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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do ladys actually like guys with dad bods or curvy guys ???? Ladies whats yer preference ..... athletic bodys or guys with a dad bod and muscles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*raises hand

Love a dad bod!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I do have a liking for an athletic bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something about the word curvy feels wrong when talking about a dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something about the word curvy feels wrong when talking about a dude"

I think cuddley is the word widely used term for us gents. Or "aww look... here comes my teddy bear"

Get the funk out !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol u are right.... that should have read " rugby bod" ????????

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By *ymbunny35Woman
over a year ago

Cork

Love a dad bod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do have a liking for an athletic bod"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do ladys actually like guys with dad bods or curvy guys ???? Ladies whats yer preference ..... athletic bodys or guys with a dad bod and muscles "

Athletic body’s intimidate me

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By *ottie00Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Oh I do like a dad bod or muscles, with broad shoulders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad to three children & I’ve a fantastic dad bod. You’ve got to look after yourself coz no one else will.

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

As long as your happy in yourself , then it really doesn’t matter. What other people prefer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something about the word curvy feels wrong when talking about a dude

I think cuddley is the word widely used term for us gents. Or "aww look... here comes my teddy bear"

Get the funk out !!!"

Teddy bear is a term i use when i call my brother lol

I think dad's bod is sexy too.

I mostly pay attention for other things that that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad to three children & I’ve a fantastic dad bod. You’ve got to look after yourself coz no one else will. "

Dad or mum bod - the same rule applies.

Nobody is perfect but all ours imperfections make us sexy and attractive. Maybe not for everyone but definitely each of us can find the perfect match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dad to three children & I’ve a fantastic dad bod. You’ve got to look after yourself coz no one else will.

Dad or mum bod - the same rule applies.

Nobody is perfect but all ours imperfections make us sexy and attractive. Maybe not for everyone but definitely each of us can find the perfect match "

Very true.

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By *eepimpactMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Dad to three children & I’ve a fantastic dad bod. You’ve got to look after yourself coz no one else will.

Dad or mum bod - the same rule applies.

Nobody is perfect but all ours imperfections make us sexy and attractive. Maybe not for everyone but definitely each of us can find the perfect match "

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Of course some like a dads bod, cause they think they are ugly and its the best they can do.

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By *hris For Long NightsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Anyone any advice on bulking a bit? I find myself a bit thinner than id like wvwn though I regularly exercise

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Anyone any advice on bulking a bit? I find myself a bit thinner than id like wvwn though I regularly exercise "

All the protein you eat is going to your dick.

Only one way to get big, if you can lift a weight more than 12 reps, increase the weight, lift as big as you can as many times as you can, and if its 12 times its too light.

Takes ages.

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By *rgasmo87Man
over a year ago

Ballynahinch Area


"*raises hand

Love a dad bod! "
I've more a grandad bod lol damn

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Something about the word curvy feels wrong when talking about a dude"

Ah sure the word curvy is widely misused

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not a dad but my body is what it is. It doesn’t define me and ultimately no matter what sort of body you have there isn’t one type that appeals to all. Just be the best version of yourself

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Something about the word curvy feels wrong when talking about a dude

Ah sure the word curvy is widely misused "

I think alot of words are misused on here especially when people describe themselves as "athletic or slim"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like extremes of physique in either direction, average is perfectly fine.

I am partial to fairly tall men though.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"Of course some like a dads bod, cause they think they are ugly and its the best they can do."

So what your saying is that any female that likes a dad bod is ugly?

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Something about the word curvy feels wrong when talking about a dude

Ah sure the word curvy is widely misused

I think alot of words are misused on here especially when people describe themselves as "athletic or slim" "

Totally agree with you there lolly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something about the word curvy feels wrong when talking about a dude

Ah sure the word curvy is widely misused

I think alot of words are misused on here especially when people describe themselves as "athletic or slim" "

Ah I couldnt care less what somebody wants to call themselves, to be honest I think the body type selection should be removed anyway.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I don't like extremes of physique in either direction, average is perfectly fine.

