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By *amesbonddublin OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare ,Dublin and galway

I find that when I send face pics I never get any in return , just get blanked.

I think if you ask for a face pic you should send one in return even if your not interested say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could just not provide one unless they have attached one to their request.

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By *amesbonddublin OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare ,Dublin and galway


"You could just not provide one unless they have attached one to their request. "

Is that how others deal with it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if a person wants to be as discreet as possible and doesn't want to show their face to random public. You send them a face pic, they don't find you attractive for whatever reason, lose interest and aren't planning to ever meet you. Why on earth would they want to compromise their privacy and send you their photo? Especially when so many people turn Cray Cray after rejection

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By *amesbonddublin OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare ,Dublin and galway


"So if a person wants to be as discreet as possible and doesn't want to show their face to random public. You send them a face pic, they don't find you attractive for whatever reason, lose interest and aren't planning to ever meet you. Why on earth would they want to compromise their privacy and send you their photo? Especially when so many people turn Cray Cray after rejection"

Jesus..christ ..you are stunning.

Yeah but surely asking the other person to send one is risking the same compromise to their privacy , I think if you've no intention to send one back dont ask for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if a person wants to be as discreet as possible and doesn't want to show their face to random public. You send them a face pic, they don't find you attractive for whatever reason, lose interest and aren't planning to ever meet you. Why on earth would they want to compromise their privacy and send you their photo? Especially when so many people turn Cray Cray after rejection

Jesus..christ ..you are stunning.

Yeah but surely asking the other person to send one is risking the same compromise to their privacy , I think if you've no intention to send one back dont ask for one "

Then how on earth are you supposed to know if you find a person attractive?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"So if a person wants to be as discreet as possible and doesn't want to show their face to random public. You send them a face pic, they don't find you attractive for whatever reason, lose interest and aren't planning to ever meet you. Why on earth would they want to compromise their privacy and send you their photo? Especially when so many people turn Cray Cray after rejection

Jesus..christ ..you are stunning.

Yeah but surely asking the other person to send one is risking the same compromise to their privacy , I think if you've no intention to send one back dont ask for one

Then how on earth are you supposed to know if you find a person attractive? "

Catch 22 isnt it hmmmm

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By *amesbonddublin OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare ,Dublin and galway


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Then how on earth are you supposed to know if you find a person attractive? "

You should be obliged to send one if you ask for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Then how on earth are you supposed to know if you find a person attractive?

You should be obliged to send one if you ask for one "

You're not obliged to do anything for anyone.

We are all here to play by our own rules.

Nobody is forcing you to send yours either.

Honestly your attitude is just wrong.

Babe, nobody owes you anything on here. Remember that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Then how on earth are you supposed to know if you find a person attractive?

You should be obliged to send one if you ask for one "

Obliged? If we don't find someone attractive we'll tell them that, usually that's where the conversation ends so why would we then send anything more to that person. That person has effectively just been rejected why give them ammunition to be cunty if that's what they chose to do?

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)


"

Then how on earth are you supposed to know if you find a person attractive?

You should be obliged to send one if you ask for one "

There is no must for anything.

Yes, some women or couples ask on their profile about face pics. It is YOUR own decision if you send them.

OP, you are absolutely wrong. Don't be a pussy and if they didn't send you back means they didn't find you attractive enough. Simple!

We all have own rules and preferences. You may or not agree with it but please stop moaning on the forum, just accept the fact.

Good day, OP!

And stay positive!

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By *amesbonddublin OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare ,Dublin and galway

At least a response would do to say not interested we ain't all good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only send a face pic on kik...and thats only after chatting for a while here. On kik you send a photo bomb which automatically deletes after a few seconds

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By *amesbonddublin OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare ,Dublin and galway


"I only send a face pic on kik...and thats only after chatting for a while here. On kik you send a photo bomb which automatically deletes after a few seconds"

You know what that's better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only send a face pic on kik...and thats only after chatting for a while here. On kik you send a photo bomb which automatically deletes after a few seconds"

Site supporters can delete their attached photos immediately after they've been viewed on here too.

