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To wink or not to wink....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering on people’s views on receiving a wink? I tend to do it as an initial icebreaker, rather than wasting a long message which gets deleted most of the time. The joys of being male here I suppose...do people look at winks or is a sending a short message better?

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I always felt sending a wink is a cop out. Dive in and take the rejection like a man

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By *inateaseWoman
over a year ago

ANTRIM

I don’t mind getting winks. I look on it as an opportunity to check out the profile and if I’m interested I’ll wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at winks honestly so I think they're a bit pointless.

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By *amesbonddublinMan
over a year ago

kildare ,Dublin and galway

I like the wink feature , hey look at my profile is pretty much what it days , you then look and either wink back or write a message if you like what you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look at winks honestly so I think they're a bit pointless."

^^^ This ^^^

I never view winks either so mailing is better in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are nice to receive

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)


"Just wondering on people’s views on receiving a wink? I tend to do it as an initial icebreaker, rather than wasting a long message which gets deleted most of the time. The joys of being male here I suppose...do people look at winks or is a sending a short message better? "

Thanks to your thread I just found lots of people winked me. I did not wink them back.

I use wink sometimes

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I never send an initial wink as I think women and couples get enough besides if they are interested then they would select who they would want to wink at and if you are interested then wink back. If you want to make the first move then I think an interesting message works better where you can tempt and tease, standing out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never pay attention to winks when we're looking for single guys -it's hard enough sifting through the mail.

When we're looking for couples a wink from the right pair will always get our attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forget there is even a wink option to look at

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I must admit some of the best chats and meets I have had have come from me winking at someone or someone winking at me so ye I def don't mind the wink option.

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

I love to give a wink to show interest also love to get 1 back just saying ladies

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By *ew directionsCouple
over a year ago

City

We look at winks and if we like the profile we wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to ignore winks from single male profiles. If it's a couple winking and we like the look of them, we'll either wink back or message them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your opinions, a mixed view seems the order of the day. I still like the wink option as I feel it saves a lot of time and the risk it will be ignored is no greater than the risk of your message being deleted anyway and it a lot less time consuming. If I get a wink back or a Hi, then I tend to make an proper effort with a decent message- which then gets deleted

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By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

We feel a wink is a lazy way of trying to get our attention, we'd reply to a proper mail faster (not a one liner) before we'd reply to a wink.

EireCpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only winks I mostly get is men can't remember last time someone I would want to meet has winked.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I dont bother with the winks either. Don't even check out the profiles I'd much rather get a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rather receive a message....

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane

Beggars can't be choosers, I'd take anything be it a message, a fab a wink or a wank ha

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