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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

Ok, a question... What's the main reason you decide to meet someone from here. Is it trust...just full on attraction.... Discreetness or probaly a million other reasons. Thanks for your reply in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust, attraction and wanting to spread some joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To my surprise, they agreed...??

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"To my surprise, they agreed...??"
agreement is always key....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A million reasons!

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"A million reasons! "
oh jaysus.....lol

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Ok, a question... What's the main reason you decide to meet someone from here. Is it trust...just full on attraction.... Discreetness or probaly a million other reasons. Thanks for your reply in advance

There has to be a certain connection - both physical attraction and mental. If we can’t have a conversation it ain’t happening.

Unless we’re in a club....

With a horn....

In which case the above will probably go out the window

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

True and true... Lol

There has to be a certain connection - both physical attraction and mental. If we can’t have a conversation it ain’t happening.

Unless we’re in a club....

With a horn....

In which case the above will probably go out the window

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By *bwcouple4funCouple
over a year ago

New Ross

Respect

Trustful

Photos/videos

Verified

Discretion

Safe

Non pushy

Not so much attraction everyone is unique in their own ways.

In the end of the day looks dont always bring good sex or and a good person.

That's why we give most people a chance.

But if they cant do the above its a nope from us

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It has to be someone I get on with and have a laugh with mostly. Yes there has to be some attraction as well. Trust is built once you know someone. I always chat for a bit before I meet so you can get a decent idea of what the person is like and I find normally that works out well for me anyhow. Hopefully for them as well

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"Respect

Trustful

Photos/videos

Verified

Discretion

Safe

Non pushy

Not so much attraction everyone is unique in their own ways.

In the end of the day looks dont always bring good sex or and a good person.

That's why we give most people a chance.

But if they cant do the above its a nope from us"
thanks for the great detail

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"It has to be someone I get on with and have a laugh with mostly. Yes there has to be some attraction as well. Trust is built once you know someone. I always chat for a bit before I meet so you can get a decent idea of what the person is like and I find normally that works out well for me anyhow. Hopefully for them as well

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I'll have to work on the chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though I'm fairly new here, I've decided not to meet up with a few women and couples solely because I just got a bad vibe from them while we were chatting initially.

I do like a woman who is confident and sassy, although some of the women on Fab appear to have massively over inflated ego's, maybe it's just a result of all the male attention they receive, or maybe they just had a narcissistic personality disorder to begin with.

Needless to say I don't crave female approval, so I just walk if I get the vibe she's a ball breaking bitch..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I find attractive and can get along with easily.. That's good enough for a social and after that then maybe a meet

If it feels forced then I don't bother

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By *bwcouple4funCouple
over a year ago

New Ross

"Respect

Trustful

Photos/videos

Verified

Discretion

Safe

Non pushy

Not so much attraction everyone is unique in their own ways.

In the end of the day looks dont always bring good sex or and a good person.

That's why we give most people a chance.

But if they cant do the above its a nope from us thanks for the great detail

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just our way of meeting people cant speak for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple "road frontage"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me firstly if the chat flows on fab

If it flows then a coffee meet to see if the chat still flows and if I'm attracted when meeting in person

If I am then I will take it further

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

I only came for the strawberries and cream and a couple of lovely peaches any takers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple "road frontage"

Your a hure Hardy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So that when we go to karaoke and sing "Islands in the Stream" I only have to dress like Kenny Rogers for a change

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"Simple "road frontage"

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lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to explain few good points above. I have given guys a chance I never should have even replied to let alone meet for coffee.

If I like their pic and their veris say they actually turn up I'll agree to a coffee.

Instant turn off is all the your gorgeous chat etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So that when we go to karaoke and sing "Islands in the Stream" I only have to dress like Kenny Rogers for a change

I've a blonde dolly wig and a cowboy hat

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"For me firstly if the chat flows on fab

If it flows then a coffee meet to see if the chat still flows and if I'm attracted when meeting in person

If I am then I will take it further "
I'm introvert enough so I'll have to improve chat skills.. Lol

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics, some detail in their bio, not pushy, can string a sentence together, all good for starters.

Getting into a bit of conversation - Respectful of boundaries, doesn't gossip about other users, have a chip on their shoulder or bitch and whine about how the world has it in for them, they're really knocking it out of the park now.

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"Hard to explain few good points above. I have given guys a chance I never should have even replied to let alone meet for coffee.

If I like their pic and their veris say they actually turn up I'll agree to a coffee.

