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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the biggest thing you have learned about yourself after your time on fab?

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By *un17Man
over a year ago

Ennis

I’m no good at getting meets ??

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

That is can be good fun and there are a lot of decent people on here who I have become friends with and luckily they outweigh the cockwombles on here.

Oh and that having some kinks is not weird or odd but good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That is can be good fun and there are a lot of decent people on here who I have become friends with and luckily they outweigh the cockwombles on here.

Oh and that having some kinks is not weird or odd but good fun

Couldnt agree with you more...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"That is can be good fun and there are a lot of decent people on here who I have become friends with and luckily they outweigh the cockwombles on here.

Oh and that having some kinks is not weird or odd but good fun

Depends on the kinks

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learned that doesnt matter what pics you put on profile still will be people to complain about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that it is ok to do thing's your own way and not to let others tell you well its not the fab way.It can be good fun here. There are a lot of lovely people here who have become good friends. You just learn to ignore the idiots and keep the positive good people in your circle. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

I did not point my finger. I simply raised it looked and said is it like this ?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"That is can be good fun and there are a lot of decent people on here who I have become friends with and luckily they outweigh the cockwombles on here.

Oh and that having some kinks is not weird or odd but good fun

Depends on the kinks

Helicopter watching is one

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

I did not point my finger. I simply raised it looked and said is it like this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm okay and that I'm allowed to enjoy sex and intimacy

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

I did not point my finger. I simply raised it looked and said is it like this ?

But did you have to use your little finger?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"That is can be good fun and there are a lot of decent people on here who I have become friends with and luckily they outweigh the cockwombles on here.

Oh and that having some kinks is not weird or odd but good fun

Depends on the kinks

Helicopter watching is one

That's as bad as trainspotting

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"That I'm okay and that I'm allowed to enjoy sex and intimacy "

Couldn't agree more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

I did not point my finger. I simply raised it looked and said is it like this ?

But did you have to use your little finger?"

I was comparing sizes based on the rumours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To just embrace being myself

There's someone and something for everyone so you should never feel the need to be what you're not, hide who you are or what you enjoy.

Also, that I'm more of a stickler for spelling and grammar than I once thought

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

I did not point my finger. I simply raised it looked and said is it like this ?

But did you have to use your little finger?

I was comparing sizes based on the rumours

"What I do have are a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career, skills that make me a nightmare for people like you....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

I did not point my finger. I simply raised it looked and said is it like this ?

But did you have to use your little finger?

I was comparing sizes based on the rumours

"What I do have are a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career, skills that make me a nightmare for people like you....."

People like me ....

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

I did not point my finger. I simply raised it looked and said is it like this ?

But did you have to use your little finger?

I was comparing sizes based on the rumours

"What I do have are a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career, skills that make me a nightmare for people like you....."

People like me ....

Blame Liam Neeson. He told me what to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

I did not point my finger. I simply raised it looked and said is it like this ?

But did you have to use your little finger?

I was comparing sizes based on the rumours

"What I do have are a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career, skills that make me a nightmare for people like you....."

People like me ....

Blame Liam Neeson. He told me what to say

Now there is a man I'd listen to... swoon

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"That I can't type fast enough on certain threads and that my willy makes people laugh.

I think I read the thread about that.

Yes and you pointed your finger and laughed too

I did not point my finger. I simply raised it looked and said is it like this ?

But did you have to use your little finger?

I was comparing sizes based on the rumours

"What I do have are a very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career, skills that make me a nightmare for people like you....."

People like me ....

Blame Liam Neeson. He told me what to say

Now there is a man I'd listen to... swoon

I'm Christian to his Cyrano

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my instincts about people are bang on

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I've learnt a hell of a lot since my first nervous meet as a newbie nearly 5 years ago. Nowadays I'm very calm and relaxed on a meet and nothing really fazes me. Many of my own insecurities have simply faded into the background and are now distant memories. I'm confident now and very sure of myself when I wasn't in the past. I've made some great friends and had the most wonderful experiences that most people can only dream of. Fab has given my life a purpose beyond my main purpose (raising balanced kids as best I can), laughter, fun, good conversation and so much pleasure. Stick with the glass half full positive types on here and you will have so much fun. Avoid negativity and bitchiness and always be respectful, pleasant and interested in everyone who's fab's path you cross.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That my instincts about people are bang on"

I trust my instincts more now...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

All joking aside I have found that I am comfortable here and not only can I be myself but I can be seen for being myself.

