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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure most fellas here experience this. No replies. But it had gone beyond the joke for me now. My opening message is always friendly. Usually accompanied by a face Pic. I think I'm not bad looking. So here's a challenge to the ladies today. Message me if you want to talk to a genuine nice guy. And if it's not me then message that profile you like. You'd just never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think we don't do this already?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

No reply = no interest

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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I'm not as sure as you OP what most fellas experience here.

Only can tell you what I experience here.

1. No replies .

That's quite simple and as posted above equals no interest .

2. No thanks any other format of lack of interest reply .

That's simple too .

"No" is a full sentence ,as someone else's also stated .

3.messages back that turn into conversation , some shorter , some longer , some ongoing , some will find a deal-breaker in compatibility , some won't and might finish in a meet.

4. Messages from women. Reason for those messages is their choice , trigger for that choice is their own to.

Sometimes I ask about it , sometimes I don't .

Rejection I consider a closure , move on.

Only one type of message bugs me "unread& not deleted" .

Like a message in a bottle that never landed on a beach.

Bugs me less now as I included before in messages anything along the lines of "if you're not interested please delete this message" .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for "

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss"

When ladies see a reply like this it could prevent them from replying to your messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No reply = no interest"

100 % true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss

When ladies see a reply like this it could prevent them from replying to your messages. "
. Totally agree. Get an honest opinion+ den he insults dem..going wrong way about it man..we all find it tough at start but negative comments don't help anyone.girls+ couples set own rules us guys got to go along with dat. Except+ move on.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss"

Could possibly be the attitude, just a hunch.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"you're no loss"

3 words that may have cost you more then a couple ...

....of points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss

When ladies see a reply like this it could prevent them from replying to your messages. "

Ah for sure the forums are a useful tool for my block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only one type of message bugs me "unread& not deleted" .

Like a message in a bottle that never landed on a beach.

Bugs me less now as I included before in messages anything along the lines of "if you're not interested please delete this message" ."

Honestly, the best thing you can do is delete any and all of your sent messages. There are countless reasons why I person may not reply, be it immediately or a little longer;

They could have opened the message at an inopportune time, perhaps in public, and didn't have the time or privacy to give it their attention.

If it were a couple then maybe one has read it but is waiting for their partner to see it before they both reply.

They're just two examples, granted, but as they show you can't ever know what's going on so it's never worth dwelling on and staring at your sent messages.

If someone wants to reply, they will

For the OP, though, I was going to offer that you could send me your standard first message and I'd try and give feedback but as you're not looking for single guys then it's my loss

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss

When ladies see a reply like this it could prevent them from replying to your messages. "

Exactly.

Gotta love the forums great for giving you a insight

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By *att360Man
over a year ago

Westport

"No reply = no interest"
this is true, I'm used to it....lol

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Yeah as Pete said, if I ever send a first message I will always delete it. At least your not constantly wondering what’s happened to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss

When ladies see a reply like this it could prevent them from replying to your messages. . Totally agree. Get an honest opinion+ den he insults dem..going wrong way about it man..we all find it tough at start but negative comments don't help anyone.girls+ couples set own rules us guys got to go along with dat. Except+ move on."

How is it insulting. My original post said ladies not couples. I don't need some lad answering me from a couples site making fun of me because I'm short

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder will he be back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is gone lol

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for "
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tall you say ehh

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

he will be back giving out after an hour setting up profile later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for .

tall you say ehh"

That is correct

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for .

tall you say ehh

That is correct

6 foot 2 Inch tall

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Can i just say this with the greatest of respect to those on here that have already posted and without causing offence to anyone who I'd actually consider a fab friend.

I can tell that the op is one of those people that thinks he was on dial a ride and that everyone owed him an explanation to all his problems

But was he bullied a bit in calling him short in the first place.

There's another thread on here about cyberbullying and it just made me think thats all.

