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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across "

I mean I know being over weight is still not seen as ‘the norm’ within society but we aren’t freaks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"

I'm sorry it's a no for me if worded like that...if hes had sex before he should know what it's like no matter what type of body figure you have ....btw your photos are fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

I'm sorry it's a no for me if worded like that...if hes had sex before he should know what it's like no matter what type of body figure you have ....btw your photos are fab"

As are yours!! Stunning figure

I’m a confident bbw and have absolutely no body hang ups whatsoever however when receiving messages like this it really offends me as i think do some guys see us as that different?

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By *athieMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

I love large ladies jus saying big girls you are beautiful xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its clumsy wording.

Sometimes that just needs to be pointed out to people, how it can be percieved.

Its always tough with labels like bbw or milf or BBC.. people start ti fetishise the label and ognore the actual person. And then some people like that element of it sk its undrstandable how someone can put a foot in their mouth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love large ladies jus saying big girls you are beautiful xxxx"

Awwww thank you! I think all body types are beautiful in their own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think taking offence is a choice. I don't particularly care when men call me an "older woman", it's what I am to a 30 year old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its clumsy wording.

Sometimes that just needs to be pointed out to people, how it can be percieved.

Its always tough with labels like bbw or milf or BBC.. people start ti fetishise the label and ognore the actual person. And then some people like that element of it sk its undrstandable how someone can put a foot in their mouth"

Totally agree with people starting to fetishise the label, so on reflection perhaps I should change my profile name. I don’t see myself as any different to any other woman, and I’m old enough to realise and positively accept the fact that it’s horses for courses and different people are attracted to different things. Personally I’m not physically attracted to guys shorter in height than I, and I fully accept that men who are attracted to svelte figures won’t be attracted to mine.

I just find it offensive when I’m seen as something different. Whether it’s intentional or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think taking offence is a choice. I don't particularly care when men call me an "older woman", it's what I am to a 30 year old"

Jaaaysus, that makes us ancient!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think taking offence is a choice. I don't particularly care when men call me an "older woman", it's what I am to a 30 year old

Jaaaysus, that makes us ancient! "

Embrace it Fooey, it's not going away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its clumsy wording.

Sometimes that just needs to be pointed out to people, how it can be percieved.

Its always tough with labels like bbw or milf or BBC.. people start ti fetishise the label and ognore the actual person. And then some people like that element of it sk its undrstandable how someone can put a foot in their mouth

Totally agree with people starting to fetishise the label, so on reflection perhaps I should change my profile name. I don’t see myself as any different to any other woman, and I’m old enough to realise and positively accept the fact that it’s horses for courses and different people are attracted to different things. Personally I’m not physically attracted to guys shorter in height than I, and I fully accept that men who are attracted to svelte figures won’t be attracted to mine.

I just find it offensive when I’m seen as something different. Whether it’s intentional or not "

I get that but as you said yourself you identify yourself as being a certain bodytype. So that alone will lead people to seeing you as it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my age that means you are a ‘young lady!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its clumsy wording.

Sometimes that just needs to be pointed out to people, how it can be percieved.

Its always tough with labels like bbw or milf or BBC.. people start ti fetishise the label and ognore the actual person. And then some people like that element of it sk its undrstandable how someone can put a foot in their mouth

Totally agree with people starting to fetishise the label, so on reflection perhaps I should change my profile name. I don’t see myself as any different to any other woman, and I’m old enough to realise and positively accept the fact that it’s horses for courses and different people are attracted to different things. Personally I’m not physically attracted to guys shorter in height than I, and I fully accept that men who are attracted to svelte figures won’t be attracted to mine.

I just find it offensive when I’m seen as something different. Whether it’s intentional or not

I get that but as you said yourself you identify yourself as being a certain bodytype. So that alone will lead people to seeing you as it.

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Hear what you are saying! I’m proud to call myself a big beautiful woman because In my eyes that’s what I am and that’s what matters. But I do take on board your comments and yes, perhaps I’m doing myself no favours in using the bbw profile name. I’ve always thought though that it was an honest description of myself and therefore not hiding the fact x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think taking offence is a choice. I don't particularly care when men call me an "older woman", it's what I am to a 30 year old"

Dont be silly......

Your old to people in their 40's too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think taking offence is a choice. I don't particularly care when men call me an "older woman", it's what I am to a 30 year old

Dont be silly......

Your old to people in their 40's too "

Those fuckers are all lying about their age!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think taking offence is a choice. I don't particularly care when men call me an "older woman", it's what I am to a 30 year old

Dont be silly......

