FabSwingers.com forum: Replies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do many guys find it hard to get replies when sending a message to someone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or what makes a lady or couple reply more?

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

if you do a forum search, this has come up every day. you will find what you seek if you search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you do a forum search, this has come up every day. you will find what you seek if you search "

What he said.

Do your homework.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or what makes a lady or couple reply more?"

The long and sort of it is, there is no magic formula, secret phrase that all coupes and women will automatically reply to

Firstly read the profiles you want to message.

Make sure they are looking to meet single guys

You are in their age range

And tailor your message to said profile

And most importantly, you can't be everyone's cup of tea, some women are Brad, some are George, others are Colin, while some are Leo.

Once you grasp that, not getting a reply to every message doesn't feel like a personal rejection.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

There's like at least 2 of these up everyday like in all fairness what do you expect us to do make people reply to you

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

I've just noticed you have verifications so ah what exactly is the problem lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or what makes a lady or couple reply more?

The long and sort of it is, there is no magic formula, secret phrase that all coupes and women will automatically reply to

Firstly read the profiles you want to message.

Make sure they are looking to meet single guys

You are in their age range

And tailor your message to said profile

And most importantly, you can't be everyone's cup of tea, some women are Brad, some are George, others are Colin, while some are Leo.

Once you grasp that, not getting a reply to every message doesn't feel like a personal rejection."

Sums it up perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say the definition of madness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

In that case, I am truly utterly insane thinking that I might meet someone every time I login lol.

But to answer your question about 99.9% of men struggle to get a reply. Some say they don't. But you know yourself.

I don't even mail women or couples anymore on here. Sick of being another guy adding to the ego boost. I am quite after shemales these days but they too are getting blasted with messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent 35 in a month not one reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Get involved on forums,read profiles to see if you match what they are looking at also a lot of patience as ratio men to women is overwhelming ohh and be a charmer like kaizer he has a way with words he didn’t get them name man beast for no reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to give a reply, especially if the message is more than 'hey, wanna fuck?'

The amount of people who say thanks for even replying is staggering on here. Manners cost nothing.

The trick is to take the polite thanks but no thanks on the chin and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done a social experiment recently: to every generic, plain and boring message that was most likely copy pasted I've sent a most generic copy pasted reply.

Outcome - 2%ish responce.

What it tells me - men don't like it when we don't treat them as individual human beings.

Also men don't like when someone doesn't reply to their actual message and receive an automated responce.

Question stands - when the hell are men going to start reading profiles before sending "Hey, how's fab treating you" crap :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest I read every profile before messaging. I send a face pic ( not brad Pitt tho) lol . Some are nice and say no thanks.. others just delete ( rude) but you will get replies by just being urself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll be honest I read every profile before messaging. I send a face pic ( not brad Pitt tho) lol . Some are nice and say no thanks.. others just delete ( rude) but you will get replies by just being urself"

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do delete sometimes, but literally only if I think the guy hasn't made an effort at all.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Done a social experiment recently: to every generic, plain and boring message that was most likely copy pasted I've sent a most generic copy pasted reply.

Outcome - 2%ish responce.

What it tells me - men don't like it when we don't treat them as individual human beings.

Also men don't like when someone doesn't reply to their actual message and receive an automated responce.

Question stands - when the hell are men going to start reading profiles before sending "Hey, how's fab treating you" crap :/ "

Well I certainly fall in the small group that actually reads the profiles like what is the point of messaging someone when your not what they are looking for like if it says women only your gunna look like a right tit messaging (no pun intended) lol

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We do try and answer every message even if it's to say sorry not interested as it's only polite to do so.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"We do try and answer every message even if it's to say sorry not interested as it's only polite to do so."

Unfortunately it's an impossible task cos once you get through as much messages as you can more messages pile on the quicker people realise that the better

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

It's not rude at all. If you receive a letter from your local bank asking you to apply for a loan that you are not interested in, do you send them a nicely worded reply back to tell them thanks but you aren't interested? No, you bin it. Because you message someone an unsolicited message does not entitle you to expect a reply

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

"We do try and answer every message even if it's to say sorry not interested as it's only polite to do so.

Unfortunately it's an impossible task cos once you get through as much messages as you can more messages pile on the quicker people realise that the better"

We dont get that many messages a day tbh

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

this

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

That’s a great way of putting it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is. "

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is. "

It's the way it is for you .

Not the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is. "

I'm only here to meet single guys. I don't get bombarded with messages like most ladies. I reply to all unless the profile has joined in the last 2 days , has no photos and no info on their profile.

Lads us women are visual people. Watch us in a shop we will look at something, touch it etc before we consider buying it. Fab is the same when I get a message first think I do is look at the profile, so no public pic, nothing in bio. If a guy is that lazy, what effort he going to make to chat to me.

