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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it women don't want sex like men do and I know its not all women

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I donno depends on the woman and the man I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it women don't want sex like men do and I know its not all women"

Im not sure fab has the answer to this... Everyone is individual and there's so many factors that impact on peoples sex drives.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's female sexuality got to do with women wanting sex?

Sexuality. “Human sexuality” refers to people's sexual interest in and attraction to others, as well as their capacity to have erotic experiences and responses. People's sexual orientation is their emotional and sexual attraction to particular sexes or genders, which often shapes their sexuality.

Some women have high sex drives some don't. Same as men. I know one or two friends who's male partners sex drive is way lower than theirs.

Mine is pretty low but mine comes from years of rejection and not feeling wanted.

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By *onjuan234Man
over a year ago

Limerick

In my limited experience i think in general women like to get to know someone before jumping into bed but men don't feel like tha

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Absolutely we can programme ourselves from are experiences in life iam not what my emotions are my thoughts...instincts can control us to be human is not easy....

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

There's endless reasons for this. However there's a lot and I mean an awful lot of shite sex out there. If it regularly results in a frustrating experience you might stop looking for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's endless reasons for this. However there's a lot and I mean an awful lot of shite sex out there. If it regularly results in a frustrating experience you might stop looking for it. "

This!

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Ram a big dildo in and out of your mouth as hard as you can then shove it up your arse.

Then when youre about to cum, stop, slap the dildo across your face, then chuck it out the window, and lay alone unsatisfied for the rest of the night with a sore throat and ass.

Then you will know why women have to be in the mood for it.

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Maybe it's because a woman's work is never done. They just don't have the time

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

SOME women dont like sex like SOME men do. (Also some men dont like sex like some women do).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married for a long time and I used to have sex every six weeks when my husband sulked enough to get it. I remember telling my friends I would happily never have sex again. Why did I not want sex well I worked three part time jobs to keep the bank from taking the house I had very small kids. My husband was unemployed and did little to help except make a mess. By the time bed time rolled around I would be too wrecked for sex. Plus his idea of making a effort would be dip his cock in the sink. I think he would not believe I was on a swing site since we separated. It's so good to finally enjoy sex instead of crying silently into a pillow during it. I thought it was my libido but it was just the unhappy marriage I was in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ram a big dildo in and out of your mouth as hard as you can then shove it up your arse.

Then when youre about to cum, stop, slap the dildo across your face, then chuck it out the window, and lay alone unsatisfied for the rest of the night with a sore throat and ass.

Then you will know why women have to be in the mood for it."

Literally just spat out my coffee reading this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was married for a long time and I used to have sex every six weeks when my husband sulked enough to get it. I remember telling my friends I would happily never have sex again. Why did I not want sex well I worked three part time jobs to keep the bank from taking the house I had very small kids. My husband was unemployed and did little to help except make a mess. By the time bed time rolled around I would be too wrecked for sex. Plus his idea of making a effort would be dip his cock in the sink. I think he would not believe I was on a swing site since we separated. It's so good to finally enjoy sex instead of crying silently into a pillow during it. I thought it was my libido but it was just the unhappy marriage I was in. "

Ah glad you discovered good sex xx

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I was married for a long time and I used to have sex every six weeks when my husband sulked enough to get it. I remember telling my friends I would happily never have sex again. Why did I not want sex well I worked three part time jobs to keep the bank from taking the house I had very small kids. My husband was unemployed and did little to help except make a mess. By the time bed time rolled around I would be too wrecked for sex. Plus his idea of making a effort would be dip his cock in the sink. I think he would not believe I was on a swing site since we separated. It's so good to finally enjoy sex instead of crying silently into a pillow during it. I thought it was my libido but it was just the unhappy marriage I was in. "

So sorry to hear you had it so bad. Kudos for getting out though its not easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was married for a long time and I used to have sex every six weeks when my husband sulked enough to get it. I remember telling my friends I would happily never have sex again. Why did I not want sex well I worked three part time jobs to keep the bank from taking the house I had very small kids. My husband was unemployed and did little to help except make a mess. By the time bed time rolled around I would be too wrecked for sex. Plus his idea of making a effort would be dip his cock in the sink. I think he would not believe I was on a swing site since we separated. It's so good to finally enjoy sex instead of crying silently into a pillow during it. I thought it was my libido but it was just the unhappy marriage I was in. "

I never thought I would be on a sex site either

My ex husband tried to set a rule of sex on certain nights of the week

That's when he definitely got told to fuck off

When your unhappy in a marriage the last thing you want is sex with the person your unhappy with

I got to the point I covered up as I didn't even want him to see me naked...

One thing Fab has given me, the chance to explore my sexual desires

And I've had some amazing experiences

Thank you to Fab and to those people that made me like a desired woman again

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I think its evolution. A man's role is to spread the seed far and wide. Women are preggers for 9 months so don't need it as much .....

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By *ouandme4240Couple
over a year ago

Galway


"Why is it women don't want sex like men do and I know its not all women"

Maybe ask her.