I don't pretend to be anything more than I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not to judge others for their kinks, your kink is not my kink and that's ok,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt a hell of a lot since my first nervous meet as a newbie nearly 5 years ago. Nowadays I'm very calm and relaxed on a meet and nothing really fazes me. Many of my own insecurities have simply faded into the background and are now distant memories. I'm confident now and very sure of myself when I wasn't in the past. I've made some great friends and had the most wonderful experiences that most people can only dream of. Fab has given my life a purpose beyond my main purpose (raising balanced kids as best I can), laughter, fun, good conversation and so much pleasure. Stick with the glass half full positive types on here and you will have so much fun. Avoid negativity and bitchiness and always be respectful, pleasant and interested in everyone who's fab's path you cross."

Hope it doesn't take me 5 years for my insecurities to fade away.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

To be true to myself and trust my instincts

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By *rederick2000Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you

Not to be so trusting.....

I have been burned a few times.

I will learn eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the biggest thing you have learned about yourself after your time on fab?"

Before fab I was probably a lot more judgemental. I like the fab attitude of everyone's kinks are their own and that's OK.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

That nothing shocks me and extremely open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I have more of an appetite than I thought.

That I have some beauty beyond the flaws I fixate on.

That being here is liberating, empowering and downright fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I have more of an appetite than I thought.

That I have some beauty beyond the flaws I fixate on.

That being here is liberating, empowering and downright fun!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kaizer has learned that not only is he as handsome as he's always been told but in fact he is a humble genius of a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have learned that it is ok to do thing's your own way and not to let others tell you well its not the fab way.It can be good fun here. There are a lot of lovely people here who have become good friends. You just learn to ignore the idiots and keep the positive good people in your circle. ."

I'm liking this positive attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm liking this positive attitude

Thanks Ocean x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that you meet people from all walks of life, all with their own stories & reasons for being on Fab, so never be judgemental

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

To just be myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the biggest thing you have learned about yourself after your time on fab?"

I find it impossible to find out about people, when they hide their profiles !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm terrible at first messages,but apparently very good at oral.

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

"What's the biggest thing you have learned about yourself after your time on fab?"

Learned? It has been told many times to me that I am a swinger shark

Do not get me wrong, I was laughing and when asked for explanation, this was given to me:

- long term swinger

- knowing how to please women without even asking for likes and dislikes

- being confident and super sexy

I had my insecurities on the beginning of this journey (15 years ago) and thanks to my lovely hubby, all gone.

He was always the first one who asked me "wanna try it?"

Years of experience, meeting different people from different countries and cultures make me a "swinger shark"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the biggest thing you have learned about yourself after your time on fab?

I find it impossible to find out about people, when they hide their profiles !

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By *rsmiley69Man
over a year ago

Cavan Monaghan

Nobody’s interested in meeting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the dating app bumble is a a far easier place for men to pick up women

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I've had lots of chats on here, and met quite a few fabbers as well. I've learned to spot fakes and chancers in this jungle, but generally, most people are decent. My massage skills have improved, I've learned a lot about women's minds and bodies, and I can pick up an "off" vibe from a couple the moment they walk in the door. I've also learned that intimacy is important to me, and when I find it, it makes the encounter so much more satisfying and memorable. It's the intimate spark that makes me want to meet them again.

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

"I’m no good at getting meets ?? "

I concur

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By *arry and AnnCouple
over a year ago

Louth

1. My Cock isnt always as brave as my brain

2. We are very happy just fucking each other

(We met here, so groupsex was the original norm)

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee

"That is can be good fun and there are a lot of decent people on here who I have become friends with and luckily they outweigh the cockwombles on here.

Oh and that having some kinks is not weird or odd but good fun

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s there’s nothing weird or strange about my kinks

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By *un_Paul500Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I am not the only one with kinky mind

This space is not open minded and even tougher than outside world

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