FabSwingers.com forum: Just putting this out there...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All.

I rejoined fab 3 weeks ago.. The amount of status i have seen from people feeling down/alone is scary..

Im just putting this out there.. You are not alone theres always someone willing to listen..

I have opened my profile up so anyone who needs a chat.. A listening ear feel free to message me...

This is not a White Knight post.. Its just me letting people know.. Its OK not to be OK ..

Thank you for taking the time to read my post ... Happy Fabbing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play OP.....

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

That's rather lovely OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All.

I rejoined fab 3 weeks ago.. The amount of status i have seen from people feeling down/alone is scary..

Im just putting this out there.. You are not alone theres always someone willing to listen..

I have opened my profile up so anyone who needs a chat.. A listening ear feel free to message me...

This is not a White Knight post.. Its just me letting people know.. Its OK not to be OK ..

Thank you for taking the time to read my post ... Happy Fabbing xx"

Genuinely lovely message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's the time of year Stevie. Have chatted to a few friends over the last week and it's like the weather has sucked the life out of us all.

But yes just talk to someone teach out, even on here there are some lovely people who are willing to listen.

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

"Hi All.

I rejoined fab 3 weeks ago.. The amount of status i have seen from people feeling down/alone is scary..

Im just putting this out there.. You are not alone theres always someone willing to listen..

I have opened my profile up so anyone who needs a chat.. A listening ear feel free to message me...

This is not a White Knight post.. Its just me letting people know.. Its OK not to be OK ..

Thank you for taking the time to read my post ... Happy Fabbing xx"

I'm here as well if someone wants to talk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think it's the time of year Stevie. Have chatted to a few friends over the last week and it's like the weather has sucked the life out of us all.

But yes just talk to someone teach out, even on here there are some lovely people who are willing to listen.

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Agree DD

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

Fair play OP.

My inbox has few people you're talking about.

"You are making me smile" was one of the nice messages, from someone who's slowly coming back to her previous state

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes indeed op fair play and fuck no one knows more than I do what it's like to go through a tough time especially the last few months, its ok to be down and out out folks but the important thing is not to stay down...talk

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

We've been genuinely re-examining fab over the last few days, a lot of negativity.. But fair play OP, fab is a community, and that community needs people like you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been genuinely re-examining fab over the last few days, a lot of negativity.. But fair play OP, fab is a community, and that community needs people like you x"

Needs people like you as well not because your a hot looking couple but because you seem like lovely folk, it's not all about the riding

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

I want to say a big thank you for all people who sent me lots of warm words and prayers when Miss Smokey needed your support, you have proven you are her truly friends and heroes. You know who you are but the person responsible for her endless smile and laugh is Kaizer and his funny posts.

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"We've been genuinely re-examining fab over the last few days, a lot of negativity.. But fair play OP, fab is a community, and that community needs people like you x

Needs people like you as well not because your a hot looking couple but because you seem like lovely folk, it's not all about the riding

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I want to say a big thank you for all people who sent me lots of warm words and prayers when Miss Smokey needed your support, you have proven you are her truly friends and heroes. You know who you are but the person responsible for her endless smile and laugh is Kaizer and his funny posts.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

That fecker always gets the kudos

No, seriously, anyone who can put a smile on anyone else's face is worth it.

Even just a lift in their mood is enough.

Fair play OP and others who are ready to listen.

Of course, I also continue my daily worship of the Kaizer posts. Man is a legend

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

That fecker always gets the kudos

No, seriously, anyone who can put a smile on anyone else's face is worth it.

Even just a lift in their mood is enough.

Fair play OP and others who are ready to listen.

Of course, I also continue my daily worship of the Kaizer posts. Man is a legend

He probably knew it will make her smiling and laughing

Please do not forget they annoyed each other every time hahaha They have master degree of annoyance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That fecker always gets the kudos

No, seriously, anyone who can put a smile on anyone else's face is worth it.

Even just a lift in their mood is enough.

Fair play OP and others who are ready to listen.

Of course, I also continue my daily worship of the Kaizer posts. Man is a legend

Smiling Is Infectious

Author Unknown

Smiling is infectious,

you catch it like the flu,

When someone smiled at me today,

I started smiling too.

I passed around the corner

and someone saw my grin.

When he smiled I realized

I'd passed it on to him.

I thought about that smile,

then I realized its worth.

A single smile, just like mine

could travel round the earth.

So, if you feel a smile begin,

don't leave it undetected.

Let's start an epidemic quick,

and get the world infected!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

That fecker always gets the kudos

No, seriously, anyone who can put a smile on anyone else's face is worth it.

Even just a lift in their mood is enough.

Fair play OP and others who are ready to listen.

Of course, I also continue my daily worship of the Kaizer posts. Man is a legend

Smiling Is Infectious

Author Unknown

Smiling is infectious,

you catch it like the flu,

When someone smiled at me today,

I started smiling too.

I passed around the corner

and someone saw my grin.

When he smiled I realized

I'd passed it on to him.

I thought about that smile,

then I realized its worth.

A single smile, just like mine

could travel round the earth.

So, if you feel a smile begin,

don't leave it undetected.

Let's start an epidemic quick,

and get the world infected!

Always loved that one

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"We've been genuinely re-examining fab over the last few days, a lot of negativity.. But fair play OP, fab is a community, and that community needs people like you x"

In the same boat. Some lovely folks on here but negativity is getting to me and a break from it all may be in order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people seem to base their entire self-worth on being accepted by others in a group. I've always been a maverick individual who couldn't give a rat's ass about others opinion of me. I just do my thing. I always speak the truth, lots of people can't handle the truth as it makes them feel uncomfortable.

No negativity here, no bullshit either..