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

We never ask for facepics from anyone (unless there’s a plan to meet of course)...

We’ve often received facepics in a first message from guys and straight off they ask for one back!! (We never asked so mail gets ignored)

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere


"

Then how on earth are you supposed to know if you find a person attractive?

You should be obliged to send one if you ask for one "


" You're not obliged to do anything for anyone.

"

This....100 times!!

I will ask for face pics before agreeing to swap kik or numbers etc. No point if I'm not attracted to them. If I don't find them attractive, I used to tell them. Then I'd get hounded with 'why?' Or 'what's wrong' or the classic 'fat bitch' or something along those lines.

So now, I just don't bother. OP, become a site supporter. You can delete your pic after sending it

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)


"At least a response would do to say not interested we ain't all good looking "

Sometimes not sending anything is a reply too

You have to learn how to get the rejection OP.

There are different levels of being attractive.

I am too skinny for some. And its okay. People have preferences.

Stay positive, do not take everything too serious and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only send a face pic on kik...and thats only after chatting for a while here. On kik you send a photo bomb which automatically deletes after a few seconds

Site supporters can delete their attached photos immediately after they've been viewed on here too. "

True but not those who aren't...bit of a draw back hence using kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is obligatory, we don't provide face pics, it's stated on our profile, if people don't like it, we won't be meeting. To our knowledge its never stopped anyone from meeting us and nobody has run away screaming (yet) . In our opinion, pictures provide no indication as to whether we will be attracted to the person in the flesh.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Absolutely not, I didn't ask for the face pic so why would I send 1!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only send a face pic on kik...and thats only after chatting for a while here. On kik you send a photo bomb which automatically deletes after a few seconds"

Seriously ???

I'm not aware off this photo bomb.

Excuse me.... I'm off to explore kik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Then how on earth are you supposed to know if you find a person attractive?

You should be obliged to send one if you ask for one

You're not obliged to do anything for anyone.

We are all here to play by our own rules.

Nobody is forcing you to send yours either.

Honestly your attitude is just wrong.

Babe, nobody owes you anything on here. Remember that. "

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"I only send a face pic on kik...and thats only after chatting for a while here. On kik you send a photo bomb which automatically deletes after a few seconds"

You know you can still screen shot a photobomb pic it only takes as second to do so. I tested it out with a friend a while back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Site supporters can delete their attached photos immediately after they've been viewed on here too.

True but not those who aren't...bit of a draw back hence using kik "

One man's drawback is another's paid for feature

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I only send a face pic on kik...and thats only after chatting for a while here. On kik you send a photo bomb which automatically deletes after a few seconds

Seriously ???

I'm not aware off this photo bomb.

Excuse me.... I'm off to explore kik "

I've never heard of it either. I only send mine on here so I can delete them after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said, OP, just as you're under no obligation to send one then others aren't obligated to do the same.

If someone asks for face pics either right away or any point then you should only do so if you're comfortable meeting that requirement; no different to an age filter or any other preference they outline.

Site supporters can remove pictures from messages too, which is handy.

Only ever do what you're comfortable with, OP

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By *amesbonddublin OP   Man
over a year ago

kildare ,Dublin and galway


"Absolutely not, I didn't ask for the face pic so why would I send 1!!!!! "

Im talking about people who do ask and dont send one in the first place

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Guys make the mistake of assuming the a guy sending a face pic is the same as girl sending one, it isn't. No one gives a stuff if a guy is on a swinging site, no one is going to pass your pic around or try and link it to your FB or IG. We will ask for a face pic before any meet, I (MrP) have no problem sending mine in return as a gesture of goodwiil, but we NEVER give out MrsP's pic, we make this clear from the outset, and make no apology for it. If that's a problem then no hard feeling, move along

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