FabSwingers.com forum: Ddlg in cork

By *esSir78 OP Man
over a year ago

cork

Looking to chat with brat interested in Ddlg relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brats? What are they?

Only Good Girls here I'm afraid!

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By *esSir78 OP Man
over a year ago

cork

Pity...I sure you could be naughty sometimes...

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

"Looking to chat with brat interested in Ddlg relationship."

I'm tempted to Google.. But, no.... What might a Ddlg relationship look like? Give me a hint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brats? What are they?

Only Good Girls here I'm afraid!"

#addme

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

You're best off asking on the FETish site you'll get a better response. There are regular Cork munches that would be attended by some folks who might interest you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pity...I sure you could be naughty sometimes..."

Me??

Never!

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By *esSir78 OP Man
over a year ago

cork

Pure Angel??? ??

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By *elljoe 2Man
over a year ago

cork

would love to be educated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DDGL -Dominant Daddy Little Girl.

So it's basically role-playing dynamic where a younger woman usually between the age of 18-28 years assumes the role of the little brat. And the guy plays the role of her Daddy. So the brat likes to be naughty and willful, and then it falls to the Daddy to punish her for being bad, and indulge her when she's good.

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"DDGL -Dominant Daddy Little Girl.

Utter nonsense, if you tbink being a Daddy or a Little is simply a role then you display a profound misunderstanding of the dynamic involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well adult women who like to be little girls on a 24/7 basis, are usually struggling with deep psychological issues, and should seek out the services of a competent mental health professional.

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"Well adult women who like to be little girls on a 24/7 basis, are usually struggling with deep psychological issues, and should seek out the services of a competent mental health professional. "

Once again displaying a complete lack of knowledge about that which you profess to be an expert on. Being a little isn't about want to be a little girl, littles are submissives that enjoy an extra level of care and nurturing from thier dominant. But hey, why let facts and understanding get in the way of posting judgemental nonsense on a forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah you're just splitting hairs now. It's totally unnecessary to be so effing pedantic. I never claimed to be an expert on anything related to the whole BDSM/Kink scene. Secondly- most folk I know who are heavily involved in the kink community, have a history of psychological issues ranging from self-harm, depression and suicide attempts...

This is my personal experience, your personal experience and life perspective may be entirely different...

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"Ah you're just splitting hairs now. It's totally unnecessary to be so effing pedantic. I never claimed to be an expert on anything related to the whole BDSM/Kink scene. Secondly- most folk I know who are heavily involved in the kink community, have a history of psychological issues ranging from self-harm, depression and suicide attempts...

This is my personal experience, your personal experience and life perspective may be entirely different... "

You made sweeping, incorrect, and frankly insulting generalisations adout a subject, and a group of people, that you know nothing about. That's not really a good idea, now is it?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Wouldnt be the first time _rmrspump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Elaine O'Hara and Graham O' Dwyer were heavily into the whole BDSM scene. It's a matter of public record that Elaine had been suffering from psychiatric issues.

I dipped my toe in the kink scene a few years ago, met some nice enough folk, but nearly all of them were struggling with psychiatric issues. When I saw some the horrific injuries inflicted by sadist's on their submissive's, it just made me feel sick.

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"Well Elaine O'Hara and Graham O' Dwyer were heavily into the whole BDSM scene. It's a matter of public record that Elaine had been suffering from psychiatric issues.

So we, as a couple with an interest in bdsm, are obviously struggling with our mental health yeah? Well of course we are, as successful professionals with a wonderful family, obviously we're crazy!! And most of the thousands of people on this site who list bdsm as an interest are struggling with thier mental health?? Maybe try reading back what it is that you're about to post and think, does this make me sound like an idiot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know lots of professional people with reams of qualifications and successful careers who are suffering from psychiatric disorders.. Doctor's have the highest level of drug abuse, alcoholism and suicide of all professionals. I went to visit a friend in a psychiatric unit after she suffered a cerebral meltdown, due to the pressure of her career, so I don't think being a member of the well scrubbed middle classes indemnifies one from psychiatric illness... Quite to the contrary in fact..

