FabSwingers.com forum: NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE MEN...

By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Just an observation..

Some men here are straight & looking for women

...and that's perfectly fine & okay

However, even though on your profile you're

"Not looking for single men"

Would you consider taking down the filter??

Because when you really think about

There's women here who are straight

yet they chat and can look out for each other

Lads need to start doing the same...

Go on da Lads!!!!

Enjoy your day

Tim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don’t want daily messages from guys looking to suck me off, so they stay.

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By *umpkinnMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It is sad that men are very anti-social with each other here. However, I wanted to put a stop to the "Hey lad, Do you want your dick sucked?" messages that make up 100% of the conversion starters

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By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"No, I don’t want daily messages from guys looking to suck me off, so they stay."

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That's your choice mate ...

Truth be told, I get a few "kind offers" too

but I politely decline, delete and move on...

But have met some dead sound guys that I'd

happily go for a pint with.So, works for me

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

When I first turned on messages for men, most of it was from popular men on the site who bareback, offering me the use of some of the women they fuck for the use of my place for the night.

Loads of girls/couples added to list of people I will never meet. I dont know if they even knew they were being pimped out, but thats not really my problem.

If you're into that kind of thing, and can host, then it can get you a lot of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My box is always wide open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bi stated on my profile but have blocked single men.

Most of the messages are from pic collectors.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Im straight and don't have men blocked.. No harm sharing info with other men here doesn't make you gay.. I have stated clearly on profile that I'm not interested in men but yet I get hey you want sucked messages.. I either block or engage in a short convo sometimes have to be abusive so that they get the message but I don't mind doing that

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"When I first turned on messages for men, most of it was from popular men on the site who bareback, offering me the use of some of the women they fuck for the use of my place for the night.

Loads of girls/couples added to list of people I will never meet. I dont know if they even knew they were being pimped out, but thats not really my problem.

If you're into that kind of thing, and can host, then it can get you a lot of meets."

And all these men telling you that they barebacked with these women are completely honest of course.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"My box is always wide open"

Im sure there's a few who love to slide into your DM....

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By *og2018Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny

It's not so much that they slide into your messages looking to suck you off is the problem, God loves a tryer, it's when you turn them down politely and tell them you're not interested and never will be then a month later you get a creepy message like "want to get into your pants"

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By *reddieRaeCouple
over a year ago

Banbridge

Yeah... The one that sticks in my mind when we hadn't discovered filters was along the lines of "dump the looser and I'll show you what a real man can do"

And that was far from on its own.

Now, we've met and had a laugh with single guys at M&Gs etc. But there's no way we're opening ourselves up to that daily barrage of shite again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here to meet fun and friendly women for no strings attached sex. No interest in receiving messages from gay & bi-sexual guys who want to suck me off, so the blocks will remain.

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By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

All I can myself say is...

Yes I get one message in a week from a guy offering me a b.j. while I watch porn or something

"Nice offer but not for me thanks" is my usual reply....

So I will tell you what "MEN" out there...

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Is there any man out there up for the challenge of taking down

his filter for the next week and seeing what happens???

Just a social experiment

Now, if you're not up to it lad's, that's not a problem

...but if you are, you can simply cut and paste this

message below with "I'm in"

Enjoy your afternoon

Tim

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

We should all be supporting each other, you send Male friends messages on other apps it shouldn’t be any different here. Sometimes a friendly message with no other intention can make someone’s day. We all get messages we don’t like delete block and move on x

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

I have men unblocked.

Men don't usually message to be honest, but they make up the majority of people that view my profile.

I'll absolutely answer messages but it depends on the content, but I think that goes for everyone on here. I won't be asking messages just include wild sexual fantasies straight away.

I've met two friends (male) on here and they are class lads.

I wouldn't shut it up. I would just delete the message or politely say no thanks if I wasn't interested. Each of those depends on my mood.

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By *parklySassWoman
over a year ago

Sassville

Fair play to you OP for doing that....sometimes it's good to talk....but do understand men's opinions about having single males blocked as well!

Through life I've found out that people from the "non-normal" places have become the best friends I've ever had!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun ironic fact is that around 90% of "straight" men on here are bi. Or at least willing to go bi to get some pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fun ironic fact is that around 90% of "straight" men on here are bi. Or at least willing to go bi to get some pussy.

