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"Go with no expectations other than you will be in a place where you can relax and use the spa facilities. Chat to people like you would anywhere else. Explain that its your first time there and you'll find that friendly people will welcome you and give advice. Don't be one of the creepy predators that walk in circles hunting for single ladies. They don't like it & all the guys will think you're ruining the atmosohere. Equally, if someone shows interest in playing with you & you dont want to play, politely decline. People who are a problem get reported & asked to leave. You don't need someone to go with unless you are dead set on couples night. Just go by yourself and enjoy the relaxation" Exactly what DC says go look enjoy the facilities everything is else a bonus | |||
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"It's staff are no longer topless and men work behind the bar too. " Actually, I'm relieved at that news. Having topless tea makers is rather silly. | |||
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"Its staff...., not It's staff.... My old English teacher would have been horrified at such a school boy error. ![]() Just as well they're not on Fab. Or are they?... | |||
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"Its staff...., not It's staff.... My old English teacher would have been horrified at such a school boy error. ![]() Did somebody mention schoolboys!? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"is anyone who attends rios actually attractive?" Only me when I go ![]() | |||
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"is anyone who attends rios actually attractive?" Beauty is the guy who is older. Or something like that ![]() | |||
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"There was one very attractive lady there today. Personally, I hope I maintain my solid 5/10 status at all times ![]() . Was that the one debating at length the Michael Jackson vs R Kelly criminal record? ![]() | |||
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"is anyone who attends rios actually attractive?" We think we scrub up well | |||
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"is anyone who attends rios actually attractive? We think we scrub up well" I would agree! ![]() | |||
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"is anyone who attends rios actually attractive? We think we scrub up well I would agree! ![]() Flattery will get you everywhere. Especially in rio’s | |||
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"There was one very attractive lady there today. Personally, I hope I maintain my solid 5/10 status at all times ![]() ![]() Haha yeah. You were in the sauna for that? It got a bit intense so I skipped off to a steam room | |||
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"There was one very attractive lady there today. Personally, I hope I maintain my solid 5/10 status at all times ![]() ![]() I was there yes. Well you were in with a chance with that girl I hope you made it she was digging your tattoos and you very kindly described the underwater creature that sits on your arm ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm still convinced Rio's clientele are those in the 45-60 age bracket." there are indeed quite a bit of those .. but it actually gives the place a good vibe .. some are a bit weird but hey it's London. I am pretty sure if I would have seen you there and got friendly totally would have gone down on those tits ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I was there yes. Well you were in with a chance with that girl I hope you made it she was digging your tattoos and you very kindly described the underwater creature that sits on your arm ![]() ![]() I love hearing & telling tattoo stories so that made me quite comfortable. If she was interested in anything else, I clearly missed that one! I'm pretty blind to the signals tbh ![]() | |||
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"I was there yes. Well you were in with a chance with that girl I hope you made it she was digging your tattoos and you very kindly described the underwater creature that sits on your arm ![]() ![]() ![]() you totally missed out on that one ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm still convinced Rio's clientele are those in the 45-60 age bracket. there are indeed quite a bit of those .. but it actually gives the place a good vibe .. some are a bit weird but hey it's London. I am pretty sure if I would have seen you there and got friendly totally would have gone down on those tits ![]() ![]() I may take you up on that offer ![]() | |||
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"Its staff...., not It's staff.... My old English teacher would have been horrified at such a school boy error. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I was there yes. Well you were in with a chance with that girl I hope you made it she was digging your tattoos and you very kindly described the underwater creature that sits on your arm ![]() ![]() ![]() Don't be too hard on yourself. Sometimes it's not easy to be sure with signals if worried about getting it wrong and not obvious. I find sometimes it's best to just bite the bullet and ask if not sure. At worst it will be a no which is the same result as letting a potential opportunity for something more go by. | |||
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"I’ll be taking my girl to Rios this weekend. Seems the quality of men was lacking during the couples time slot, when we last visited a month ago: so fingers crossed going outside of that time slot would be better.. " How about the quality of women? | |||
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"Was just wondering when a good time to go is as a single straight gent? I’m thinking it’s best to go with a friend, no? " If you go as a single guy, expect the M/F ratio to be 10/1 or so, therefore just go to enjoy the facilities. If you have a female friend willing to join you, then it would be better. | |||
