FabSwingers.com forum: Public verification

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to even get a reply never mind organizing a meet up is it something to do with my profile or approach I am polite with the starting message so I'm confused if anyone could give me some advice on how to actually have some success on this would be great lol

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

there have been a few posts in relation to this so maybe do a forum search and check out the replies in same.

As regards your own profile, the header on it would put me off straight away. I would suggest a couple more pics (not cock pics) and maybe pad it out a little. Also bare in mind the ratio on this site as regards men to women/couples is substantial.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Yep - the header makes you look like a bit of a twat straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without wishing to sound dismissive, OP, the best advice anyone could offer would genuinely be to use the 'forum search' options for similar threads. There's a wealth of advice from many a selfless Fabber stored away there

What I would say, only given you've asked about your profile, is that it comes across a bit nonchalant personally. It's your way to express, showcase and sell yourself!

Perhaps a few more pictures, you're built like a brick wall sure! A bit about yourself in the bio and what you're looking for; I'm sure by now you know what that may be.

Also, just with reference to wondering about replies, the best advice I ever received was to delete any and all sent messages. That way you won't find yourself obsessing over why one was read but not replied to, deleted, not read etc. If someone wants to reply, they will.

So with that mindset just enjoy the craic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers thanks guys I have fixed the header of the profile and will work on putting together some pictures etc thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheers thanks guys I have fixed the header of the profile and will work on putting together some pictures etc thank you!"

Honestly the fact you actually read the replies and took ok the suggestions on board already puts you a good bit ahead of alot of people on here.

Get involved on the forums its a good way to get to know people and get you personality across.

Someone might take a chance a bit easier if they get to know you here first or possible give you a webcam veri

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Pretty sure there've been at least 5 similar threads this week alone..

Fact is op, to be a successful guy on fab, takes months, if not years of patient work, work on your profile, build a reputation on the forums, go to organised events. The best price of advice I can give (as a former fairly successful guy), if you come here just looking for sex, you will be disappointed, if you come with the attitude of having a few laughs and making some friends, the fun will follow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah thanks I'm just going to enjoy the forms for now until I click with someone seems to be some interesting/fun conversationa going on here so thanks guys appreciate it

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Well done m8. Most guys get similar advice and never act upon it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you m8

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