Also says wants to meet tv/ts but straight on profile, turns me off. Would like to meet a bi guy as definitely interested in a mmf but be honest.

Stick with the site. I'm on off over 2 years haven't met anyone I fancied since August and no fun since December. But for me it's quality not quantity.

Best of luck

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

I do delete sometimes, but literally only if I think the guy hasn't made an effort at all. "

Deleted is good, it's a "no" and closure .

For me worst kind is "unread , not deleted".

Uderstandable due to high number of messages , but it's just like a "forever maybe" thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do many guys find it hard to get replies when sending a message to someone?"
wild hard I got 2 back in 2018

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is. "

I'm glad you're not moaning!

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

It's the way it is for you .

Not the way it is.

Exactly.. There are many very successful guys on this site, and they are not necessarily the most handsome or built like Arnie. They have personality and tenacity, they put the groundwork in and are never yo be found bitching and moaning on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it so hard to get replies so I've come up with a new plan that works a charm for me every time. Now it may not work for everyone ok so don't come running back to me saying " it didn't work...I want a refund"

So what I do is just not send any msgs at all and this way there is no disappointment when there's no replies. So if you think about it.... its a win win situation but theres just no prize at the end.

Winner winner chicken dinner

Ok that's shit and I've just made you read all that for NOTHING!!!!

See the way I put that in caps to really grab your attention.

I'm a really evil bsrd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I'm only here to meet single guys. I don't get bombarded with messages like most ladies. I reply to all unless the profile has joined in the last 2 days , has no photos and no info on their profile.

Also says wants to meet tv/ts but straight on profile, turns me off. Would like to meet a bi guy as definitely interested in a mmf but be honest.

Stick with the site. I'm on off over 2 years haven't met anyone I fancied since August and no fun since December. But for me it's quality not quantity.

Best of luck "

Absolute nonsense!

It's the men to women ratio on here that's at fault. Everybody knows that! Duh

(Being sarcastic here. You're 100% on point xx)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about. "

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

Whatever helps you sleep at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

So if you not enjoying fab op why you here? Missus definitely does not always defends fab. At end of day you get what you out into the site. Some reckon other "dating sites" they get more sex on them so go try there.

I could moan about the lack of sex I get here but I don't bother. I enjoy the banter have made some great friends and get to perve on some very hot men you wouldn't give me the time of day in real life.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go"

I've done everything.

Detailed profile. Several pics on public including a face pic at one point (bad idea I think)

I read profiles. I tailor make profile messages. I respect say, for examples, if couples only want a woman I don't go messaging.

I did it all.

You just quoted the text book shite people say. Regurgitating it from other people.

Why can't women or couples just say that being a single man here is meh. That's all. You can't. You won't. Cause you don't know what it's like. Having a vagina automatically means you'll be bombarded with mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

Whatever helps you sleep at night

Hit the nail on the head didn't I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm done.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go"

Exactly what DD has said. First thing I do is look at a profile before I answer any message. Of that profile is blank I don't answer anymore. Also I use a forums a fair bit and I avoid anyone who is posts lot of negative or snarky stuff.

I have been lucky enough to meet some wonderful people off here some who have become good friends and some I have good fun with a well.

If fab isn't working for you you can either moan about it which really won't help or maybe change what you are doing.Plenty of guys have fun on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

It's the way it is for you .

Not the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one bites the dust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go

I've done everything.

Detailed profile. Several pics on public including a face pic at one point (bad idea I think)

I read profiles. I tailor make profile messages. I respect say, for examples, if couples only want a woman I don't go messaging.

I did it all.

You just quoted the text book shite people say. Regurgitating it from other people.

SICK to the teeth of guys saying women are bombarded with mails .

And as for "you don't know what it's like"

I know he's left but lads cop the f on. Yes some women get bombarded and have meets all the time but done of us not to gorgeous women or drop dead attractive women struggle. I have been stood up 8 times, ghosted twice, publicly turned down in a coffee shop. And than been asked by an unverified guy was I fussy, why cause I'm not riding every guy that offers to shag me at the back of Tesco's.

It's not dial a ride lads.

Ok rant over

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

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"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go

I've done everything.

Detailed profile. Several pics on public including a face pic at one point (bad idea I think)

I read profiles. I tailor make profile messages. I respect say, for examples, if couples only want a woman I don't go messaging.

I did it all.

You just quoted the text book shite people say. Regurgitating it from other people.

SICK to the teeth of guys saying women are bombarded with mails .

And as for "you don't know what it's like"

It's not dial a ride lads.