Your old to people in their 40's too

Those fuckers are all lying about their age!!! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think taking offence is a choice. I don't particularly care when men call me an "older woman", it's what I am to a 30 year old

Dont be silly......

Your old to people in their 40's too

Those fuckers are all lying about their age!!! "

Could be worse could be both old and fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think taking offence is a choice. I don't particularly care when men call me an "older woman", it's what I am to a 30 year old

Dont be silly......

Your old to people in their 40's too

Those fuckers are all lying about their age!!!

Could be worse could be both old and fat "

Don't you mean voluptuous and experienced? It's all about the marketing these days!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think taking offence is a choice. I don't particularly care when men call me an "older woman", it's what I am to a 30 year old

Dont be silly......

Your old to people in their 40's too

Those fuckers are all lying about their age!!!

Could be worse could be both old and fat

Don't you mean voluptuous and experienced? It's all about the marketing these days!! "

oh yes, pardon me that’s exactly what I meant, how very eloquent

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By *nowy007Woman
over a year ago

Near Enough


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"

Being of the more voluptuous nature myself, I'm an all or nothing kinda girl. I'm the starter, the main course and the dessert, so to be referred to as a taster is a total insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I really do. I'm not an experience. I'm not something for your bucket list. I'm a woman with feelings and a heart and the same need for respect and affection as anyone else. I don't object to the term bbw so much. But this bucket list attitude feels almost dehumanising to me.

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee


"I love large ladies jus saying big girls you are beautiful xxxx

Awwww thank you! I think all body types are beautiful in their own way "

This

Weather you're voluptuous, slim or anything in between we all have "it"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Being of the more voluptuous nature myself, I'm an all or nothing kinda girl. I'm the starter, the main course and the dessert, so to be referred to as a taster is a total insult. "

Totally love this!! Well said xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. I really do. I'm not an experience. I'm not something for your bucket list. I'm a woman with feelings and a heart and the same need for respect and affection as anyone else. I don't object to the term bbw so much. But this bucket list attitude feels almost dehumanising to me. "

That’s exactly how I felt when I got the message! I thought I was maybe being hyper sensitive......so glad I wasn’t over reacting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it highly insulting they’re fetishising the fact that you’ve more weight on you in comparison of another and that it will be different sex is sex at the end of the day irrespective of I’ve more cushioning or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love large ladies jus saying big girls you are beautiful xxxx

Awwww thank you! I think all body types are beautiful in their own way

This

Weather you're voluptuous, slim or anything in between we all have "it" "

Yes we most certainly do, some have it in abundance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it highly insulting they’re fetishising the fact that you’ve more weight on you in comparison of another and that it will be different sex is sex at the end of the day irrespective of I’ve more cushioning or not "

Yep surely my body is the same as a size 10 only with some extra padding! How can that possibly be any different?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. I really do. I'm not an experience. I'm not something for your bucket list. I'm a woman with feelings and a heart and the same need for respect and affection as anyone else. I don't object to the term bbw so much. But this bucket list attitude feels almost dehumanising to me.

That’s exactly how I felt when I got the message! I thought I was maybe being hyper sensitive......so glad I wasn’t over reacting lol "

You're not. And any man who talks to you like your a box to tick on a list doesn't deserve a second of your time.

If I'm gonna let a guy fuck me it's because he cannot belieeeeeeve his luck, because he wants to fuck me because its me, not because he thinks it would be kinky to play with someone who looks like me, as if I'm some kind of tabboo.

Yeah sure, maybe he doesn't mean to offend. But good intentions aren't all it takes to turn me on. And ignorant delivery is enough to turn me off.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Very little difference from being with a skinny woman imo.. All split with the same hatchet

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee


"I love large ladies jus saying big girls you are beautiful xxxx

Awwww thank you! I think all body types are beautiful in their own way

This

Weather you're voluptuous, slim or anything in between we all have "it"

Yes we most certainly do, some have it in abundance "

Lol.. you sure do!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hear what you are saying! I’m proud to call myself a big beautiful woman because In my eyes that’s what I am and that’s what matters. But I do take on board your comments and yes, perhaps I’m doing myself no favours in using the bbw profile name. I’ve always thought though that it was an honest description of myself and therefore not hiding the fact x"

To be fair you should be able to call yourself anything you want without it being a defining characteristic.

But realistically it will attract a certain element.

Like if you called yourself milf or cougar its going to attract the fuckit bucket list gang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. I really do. I'm not an experience. I'm not something for your bucket list. I'm a woman with feelings and a heart and the same need for respect and affection as anyone else. I don't object to the term bbw so much. But this bucket list attitude feels almost dehumanising to me.