He obviously has a problem in his head about being short and I genuinely hope hes ok and learns manners and how to deal with rejection properly.

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Can i just say this with the greatest of respect to those on here that have already posted and without causing offence to anyone who I'd actually consider a fab friend.

I can tell that the op is one of those people that thinks he was on dial a ride and that everyone owed him an explanation to all his problems

But was he bullied a bit in calling him short in the first place.

There's another thread on here about cyberbullying and it just made me think thats all.

He obviously has a problem in his head about being short and I genuinely hope hes ok and learns manners and how to deal with rejection properly."

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss

How is it insulting. My original post said ladies not couples. I don't need some lad answering me from a couples site making fun of me because I'm short"

Short and dont last long...bad combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t believe I was bullying him , I stated a reason as to why I wouldn’t respond or he’d get a polite no thank you and as he said it was no loss .....

Am I supposed to be offended when guys state their preferences for larger , shorter , thinner , younger , older women or whatever else floats their boats and I’m not on it

No one is ever going to be everyone’s cup of tea .

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

"I don’t believe I was bullying him , I stated a reason as to why I wouldn’t respond or he’d get a polite no thank you and as he said it was no loss .....

Am I supposed to be offended when guys state their preferences for larger , shorter , thinner , younger , older women or whatever else floats their boats and I’m not on it

No one is ever going to be everyone’s cup of tea . "
true, we all like different thing.. I'm tall. but some people nowadays can't take rejection and view it as bullying imo. talk huh here

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I don’t believe I was bullying him , I stated a reason as to why I wouldn’t respond or he’d get a polite no thank you and as he said it was no loss .....

Am I supposed to be offended when guys state their preferences for larger , shorter , thinner , younger , older women or whatever else floats their boats and I’m not on it

No one is ever going to be everyone’s cup of tea . "

You didn’t to be fair. Everyone has the right to be selective on here with who they meet for whatever reason (physical or personality preference)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can i just say this with the greatest of respect to those on here that have already posted and without causing offence to anyone who I'd actually consider a fab friend.

I can tell that the op is one of those people that thinks he was on dial a ride and that everyone owed him an explanation to all his problems

But was he bullied a bit in calling him short in the first place.

There's another thread on here about cyberbullying and it just made me think thats all.

He obviously has a problem in his head about being short and I genuinely hope hes ok and learns manners and how to deal with rejection properly.

Very true

There's little of it around at the moment.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss"

Its just the way he answered you after the second paragraph would indicate to me that it hurt him

In fairness its some kick in the bollox to a man who has a problem in his head with being short.

I'm not trying to annoy or insult you with my answers so please don't take me up wrong...its just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss"

And we have an answer why, that didn't take too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they read your message and then check out your profile before sending a response ?

I wouldn’t reply as a shorter man isn’t what I’d be looking for

I'm not interested in couples so you're no loss

Its just the way he answered you after the second paragraph would indicate to me that it hurt him

In fairness its some kick in the bollox to a man who has a problem in his head with being short.

I'm not trying to annoy or insult you with my answers so please don't take me up wrong...its just my opinion "

If you are a guy who is short and hung up about it, well thats for you to sort out. Me personally ive never had an issue or problem being short. I couldn't give a toss about it. Im not judging the OP or anyone else on here but there are more important things in life than being short.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

If a woman started this thread with the exact same opening paragraph and got the answer

Sorry you're not my type as I dont go for fat women

What would have happened

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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"If a woman started this thread with the exact same opening paragraph and got the answer

Sorry you're not my type as I dont go for fat women

What would have happened "

For starters I don't think any here would call anyone fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the women on Fab are the same demographic as you Will find on regular vanilla dating sites. So about ten percent of the women will be fun to hang out with, down to earth, easy-going and friendly. The rest are likely to be delusional drama queens, with over inflated ego's. This is female nature I'm afraid..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

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" Most of the women on Fab are the same demographic as you Will find on regular vanilla dating sites. So about ten percent of the women will be fun to hang out with, down to earth, easy-going and friendly. The rest are likely to be delusional drama queens, with over inflated ego's. This is female nature I'm afraid..

