FabSwingers.com forum: How do you get your meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m curious how do people get their ‘fun’ meets? Is it from first meeting at socials? From random messaging on here? Or from kik groups?

I’ll go first. All my meets have been from PMs here. I’m curious do people actually meet from kik groups?

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can I join

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By *eminexWoman
over a year ago

some where in outer space

I've never met anyone from a kik group thy have all come viva fab first ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've never met anyone from a kik group thy have all come viva fab first ..."

I spoke to a lady who joined fab from a kik group. I was on kik groups before but find it very hard to get to know someone, they are non stop.

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By *xperimental CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Fab

All of the above tbh,

Have met ppl at socials, from fab or Kik group. Mostly fab though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Lots of times.

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By *j and cCouple
over a year ago

mullingar

yep many many times

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By *bwcouple4funCouple
over a year ago

New Ross

Oblivious one fab others kik pof xham twitter mixture of sites being honest here is definitely the most secure when it boils down to genuine people.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I never met anyone via Kik. I just wait in the long grass here for people to pass by, then I pounce. I don't use any other app... Maybe I should... Usually, being active on the forums draws some interest, then a bit of chat, and perhaps a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't join kik groups or go to socials, we just use this site to pick off the stragglers from the herd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cake placed under a box with a pull string

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mix of PMs and forum interactions

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Via fab. Kik groups are only good if you have lots of time to keep up with them and interact lots.. Otherwise its just a duck farting in the wind

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I've gotten all my meets from being sound and being able to talk to people. Mostly from meeting people in person at event's as I rarely ever email people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fab contacts have all been from here first through Messages or forum ,then if anything develops further ,chat on Kik,..was on a Kik group once had to leave it ,was driving me crazy, definitely not for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone mention cake

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Through interaction on the forum page if i see a message on a thread thats funny or just catches my eye ill pm that profiles or just on pms itself....

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I get my meats from my butcher's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It starts with some interesting for here and it may move too chatting on a kik group before a meet is arranged. I find the kik groups are better too get to know someone rather that the process of massaging back and forth from here. Personally I prefer to get to know a person first before meeting and with the group's ppl interact more so you get a better feel for a person and how they act inn a group that just a one to one msg. I guess everyone is different but I would like to have a few causal social coffee meets with ppl just to put a face to ppl and chat without any expectations. I think if ppl click then they click and that's a good thing. Is the casual side gone out of it a bit now with ppl over thinking things too much ? Or is it something else. Idk but hey.... id be keen for coffee anytime

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By *xxannaWoman
over a year ago

Bray

"A cake placed under a box with a pull string

This would work for me lol

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

All my meets have come from here from pms which have moved to messaging apps. Or from the forums where something someone has said has caught my eye I'll usually send a wink or a message and we get chatting if we keep chatting and get on then we meet at some stage when we can arrange it.

The forums I find are good to see who is genuine and who to avoid as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had a meeting yet.

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By *ornydeiseMan
over a year ago

Waterford

It's hard no get started meeting when you're not verified

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin

"I’m curious how do people get their ‘fun’ meets? Is it from first meeting at socials? From random messaging on here? Or from kik groups?

I’ll go first. All my meets have been from PMs here. I’m curious do people actually meet from kik groups?"

Just Fab for me, I find joining a random Kik group is messy plus you can't nail down a conversation with a specific person. Then again, I've yet to go to my first social

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's hard no get started meeting when you're not verified"

No it isn't. You just have to put in some effort

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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago

South Tipperary

Fresh cream sponge cake. Fresh strawberry filling... Box on string.... Sit and wait...,

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Just here mostly ,we like to observe people's demeanor etc on the forums and see if they catch our eye !

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I never use kik. I message on here and if we like each other then we meet for a social. If we still get on after social then a hotel gets booked and we get naked together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so difficult to get a meet everyone. I was actually let down twice last night when ladies had originally agreed the venue and all. They just never turned up without an explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my meets bar one has been from pm's on fab. I did meet one guy from a group chat but he had tried on fab beforehand where I said no. Got to see his personality a bit more in group chat so agreed to a meet.

Much prefer fab pm's.

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland

Mainly Fab as well. Been a member of a few Kik groups and have left as it was just too much bother keeping up with them...especially when working!

Thought chatting to ones before and it seems a lot more interaction is happening via Kik groups?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys. I’d love an invite to a kik group if anyone is in any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most my meets are from chatting through here, than swap Kik and arrange a social meet to see if we mutually attracted and than arrange some fun.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I have two meets this weekend but neither are from this site.

They are not from any site, I can just get meets walking down the road or walking into a shopping center.

I had a meet from a different site during the week, but she said there was no spark, which was the feeling i was going for cause I thought they might want to hang around with me a bit and not just have sex,So I turned the charm down to level 1 or 2 instead of 10... but they only wanted sex, so we wont be meeting again.

I'd hate to have to be nice on here just to get sex. It would depress me.

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane

What's a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not be arrogant like some guys..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely prefer to chat on kik to get to know people.

Most of our fun has came from attending socials and parties.

I like it better that way. I feel awkward meeting one person. But hata my own preference.

Roxy x

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

I need to look into these meet things you speak of.

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Definitely socials. I hate typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what sometimes it is just easier to actually go out and meet ppl for real. Ive had a few meets from just meeting randomness in the pub. They never tell me no dic pics they pretty much always reply instantly and they look exactly as they looked before I got chatting to them. She may have lied about her age now granted but that was the lest of my worries.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Usually taser or lasso

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually taser or lasso

Who gave you internet access tonight.....

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Usually taser or lasso

Who gave you internet access tonight....."

The warden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had our couple profile it was 80% from cam chat.

Being yourself on forums helps also.

Messages with one liners like the usual "hi how are ye" etc etc were just deleted..

If we ever sent a message we made it personalised to the person we spoke to.

That is the one key thing.

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By *lytrucker32Man
over a year ago

Killeagh

Mmmmmmm cake I like cake....never mind meets ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to keep a very small circle of dependable men I met thru messaging here. Don't use any other platform. Find fab is good for all stages of a meet from first contact to hotel details .works well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually taser or lasso

Who gave you internet access tonight.....

The warden"

He is twitching on the floor right now isnt he

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Usually taser or lasso

Who gave you internet access tonight.....

The warden

He is twitching on the floor right now isnt he"

Somethings twitching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m curious how do people get their ‘fun’ meets? Is it from first meeting at socials? From random messaging on here? Or from kik groups?

I’ll go first. All my meets have been from PMs here. I’m curious do people actually meet from kik groups?"

In my case is a long journey from forum to social meet. Just 4 ended with fun

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

"Oblivious one fab others kik pof xham twitter mixture of sites being honest here is definitely the most secure when it boils down to genuine people. "

xham?

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By *uittopMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

PM's on here, or personal recommendation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oblivious one fab others kik pof xham twitter mixture of sites being honest here is definitely the most secure when it boils down to genuine people.

xham? "

xham is a porn site, can create profiles on it too

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