I am partial to fairly tall men though. "

This! but scrap the tall preference, I replace that with 'fabulous stamina is a must'.

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

I'm not sure I have a preference tbh. Have been attracted to all sorts in my time!

But definitely would prefer a man taller than me....which isn't really an issue with my height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure I have a preference tbh. Have been attracted to all sorts in my time!

But definitely would prefer a man taller than me....which isn't really an issue with my height "

I'm the same height as you and prefer men 5'10" upwards

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I like just normal I guess dad bods if you want to call them that I agree with what Casey said I'm not into extremes on either end of the scale either.

For me it's not so much about body type tho it's about how I get on with someone more than anything else. But nice pics will definitely grab my attention first like everyone on here it's the first thing you see of someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately we live in an age where people are made to continually feel inadequate, be it their height, their weight, their hair, the colour of their skin, the size of their bum, their nose, their boobs or their penis and it’s all down to peer pressure on social media.

It is very true that there is someone out there for everyone regardless of your shape, your height, your weight or your political persuasion!

The most important thing in life is to be nice to one another. If someone is down, lonely or just not able to smoke, lend them one of yours!!!

Have a good weekend everyone and always remember .... life’s too short to iron your knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile... not smoke for goodness sakes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately we live in an age where people are made to continually feel inadequate, be it their height, their weight, their hair, the colour of their skin, the size of their bum, their nose, their boobs or their penis and it’s all down to peer pressure on social media.

It is very true that there is someone out there for everyone regardless of your shape, your height, your weight or your political persuasion!

The most important thing in life is to be nice to one another. If someone is down, lonely or just not able to smoke, lend them one of yours!!!

Have a good weekend everyone and always remember .... life’s too short to iron your knickers "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smile... not smoke for goodness sakes!!! "

I was fucking wondering.....

Great post above

Id argue the feelings of inadequacy predate social media, but certainly amplified by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait what....

...... Life's too short to smoke your knickers.... ???

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By *lerkin8Man
over a year ago

sligo

How would one describe a dad bod?? I get the feeling everyone has a different opinion on what it looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would one describe a dad bod?? I get the feeling everyone has a different opinion on what it looks like"

Not gym fit, maybe carrying an extra stone or two, but not obese.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smile... not smoke for goodness sakes!!!

I was fucking wondering.....

Great post above

Id argue the feelings of inadequacy predate social media, but certainly amplified by it"

I concur. I remember as a young boy (many years ago) when you went to school and didn’t wear the “in” things you were looked down upon so yes, this social stigma has been going on long before social media

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By *ireandsaltCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"How would one describe a dad bod?? I get the feeling everyone has a different opinion on what it looks like"

I have a beautiful hard six pack hidden behind a soft protective cover just in case someone hurt themselves on it. I’m slightly under height for my weight at the moment. Fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smile... not smoke for goodness sakes!!!

I was fucking wondering.....

Great post above

Id argue the feelings of inadequacy predate social media, but certainly amplified by it

I concur. I remember as a young boy (many years ago) when you went to school and didn’t wear the “in” things you were looked down upon so yes, this social stigma has been going on long before social media "

I remember it well too (although not as a boy)

I do think it is quite relentless now though with constant access to social media. At least when we went home from school we got a few hours respite - or it switched to family members running us down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would one describe a dad bod?? I get the feeling everyone has a different opinion on what it looks like

I have a beautiful hard six pack hidden behind a soft protective cover just in case someone hurt themselves on it. I’m slightly under height for my weight at the moment. Fire. "

Not overweight, just undertall? I hear ya!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smile... not smoke for goodness sakes!!!

I was fucking wondering.....

Great post above

Id argue the feelings of inadequacy predate social media, but certainly amplified by it

I concur. I remember as a young boy (many years ago) when you went to school and didn’t wear the “in” things you were looked down upon so yes, this social stigma has been going on long before social media

I remember it well too (although not as a boy)

I do think it is quite relentless now though with constant access to social media. At least when we went home from school we got a few hours respite - or it switched to family members running us down "

Absolutely this!!!