Haven't a clue why this is even here to be honest

I'm not accusing anyone of anything especially the women on here.

I treat this place like a friendly pub in real life and there are some people that I'd have a pint with and some I wouldn't.

There are also people in this pub that wouldnt have a pint with me but there's plenty of room at the bar.

I also wouldn't use language that I wouldn't use in the pub to someones face

You just come in and generalised about women for some reason and thats not what the tread is about at all.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Haven't a clue why this is even here to be honest

I'm not accusing anyone of anything especially the women on here.

I treat this place like a friendly pub in real life and there are some people that I'd have a pint with and some I wouldn't.

There are also people in this pub that wouldnt have a pint with me but there's plenty of room at the bar.

I also wouldn't use language that I wouldn't use in the pub to someones face

You just come in and generalised about women for some reason and thats not what the tread is about at all.

Been doing it on a few threads bm.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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Hunch telling me your profile is going too feed quite a few block buttons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah so your only 90% misogynist phewww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a little thought and respect goes a long long way. No one comes on here to be rude or offensive or to be a bully in any way but sometimes our words can hurt in ways we don't mean then to. Some guys need to take a good long hard look at themselves thinking that they've joined up to a easy ride and when they don't get it in the first few days coming whinging in the forums asking why why why.... and it gets a bit long but most will still offer advise in a nice way.

I'm not gonna get into the whole msging thing and deleting or responding. If I get a msg I respond to it but it's up to every individual you do whatever they want to do with their msgs. I don't throw the toys out of the pram if I don't get a reply but if ites deleted then it's simple.... not interested. Shout I said I wasn't gonna get into all that didn't I?

I think most ppl on here are genuine and good ppl looking for whatever they are looking for so maybe a little more thought you your fellow grabbers might not be such a bad thing. It's gonna be much better for everyone if we can all get along and at the same time not take anything to seriously.

Mind yourselves

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By *entleman PoliteMan
over a year ago

Mars

Using Fab only for social events or parties.

Ladies and couple receive so many messages they don't even read them anymore.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

" No one comes on here to be rude or offensive "

That's precisely why I come on here. I'm in heaven since that "insult the user above" thread started.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

" No one comes on here to be rude or offensive

That's precisely why I come on here. I'm in heaven since that "insult the user above" thread started.

Dont know why cause you're fuckin useless on that thread

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

" No one comes on here to be rude or offensive

That's precisely why I come on here. I'm in heaven since that "insult the user above" thread started.

Dont know why cause you're fuckin useless on that thread

I see what you did there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't a clue why this is even here to be honest

I'm not accusing anyone of anything especially the women on here.

I treat this place like a friendly pub in real life and there are some people that I'd have a pint with and some I wouldn't.

There are also people in this pub that wouldnt have a pint with me but there's plenty of room at the bar.

I also wouldn't use language that I wouldn't use in the pub to someones face

You just come in and generalised about women for some reason and thats not what the tread is about at all.

Been doing it on a few threads bm. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

90% of women are delusional drama queens. Gotcha

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged

"Sorry...You're not my type") might just work in this case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged

"Sorry...You're not my type") might just work in this case"

It doesn't. Not once has it worked.

"Sorry, not my type" is always followed with "but WHY?", "just give me a chance, I can prove you I'm worth it", "let me change your mind"...

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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" No one comes on here to be rude or offensive

That's precisely why I come on here. I'm in heaven since that "insult the user above" thread started.

Dont know why cause you're fuckin useless on that thread

I see what you did there!

Agree with BM , you are fucking useless .

Up your game next time .

I can take o good one on the chin .

