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"As usual I have good enough pictures. And I know that the type of ladies I message get tones of messages. So they are there like uncle Donald swimming in a massive poof of lads. Ladies, how to shine in this uncle Donald duck pool?" Be yourself and as my friend used to say "patience is a key" Good luck OP! | |||
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"The cartoon analogies are deffo a bonus I dont think its about doing anything to stand out. You have to be yourself. Saying that this isnt a dating site so you have options of meet and greets which would be a way to go. Keep chatting on the forums too that always helped me find people to chat to" Thanks for the answer, but I was talking about the regular sites, for "busy people".. :D | |||
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"Jayzus, but there is a single mom there that I would love to get to know her, kinda of my dream lady... She never replied messages, but sure there are a limit of how many messages on can send in three weeks... But there are other 50 who might... A couple of them already did... This is a sea of dog eat dog " There are a few single mums I know. I was one of them and you have to be patient Don't send the same message every day. A kind reminder once a week will be enough Good luck OP! | |||
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"Im totally confused with all this dating stuff, OP are you looking to date or for nsa encounters or both? Btw get rid of that shirt respectively the avatar. It's a contradiction to your username. " How will I hide my sexy belly then? | |||
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"Im totally confused with all this dating stuff, OP are you looking to date or for nsa encounters or both? Btw get rid of that shirt respectively the avatar. It's a contradiction to your username. " Both... Of course I always tell my prospects about my swinging and fwb contacts. And I am loyal and straightforward... | |||
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"Im totally confused with all this dating stuff, OP are you looking to date or for nsa encounters or both? Btw get rid of that shirt respectively the avatar. It's a contradiction to your username. How will I hide my sexy belly then? " Just take a deep breath. And stop pulling your foreskin. | |||
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"Now if after 3+ messages someone didn't reply, surely it's a sign of disinterest. Personally I block people who tend to have a full on conversation with themselves in my inbox. This topic pops up every few days on forums. Yawn. " Yes, that is it she is done(nothing happened, so I better leave her alone), I already got contacts... They usually return to you(me) after a year... I wonder why | |||
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"Now if after 3+ messages someone didn't reply, surely it's a sign of disinterest. Personally I block people who tend to have a full on conversation with themselves in my inbox. This topic pops up every few days on forums. Yawn. Yes, that is it she is done(nothing happened, so I better leave her alone), I already got contacts... They usually return to you(me) after a year... I wonder why " Other contacts* | |||
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"Im totally confused with all this dating stuff, OP are you looking to date or for nsa encounters or both? Btw get rid of that shirt respectively the avatar. It's a contradiction to your username. How will I hide my sexy belly then? Just take a deep breath. And stop pulling your foreskin. " Stealthy | |||
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"Now if after 3+ messages someone didn't reply, surely it's a sign of disinterest. Personally I block people who tend to have a full on conversation with themselves in my inbox. This topic pops up every few days on forums. Yawn. " It's as regular as sunrise | |||
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"You can stand out by putting more effort into your profile and not just being cam verified. That to me is a huge red flag. Sending multiple messages when you don't get a reply, also a huge turn off. Best of luck OP, try socials, Vanilla Club etc. Most are welcoming of newbies if you're not a total twat (not suggesting you are)" Badoo just let you send two messages at all(I find it good)... My profile there is short enough, not too long because majority do not read it... If too short or no information at all...then, haters won't even bother to reply... My photos there are quite cute... I am not really talking about my profile here... But yes a long profile is good filter the like minded... It scares the creeps and drama queens... But for me Yes it's about being yourself and actually my profile description here is a bit shallow... I will improve it once I have time... | |||
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"Hi alpha, be patient. I am recently single. Broke up last year from a 17 year relationship. On line dating is mad. But a few good photos and no bull Sh1t goes a long way. Beware of the physios tho lol. Badoo is good for hook ups POF is more for proper relationships Tinder is a mixed bag. And Fab, well its mainly for messing people about lol.... and the ...once in a blue moon shag if ya are a normal guy " I noticed that everyone who are on POF are on OKC and are on Badoo... So for me all these apps are the same... | |||
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"Hi alpha, be patient. I am recently single. Broke up last year from a 17 year relationship. On line dating is mad. But a few good photos and no bull Sh1t goes a long way. Beware of the physios tho lol. Badoo is good for hook ups POF is more for proper relationships Tinder is a mixed bag. And Fab, well its mainly for messing people about lol.... and the ...once in a blue moon shag if ya are a normal guy I noticed that everyone who are on POF are on OKC and are on Badoo... So for me all these apps are the same... " I mean have the very same people | |||
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"As usual I have good enough pictures. And I know that the type of ladies I message get tones of messages. So they are there like uncle Donald swimming in a massive poof of lads. Ladies, how to shine in this uncle Donald duck pool? Be yourself and as my friend used to say "patience is a key" Good luck OP! " Hahaha... Funny, I made the experiment... The otherwise didn't work either... I selected about 30 or 40 ladies and along the years I sent these types of messages, and only three % reply for all or any types, some won't reply for any of the types. Type 1: Funny message. Type 2: Normal shit questions about hobby: Things you like or did. Type 3: One, Two or three questions based on their profiles. Type 4: Something random, such as gardening, cooking sports or dancing or music. Type 5: Whish them a lovely day and ask some little questions or news about general knowledge. I tested them all and more... Even having very good pictures... In the USA I was very successful, and the ladies were extremely flirty and complementing me even before meeting... Now back to Ireland things are different, I just think that there are too many lads, which I don't bother at all, so the ladies message box are loaded... Even if I saw that they read the message, there won't be replies two or three weeks later... But a very few lovely ones replies in less than a week, actually one I will meet tomorrow... | |||
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