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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people ever worry that they will meet a nutter on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would worry that we wouldn't......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can meet nutters everywhere mate!

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

These sites attract the nutters. Some of them even wear each other's clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met nutters a few times. People I know met nutters a few times. Just like real life - cut contact and move away from the nutty circle.

Real nutters who wear a nutter hat can be dangerous, but you can come across them anywhere in life.

On fab is actually much easier to avoid meeting real nutters as it's easy to identify them by their posted statuses and forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you didn't, would that be because you'd be the nutter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people ever worry that they will meet a nutter on here "

Youre a fella on fab, the only worry you should have is how you're gonna meet anyone at all

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

No, I don't.

I have met people in secluded areas and everything. If they are strange I'd just say good bye, well maybe "Ill call you later" depending on how good the blow job was, but then I wouldnt call them later.

If they tried to murder me or something I would laugh, the idea is laughable, Id pick them up and snap them over my knee. Unless it was one of the overweight people, I'm not putting my back out, ill just push them over and roll them away.

I do worry about meeting girls that have loads of veris and seem to not give a shit who they meet. I worry they will be murdered and the police will come to question me about it, and read out my messages to them, and the cop will read out "I'm going to put my feet behind my head and jerk off while you finger my asshole, then cum all over my own face".. then the cop will pause and look at me and say "did you sent this message to her?" and ill be like "look I was going through ptsd I didnt know what I was saying", then they will be like "yeah okay".. then move on to read other messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don't.

I have met people in secluded areas and everything. If they are strange I'd just say good bye, well maybe "Ill call you later" depending on how good the blow job was, but then I wouldnt call them later.

If they tried to murder me or something I would laugh, the idea is laughable, Id pick them up and snap them over my knee. Unless it was one of the overweight people, I'm not putting my back out, ill just push them over and roll them away.

I do worry about meeting girls that have loads of veris and seem to not give a shit who they meet. I worry they will be murdered and the police will come to question me about it, and read out my messages to them, and the cop will read out "I'm going to put my feet behind my head and jerk off while you finger my asshole, then cum all over my own face".. then the cop will pause and look at me and say "did you sent this message to her?" and ill be like "look I was going through ptsd I didnt know what I was saying", then they will be like "yeah okay".. then move on to read other messages."

The next time your trying to pick up an over weight person remember your manual handling training, it will save the back

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"No, I don't.

I have met people in secluded areas and everything. If they are strange I'd just say good bye, well maybe "Ill call you later" depending on how good the blow job was, but then I wouldnt call them later.

If they tried to murder me or something I would laugh, the idea is laughable, Id pick them up and snap them over my knee. Unless it was one of the overweight people, I'm not putting my back out, ill just push them over and roll them away.

I do worry about meeting girls that have loads of veris and seem to not give a shit who they meet. I worry they will be murdered and the police will come to question me about it, and read out my messages to them, and the cop will read out "I'm going to put my feet behind my head and jerk off while you finger my asshole, then cum all over my own face".. then the cop will pause and look at me and say "did you sent this message to her?" and ill be like "look I was going through ptsd I didnt know what I was saying", then they will be like "yeah okay".. then move on to read other messages.

The next time your trying to pick up an over weight person remember your manual handling training, it will save the back"

just bend at the knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, my nutter warning system is set to max.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope not really I always chat for a while first anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a website that would attract the craziest of nutters. Think about it, how many people know you are on fab in your life? (Forget your obvious partner if you're a couple)

You are hardly gonna ring up your best mate and say how you're meeting a random stranger off a website for sex. So that kind of secretiveness lends to meetings weirdos.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"This is a website that would attract the craziest of nutters. Think about it, how many people know you are on fab in your life? (Forget your obvious partner if you're a couple)

You are hardly gonna ring up your best mate and say how you're meeting a random stranger off a website for sex. So that kind of secretiveness lends to meetings weirdos.

"

My best mate knows when I'm going for a new meet

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"This is a website that would attract the craziest of nutters. Think about it, how many people know you are on fab in your life? (Forget your obvious partner if you're a couple)

You are hardly gonna ring up your best mate and say how you're meeting a random stranger off a website for sex. So that kind of secretiveness lends to meeting weirdos"

I don't know about men but I'm pretty sure most women on here back their meets up, meaning there's at least one person functioning as a confidant who knows who you meet, when and where.

Given the nature of the site people are extra cautious and carefully check out their meets. I don't think the chances of meeting a weirdo on here are any bigger than other ways of meeting people.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes and I have done, twice.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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It isn't always that obvious, I've met someone who didn't show just how crazy he was until years later, and mostly because of him it does greatly worry me, so much that I'd probably rather not meet a tall

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By *onjuan234Man
over a year ago

Limerick


"It isn't always that obvious, I've met someone who didn't show just how crazy he was until years later, and mostly because of him it does greatly worry me, so much that I'd probably rather not meet a tall "

Sounds like a horrible situation, i hope there is more normal people out there than nutters, don't give up on it

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"It isn't always that obvious, I've met someone who didn't show just how crazy he was until years later, and mostly because of him it does greatly worry me, so much that I'd probably rather not meet a tall "

Years later sounds more like a relationship issue rather than a meeting a fab weirdo.

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By *ustkrissMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's not the nutters I worry about it's the sneaky ones.