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The bucket list attitude is a feature for many here, and not just men. We all have to discern for ourselves whether or not a person is treating us as a human, not an object, I'm not sure this necessarily excludes the experience being a "bucket list" one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. I really do. I'm not an experience. I'm not something for your bucket list. I'm a woman with feelings and a heart and the same need for respect and affection as anyone else. I don't object to the term bbw so much. But this bucket list attitude feels almost dehumanising to me.

The bucket list attitude is a feature for many here, and not just men. We all have to discern for ourselves whether or not a person is treating us as a human, not an object, I'm not sure this necessarily excludes the experience being a "bucket list" one. "

Yes. And this is part of how I make that call. Given that I am a "fellow bbw" I was just offering my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not here to be "tried" as if I'm some sort of weird and strange thing. Speaking about me like a vehicle being taken for test drive is insulting.

Even if it is clumsy wording, if the person delivering them can't see how how that could come across then they can toddle on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not here to be "tried" as if I'm some sort of weird and strange thing. Speaking about me like a vehicle being taken for test drive is insulting.

Even if it is clumsy wording, if the person delivering them can't see how how that could come across then they can toddle on"

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I wouldn’t necessarily find it offensive. But it also wouldn’t appeal to me in the slightest. Like most people here. I want to have fun with someone that is genuinely attracted to me and not just wanting to try something different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not here to be "tried" as if I'm some sort of weird and strange thing. Speaking about me like a vehicle being taken for test drive is insulting.

Even if it is clumsy wording, if the person delivering them can't see how how that could come across then they can toddle on"

Exactly I’m not some kind of freak show on display!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very little difference from being with a skinny woman imo.. All split with the same hatchet"

Charming lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I replied to said ‘gentleman’ and he was utterly amazed that I found his message offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I replied to said ‘gentleman’ and he was utterly amazed that I found his message offensive. "

They usually are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep. I really do. I'm not an experience. I'm not something for your bucket list. I'm a woman with feelings and a heart and the same need for respect and affection as anyone else. I don't object to the term bbw so much. But this bucket list attitude feels almost dehumanising to me.

That’s exactly how I felt when I got the message! I thought I was maybe being hyper sensitive......so glad I wasn’t over reacting lol

You're not. And any man who talks to you like your a box to tick on a list doesn't deserve a second of your time.

If I'm gonna let a guy fuck me it's because he cannot belieeeeeeve his luck, because he wants to fuck me because its me, not because he thinks it would be kinky to play with someone who looks like me, as if I'm some kind of tabboo.

Yeah sure, maybe he doesn't mean to offend. But good intentions aren't all it takes to turn me on. And ignorant delivery is enough to turn me off. "

Love this message and you are absolutely stunning! Any man would be lucky to catch your eye

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I replied to said ‘gentleman’ and he was utterly amazed that I found his message offensive. "

Doesn't surprise me

And I can't help wondering how it would pan out if he "tried it" and didn't like it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"So I replied to said ‘gentleman’ and he was utterly amazed that I found his message offensive. "

A man this clueless about how women work would have been a shitty fuck anyway.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"

Ye definitely not the best approach for a guy. Definitely would not be meeting. It's also like oh you're old so I bet you can teach me lots of new tricks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I replied to said ‘gentleman’ and he was utterly amazed that I found his message offensive.

Doesn't surprise me

And I can't help wondering how it would pan out if he "tried it" and didn't like it "

I’m not gonna be his ‘trial run’ anytime soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I replied to said ‘gentleman’ and he was utterly amazed that I found his message offensive.

A man this clueless about how women work would have been a shitty fuck anyway."

Agreed lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Ye definitely not the best approach for a guy. Definitely would not be meeting. It's also like oh you're old so I bet you can teach me lots of new tricks. "

Christ I hate that too Bo! I wouldn’t waste my time!!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Ye definitely not the best approach for a guy. Definitely would not be meeting. It's also like oh you're old so I bet you can teach me lots of new tricks.

Christ I hate that too Bo! I wouldn’t waste my time!!"

Yep I'm the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hear what you are saying! I’m proud to call myself a big beautiful woman because In my eyes that’s what I am and that’s what matters. But I do take on board your comments and yes, perhaps I’m doing myself no favours in using the bbw profile name. I’ve always thought though that it was an honest description of myself and therefore not hiding the fact x

To be fair you should be able to call yourself anything you want without it being a defining characteristic.

But realistically it will attract a certain element.

