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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people mean alcohol or coffee or what's the preference?

I had a meet cancel on me and subsequently block me after a build up of about 4 weeks chatting ... for not planning to drink alcohol on Sunday evening (driving and work the next morning)

Is that a normal response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do non alcoholic cos I don't drink. But I think some people like a bit of Dutch courage.

Seems like cancelling and blocking is a bit ott over something like that but there's some real weirdos here so nothing surprises me anymore.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Ok thats weird. We dont drink so even if we planned to meet someone in a pub it would 7up or whatever for us. If someone decided to block us because we wouldnt drink at a social id consider it a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I much prefer non alcoholic meets. Couldn't believe their response and I was driving to meet them as well!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

None queerer than folk at time

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Counterblock and onwards op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well at least I know it's not me going mad. Was a shame after 4 weeks flirting but sure that's life

Thanks very much ??

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By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

We have done both coffee and alcohol social meets, whatever the other people prefer at the time so we don't mind either being honest. We go with the flow. The way we look at it is time off is precious and if we could do a social meet while on a night out is win win. As for blocking, we have blocked people if we don't clique for the only reason that if we are not compatible why make a furture mistake of either of us contacting eachother again. No offence meant, but seems some people get very offended by this.

EireCpl

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Well at least I know it's not me going mad. Was a shame after 4 weeks flirting but sure that's life

Thanks very much ??"

U will get that. I think everybody has been through it at some stage or other on here

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

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Done either depends on time and where meeting. If i was driving id do coffee but if i was staying over in hotel or the likes I’d have a drink sopose it depends on everyone Each to there own some people think they have to drink to have the courage or confidance

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im away for a few days in April and staying in a hotel ill be having a few drinks if who ever meets me wants to not drink wouldn't bother me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im away for a few days in April and staying in a hotel ill be having a few drinks if who ever meets me wants to not drink wouldn't bother me...."

Must book me hols

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By *igblueyamMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Hi Lolly.. what direction are you going? Coffee or whiskey meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there any social meets in the West? Genuinely curious to get to know the scene around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair you have "don't drink" on your profile, OP, so it seems even more unreasonable to not only assume you would but to cancel on you because of it!

I don't personally drink [alcohol] but would never begrudge someone doing so themselves if we met; within reason

I don't think anyone would either way. Maybe it was more a case of cold feet and they just used something small as an excuse.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Im away for a few days in April and staying in a hotel ill be having a few drinks if who ever meets me wants to not drink wouldn't bother me....

Must book me hols "

Destination Buncrana

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Hi Lolly.. what direction are you going? Coffee or whiskey meet?"

Big Woman Big Pints

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Hi Lolly.. what direction are you going? Coffee or whiskey meet?

Big Woman Big Pints "

Big woman...Big Pants

????

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Hi Lolly.. what direction are you going? Coffee or whiskey meet?

Big Woman Big Pints

Big woman...Big Pants

????"

Go wan ye cheeky hooor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people mean alcohol or coffee or what's the preference?

I had a meet cancel on me and subsequently block me after a build up of about 4 weeks chatting ... for not planning to drink alcohol on Sunday evening (driving and work the next morning)

Is that a normal response? "

Maybe consider yourself lucky.

Does it mean then that they only meet Alcohol drinkers

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin


"Do people mean alcohol or coffee or what's the preference?

I had a meet cancel on me and subsequently block me after a build up of about 4 weeks chatting ... for not planning to drink alcohol on Sunday evening (driving and work the next morning)

Is that a normal response?

Maybe consider yourself lucky.

Does it mean then that they only meet Alcohol drinkers "

Probably only drink alcohol so they can tolerate each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people mean alcohol or coffee or what's the preference?

I had a meet cancel on me and subsequently block me after a build up of about 4 weeks chatting ... for not planning to drink alcohol on Sunday evening (driving and work the next morning)

Is that a normal response?

Maybe consider yourself lucky.

Does it mean then that they only meet Alcohol drinkers

Probably only drink alcohol so they can tolerate each other "

Well that's enticing indeed...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After 4 weeks chatting and exchanging pictures etc. And being very forward, they should have mentioned it. I do drink but definitely not midweek or school nights. Weekends only. But I'm not worried because somebody else fucked me sober offf tinder Sunday evening But I was just curious what people thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They were very shocked when I told them I'd be driving to meet them. Themselves drinking didn't bother me but me not drinking obviously bothered them. You'd think they woas over the course of 4 weeks flirting But somebody else decided to pounce on me sober Sunday evening instead so not that worried. Just curious what people thought.

Thank you all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They were very shocked when I told them I'd be driving to meet them. Themselves drinking didn't bother me but me not drinking obviously bothered them. You'd think they would check over the course of 4 weeks flirting But somebody else decided to pounce on me sober Sunday evening instead so not that bothered. Just curious what people thought.

Thank you all

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