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"is anyone who attends rios actually attractive?" Yes evidently more attractive than you | |||
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"is anyone who attends rios actually attractive? Yes evidently more attractive than you" | |||
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"Was just wondering when a good time to go is as a single straight gent? I’m thinking it’s best to go with a friend, no? If you go as a single guy, expect the M/F ratio to be 10/1 or so, therefore just go to enjoy the facilities. If you have a female friend willing to join you, then it would be better." | |||
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"I wouldn’t ever attend Rios as a single man. If you go, as the person below mentioned, have low expectations. For greater chances of having a play session: Be friendly , smile and say hello Chat to the male of the MF couple and make him your mate Don’t be creepy and touch without permission Be groomed and trimmed down under. Was just wondering when a good time to go is as a single straight gent? I’m thinking it’s best to go with a friend, no? If you go as a single guy, expect the M/F ratio to be 10/1 or so, therefore just go to enjoy the facilities. If you have a female friend willing to join you, then it would be better." Thank you all so much! | |||
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"is anyone who attends rios actually attractive? Yes evidently more attractive than you" well done ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn’t ever attend Rios as a single man. If you go, as the person below mentioned, have low expectations. For greater chances of having a play session: Be friendly , smile and say hello Chat to the male of the MF couple and make him your mate Don’t be creepy and touch without permission Be groomed and trimmed down under. Was just wondering when a good time to go is as a single straight gent? I’m thinking it’s best to go with a friend, no? If you go as a single guy, expect the M/F ratio to be 10/1 or so, therefore just go to enjoy the facilities. If you have a female friend willing to join you, then it would be better." I disagree with the advice given above, if I guy tries to befriend my husband in a club over chatting to us both of trying to befriend me it would be a no from me I choose who I play with not my husband, infact there's a guy at our favourite club that does this he effective cock blocks us from talking to other people as he's so often by outside to the point we've had people comment 'oh I thought you came with him 'or' he introduced you to this place didn't he' erm no I think it's really disrespectful to use a husband to get to his wife & I think most blokes would see right through that too | |||
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"I wouldn’t ever attend Rios as a single man. If you go, as the person below mentioned, have low expectations. For greater chances of having a play session: Be friendly , smile and say hello Chat to the male of the MF couple and make him your mate Don’t be creepy and touch without permission Be groomed and trimmed down under. Was just wondering when a good time to go is as a single straight gent? I’m thinking it’s best to go with a friend, no? If you go as a single guy, expect the M/F ratio to be 10/1 or so, therefore just go to enjoy the facilities. If you have a female friend willing to join you, then it would be better. I disagree with the advice given above, if I guy tries to befriend my husband in a club over chatting to us both of trying to befriend me it would be a no from me I choose who I play with not my husband, infact there's a guy at our favourite club that does this he effective cock blocks us from talking to other people as he's so often by outside to the point we've had people comment 'oh I thought you came with him 'or' he introduced you to this place didn't he' erm no I think it's really disrespectful to use a husband to get to his wife & I think most blokes would see right through that too" I'd just find it creepy and weird and yes the contrived ploy would be overwhelmingly obvious I'd like to think. | |||
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"Not sure when you went to Rios last but its been reopened but has been revamped during lock down and the staff wear red bikinis/swim wear now ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn’t ever attend Rios as a single man. If you go, as the person below mentioned, have low expectations. For greater chances of having a play session: Be friendly , smile and say hello Chat to the male of the MF couple and make him your mate Don’t be creepy and touch without permission Be groomed and trimmed down under. Was just wondering when a good time to go is as a single straight gent? I’m thinking it’s best to go with a friend, no? If you go as a single guy, expect the M/F ratio to be 10/1 or so, therefore just go to enjoy the facilities. If you have a female friend willing to join you, then it would be better. I disagree with the advice given above, if I guy tries to befriend my husband in a club over chatting to us both of trying to befriend me it would be a no from me I choose who I play with not my husband, infact there's a guy at our favourite club that does this he effective cock blocks us from talking to other people as he's so often by outside to the point we've had people comment 'oh I thought you came with him 'or' he introduced you to this place didn't he' erm no I think it's really disrespectful to use a husband to get to his wife & I think most blokes would see right through that too" | |||
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"I was think of to go tonight is it better it the day the night? " I think it is couples only on Saturdays from 6pm onwards. | |||