Instant turn off is all the your gorgeous chat etc

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what if there's no veries to verify..... More sweating here... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice pics, some detail in their bio, not pushy, can string a sentence together, all good for starters.

I met a guy for coffee once he proceeded to tell me about other women he had met from my area. One in particular where she worked etc not very discreet whatsoever

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"Nice pics, some detail in their bio, not pushy, can string a sentence together, all good for starters.

I met a guy for coffee once he proceeded to tell me about other women he had met from my area. One in particular where she worked etc not very discreet whatsoever "
I'd defo be terrified of my privacy being compromised... :0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice pics, some detail in their bio, not pushy, can string a sentence together, all good for starters.

I met a guy for coffee once he proceeded to tell me about other women he had met from my area. One in particular where she worked etc not very discreet whatsoever "

Lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice pics, some detail in their bio, not pushy, can string a sentence together, all good for starters.

I met a guy for coffee once he proceeded to tell me about other women he had met from my area. One in particular where she worked etc not very discreet whatsoever

Lovely!

I remember sitting there thinking if I didn't like that person could have her sacked . Hence the guy is blocked.

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"Nice pics, some detail in their bio, not pushy, can string a sentence together, all good for starters.

I met a guy for coffee once he proceeded to tell me about other women he had met from my area. One in particular where she worked etc not very discreet whatsoever

Lovely!

I remember sitting there thinking if I didn't like that person could have her sacked . Hence the guy is blocked."
I think people like that should be just blocked from the site but probably not possible

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By *bwcouple4funCouple
over a year ago

New Ross

Ohhh yeah just seen a few comments.

Definitely an we have told people to leave the meet due to bitching an talking about other member's.

That's exactly how rumours start and it has happened to us an most likely still is but do we care not really.

However its still not nice. Rumours can turn people off others even if its untrue an false information.

Play a whisper game start with a sentence with say 20 people by the time it comes back to you its a completely different sentence.

Its the same here with others bitching about others If you dont get on with someone or had a bad meet block them an leave them.

no need to talk an spread crap about your bad meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhh yeah just seen a few comments.

Definitely an we have told people to leave the meet due to bitching an talking about other member's.

That's exactly how rumours start and it has happened to us an most likely still is but do we care not really.

However its still not nice. Rumours can turn people off others even if its untrue an false information.

Play a whisper game start with a sentence with say 20 people by the time it comes back to you its a completely different sentence.

Its the same here with others bitching about others If you dont get on with someone or had a bad meet block them an leave them.

no need to talk an spread crap about your bad meet.

Not sure if you having a go at what I've posted. But it's not rumours and I haven't named anyone. And I have also been on receiving end of lies and rumours

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

Hi guys and gals, thanks very much for all the great info and feedback. It helped a lot. Thank again

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By *bwcouple4funCouple
over a year ago

New Ross

"Ohhh yeah just seen a few comments.

Definitely an we have told people to leave the meet due to bitching an talking about other member's.

That's exactly how rumours start and it has happened to us an most likely still is but do we care not really.

However its still not nice. Rumours can turn people off others even if its untrue an false information.

Play a whisper game start with a sentence with say 20 people by the time it comes back to you its a completely different sentence.

Its the same here with others bitching about others If you dont get on with someone or had a bad meet block them an leave them.

no need to talk an spread crap about your bad meet.

Not sure if you having a go at what I've posted. But it's not rumours and I haven't named anyone. And I have also been on receiving end of lies and rumours "
no no no no I'm like agreeing with all of the above its noting to do with anyone on this topic by all means. Is just in general sorry if you picked me up wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhh yeah just seen a few comments.

Definitely an we have told people to leave the meet due to bitching an talking about other member's.

That's exactly how rumours start and it has happened to us an most likely still is but do we care not really.

However its still not nice. Rumours can turn people off others even if its untrue an false information.

Play a whisper game start with a sentence with say 20 people by the time it comes back to you its a completely different sentence.

Its the same here with others bitching about others If you dont get on with someone or had a bad meet block them an leave them.

no need to talk an spread crap about your bad meet.

Not sure if you having a go at what I've posted. But it's not rumours and I haven't named anyone. And I have also been on receiving end of lies and rumours no no no no I'm like agreeing with all of the above its noting to do with anyone on this topic by all means. Is just in general sorry if you picked me up wrong

No bother.

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By *bwcouple4funCouple
over a year ago

New Ross

"Ohhh yeah just seen a few comments.

Definitely an we have told people to leave the meet due to bitching an talking about other member's.

That's exactly how rumours start and it has happened to us an most likely still is but do we care not really.