That's a good vent out game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

I usually just get the "fuck off you prick" response.. I assume its because Im short because I have no other flaws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged

Being asked to stand up while standing..

Happened a friend

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged

Being asked to stand up while standing..

Happened a friend

Haha. A bit like asking a larger lady when shes due. Mortified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still no answer though... anyone?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Still no answer though... anyone? "

Sorry what was the question again? Was it about cake? If so the answer is yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged

Being asked to stand up while standing..

Happened a friend

Haha. A bit like asking a larger lady when shes due. Mortified"

Don't even go there..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Still no answer though... anyone?

Sorry what was the question again? Was it about cake? If so the answer is yes please."

Is there any problem that can't be solved with cake...a different one for every problem...this thread needs a coffee slice

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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"Still no answer though... anyone? "

It's like messaging you and never getting and answer

Jokes aside it's me who didn't message over the weekend as I said.

M can you PM in a free moment just a general area of Belfast for the social .

Just want to look around for hotels

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still no answer though... anyone? "

Its short arse.. believe me i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged

"Sorry...You're not my type") might just work in this case

It doesn't. Not once has it worked.

"Sorry, not my type" is always followed with "but WHY?", "just give me a chance, I can prove you I'm worth it", "let me change your mind"... "

Seriously ??? another lady shoots down a guys request then the inquest begins ... could never understand that tbh ..if a lady doesn't see something that attracts her to a profile she's not gonna change her mind ..well that's my opinion anyway .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get over yourself its not a rule for everyone you mail that they must reply back.. ffs some men here need a reality check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP has left the building .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just get over yourself its not a rule for everyone you mail that they must reply back.. ffs some men here need a reality check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

I usually just get the "fuck off you prick" response.. I assume its because Im short because I have no other flaws

Legend

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"Still no answer though... anyone?

Sorry what was the question again? Was it about cake? If so the answer is yes please.

Is there any problem that can't be solved with cake...a different one for every problem...this thread needs a coffee slice "

Could i have a lemon buttercream one please bm

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged

Is there politically correct height where the "shortness" starts?

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"The OP has left the building .

Good, we can take over the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

"More down to earth than others"?

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over a year ago

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

"More down to earth than others"?

Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I make no apologies for speaking the plain unvarnished truth. Life is far too short to be hanging out with uncool people, so if I get the vibe a woman on here or any other dating site is likely to have a piss poor attitude, I loose interest entirely.

A younger fella may bend over backwards to please a woman who has a bad attitude, just to get in her knickers. While a more savvy older guy will just say "Not my monkey, not my circus" -and walk away

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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"Only one type of message bugs me "unread& not deleted" .

Like a message in a bottle that never landed on a beach.

Bugs me less now as I included before in messages anything along the lines of "if you're not interested please delete this message" .

Honestly, the best thing you can do is delete any and all of your sent messages. There are countless reasons why I person may not reply, be it immediately or a little longer;

They could have opened the message at an inopportune time, perhaps in public, and didn't have the time or privacy to give it their attention.

If it were a couple then maybe one has read it but is waiting for their partner to see it before they both reply.

They're just two examples, granted, but as they show you can't ever know what's going on so it's never worth dwelling on and staring at your sent messages.

If someone wants to reply, they will

For the OP, though, I was going to offer that you could send me your standard first message and I'd try and give feedback but as you're not looking for single guys then it's my loss

Thanks Pete but the "bugs me" is not up to any point of me thinking about it to much.

Multitudes of reasons I get too.

Fab online is only a part of my experience here.

Fab live fun starts on Friday.

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over a year ago

"Well I make no apologies for speaking the plain unvarnished truth. Life is far too short to be hanging out with uncool people, so if I get the vibe a woman on here or any other dating site is likely to have a piss poor attitude, I loose interest entirely.

