as its quite sad that racial prejudice can be dressed up as some sort of sexual preference, when everyone knows that sexual preference is based mainly on gender.

People like and dislike many things and its their choice if they decide to broadcast those feelings. On the plus side, many women and couples have a desire for darker skin, so it can work in your favour.

So when you see those words that mean that the door is already shut, do what I do...Block them to prevent them from enjoying my sexy profile pics or checking to see who I've met and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont quite understand how you decide its 'racial prejudice' isnt it simply people exercising choice? Personally, I prefer a man who is pretty tall and well built, same thing is it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For as many profiles that say 'No Black Guys" (from both white or black folks) there are those that say 'Black guys Only' (from both white and black folks).

Focus on the positives, not the negatives.

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By *rBlack007 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Canvey Island

This is all great stuff Thanks.

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london


"For as many profiles that say 'No Black Guys" (from both white or black folks) there are those that say 'Black guys Only' (from both white and black folks).

Focus on the positives, not the negatives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your preference is for curvy girls..is that saying you prejudice against the slimmer lady? Probably not! But Its all about what floats your boat...curvy women do it for you..you may not do it for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wife loves to meet black guys

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By *uggers nemesisCouple
over a year ago

london


"I have also seen this on profiles and its simply people who prefer to stick with their own colour. I don't like seeing these words either as its quite sad that racial prejudice can be dressed up as some sort of sexual preference, when everyone knows that sexual preference is based mainly on gender.

People like and dislike many things and its their choice if they decide to broadcast those feelings. On the plus side, many women and couples have a desire for darker skin, so it can work in your favour.

So when you see those words that mean that the door is already shut, do what I do...Block them to prevent them from enjoying my sexy profile pics or checking to see who I've met and move on!"

Sexual preference is not based mainly on gender,you don't just fancy a female because shes a female do you?

We may like blondes or brunettes,big or small,whatever,some like blacks some dont,theres nothing racist in it,whether they give a reason or not

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By *rBlack007 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Canvey Island

Thanks for that! yes my preference is curvy. I was just putting it out there, not because ive had bad experience, I can read profiles, I just dont approach, no means no etc etc, Its Just out of curiosity as ive seen many of times in chat rooms and on profiles people hassling each other. Just trying to see what people think and how we can stop all the hassle so we can all have a good time.

Thank you for your response though

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By *rBlack007 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Canvey Island


"wife loves to meet black guys"

I will remember that next time im in cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is just out of curiosity and hopefully this will make further changes to peoples profiles, all for the good of the site and the people on the genuine people who use this site....I see a lot of profiles that always NO BLACKS OR ASIANS, with no reason why. Then I see the same again with reason why, just not your taste, fair enough. For those who don't put it is there a reason why? Bad experience? Would love to know and I think others would to. Remember this is just out of curiosity. Hopefully we can avoid pissing people off in the future. "

mandy has a prefernce. big black cocks. lol. she defo wood like your cock again as in your profile pic.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"For as many profiles that say 'No Black Guys" (from both white or black folks) there are those that say 'Black guys Only' (from both white and black folks).

Focus on the positives, not the negatives.

"

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By *uggers nemesisCouple
over a year ago

london


"Thanks for that! yes my preference is curvy. I was just putting it out there, not because ive had bad experience, I can read profiles, I just dont approach, no means no etc etc, Its Just out of curiosity as ive seen many of times in chat rooms and on profiles people hassling each other. Just trying to see what people think and how we can stop all the hassle so we can all have a good time.

Thank you for your response though "

No problem,always best not to worry what other people put on their profiles,its up to them after all,just focus on your own and hopefully something good will happen for you.Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pile o pish, worlds gone mad, As soon as any colour is referred then its a racial matter, pish, you want fat or skinny not an issue, you want tall or small, not an issue ,, you want 8 inch plus , could be an issue lol , , there are plenty of coloured males and females on here who use the definition black in the username , so why is it issue when it's a preference or not a preference, like said pile o pish , xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One other bit , soz peeps lol , if you have an issue or query regarding people's coloured preference why have it in yours as a single black guy, , xx

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By *rBlack007 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Canvey Island


"One other bit , soz peeps lol , if you have an issue or query regarding people's coloured preference why have it in yours as a single black guy, , xx"

huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One other bit , soz peeps lol , if you have an issue or query regarding people's coloured preference why have it in yours as a single black guy, , xx

huh?"