However its still not nice. Rumours can turn people off others even if its untrue an false information.

Play a whisper game start with a sentence with say 20 people by the time it comes back to you its a completely different sentence.

Its the same here with others bitching about others If you dont get on with someone or had a bad meet block them an leave them.

no need to talk an spread crap about your bad meet.

No bother. "
sorry could have worded it better

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Ohhh yeah just seen a few comments.

Definitely an we have told people to leave the meet due to bitching an talking about other member's.

That's exactly how rumours start and it has happened to us an most likely still is but do we care not really.

However its still not nice. Rumours can turn people off others even if its untrue an false information.

Play a whisper game start with a sentence with say 20 people by the time it comes back to you its a completely different sentence.

Its the same here with others bitching about others If you dont get on with someone or had a bad meet block them an leave them.

no need to talk an spread crap about your bad meet.

No bother. sorry could have worded it better

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As Casey said no blabbering on to others about meets , Ireland is a small enough place , I have cousins on here lol

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Attraction

Banter

They also have to be sound as a pound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me firstly if the chat flows on fab

If it flows then a coffee meet to see if the chat still flows and if I'm attracted when meeting in person

If I am then I will take it further I'm introvert enough so I'll have to improve chat skills.. Lol"

Most people are chatty on fab, but in person lose the bravado lol

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By *arbiegirl19Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount

Someone that can hold a conversation..

Witty and sarcastic funny..

Someone that's fun to be with..

Someone u can feel comfortable chatting with..

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

Age

Gender

Inquisitiveness

Pix

Rapport

Experience (or lack of)

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"Someone that can hold a conversation..

Witty and sarcastic funny..

Someone that's fun to be with..

Someone u can feel comfortable chatting with.."
if you add awkward and clumsy to that list.... I'm perfect... Lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

An arse that you could stand your bike in.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"An arse that you could stand your bike in. "

Does your bike not have one of those bike stands attached to the bike and when needed it folds out?

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"An arse that you could stand your bike in.

Does your bike not have one of those bike stands attached to the bike and when needed it folds out?

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I think there's a grant for that like... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have heavy tits and are easy to get on with

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"An arse that you could stand your bike in.

Does your bike not have one of those bike stands attached to the bike and when needed it folds out?

It does but it's not half as much fun.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Tall, funny, not too far away, killer thighs, hairy legs, nice smile.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Tall, funny, not too far away, killer thighs, hairy legs, nice smile."

Would you settle for one of those?

Dublin isn't too far away from Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reasons I agree to meet is if the woman Is in the same boat as myself married and not getting any. We both leave happy and relieved lol

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I like them as a person, and also if they have a grasp of the fact that drinking a lot of water during a day can affect how visible a six pack is or what it means to be pumped after a workout.

Like people seriously think i walk around looking like I just finished an intense hour long weight lifting session all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discreet, gym fit, openminded and kinky lol

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Someone we get on with and has to have some kind of attraction, all depends on how they are in person is to whether play happens or not though

Mrs has to feel comfortable before we play

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

They've to tickle my naughty mind. Various ways to do so. However if no lustful thoughts are triggered in my mind there's no getting near me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly attraction, then banter and then manners... I like a handsome gentleman who can make me laugh.. Not too much to ask lol

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By *att360 OP Man
over a year ago

Westport

"Firstly attraction, then banter and then manners... I like a handsome gentleman who can make me laugh.. Not too much to ask lol

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. We're made for each other so.... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her pictures are jaw droppingly hot, this attracted me first. Her sense of humour is off the charts and we had great craic teasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, I'll say it,,,,,,,A BIG COCK!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decent photos, at least reasonably fit, tallish, can have a bit of banter and craic, can string a sentence together, handsome cock, respectful without being sycophantic, but sometimes even with all of the above, it's just purely down to the right message at the right time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're sound genuine and discreet is be happy. Looks won't really bother me that much as long as they have nice teeth. Didn't necessarily need to be their own haha

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"If they're sound genuine and discreet is be happy. Looks won't really bother me that much as long as they have nice teeth. Didn't necessarily need to be their own haha"

So it’s all about the teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they're sound genuine and discreet is be happy. Looks won't really bother me that much as long as they have nice teeth. Didn't necessarily need to be their own haha

So it’s all about the teeth

Look I'm one of those ppl that gets freaked out with bad or crooked teeth. I'm a weirdo I know bud it's just how I role. I've checked you out busty and you've got lovely teeth and a beautiful smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without trust there can be only bullshit

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