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Definitely there all sorts on here I guess but the coffee meets and texting before hands always good.. If you listen to someone long enough they will tell you who they really are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met 2 `nutters` on a well known apparently reputable dating site. I've been lucky with Fab, but I have heard some horror stories that are apparently true from both Men & Women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a nutter and proud of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nutters are insatiable in the sack

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Your best of just joining them I’m a ginger nutter and quite happy about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely there all sorts on here I guess but the coffee meets and texting before hands always good.. If you listen to someone long enough they will tell you who they really are "

Bingo, people reveal far more of themselves than they realise in casual chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty sure we are all a bit nuts in here lol

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Dont write your profile as a guide how to manipulate you. Weirdos cant help but talk about how strange they are when you let them. If you write up "dont message me if you are x" then they will tell you they are not x.

Dont expect people on here to help you. Its generally thought that manipulating people for sex is okay on here.

For example.

If you write on your page:

"No bi people or black people. I have nothing against you but I am here to meet a small number of people and the HIV rate is climbing in the bi community and it is pandemic levels in the black community. I know this isn't black peoples fault, we just help rehome a lot of people from africa that have HIV, but I am just here for a bit of fun hanky panky, thanks".

Well expect every man/woman that messages you to hide their verifications from black/bi people, and for their profile to say they are straight. This does not mean they are a weirdo, it just means manipulation is seen as normal.

Also a thread was made on the forum a while ago where women openly laughed at other women who had "No bi men" on their profiles, because most had been verified by bi men, and they said it always makes them laugh when they come across it.

This is an issue that happens people when they read YOUR preferences. If you write on your profile "no bi-black people" and give the above reason, women/men into bi or black people do not read that reason, all they read is "I think I am better than you".

So when you get manipulated into meeting someone like that, they just smile and laugh and think "he/she thought they were better than me"

So expect no real help from anyone on here.

Instead write something like "Been on here a long time, nothing shocks me, and most of it turns me on", and let them tell you their desires and then you judge if they are a match for you or not. Then the other people on here wont think that you think youre better than them, and people wont try and hide stuff as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently one of my newest neighbors is of the opinion I'm a dangerous and depraved individual who is into torturing women.

Long story short- I met this lady on one of the dating sites over the summer, we clicked immediately and she followed me back to my Gaff for some naughty fun.

Anyway while I was giving her oral she began to scream very very loudly, so loudly I thought my poor eardrums were going to explode. Turns out she's a classically trained singer, and my new neighbor copped an earful of her very vocal performance while he was walking his dog near my place..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I'm watching too many crime documentaries at the moment

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"It isn't always that obvious, I've met someone who didn't show just how crazy he was until years later, and mostly because of him it does greatly worry me, so much that I'd probably rather not meet a tall

Years later sounds more like a relationship issue rather than a meeting a fab weirdo."

Far from it, more like a stalker issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont write your profile as a guide how to manipulate you. Weirdos cant help but talk about how strange they are when you let them. If you write up "dont message me if you are x" then they will tell you they are not x.

Dont expect people on here to help you. Its generally thought that manipulating people for sex is okay on here.

For example.

If you write on your page:

"No bi people or black people. I have nothing against you but I am here to meet a small number of people and the HIV rate is climbing in the bi community and it is pandemic levels in the black community. I know this isn't black peoples fault, we just help rehome a lot of people from africa that have HIV, but I am just here for a bit of fun hanky panky, thanks".

Well expect every man/woman that messages you to hide their verifications from black/bi people, and for their profile to say they are straight. This does not mean they are a weirdo, it just means manipulation is seen as normal.

Also a thread was made on the forum a while ago where women openly laughed at other women who had "No bi men" on their profiles, because most had been verified by bi men, and they said it always makes them laugh when they come across it.

This is an issue that happens people when they read YOUR preferences. If you write on your profile "no bi-black people" and give the above reason, women/men into bi or black people do not read that reason, all they read is "I think I am better than you".

So when you get manipulated into meeting someone like that, they just smile and laugh and think "he/she thought they were better than me"

So expect no real help from anyone on here.

Instead write something like "Been on here a long time, nothing shocks me, and most of it turns me on", and let them tell you their desires and then you judge if they are a match for you or not. Then the other people on here wont think that you think youre better than them, and people wont try and hide stuff as much."

You are not well

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"You are not well "

Great input, but you might be projecting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people ever worry that they will meet a nutter on here "

Everyone's met at least one on here haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont write your profile as a guide how to manipulate you. Weirdos cant help but talk about how strange they are when you let them. If you write up "dont message me if you are x" then they will tell you they are not x.

Dont expect people on here to help you. Its generally thought that manipulating people for sex is okay on here.

For example.

If you write on your page:

"No bi people or black people. I have nothing against you but I am here to meet a small number of people and the HIV rate is climbing in the bi community and it is pandemic levels in the black community. I know this isn't black peoples fault, we just help rehome a lot of people from africa that have HIV, but I am just here for a bit of fun hanky panky, thanks".

Well expect every man/woman that messages you to hide their verifications from black/bi people, and for their profile to say they are straight. This does not mean they are a weirdo, it just means manipulation is seen as normal.

Also a thread was made on the forum a while ago where women openly laughed at other women who had "No bi men" on their profiles, because most had been verified by bi men, and they said it always makes them laugh when they come across it.

This is an issue that happens people when they read YOUR preferences. If you write on your profile "no bi-black people" and give the above reason, women/men into bi or black people do not read that reason, all they read is "I think I am better than you".

So when you get manipulated into meeting someone like that, they just smile and laugh and think "he/she thought they were better than me"

So expect no real help from anyone on here.

Instead write something like "Been on here a long time, nothing shocks me, and most of it turns me on", and let them tell you their desires and then you judge if they are a match for you or not. Then the other people on here wont think that you think youre better than them, and people wont try and hide stuff as much.

You are not well "

I thought it was an interesting point actually. Obviously very considered but wasted on a public forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't need to worry about as we have already met our share of nutters on here. live and learn.

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