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50+ does that make a difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all have choices sure… but does frustrate me being 53 seeing most use 50 as a filter. Point for discussion is am I wrong to not want to “fib” and change my age?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess I got my answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it's difficult, have to put a number but I'd say it's a guide more than set in stone. From what I see, you look good and if you're an okay person too I'm sure some will go a couple of years over their initial pref, some won't but not much you can do, good luck

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"We all have choices sure… but does frustrate me being 53 seeing most use 50 as a filter. Point for discussion is am I wrong to not want to “fib” and change my age? "
. I am also 53 like you and it’s frustrating as like you say most use 50 as the filter also like you I am not comfortable with knocking a few years of my age I mean how many years can we knock off I would say no more than 5 years. I just accept it is what it is and instead look to attend socials , spa and club and if someone who would normally consider me outside their age range then great if not then fair enough it’s their right.

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

In my experience it does make a difference. I noticed it as soon as I turned 50. I am also 53.

But everyone has a right to their choices, annoying as it is sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks and yes I agree. It’s quite amusing sometimes when I mix at socials. But I totally get it … but it’s a topic I wondered if others had thoughts on. No I’m not changing my age either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys we all seem cool about it and I’m against fibbing so it’s what it is. Nice to get a message over is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys we all seem cool about it and I’m against fibbing so it’s what it is. Nice to get a message over is all "

You could get away with 49 and a half

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys we all seem cool about it and I’m against fibbing so it’s what it is. Nice to get a message over is all

You could get away with 49 and a half

Danish x"

See this is why I love you and we are friends

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By *urse234Woman
over a year ago

somewhere in Essex

49 and 3/4?

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By *aughtyPuppyMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

I've noticed a lot of blokes claiming to be mid to late 40s when they are clearly in their early 60s to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s obviously shocking and doesn’t help the genuine guys… however it maybe works to get the door open but you’d expect it to close again fairly soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys we all seem cool about it and I’m against fibbing so it’s what it is. Nice to get a message over is all

You could get away with 49 and a half

Danish x

See this is why I love you and we are friends "

To be completely honest I thought you were 60

Doughnut

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys we all seem cool about it and I’m against fibbing so it’s what it is. Nice to get a message over is all

You could get away with 49 and a half

Danish x

See this is why I love you and we are friends

To be completely honest I thought you were 60

Doughnut "

And that’s the reason why I don’t you

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By *aughtyPuppyMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

You mean he's not 60!?

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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago

London & Herts

Just turned 50 a couple of months ago and was lucky enough to have met 2 couples in my age range since. I keep telling myself that 50 is just a number

On the plus side, I think there are more 40+ swingers than younger ones, or am I mistaken? Maybe admin will be able to provide some stats?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could be right on the 40+ but maybe that’s more with couples.

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By *955vintageMan
over a year ago

itchen stoke

You should worry! Wait till you get to 65!

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By *jkuk72Man
over a year ago

London & Herts

Can't wait for 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it real, honest and fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Gents

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant


"We all have choices sure… but does frustrate me being 53 seeing most use 50 as a filter. Point for discussion is am I wrong to not want to “fib” and change my age? "

Maybe there is a 66 year old thinking the same thing?

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