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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So why do some couples try and get the female of another couple to play solo with them when clearly that's not what she is into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to both couples to set the parameters of the meet. Otherwise both are wasting their time...that womans partner should play his part by standing up for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because many people here are just out to get what they want and have zero respect for the boundaries of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its up to both couples to set the parameters of the meet. Otherwise both are wasting their time...that womans partner should play his part by standing up for her."

The woman herself is surely able to decline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True...but she shouldn't have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True...but she shouldn't have to"

No, but that's not the responsibility of her OH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if she's being led into something she's not comfortable with, surely he should intervene verbally..no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"True...but she shouldn't have to

No, but that's not the responsibility of her OH"

Exactly. Even when I decline they are sure he doesnt need to know bla bla bla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" But if she's being led into something she's not comfortable with, surely he should intervene verbally..no?"

I'm assuming she's an adult and able to speak for herself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" But if she's being led into something she's not comfortable with, surely he should intervene verbally..no?"

Not being led into anything. Cause I decline as soon as its mentioned. I get single males trying it. But couples I dont. Cause they wouldn't like it if other couples would do that to them.

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

Boundaries should be set before anyone plays if they want to play with a lady on her own let them set that as part of their boundaries it's not right to try get a woman to play without her partner in the situation and then try to get her to lie about it.

not chance.

if you meet as a couple you play as a couple. If you want to meet a single lady by all means go for it but I would never ask a lady to play without her partner as I said you meet a couple to play as a couple I'm sure if it was reversed you would be pissed off as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do some couples try and get the female of another couple to play solo with them when clearly that's not what she is into. "

well that's kinda rude. unless stated they play alone it shouldn't be even asked. respect is number one in our opinion

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