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"Anyone any advice on bulking a bit? I find myself a bit thinner than id like wvwn though I regularly exercise

All the protein you eat is going to your dick.

Only one way to get big, if you can lift a weight more than 12 reps, increase the weight, lift as big as you can as many times as you can, and if its 12 times its too light.

Takes ages."

To a certain point maybe but this advice isnt exactly true....1st thing....if you wish to get bigger you need to eat more calories than you expel during a day...not any ol crap...keep yourself as right as you can....macros and all that...try like around 500 extra calories than you usually take and see how that hoes after a few weeks,see how that goes...your only looking to increase mass by bout 1-2lbs a week...btw its the same the other way...

You can build muscle with lighter weights if your doing the right exercises...but if you can keep the big compound lifts in then all the better..ie..barbell squats,deadlifts...bench press(btw a cable incline press is the best there is overall engagement,stretch and growth....throw that in after heavy flat bench).dips for lower chest

and pullups/chinups should be in there for total body compound moves...

German volume training might be a way to go for you....10 sets of 10 is the standard with 1 min rest between sets...google that...that may help you out...but yes you can certainly acheive growth with lighter weight not just sticking to the old 6-12reps for hypertrophy....sometimes its a case of an exercise to failure...just not the likes of bar squats,deadlifts,barbell bench....machines/cables yes cause you have that safe net....dropsets too for added volume

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I will stop what I am doing and follow the advice above, havent done a chinup in a while.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Of course some like a dads bod, cause they think they are ugly and its the best they can do.

So what your saying is that any female that likes a dad bod is ugly?

"

No I said "think they are ugly", they are probably pretty and can do better than a dad bod and are just selling themselves short.

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford


"Something about the word curvy feels wrong when talking about a dude"

not something.... everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really think any body types, always tends to be more the person than the body I go for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will stop what I am doing and follow the advice above, havent done a chinup in a while."

Ya Id do what he fucking told me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking big doesn't automatically mean your strong I'm 5'7 11 and a half stone I can deadlift and squat 3 times my own body weight bench twice it and yet I'm called skinny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus being big isn't everything good flexibility mobility and a level of fitness is just as if not more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking big doesn't automatically mean your strong I'm 5'7 11 and a half stone I can deadlift and squat 3 times my own body weight bench twice it and yet I'm called skinny "

Even though I hate to get on the way of a great humble brag.......

Where did anyone above talk about bekng big being the shit?

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

I have a six pack .....

Waiting in the fridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a six pack .....

Waiting in the fridge "

Sharing is caring

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Tbh I don't go for one or the other if I can have a laugh with ya then I like ya ..I've been with muscular lads and they had the personality of a wet sponge so turned me right off. Make me laugh and your in simple..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I don't go for one or the other if I can have a laugh with ya then I like ya ..I've been with muscular lads and they had the personality of a wet sponge so turned me right off. Make me laugh and your in simple.."

Spongebob is a ledge you take that back

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"Tbh I don't go for one or the other if I can have a laugh with ya then I like ya ..I've been with muscular lads and they had the personality of a wet sponge so turned me right off. Make me laugh and your in simple..

Spongebob is a ledge you take that back"

If he had the pwes of SpongeBob I would have rode him there and then

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"Tbh I don't go for one or the other if I can have a laugh with ya then I like ya ..I've been with muscular lads and they had the personality of a wet sponge so turned me right off. Make me laugh and your in simple..

Spongebob is a ledge you take that back

If he had the pwes of SpongeBob I would have rode him there and then"

Personality

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

Not sure where I fit in here...

If you knew me years ago vs now.

You'd notice a midlife drift coming in. Not that it's ever really going to be a problem...

So I'm a dad bod based on just being a dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do ladys actually like guys with dad bods or curvy guys ???? Ladies whats yer preference ..... athletic bodys or guys with a dad bod and muscles "

I love cwtching(Welsh for hugging) a dad bod after making him come, love squeezing and playing with bigger guys, I know there are many girls that do

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