Like if you called yourself milf or cougar its going to attract the fuckit bucket list gang."

Now there's a band name!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn't be too offended as he's just being honest but he worded it in the wrong way. I wouldn't want to meet him though.

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By *ewitched1Woman
over a year ago

Close to you


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"

I have to say nope I wouldn't be offended at all, I've heard all sorts and at this stage it's like water off a ducks behind

What I will say though is that if I received that type of mail I certainly wouldn't be answering it!

We can't all be everyone's cup of tea but there is someone(or more than one ) for everyone, we just need to stop being so judgemental and narrow minded

Happy hump day

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By *ustomdaveMan
over a year ago

Athlone


"People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across

I mean I know being over weight is still not seen as ‘the norm’ within society but we aren’t freaks lol"

I kinda like freaky BBW's tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

I have to say nope I wouldn't be offended at all, I've heard all sorts and at this stage it's like water off a ducks behind

What I will say though is that if I received that type of mail I certainly wouldn't be answering it!

We can't all be everyone's cup of tea but there is someone(or more than one ) for everyone, we just need to stop being so judgemental and narrow minded

Happy hump day "

Unfortunately being judgemental and narrow minded seems to be an all too familiar trait with the vast majority of people in general

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across

I mean I know being over weight is still not seen as ‘the norm’ within society but we aren’t freaks lol

I kinda like freaky BBW's tbh "

Define ‘freaky bbw’ lol

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By *ustomdaveMan
over a year ago

Athlone


"People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across

I mean I know being over weight is still not seen as ‘the norm’ within society but we aren’t freaks lol

I kinda like freaky BBW's tbh

Define ‘freaky bbw’ lol "

Ahhh ya know the type... lots of curves to explore and enjoy...5'10", and into roleplay..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across

I mean I know being over weight is still not seen as ‘the norm’ within society but we aren’t freaks lol

I kinda like freaky BBW's tbh

Define ‘freaky bbw’ lol

Ahhh ya know the type... lots of curves to explore and enjoy...5'10", and into roleplay.. "

Hmmmmm description sounds vaguely familiar

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By *ary-JaneWoman
over a year ago

mid ulster

The comment it's self would put me of meeting this person. ... just not for me....

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By *amalusMan
over a year ago

Tullamore

If someone said that to me I'd turn them away, it's fierce fucking dodgy. I'm not a woman but as a man who's chunky I don't appreciate my body type being something you "try and see if you like it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across

I mean I know being over weight is still not seen as ‘the norm’ within society but we aren’t freaks lol

I kinda like freaky BBW's tbh

Define ‘freaky bbw’ lol

Ahhh ya know the type... lots of curves to explore and enjoy...5'10", and into roleplay.. "

Dudes smooth AF

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone said that to me I'd turn them away, it's fierce fucking dodgy. I'm not a woman but as a man who's chunky I don't appreciate my body type being something you "try and see if you like it" "

Too right.....and then to feign shock at the fact I didn’t respond positively kinda shows him for what he is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across

I mean I know being over weight is still not seen as ‘the norm’ within society but we aren’t freaks lol

I kinda like freaky BBW's tbh

Define ‘freaky bbw’ lol

Ahhh ya know the type... lots of curves to explore and enjoy...5'10", and into roleplay..

Dudes smooth AF "

You writing all this down? For future ref

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By *ustomdaveMan
over a year ago

Athlone


"People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across

I mean I know being over weight is still not seen as ‘the norm’ within society but we aren’t freaks lol

I kinda like freaky BBW's tbh

Define ‘freaky bbw’ lol

Ahhh ya know the type... lots of curves to explore and enjoy...5'10", and into roleplay..

Dudes smooth AF "

Thank you Padwan

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By *ustomdaveMan
over a year ago

Athlone


"People have a way with words. But I think it would be sent that way to offend.

I can see how it may offend but sure in most cases that's the last thing the author had intended to come across

I mean I know being over weight is still not seen as ‘the norm’ within society but we aren’t freaks lol

I kinda like freaky BBW's tbh

Define ‘freaky bbw’ lol

Ahhh ya know the type... lots of curves to explore and enjoy...5'10", and into roleplay..