A younger fella may bend over backwards to please a woman who has a bad attitude, just to get in her knickers. While a more savvy older guy will just say "Not my monkey, not my circus" -and walk away

Don't worry - women don't tend to be attracted to men with a piss poor attitude either. You're completely safe from them masses of desperate housewives who can't look after themselves and need someone to save them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only one type of message bugs me "unread& not deleted" .

Like a message in a bottle that never landed on a beach.

Bugs me less now as I included before in messages anything along the lines of "if you're not interested please delete this message" .

Honestly, the best thing you can do is delete any and all of your sent messages. There are countless reasons why I person may not reply, be it immediately or a little longer;

They could have opened the message at an inopportune time, perhaps in public, and didn't have the time or privacy to give it their attention.

If it were a couple then maybe one has read it but is waiting for their partner to see it before they both reply.

They're just two examples, granted, but as they show you can't ever know what's going on so it's never worth dwelling on and staring at your sent messages.

If someone wants to reply, they will

For the OP, though, I was going to offer that you could send me your standard first message and I'd try and give feedback but as you're not looking for single guys then it's my loss

Thanks Pete but the "bugs me" is not up to any point of me thinking about it to much.

Multitudes of reasons I get too.

Fab online is only a part of my experience here.

Fab live fun starts on Friday.

I just noticed you private messaged me a month ago and I may not have opened it

Will pm you later x

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

A younger fella may bend over backwards to please a woman who has a bad attitude, just to get in her knickers. While a more savvy older guy will just say "Not my monkey, not my circus" -and walk away

Im 6 years older than you and with the aches and pains at my age the last thing I'd do is bend over backwards to get into someone's knickers to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone mention cake? This short fat bird is hungry

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Did someone mention cake? This short fat bird is hungry

What would your favourite be Devine

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over a year ago

A younger fella may bend over backwards to please a woman who has a bad attitude, just to get in her knickers. While a more savvy older guy will just say "Not my monkey, not my circus" -and walk away

Lots of misguided white knight's on here who are so desperate for female approval, they will defend any ladies honor with furious indignation, in the vain hope of getting into her good graces or her knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did someone mention cake? This short fat bird is hungry

What would your favourite be Devine "

Cake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A younger fella may bend over backwards to please a woman who has a bad attitude, just to get in her knickers. While a more savvy older guy will just say "Not my monkey, not my circus" -and walk away

Why don't you just do you and let them be who and what they choose to be.

Women are fully capable of not only looking after themselves, but also choosing who they want to be around too. May sound like a shock to you, but everything doesn't revolve around what men do and how they behave

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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"Did someone mention cake? This short fat bird is hungry

What would your favourite be Devine

Cake lol"

We need busty married Babe back , resident fab forum requested flavour cake supplier

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

A younger fella may bend over backwards to please a woman who has a bad attitude, just to get in her knickers. While a more savvy older guy will just say "Not my monkey, not my circus" -and walk away

Now i understand where you're coming from ...Cork

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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Got a good one for your short friend Missus.

"Short girls are more of a devil's and more dangerous as their heads are closer to hell"

Don't know only if it will fit under the "political correctness" .

But who cares it's funny :-

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over a year ago

" Got a good one for your short friend Missus.

"Short girls are more of a devil's and more dangerous as their heads are closer to hell"

Don't know only if it will fit under the "political correctness" .

But who cares it's funny :-

Who said it was for a girl?

Girls don't seem to have a short complex in general.. call me short, call me an asshole, call me crazy all day long- it's the truth. I've no problem with it

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

A younger fella may bend over backwards to please a woman who has a bad attitude, just to get in her knickers. While a more savvy older guy will just say "Not my monkey, not my circus" -and walk away

Now i understand where you're coming from ...Cork "

Those who know me here on the forum also know I'm a "label rebel" and white knight is one of them , usually triggers a side of me , not the kind one.

Don't mistake my kindness with weakness because when that triggers go of , it's not kindness you will be met back with.

Usually ,. Today I'm in a great mood though.