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

For men sex is difficult to get and takes work so we are obsessed by it, for women sex is easy to get if they want it, so it's less of an obsession for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ram a big dildo in and out of your mouth as hard as you can then shove it up your arse.

Then when youre about to cum, stop, slap the dildo across your face, then chuck it out the window, and lay alone unsatisfied for the rest of the night with a sore throat and ass.

Then you will know why women have to be in the mood for it."

Actually lol'd at this, I don't know how, but I have pictured exactly what it could be like for a woman and I feel embarrassed for us men lol

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By *ouandme4240Couple
over a year ago

Galway


"Ram a big dildo in and out of your mouth as hard as you can then shove it up your arse.

Then when youre about to cum, stop, slap the dildo across your face, then chuck it out the window, and lay alone unsatisfied for the rest of the night with a sore throat and ass.

Then you will know why women have to be in the mood for it."

Dude

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By *onjuan234Man
over a year ago

Limerick

I had some gay encounters and just thought, this is what a woman goes through, above post is similar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For men sex is difficult to get and takes work so we are obsessed by it, for women sex is easy to get if they want it, so it's less of an obsession for them. "

Easy to get for women? Not for us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ram a big dildo in and out of your mouth as hard as you can then shove it up your arse.

Then when youre about to cum, stop, slap the dildo across your face, then chuck it out the window, and lay alone unsatisfied for the rest of the night with a sore throat and ass.

Then you will know why women have to be in the mood for it."

Is this a metaphor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's endless reasons for this. However there's a lot and I mean an awful lot of shite sex out there. If it regularly results in a frustrating experience you might stop looking for it. "

Like anything in life....if you want to be good at something you have to work at it....research it....and realise it's not all about you and the fun is seeing the other person enjoying themselves

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By *ubyRidesAgainWoman
over a year ago

RebelRoad


"There's endless reasons for this. However there's a lot and I mean an awful lot of shite sex out there. If it regularly results in a frustrating experience you might stop looking for it.

Like anything in life....if you want to be good at something you have to work at it....research it....and realise it's not all about you and the fun is seeing the other person enjoying themselves "

sounds good

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

After men have sex everything is all right. When everything is all right women will have sex. Men feel great when their favourite erogenous zone (their genitals) is stimulated. Women feel great when their favourite zone is open(their heart). Trying to get the two to match at the same time can be difficult.That's why early lust/love/romance between two people feels so good. It's all new and exciting, but fades when life's practicalities, children, work, illness, finances, etc sap our libido.

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts


"There's endless reasons for this. However there's a lot and I mean an awful lot of shite sex out there. If it regularly results in a frustrating experience you might stop looking for it.

Like anything in life....if you want to be good at something you have to work at it....research it....and realise it's not all about you and the fun is seeing the other person enjoying themselves "

Yeah whatevs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's endless reasons for this. However there's a lot and I mean an awful lot of shite sex out there. If it regularly results in a frustrating experience you might stop looking for it.

Like anything in life....if you want to be good at something you have to work at it....research it....and realise it's not all about you and the fun is seeing the other person enjoying themselves "

This is true, it often seems as if all a woman is required to do is show up, it's about mutual pleasure, not being a pillow princess. However, the female libido is highly influenced by how she feels about the sexual partner, in a longterm relationship issues outside the bedroom can impact heavily on a woman's desire for sex.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"There's endless reasons for this. However there's a lot and I mean an awful lot of shite sex out there. If it regularly results in a frustrating experience you might stop looking for it.

Like anything in life....if you want to be good at something you have to work at it....research it....and realise it's not all about you and the fun is seeing the other person enjoying themselves

This is true, it often seems as if all a woman is required to do is show up, it's about mutual pleasure, not being a pillow princess. However, the female libido is highly influenced by how she feels about the sexual partner, in a longterm relationship issues outside the bedroom can impact heavily on a woman's desire for sex. "

It's funny I didn't read Incocknitooh's post that we women have put more effort in.

I read it as a bit of self advertising but also as advise to other men.

But yes I agree with you good sex is about mutual pleasure. It can only be achieved when there's a two way conversation (verbal and/or nonverbal) and both listen to each other.

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By *my4bbcWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

What annoys me is men presuming that every woman will play with other women even if the woman is straight heads up a straight woman only wants jumbo sausage instead of a fish supper

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By *my4bbcWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Philip Schofield should have have considered womens before he got married and suppressed her sexuality for twenty seven years that woman deserves a medal he lived a lie and she had to put her own life on hold to cover his lie what a hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you 100% Amy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you treat a woman with the respect she deserves she will do the same to you. Same goes for a woman to her man. Don’t back down or blame one person because of hard times or financial difficulties. Support each other and push one another on to get over it, even when it gets hard. Believe in each other, don’t fuck about. Show each other love even when your mad or sad, then you can have as much sex as you like with eachother, and if your single and want to get laid don’t be a dick! Be nice, be a gentleman

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By *alrosMan
over a year ago

Limerick/Dublin/Beziers France

So perfectly answered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because a woman's work is never done. They just don't have the time "
aww that's only a myth

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