Hmmmmm description sounds vaguely familiar "

And is Sexy A.F...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a lover of gorgeous curvy beautiful women, I would consider such an approach utterly unacceptable. Some men these days are, to say the least, infantile. Sadly, it is probably my generation of “new” parents which has created the monster!!!! All women with the courage to engage in this lifestyle deserve respect. Unfortunately, too many men seem to view their attraction to gorgeous curvy beautiful women as some sort of schoolboy fetish as opposed to simply an attraction in the normal sense. Simply block those idiots and celebrate your stunning figures!!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

I'm sorry it's a no for me if worded like that...if hes had sex before he should know what it's like no matter what type of body figure you have ....btw your photos are fab"

Yes, amazing photos!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"
personally would be the block button for me. Lovely pics by the way. Plenty of men like their women with curves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?personally would be the block button for me. Lovely pics by the way. Plenty of men like their women with curves "

He was blocked then created another profile....arsehole lol xx

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"

Not offensive just plain stupid. What a dick.

Great pics btw. X

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

it didn't sound right the way it was worded but bbw is a big beautiful woman and I for one will always notice a lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Not offensive just plain stupid. What a dick.

Great pics btw. X"

Thanks chick as are yours xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Not offensive just plain stupid. What a dick.

Great pics btw. X"

how would you say not offensive of course its offensive just tell them to fuck off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it didn't sound right the way it was worded but bbw is a big beautiful woman and I for one will always notice a lady"

It could have been worded a hell of a lot better......infact it didn’t even need to be worded at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Not offensive just plain stupid. What a dick.

Great pics btw. Xhow would you say not offensive of course its offensive just tell them to fuck off

"

I did, but politely!

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

true' lesson learned I hope'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"true' lesson learned I hope'"

Doubtful lol

There will always be another one

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

well believe in yourself ''

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Not offensive just plain stupid. What a dick.

Great pics btw. Xhow would you say not offensive of course its offensive just tell them to fuck off

"

Because it wouldn't offend me. In saying that very little offends me these days.

It says more about the person who wrote it than the person who received it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Not offensive just plain stupid. What a dick.

Great pics btw. Xhow would you say not offensive of course its offensive just tell them to fuck off

Because it wouldn't offend me. In saying that very little offends me these days.

It says more about the person who wrote it than the person who received it."

I find your lack of offense offensive

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Not offensive just plain stupid. What a dick.

Great pics btw. Xhow would you say not offensive of course its offensive just tell them to fuck off

Because it wouldn't offend me. In saying that very little offends me these days.

It says more about the person who wrote it than the person who received it.

I find your lack of offense offensive"

You go think up a better name and behave yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

Not offensive just plain stupid. What a dick.

Great pics btw. Xhow would you say not offensive of course its offensive just tell them to fuck off

Because it wouldn't offend me. In saying that very little offends me these days.

It says more about the person who wrote it than the person who received it.

I find your lack of offense offensive"

I’m offended by your offensiveness at the lack of offence taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100 % id find this offensive xx

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By *atdieonMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"
some guys just don’t think before the speak or type . Chances are he doesn’t even see how it could be perceived as been offensive. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes Male and Female . Keep the faith and keep posting those pics you’re a hot sexy lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?some guys just don’t think before the speak or type . Chances are he doesn’t even see how it could be perceived as been offensive. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes Male and Female . Keep the faith and keep posting those pics you’re a hot sexy lady "

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a lady with curves in all the right places. Fab pics by the way ??

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"

Well you know my take on this topic from previous thread lol but anyone that is coming out with that really needs to work on his wording il keep saying it ye are not personal play toys you are human beings and should be treated like one like if your happy with the way your body is that's perfectly fine but you don't need people to keep pointing it out to you your absolutely stunning and would absolutely love to meet you sometime if you wanted to of course

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Yep it's damn rude and when they say it about me being a black woman as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?"

I think for some men that say that it’s like they want to tick it off their list. For me personally, bbw, is the only way

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

I think for some men that say that it’s like they want to tick it off their list. For me personally, bbw, is the only way "

But it don't need to be pointed out to them everytime just cos it's on a guys list of things to tick off some details can be kept to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep it's damn rude and when they say it about me being a black woman as well. "

Wait hold up.......

Your a woman?

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Yep it's damn rude and when they say it about me being a black woman as well. "

How I see it you could whatever color or size it wouldn't matter to me in the slightest if we get on grand then that's enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a man says “ oh I’ve never been with a bbw before, I’d like to try it and see if I like it” ...... do you find this offensive?

I think for some men that say that it’s like they want to tick it off their list. For me personally, bbw, is the only way

But it don't need to be pointed out to them everytime just cos it's on a guys list of things to tick off some details can be kept to yourself "

Agreed

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

all the above ladies are looking fab' love looking at yer pictures' keep posting them please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"all the above ladies are looking fab' love looking at yer pictures' keep posting them please"

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

it true '

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