Funny how it's a third time it's happening on a thread I'm interacting with Missus.

So let's test it.

Missus you are cool as hell,have my respect for speaking your mind and not giving zero fucks , prefer to inbox your partner as his inbox is less busy and does reply , sound guy , thanks again for invite to your party and can't wait to meet both of you

All above is true btw.

Not just a test if will get an comments more creative that a label.

Feel free lad , use your imagination , hopefully insulting enough to get a reply and feed my block button.

No balls and I can help you to the door an button to delete your profile too

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over a year ago

A younger fella may bend over backwards to please a woman who has a bad attitude, just to get in her knickers. While a more savvy older guy will just say "Not my monkey, not my circus" -and walk away

Now i understand where you're coming from ...Cork

Those who know me here on the forum also know I'm a "label rebel" and white knight is one of them , usually triggers a side of me , not the kind one.

Don't mistake my kindness with weakness because when that triggers go of , it's not kindness you will be met back with.

Usually ,. Today I'm in a great mood though.

Funny how it's a third time it's happening on a thread I'm interacting with Missus.

So let's test it.

All above is true btw.

Not just a test if will get an comments more creative that a label.

Feel free lad , use your imagination , hopefully insulting enough to get a reply and feed my block button.

No balls and I can help you to the door an button to delete your profile too

Lick ass

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"I'm sure most fellas here experience this. No replies. But it had gone beyond the joke for me now. My opening message is always friendly. Usually accompanied by a face Pic. I think I'm not bad looking. So here's a challenge to the ladies today. Message me if you want to talk to a genuine nice guy. And if it's not me then message that profile you like. You'd just never know. "

It's funny how these new members think this is some kind free escort site lol

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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" Got a good one for your short friend Missus.

"Short girls are more of a devil's and more dangerous as their heads are closer to hell"

Don't know only if it will fit under the "political correctness" .

But who cares it's funny :-

Who said it was for a girl?

Girls don't seem to have a short complex in general.. call me short, call me an asshole, call me crazy all day long- it's the truth. I've no problem with it

Forgot to add " if the friend is a girl".

Asshole ? No , but there was a great picture of your ass as a profile few days ago

One I liked most though was the one with a massive smile , I'm a sucker for smile like that , cheeky cheeks I call it when cheeks shape this way when someone is smiling.

Happy to hear you have no problems with crazy , I'm crazy too.

That's also the truth , part of it about me though , not to everyone's liking on here but like you I give zero fucks about ones that can't handle the truth.

See you soon.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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Mr. Heylookboobs

Choose your words more specific please , don't know if "lick ass" means you want to lick mine or me to lick yours.

If you're "god's gift to women" I hope God gave you a gift of typing too.

Add a few lines to your bio do next time we meet on " insult a profile" thread I have something to relate too.

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over a year ago

"Mr. Heylookboobs

Choose your words more specific please , don't know if "lick ass" means you want to lick mine or me to lick yours.

If you're "god's gift to women" I hope God gave you a gift of typing too.

Add a few lines to your bio do next time we meet on " insult a profile" thread I have something to relate too.

I think my charming sarcasim might have been missed there......

Well that me told

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over a year ago

"Mr. Heylookboobs

Choose your words more specific please , don't know if "lick ass" means you want to lick mine or me to lick yours.

If you're "god's gift to women" I hope God gave you a gift of typing too.

Add a few lines to your bio do next time we meet on " insult a profile" thread I have something to relate too.

I think my charming sarcasim might have been missed there......

Well that me told

*sarcasm

Happy to see you back Mr Shlong xx

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over a year ago

"Mr. Heylookboobs

Choose your words more specific please , don't know if "lick ass" means you want to lick mine or me to lick yours.

If you're "god's gift to women" I hope God gave you a gift of typing too.

Add a few lines to your bio do next time we meet on " insult a profile" thread I have something to relate too.

I think my charming sarcasim might have been missed there......