In your profile headline , Single black guy, you can't make issues of other peoples preferences when you are describing yourself as black ,

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By *rBlack007 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Canvey Island


"One other bit , soz peeps lol , if you have an issue or query regarding people's coloured preference why have it in yours as a single black guy, , xx

huh?

In your profile headline , Single black guy, you can't make issues of other peoples preferences when you are describing yourself as black , "

Right! Ok I think you may have got this all wrong. This is not something Ive experienced and complaining about, it was just a question I put out because I was curious that was all. I'm not one of those people who hate people, was just hoping to shed some light into it and just want to see peoples thoughts, experiences etc thats all. Sorry if you mistoke what I was trying to say.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I have also seen this on profiles and its simply people who prefer to stick with their own colour. I don't like seeing these words either as its quite sad that racial prejudice can be dressed up as some sort of sexual preference, when everyone knows that sexual preference is based mainly on gender.

People like and dislike many things and its their choice if they decide to broadcast those feelings. On the plus side, many women and couples have a desire for darker skin, so it can work in your favour.

So when you see those words that mean that the door is already shut, do what I do...Block them to prevent them from enjoying my sexy profile pics or checking to see who I've met and move on!"

Yep dont think you can say its racial really it is personal preference thats all.

After all not sure who, wouldnt name anyway.. but the profile of one black guy we read recently said .. 'want to fuck white woman' thats exactly what it said... theres my point. he obviously had a preference. so why is it when white people prefer not to meet blacks or asians for whatever reason they are racist. Yet when blacks or asians say it they are expressing a personal preference. Sexual preference is just that.. personal preference. there are plenty of people on here that want blacks or asians etc or any other preference for that matter that you cant call people racist for expressings their. if they were calling people racist names then okay you would have made a fair comment. Imagine how many fab sites there would need to be if everyone could just go to a site containing just there preference. plenty of gay men on here only want to meet men plenty of bi men only want to meet men.. no on is having a dig at them for not meeting women. You need to be very cateful using those sort of comments in a forum. each to their own and words like that arent gonna help anyone.

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By *rBlack007 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Canvey Island


"I have also seen this on profiles and its simply people who prefer to stick with their own colour. I don't like seeing these words either as its quite sad that racial prejudice can be dressed up as some sort of sexual preference, when everyone knows that sexual preference is based mainly on gender.

People like and dislike many things and its their choice if they decide to broadcast those feelings. On the plus side, many women and couples have a desire for darker skin, so it can work in your favour.

So when you see those words that mean that the door is already shut, do what I do...Block them to prevent them from enjoying my sexy profile pics or checking to see who I've met and move on!

Yep dont think you can say its racial really it is personal preference thats all.

After all not sure who, wouldnt name anyway.. but the profile of one black guy we read recently said .. 'want to fuck white woman' thats exactly what it said... theres my point. he obviously had a preference. so why is it when white people prefer not to meet blacks or asians for whatever reason they are racist. Yet when blacks or asians say it they are expressing a personal preference. Sexual preference is just that.. personal preference. there are plenty of people on here that want blacks or asians etc or any other preference for that matter that you cant call people racist for expressings their. if they were calling people racist names then okay you would have made a fair comment. Imagine how many fab sites there would need to be if everyone could just go to a site containing just there preference. plenty of gay men on here only want to meet men plenty of bi men only want to meet men.. no on is having a dig at them for not meeting women. You need to be very cateful using those sort of comments in a forum. each to their own and words like that arent gonna help anyone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All colours of the rainbow very much loved here

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By *harlie girlWoman
over a year ago

valleys

well i love blacks thats for sure so if ur in my catagory come say hi

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By *rBlack007 OP   Man
over a year ago

London/Canvey Island


"well i love blacks thats for sure so if ur in my catagory come say hi "

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