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"I know lots of professional people with reams of qualifications and successful careers who are suffering from psychiatric disorders.. Doctor's have the highest level of drug abuse, alcoholism and suicide of all professionals. I went to visit a friend in a psychiatric unit after she suffered a cerebral meltdown, due to the pressure of her career, so I don't think being a member of the well scrubbed middle classes indemnifies one from psychiatric illness... Quite to the contrary in fact.."

Either, you really don't know when to stop, or your just a troll, I suspect it's the later. Either way, further interaction with you is pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm sure there are quite a few sane people who are into the BDSM scene, but in my humble opinion most of the sadist's are narcissists, psychopaths and sociopaths. And most of submissive's are vulnerable people who desperately need the help of the mental health services, a service that is sadly lacking in this country unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I'm sure there are quite a few sane people who are into the BDSM scene, but in my humble opinion most of the sadist's are narcissists, psychopaths and sociopaths. And most of submissive's are vulnerable people who desperately need the help of the mental health services, a service that is sadly lacking in this country unfortunately. "

you haven't a bloody clue at all what your on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're best off asking on the FETish site you'll get a better response. There are regular Cork munches that would be attended by some folks who might interest you. "

however can i add breaking into the cork scene might a little difficult as their guards are up at the moment due to some unpleasant business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"However can i add breaking into the cork scene might a little difficult as their guards are up at the moment due to some unpleasant business"

Oh it's only a matter of time before another vulnerable submissive dies at the hands of an out of control sadist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""However can i add breaking into the cork scene might a little difficult as their guards are up at the moment due to some unpleasant business"

Oh it's only a matter of time before another vulnerable submissive dies at the hands of an out of control sadist. "
Have to say, you aint doing yourself any favours on the forums with your comments. Thats my non professional thought

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I'm sure there are abusers in the BDSM community,just like there are in the swinging community, and the vanilla world. A lot of vanilla folks would say there is something wrong with us as swingers. There must be something wrong with someones relationship if they swing,, or they must be depressed or unhappy. I dont think throwing around generalisations is very helpful though. As already stated, plenty of people enjoy BDSM without damage or mental illness. Plenty of abusers and murderers come from vanulla folk too. Tarring a whole community because of the sins of a small number of them is just plain stupid.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

""However can i add breaking into the cork scene might a little difficult as their guards are up at the moment due to some unpleasant business"

Oh it's only a matter of time before another vulnerable submissive dies at the hands of an out of control sadist. "

I think I've read enough of your comments on various threads to form an opinion of you. You speak in soundbites and clichés. I'm not going to get into a discussion with you about this, I'll wait till you've left the thread, (or left Fab).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong again...I didn't tar the whole BDSM community with the same brush, but I've seen the wounds inflicted by some Dom's and Sadist's that were absolutely horrific. So it's only a matter of time before one of those idiots looses the plot entirely during a scene and someone else dies.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Or indeed an idiot from the swinging community, or a totally vanilla one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wrong again...I didn't tar the whole BDSM community with the same brush, but I've seen the wounds inflicted by some Dom's and Sadist's that were absolutely horrific. So it's only a matter of time before one of those idiots looses the plot entirely during a scene and someone else dies."

from earlier posts you stated that most people you encountered in the kink community have mental illnesses of some description. you then went on to use o'dwyer as an example. you may as well of tarred the whole community with some of your statements. p.s. o'dwyer wasn't part of the community. any events (which were few to be honest) he presented at he threw up red flags to mods and organisers for numerous reasons so he quickly found himself as not welcome to any. if your going to talk shite at least dress it up as you know what our saying. the crossover between swinging and the bdsm/kink scene is quite vast with numerous swingers using the "other" site and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When E.L James wrote her fifty shades of Grey books, she tapped into an innate desire that most women long to be whisked away by a wealthy man, dominated sexually, utterly spoiled rotten and taken care of. A whooping eighty percent of her readership were women. Only a mere twenty percent were men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""However can i add breaking into the cork scene might a little difficult as their guards are up at the moment due to some unpleasant business"

Oh it's only a matter of time before another vulnerable submissive dies at the hands of an out of control sadist.

seriously going to have agree there

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Don't feed the troll..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are quite a lot of people in the BDSM community who play responsibly. But there are a fair few Sadistic fuckers who just take it too far and inflict very serious wounds in their submissive's. Mark my words, it's only a matter of time before someone else dies...

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By *elljoe 2Man
over a year ago

cork

well im happy to try

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