7 out of 4 cats think whiskers are shite...

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

I don't block guys

Have had guys mail me I am not rude just decline it not for me

But loads of guys look for group stuff on profile but have guys blocked so can work again ye guys sorry

Think of all them missd opertunitys

Food for taught

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By *easingTim OP Man
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Fair play to you OP for doing that....sometimes it's good to talk....but do understand men's opinions about having single males blocked as well!

Through life I've found out that people from the "non-normal" places have become the best friends I've ever had!!

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Well maybe people from "Non normal" places are actually the best people to talk to in "non normal times"

Be well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fun ironic fact is that around 90% of "straight" men on here are bi. Or at least willing to go bi to get some pussy.

7 out of 4 cats think whiskers are shite... "

If you think I am wrong then go ask a bi couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fun ironic fact is that around 90% of "straight" men on here are bi. Or at least willing to go bi to get some pussy.

7 out of 4 cats think whiskers are shite...

If you think I am wrong then go ask a bi couple

I dont doubt it happens just think making up a figure and calling it a fact is a little silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fun ironic fact is that around 90% of "straight" men on here are bi. Or at least willing to go bi to get some pussy.

7 out of 4 cats think whiskers are shite...

If you think I am wrong then go ask a bi couple

I dont doubt it happens just think making up a figure and calling it a fact is a little silly"

It's a random fucking number dude. To imply majority but not all. You wouldn't say "go on..." After someone said they were so hungry they could eat a horse...

Have you anything better to do with your life than being a ponce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fun ironic fact is that around 90% of "straight" men on here are bi. Or at least willing to go bi to get some pussy.

7 out of 4 cats think whiskers are shite...

If you think I am wrong then go ask a bi couple

I dont doubt it happens just think making up a figure and calling it a fact is a little silly

It's a random fucking number dude. To imply majority but not all. You wouldn't say "go on..." After someone said they were so hungry they could eat a horse...

Have you anything better to do with your life than being a ponce?

I just made lighthearted comment under your first one kid l....

And to be hknest I'd rather be a ponse that what ever is going on in your world that has you so angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fun ironic fact is that around 90% of "straight" men on here are bi. Or at least willing to go bi to get some pussy.

7 out of 4 cats think whiskers are shite...

If you think I am wrong then go ask a bi couple

I dont doubt it happens just think making up a figure and calling it a fact is a little silly

It's a random fucking number dude. To imply majority but not all. You wouldn't say "go on..." After someone said they were so hungry they could eat a horse...

Have you anything better to do with your life than being a ponce?

I just made lighthearted comment under your first one kid l....

And to be hknest I'd rather be a ponse that what ever is going on in your world that has you so angry

Go split heirs with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is sad that men are very anti-social with each other here. However, I wanted to put a stop to the "Hey lad, Do you want your dick sucked?" messages that make up 100% of the conversion starters

I don't think I'm anti-social towards anyone but I just don't want sexual advances from guys. I think that's fair enough.

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By *parklySassWoman
over a year ago

Sassville

"Fair play to you OP for doing that....sometimes it's good to talk....but do understand men's opinions about having single males blocked as well!

Through life I've found out that people from the "non-normal" places have become the best friends I've ever had!!

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Well maybe people from "Non normal" places are actually the best people to talk to in "non normal times"

Be well

Yip I agree

Stay safe x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I get less than 10 messages a week on here and most of those are from friends or in response to a forum thread.

Before I blocked other men I got 20 messages a week and 18 of those were from "genuine, discreet, straight" men offering a BJ so as much as I'm happy to chat to anyone and make new friends I'd rather not have to deal with those messages again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always had my filters down, always happy to chat. Never really had an issue with unsolicited messages, I'd say I've had even less than a handful since the turn of year.

Understandable why guys prefer to use said filter though; you make your profile work for you. I seem to be in the minority in not receiving those kinds of messages but clearly they do exist; I used to think men would exaggerate for affect...otherwise there must be something wrong with my profile

You get a good feel for anyone and everyone on the forums I reckon anyway, so if anyone wanted to or seemed like they needed a chat I'd have no issue messaging

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

No filters here.

Chatting to few from forums.

Yeah of course a few "wanna suck you" dick pic have found its way to my inbox.

If a "no" reply wasn't taken well , fed to block button.

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