Ok rant over

Nothing worse than a woman pissed off guys that lack sense do really need to wake up and start thinking with your heads than just between your legs I'd be happy to bring you out for a coffee meet not showing up just isn't in my nature it's pure childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go

I've done everything.

Detailed profile. Several pics on public including a face pic at one point (bad idea I think)

I read profiles. I tailor make profile messages. I respect say, for examples, if couples only want a woman I don't go messaging.

I did it all.

You just quoted the text book shite people say. Regurgitating it from other people.

SICK to the teeth of guys saying women are bombarded with mails .

And as for "you don't know what it's like"

It's not dial a ride lads.

Ok rant over

Spoiler man.

See that white knight stuff? It isn't going to get you a meet.

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By *nowy007Woman
over a year ago

Near Enough

That’s a great way of putting it!

Totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go

I've done everything.

Detailed profile. Several pics on public including a face pic at one point (bad idea I think)

I read profiles. I tailor make profile messages. I respect say, for examples, if couples only want a woman I don't go messaging.

I did it all.

You just quoted the text book shite people say. Regurgitating it from other people.

SICK to the teeth of guys saying women are bombarded with mails .

And as for "you don't know what it's like"

It's not dial a ride lads.

Ok rant over

Thanks and you know what we will definitely grab a coffee

So note lads sometimes been nice and actually polite "white knighting to some twats" may work.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

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"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go

I've done everything.

Detailed profile. Several pics on public including a face pic at one point (bad idea I think)

I read profiles. I tailor make profile messages. I respect say, for examples, if couples only want a woman I don't go messaging.

I did it all.

You just quoted the text book shite people say. Regurgitating it from other people.

SICK to the teeth of guys saying women are bombarded with mails .

And as for "you don't know what it's like"

It's not dial a ride lads.

Ok rant over

Spoiler man.

See that white knight stuff? It isn't going to get you a meet.

Nothing with being nice dude weather that gets me a meet or not is pretty much upto the ladies here you should try being nice for a change beats being a grumpy feck

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over a year ago

I do get a lot of messages.. Not being cocky I just do.. But lads make an effort, profile pic, detailed profile and a quirky message with a bit of banter will catch my attention the quickest.

Make the effort and you will be rewarded I think is the moral of the story

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go

I've done everything.

Detailed profile. Several pics on public including a face pic at one point (bad idea I think)

I read profiles. I tailor make profile messages. I respect say, for examples, if couples only want a woman I don't go messaging.

I did it all.

You just quoted the text book shite people say. Regurgitating it from other people.

SICK to the teeth of guys saying women are bombarded with mails .

And as for "you don't know what it's like"

It's not dial a ride lads.

Ok rant over

Spoiler man.

See that white knight stuff? It isn't going to get you a meet.

Good start for you would be to drop the "white knight" label, respect on forums and in life is not gender specific ,but one of basics of human contact .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do many guys find it hard to get replies when sending a message to someone?"

OP you are one of the nicest most genuine guys I've met on fab and any girl that gets a message from you is a lucky one!!

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over a year ago

"Meh.

Being a guy on here sucks. Just the way it is. Not moaning because as I say, it's just the way it is.

I honestly am coming to an end using this website. What's the point sending mails if you are not going to get replies? What's the point sending face pics out then feeling ugly or rejected.

This website has no value for a single man. All it does is give you false hope.

Just the way it is.

I've yet to see a single post from yourself saying anything positive.

Maybe you should look at yourself for a change instead of blaming the whole world for things you're not pleased about.

I have also noticed you love to defend fab. Almost like anything negative said against it, you take as a personal attack. Doesn't matter what is said. YOU MUST defend fab.

Which is the sign of a narrow minded biased person.

How about putting a pic on public and some bio and see how you go

I've done everything.

Detailed profile. Several pics on public including a face pic at one point (bad idea I think)

I read profiles. I tailor make profile messages. I respect say, for examples, if couples only want a woman I don't go messaging.

I did it all.

You just quoted the text book shite people say. Regurgitating it from other people.

SICK to the teeth of guys saying women are bombarded with mails .

And as for "you don't know what it's like"

It's not dial a ride lads.

Ok rant over

Spoiler man.

See that white knight stuff? It isn't going to get you a meet.

Good start for you would be to drop the "white knight" label, respect on forums and in life is not gender specific ,but one of basics of human contact .

Come on now... Respect on the internet? Respect on here?

How many couples a day or women get called a c.u.n.t. because they don't reply to someone on here?

When it comes to sex and scoring I e lost count with the amount of times lads who I personally knew scored points of me or tried to ruin my chances to increase theres.

Not to mention anytime I said something (while I had an agenda like the above) I got called out on it.

Respect is a nice concept. Doesn't always happen tho.

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