Well that me told

*sarcasm

Happy to see you back Mr Shlong xx "

Ah ffs if we are gonna go through my spelling mistakes we are gonna need a seperate thread

Good to be back Missus

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over a year ago

"Mr. Heylookboobs

Choose your words more specific please , don't know if "lick ass" means you want to lick mine or me to lick yours.

If you're "god's gift to women" I hope God gave you a gift of typing too.

Add a few lines to your bio do next time we meet on " insult a profile" thread I have something to relate too.

I think my charming sarcasim might have been missed there......

Well that me told

*sarcasm

Happy to see you back Mr Shlong xx

Ah ffs if we are gonna go through my spelling mistakes we are gonna need a seperate thread

Good to be back Missus"

Don't tempt me

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

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"Mr. Heylookboobs

Choose your words more specific please , don't know if "lick ass" means you want to lick mine or me to lick yours.

If you're "god's gift to women" I hope God gave you a gift of typing too.

Add a few lines to your bio do next time we meet on " insult a profile" thread I have something to relate too.

I think my charming sarcasim might have been missed there......

Well that me told

Don't care about your charm , keep that for ladies .

Enjoy a good joke thought and good fun on here .

I have no problem with you, quite the opposite actually.

A and your far from being told off ... Yet

Have to run , good fun.

PS.

Missus read up few comments Belfast area info please , Dirk is going to think I'm hitting on him if I have to message him again instead of your two other busy profiles

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over a year ago

"Mr. Heylookboobs

Choose your words more specific please , don't know if "lick ass" means you want to lick mine or me to lick yours.

If you're "god's gift to women" I hope God gave you a gift of typing too.

Add a few lines to your bio do next time we meet on " insult a profile" thread I have something to relate too.

I think my charming sarcasim might have been missed there......

Well that me told

Think he's a teacher likes putting people in their boxes

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over a year ago

"Mr. Heylookboobs

Choose your words more specific please , don't know if "lick ass" means you want to lick mine or me to lick yours.

If you're "god's gift to women" I hope God gave you a gift of typing too.

Add a few lines to your bio do next time we meet on " insult a profile" thread I have something to relate too.

I think my charming sarcasim might have been missed there......

Well that me told

Think he's a teacher likes putting people in their boxes "

Im all for being inserted into boxes

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over a year ago

"Mr. Heylookboobs

Choose your words more specific please , don't know if "lick ass" means you want to lick mine or me to lick yours.

If you're "god's gift to women" I hope God gave you a gift of typing too.

Add a few lines to your bio do next time we meet on " insult a profile" thread I have something to relate too.

I think my charming sarcasim might have been missed there......

Well that me told

Think he's a teacher likes putting people in their boxes

Im all for being inserted into boxes"

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

One thing's for sure, the best way not to get a ride on fab is to go on the forum and winge about not getting a ride on fab..

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over a year ago

"One thing's for sure, the best way not to get a ride on fab is to go on the forum and winge about not getting a ride on fab..

On point

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By *tretch4lifeMan
over a year ago

Back of the beyonds

Love the way the person who started this thread 12 hours or so ago is no longer on the site. Just goes to show the the type off people on this site!!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"One thing's for sure, the best way not to get a ride on fab is to go on the forum and winge about not getting a ride on fab..

this is so true

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By *ireandsaltCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged would likely be acceptable.

(Fire)

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By *ireandsaltCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"Just the way it's frowned upon calling people fat - it's now curvy.

What is the politically correct version for "short"?

Asking for a friend

Vertically challenged

"Sorry...You're not my type") might just work in this case

It doesn't. Not once has it worked.

"Sorry, not my type" is always followed with "but WHY?", "just give me a chance, I can prove you I'm worth it", "let me change your mind"...

Love@1stfeel, some lads are on the same track as the battle between the stream and the boulder, the stream wins out of persistence. They will try to grind down their prey into submission.

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