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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips. "

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Too much text in your profile Op

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips.

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Too much text in your profile Op

Hope that helps "

Is tht sarcasm lol should I type more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips.

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Too much text in your profile Op

Hope that helps "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips.

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Too much text in your profile Op

Hope that helps

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Okay got ya dunno why to type tbh thank ye

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"

Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips.

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Too much text in your profile Op

Hope that helps

Okay got ya dunno why to type tbh thank ye "

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Seeing as GDOY has s.f.a of a contribution & less vocab than your original profile of "Hi" , I'll help you out...

- A Profile should say something about you & keep the reader engaged and wanting to read until the end

- Standing out from the rest of the lads here does not mean an erect cock pic. It means a pic that's arty or fun, cheeky or tasteful

- A good ice-breaker when sending a message

Chat to people and relate to them as a person versus just wanting sex...

Simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips.

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Too much text in your profile Op

Hope that helps

Okay got ya dunno why to type tbh thank ye

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Seeing as GDOY has s.f.a of a contribution & less vocab than your original profile of "Hi" , I'll help you out...

- A Profile should say something about you & keep the reader engaged and wanting to read until the end

- Standing out from the rest of the lads here does not mean an erect cock pic. It means a pic that's arty or fun, cheeky or tasteful

- A good ice-breaker when sending a message

Chat to people and relate to them as a person versus just wanting sex...

Simple "

Greay advice.

I honestly haven't sent messages because I am a single guy ND I think on here thts only 20 percent of what ppl seem to want ha. So I'd rather ppl check me out n offer etc. So mybe the profile needed a boost...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, OP, depending on what you're asking for specifically be it profile or general advice your best option would be to use the 'forum search' to find any aforementioned threads!

What I will say though is that there's no expiry date on your profile. Never place much emphasis on "needing" that first verification; yes it will undoubtedly help in the long run but it's not a free pass to countless meets.

So just enjoy the craic! Join in on the forums perhaps and let people get to know you. In general, just respect the preferences of those you might wish to message and just have a bit of cop on! That will trump any green tick.

Failing that though just offer some free cake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly, OP, depending on what you're asking for specifically be it profile or general advice your best option would be to use the 'forum search' to find any aforementioned threads!

What I will say though is that there's no expiry date on your profile. Never place much emphasis on "needing" that first verification; yes it will undoubtedly help in the long run but it's not a free pass to countless meets.

So just enjoy the craic! Join in on the forums perhaps and let people get to know you. In general, just respect the preferences of those you might wish to message and just have a bit of cop on! That will trump any green tick.

Failing that though just offer some free cake "

Hey Peter. Yeah I'm only here bout month and a half. Tbh, I'm not tht in need for just sex. It's the experience and I would enjoy being part of the community ?? it's just I guess it's fairly new to me. I'm thinking a meet will happen, so ur right bout no expiry. I ws Just wondering how I cud boost my chances and I think I did need to edit the profile.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

If you ever found yourself in East Cork/West Waterford we'd meet you for a coffee or drink....once we're back in the saddle that is.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"If you ever found yourself in East Cork/West Waterford we'd meet you for a coffee or drink....once we're back in the saddle that is. "

And if you've read our post on your other thread it's not the drugs talking lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you ever found yourself in East Cork/West Waterford we'd meet you for a coffee or drink....once we're back in the saddle that is. "

Absolutely :*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I got lambasted for finding the original reply humorous - apologies OP - I'd say the changes you've made are already an improvement. Your profile never has to be complete and many find theirs evolve over time.

Read the profiles of those who catch your eye. Don't be shy about messaging those whose interests and preferences are in line with your own. Be engaging, be polite, be respectful and be yourself. If you're messaging couples remember they are a couple. The ability to hold a decent conversation and have a bit of craic would hold more weight with us than a green tick.

Good luck (and it's a shame you dont live closer )

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

If you were ever my way id let ye buy me a coffee and have a chat see about that verfie

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

If Ur around the Midlands area if meet ya for a tea I hate coffee..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting alot in the forums really helped me at the start to get conversations going.

Try and get an invite to a group chat from there a meet and greet.

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By *ex0x28Man
over a year ago

Up the Bohs


"Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips. "

Me too, I’m struggling to get any verification on this site.

Everybody seems amazing on the site that I do talk too..apologies if I’m coming across whiny and poor me...

I like the way everyone is open and transparent on this site so I’m starting to think maybe it’s something I’m doing wrong...

so any feedback would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips.

Me too, I’m struggling to get any verification on this site.

Everybody seems amazing on the site that I do talk too..apologies if I’m coming across whiny and poor me...

I like the way everyone is open and transparent on this site so I’m starting to think maybe it’s something I’m doing wrong...

so any feedback would be much appreciated "

That disclaimer shite at the end of your profile is a red flag for some people

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By *ex0x28Man
over a year ago

Up the Bohs


"Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips.

Me too, I’m struggling to get any verification on this site.

Everybody seems amazing on the site that I do talk too..apologies if I’m coming across whiny and poor me...

I like the way everyone is open and transparent on this site so I’m starting to think maybe it’s something I’m doing wrong...

so any feedback would be much appreciated

That disclaimer shite at the end of your profile is a red flag for some people "

Cheers man...consider gone

Why is that a red flag...probably a stupid question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding it hard to get verified. Let alone a message.

Any tips.

Me too, I’m struggling to get any verification on this site.

Everybody seems amazing on the site that I do talk too..apologies if I’m coming across whiny and poor me...

I like the way everyone is open and transparent on this site so I’m starting to think maybe it’s something I’m doing wrong...

so any feedback would be much appreciated

That disclaimer shite at the end of your profile is a red flag for some people

Cheers man...consider gone

Why is that a red flag...probably a stupid question "

Sorry just saw you replying now...

Its got zero legal standing, sydney university dont care about your cock pics for the last years, and it just makes people seem a bit like sheep.

Its been discussed before not just my own take on it btw

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By *assey265Man
over a year ago

carlow

Same here finding it hard to get chatting to anyone . Sent lots of messages to different women but im not verified so they dont get back to me

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