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"Must say I have been very disappointed with Rios the last 2 times I have been recently . Two many men to woman ratio but the men ( or some of them ) are on a different planet - or from one ! Constant following the few women that are there around like an animal and making them very uncomfortable . Management need to step in and carefully select who should be allowed in . Otherwise I can see this being an insurmountable car crash with no clientele apart from men which makes a mockery of a ‘mixed sauna’and I for one will not be going ! I have been visiting Rios for years and years and I know many woman who now find it too overbearing and will not return ( apart from sat ev.and that’s another experience all together ! ) . This needs urgent attention . Tony " I do agree with your observations. I’ve been to Rios a number of times over the years. What you describe is how it’s always has been. The last time I went was 5 weeks ago. I’m just surprised you’ve not noticed this before. | |||
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"Must say I have been very disappointed with Rios the last 2 times I have been recently . Two many men to woman ratio but the men ( or some of them ) are on a different planet - or from one ! Constant following the few women that are there around like an animal and making them very uncomfortable . Management need to step in and carefully select who should be allowed in . Otherwise I can see this being an insurmountable car crash with no clientele apart from men which makes a mockery of a ‘mixed sauna’and I for one will not be going ! I have been visiting Rios for years and years and I know many woman who now find it too overbearing and will not return ( apart from sat ev.and that’s another experience all together ! ) . This needs urgent attention . Tony " I have been trying to get to some sort of club, event or spa for a while. South East is pretty much dead. Gave Rio's a try and you are pretty much spot on for the ratio of men to women. Don't bother if you are a straight single male. | |||
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"Rios is mostly for locals. It has a regular clientele. I wouldn’t consider myself a regular, having been maybe 5 times in as many years. Take a female and you’ll have fun with her. If she’s up for a threesome or moresome, it’s a good place with the private rooms. As a single guy, you need to be friendly, and chatty, unless you’re an Adonis. " That is understandable. I haven't been to anything like it before but it just reminded me of another versions of the chat rooms, but in person, bunch of men, not a woman in sight, was no conversation which isn't a big deal, some people just want to relax I guess. Lacklustre experience, at least I can cross it off my list | |||
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"too many locals & the women wear bikinis in a naturist spa !!!! dump" You’re not wrong. But it serves a purpose for those who wanting a place to have a mini gangbang or just relax with their partner in a sauna and jacuzzi in a no membership entry. | |||
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"too many locals & the women wear bikinis in a naturist spa !!!! dump" On the other hand, the bikini women are great for those of us liking a CFNM vibe. | |||
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"Is the place worth visiting just for the nude spa experience? I'd like to use the facilities. How would you rate the facilities out of 10?" The place is over 30 years old. The facilities are clean, but tired looking. Needs a major overhaul IMO. 6 odd weeks ago, I was there one of the steam rooms was broken and the working one was mediocre and not worth using . But 2 sauna rooms were working. | |||
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"Coming from Huddersfield, I hope you've got accommodation. London hotels are dear. " We’ve booked a Travellodge ![]() | |||
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"Going tonight. Anyone fancy it?" Keep us updated while you there. Might tempt someone | |||
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"Who is going on sat 20th?" We might be. We are at the rugby. So it depends when we leave. | |||
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"Who is going on sat 20th? We might be. We are at the rugby. So it depends when we leave. " I love your photos of group sex particularly of the three bottoms.You seem to be having so much fun and can just imagine every orifice is filled. There is nothing better than a creampie in the pussy and licking out some of the leaking spunk as the lady lies down. Yummy. Have a lovely day with your family. Henry x | |||
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"I'm still convinced Rio's clientele are those in the 45-60 age bracket." Not always, not every night. | |||
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"Is there ever any man on man action " I played with a guy last time I went. Women only seemed to be there to tease. | |||
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"I'm still convinced Rio's clientele are those in the 45-60 age bracket. Not always, not every night." I would say that the general swinging demographic leans more towards the mature end in general anyway. When I visited it was fairly mixed but it didn't seem like swinging was on the agenda for most. | |||
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"Went today Sunday 30/01 was great loads of guys playing. Personally love being felt up at Rios - Anastasia " Maybe let us know the next time u plan to visit ![]() | |||
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"Went today Sunday 30/01 was great loads of guys playing. Personally love being felt up at Rios - Anastasia " Was it a big ratio of mans/girls or kind of the same ? | |||
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"is there ever any action openly in the saunas/steam rooms or is that frowned upon? whenever i've been, guys want to take it to the private rooms, but i'd love some group fun or even just being watched" Only on couples (Sat) evening. At least that's how it was pre-pandemic. I hope to find out if it's still like that soon! | |||
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