FabSwingers.com forum: Is this site worth while staying ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone.

So I'm pretty new here (4 weeks on the site )

And I'm finding it strange that there ain't much interaction?

Iv sent a few messages but very little reply, maybe it's my age or location is again me ? As the south east is very poor in regards to meeting honest ppl. Maybe if I was in Dublin I'd have more of a chance:/. Is there any tips or hints to meeting ppl here .

Regards ben

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, OP, I genuinely don't wish for this to sound rude

but the best thing would be to use the forum 'search' option for threads on profile and/or message advice.

There's plenty of selfless and worthwhile advice from Fabbers that I fear I'd just be repeating.

What I will say though is that there's no expiry date on your profile so never get down or too preoccupied about meeting someone. Just take things as they come

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honestly, OP, I genuinely don't wish for this to sound rude

but the best thing would be to use the forum 'search' option for threads on profile and/or message advice.

There's plenty of selfless and worthwhile advice from Fabbers that I fear I'd just be repeating.

What I will say though is that there's no expiry date on your profile so never get down or too preoccupied about meeting someone. Just take things as they come

Thank you for your advice

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By *utterMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Just keep trying man!

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

4 wks is not a long time op.

Try stick to one profile instead of rejoining. ( I see this profile is only here a week).

Add some public pics. Torso butt etc classy but sexy .

Be photo veri'd at least.

Join in on the forums.

Be patient.

Do a fourm search on threads like these there is at least 2 per week over the yrs. Great advice you will find.

Best of luck op.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Its not easy on here sometimes, when ye message someone if you don't stand out that message unfortunately gets lost or deleted it's not me being rude by doing this its the volume of messsges i get...

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By *onjuan234Man
over a year ago

Limerick

Yes i find since i started using the forums more i have more interactions with people

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By *onjuan234Man
over a year ago

Limerick

Im also planning to go to an event so that might be another route to go

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

We would ignore profiles with no public pics at all.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

The woman-man ratio is about 1:10 maybe even higher, in other words there's a sausage oversupply and nobody is queing for bananas.

So if you're looking for a quick ride you're on the wrong site.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Depends on the type of message you are sending -read profiles and only message those that you think you may have something in common with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy, It took me good six weeks since I joined to arrange the first play session and become verified. I elected not to meet several solely because I got the vibe that some had massively over-inflated ego's, probably as a result of all the male attention they receive, or maybe they were just toxic and narcissistic to begin with? I would hazard a guess there are at least ten guys for every woman on Fab, so most of them are absolutely inundated with messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice. Cheers ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your here a week an expect a meet seriously? I was here for 6 months before I finally got a meet. Key is to be patient and engage in the forums and chat rooms. Have the craic and the banter. And you never know a meet up could be sooner best of luck pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice. Cheers ??"

Read the profiles and when u message mention something from their profile. Don't ask straight out do you want to meet at hotel? Most women even the inflated egos one don't meet at the drop of a hat either.

Take your time, get chatting if forums, make your profile attractive its a shop window as such and us women like to see what we buying

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No one can answer that for you. If you stick around just keep sending messages. Engage in the forums like people have said even in the chat rooms so that people see you. And have patience as well.

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Hi everyone.

So I'm pretty new here (4 weeks on the site )

And I'm finding it strange that there ain't much interaction?

Regards ben "

4 weeks ? You're profile says joined 1 week ago ?

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

Your status says you can accommodate but further down your profile says you don’t.

Comes across as confusing...

You also state you’re here 4 weeks, but again it states 1

Small things like that can confuse people and make them avoid as it can appear you’re not truthful...

Sure, send us a mail and see what happens

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