The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself-Friedrich Nietzsche

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Lots of people seem to base their entire self-worth on being accepted by others in a group. I've always been a maverick individual who couldn't give a rat's ass about others opinion of me. I just do my thing. I always speak the truth, lots of people can't handle the truth as it makes them feel uncomfortable.

No negativity here, no bullshit either..

I like it

Similarly and no less eloquent...

Plough your own furrow - an Irish farmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That fecker always gets the kudos

No, seriously, anyone who can put a smile on anyone else's face is worth it.

Even just a lift in their mood is enough.

Fair play OP and others who are ready to listen.

Of course, I also continue my daily worship of the Kaizer posts. Man is a legend

Smiling Is Infectious

Author Unknown

Smiling is infectious,

you catch it like the flu,

When someone smiled at me today,

I started smiling too.

I passed around the corner

and someone saw my grin.

When he smiled I realized

I'd passed it on to him.

I thought about that smile,

then I realized its worth.

A single smile, just like mine

could travel round the earth.

So, if you feel a smile begin,

don't leave it undetected.

Let's start an epidemic quick,

and get the world infected!

Oh how right you are with your first line.. my son (7) said something that only we understood in a chipper one day. I started giggling at what he said and before I knew what had happened about 10 people were laughing. They had no reason to laugh only that it was fun and the right thing to do in that moment.... or maybe I'm paranoid for the downers.....

Still laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies OP. I should have said thank you for the option and say the door is always open if you want to talk too.

Cant promise I can help but I can always listen, and sometimes that's all we need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smiling is infectious,

you catch it like the flu,

When someone smiled at me today,

I started smiling too.

I passed around the corner

and someone saw my grin.

When he smiled I realized

I'd passed it on to him.

I thought about that smile,

then I realized its worth.

A single smile, just like mine

could travel round the earth.

So, if you feel a smile begin,

don't leave it undetected.

Let's start an epidemic quick,

and get the world infected!

“Smile” is a poem by the late, great Spike Milligan that promotes the positivity of smiling. ... We could all do with smiling more, that is for sure. the science is pointing to the health benefits of feeling more positive. You can't help feeling better when you're smiling.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Spike Milligan!

Seriously folks, if you're ever feeling down, read one of his books.

They're

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon

Well that didn't that long!! usually suspects.Hugging the forums.typical but sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that didn't that long!! usually suspects.Hugging the forums.typical but sad"

Yes usual suspects offering an ear to those who would like to be heard. Yes, usual trolls who like to condemn those whom are willing to listen. You are right about sad, unfortunately, ypu applied the term on the wrong tense

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I think our Irish weather doesn't help. It's been a long winter, and raining non stop for weeks. Miserable is the word that comes to mind. And recently there's been a lot of very negative posts here. We can't do anything about that, we have to live in the world too. But, there are brighter days ahead, Spring is here,and the days are getting longer. I'm a good listener, and have a little warm oasis if you want to meet, man or woman, for chat or have a coffee, or chat here. We all put on the good face for our social media persona, so don't think that everybody else's life is wonderful and you're the only one not having fun/sex/love/happy family etc. Keep talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one OP . I genuinely hope that you're taken up on your offer if someone is feeling shitty in some way. Sometimes just a convo with a randomer can make all the difference so....I tip my hat and salute you good sir

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Fair play op there seems to be a lot of negativity at the moment floating about. Hopefully it will pick up soon. But that's a really kind offer and hopefully someone will take you up on it x

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

"Fair play op there seems to be a lot of negativity at the moment floating about. Hopefully it will pick up soon. But that's a really kind offer and hopefully someone will take you up on it x"
same as that im always here to chat to and hopefully help in some way or other even if people need to rant about something thats no problem at all nobody should be alone we have all needed somebody to chat to in our lives through sorrow and painful times

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By *andydevineMan
over a year ago

sligo

I blame the weather. Summer and some sun shine will not be far away heads up. Summer is coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All.

I rejoined fab 3 weeks ago.. The amount of status i have seen from people feeling down/alone is scary..

Im just putting this out there.. You are not alone theres always someone willing to listen..

I have opened my profile up so anyone who needs a chat.. A listening ear feel free to message me...

This is not a White Knight post.. Its just me letting people know.. Its OK not to be OK ..

Thank you for taking the time to read my post ... Happy Fabbing xx"

What a lovely offer. Its nice to be nice and offering an ear for others to share their problems cost nothing but helps so much.

Smiling is contageous x

Ps...fabed your sexy bum pic! ??

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Sites like these are generally filled with lost souls..id even go as far as to say broken people..nsa does nothing for ones self esteem..its simple gratification at the time but afterwards you are all alone unless you have a partner in crime that is..some people are not made for souless fucking they need love more than anything else and these are the people posting despearing statuses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All.

I rejoined fab 3 weeks ago.. The amount of status i have seen from people feeling down/alone is scary..

Im just putting this out there.. You are not alone theres always someone willing to listen..

I have opened my profile up so anyone who needs a chat.. A listening ear feel free to message me...

This is not a White Knight post.. Its just me letting people know.. Its OK not to be OK ..

Thank you for taking the time to read my post ... Happy Fabbing xx"

This is a really nice kind post. Lovely to see with all the negativity here lately. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its nice to see so many others also offering a chat or a listening ear.. Very heartwarming to say the least xx

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Great tread op think we all at some point of are life’s suffer of loneliness,great to see so many people reaching out to help others,I’m also here to chat and help anybody out

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By *rederick2000Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you

I just completed the "Save Talk" session.

If you feel down,sad,alone or anyway unwell, you can talk to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely thing to do xx miss vod

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By *at3232Woman
over a year ago

the moon

"Well that didn't that long!! usually suspects.Hugging the forums.typical but sad"

I wonder why you are not verified....

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