FabSwingers.com forum: Older men

By *ack 188 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

I just wonder is it a waist of time on here for us

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

A belt fits around a waist anything else is a waste

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Oh I wouldn't say that at all. Plenty of people meet older guys. My filters are up for a reason but def aren't set in stone and older guys can be a lot of fun.

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over a year ago

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Oh I wouldn't say that at all. Plenty of people meet older guys. My filters are up for a reason but def aren't set in stone and older guys can be a lot of fun.

What she said

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Oh I wouldn't say that at all. Plenty of people meet older guys. My filters are up for a reason but def aren't set in stone and older guys can be a lot of fun.

What she said

Oh def what he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is attraction no matter the age. I have filters up but that wouldn't stop me txing an older guy if I saw something I liked

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I've had some steamy encounters with older men. I'm sure there will be more to come.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Attraction is attraction no matter the age. I have filters up but that wouldn't stop me txing an older guy if I saw something I liked

Speak up I can't hear you

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I've had some steamy encounters with older men. I'm sure there will be more to come.

Let me know how that goes

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

older guy welike to take our time 'so the lady get to enjoy

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By *ack 188 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

Its good to know there's some enthusiasm out there

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Never give up. Unless you're dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was about to give up!

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By *rederick2000Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you

I can not complain and have a great time here.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

There's some interest in older guys, its limited, but definitely there, otherwise I'd be gone

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

i can’t get past waist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wonder is it a waist of time on here for us

not a waist of time...although a time machine may be more helpful than a belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm old and probably have dyslexia (the belt doesn't fit either

So that's me fcuked I guess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you may or not meet someone. That will depending on how you connect and interact with them. How good your first message is. People have age preferences but most are not set in stone. I personally prefer men my own age or younger but do prefer meeting my own age group.

I often make grammer or spelling mistakes when typing (hate autocorrect) but one of the benefits of age I think is not caring enough to go back and correct it. If people want to pick you up on it that's more a reflection on them than you.

Hope you find what you are looking for but it takes work here.

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By *rederick2000Man
over a year ago

Out and About near you

"OP you may or not meet someone. That will depending on how you connect and interact with them. How good your first message is. People have age preferences but most are not set in stone. I personally prefer men my own age or younger but do prefer meeting my own age group.

Hope you find what you are looking for but it takes work here. "

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Wouldnt be against older men. As a tip tho.. pics of a head from below upwards are rarely flattering. A level or downwards facing pic is way more flattering.

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Don’t find it a problem op

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By *ack 188 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

Sorry about the typewriter error

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

"There's some interest in older guys, its limited, but definitely there, otherwise I'd be gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a matter of mindset. Let's face it. We're on the wrong side of 40 for many but we should all have a bit of wisdom lol

Treat this for what it is. A bit of fun.

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By *uv2bnude3Man
over a year ago

Thurles

"Oh I wouldn't say that at all. Plenty of people meet older guys. My filters are up for a reason but def aren't set in stone and older guys can be a lot of fun.

Yet us "older" guys rarely get any contact and cant make contact because the filters block us.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

What is older?

Am I past it at 45?!? Nobody told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So that's the reason i get no mail ,ye haa .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's a matter of mindset. Let's face it. We're on the wrong side of 40 for many but we should all have a bit of wisdom lol

Treat this for what it is. A bit of fun. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i love to meet older men and majority of my meets have been. Age is a number. Happy fabbing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are whatever age you are and there's nothing you can do about it..i would love to be 20 years younger but I'm not..my advice is accept what you are and get on with it..i do x

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Age is only a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is older?

Am I past it at 45?!? Nobody told me

I had a typo on it so deleted lol

You can have your way with me any day

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I just wonder is it a waist of time on here for us

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older men do fine as long as they have a positive attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a fine wine, Kaizer gets better with age

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

"I just wonder is it a waist of time on here for us

OP, we all are getting older and think about it like a great wine or whiskey

Older the better

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By *ack 188 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

I'm not complaining, I've met gorgeous women on here,couldn't be nicer

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By * Waterford GentMan
over a year ago

waterford

I’m 44 next month and to be honest I feel more confident in myself now than I ever did in my 20s or 30s. I don’t think it’s a waste of time being on here OP as there will always be those who are interested in us older guys and those who are not, it’s the same on any similar site or even dating sites. At the end of the day it just comes down to being positive and being yourself. And as has been said we’re like a fine wine, we get better with age

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

We are not as vain or as self centred as the younger lads and _iving a partner pleasure is as important to us as getting pleasure, if not more important. Generally speaking anyway as there are exceptions to every rule/generalisation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wonder is it a waist of time on here for us

older men do fine as long as they have a positive attitude."

This

Is there anything sadder and more self-destructive than the opening message "I know you would never meet me but....." - if you don't think you're worth meeting, why would anyone else?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I just wonder is it a waist of time on here for us

older men do fine as long as they have a positive attitude.

This

Is there anything sadder and more self-destructive than the opening message "I know you would never meet me but....." - if you don't think you're worth meeting, why would anyone else? "
I'm deffo worth meeting. ??

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I have my filters. I would consider someone older but ive yet to see any that pique my interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned 49 at the end of last year and what did I get?.... letters from Sunlife offering me an over 50’s life insurance plan!... insensitive bastards!!! As the Queen of Irish/country musics song says..”I Ain’t Over The Hill!”.... well, not yet anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turned 49 at the end of last year and what did I get?.... letters from Sunlife offering me an over 50’s life insurance plan!... insensitive bastards!!! As the Queen of Irish/country musics song says..”I Ain’t Over The Hill!”.... well, not yet anyway

to help pay for your funeral costs..yep I got them too lol..on a brighter note my mortgage finished this year too..a wee silver lining there somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to help pay for your funeral costs..yep I got them too lol..on a brighter note my mortgage finished this year too..a wee silver lining there somewhere

That’s it, the over 50’s funeral plan!!! .... like as if I’m worried about who’s paying for my funeral.... I’ll be brown bread!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to help pay for your funeral costs..yep I got them too lol..on a brighter note my mortgage finished this year too..a wee silver lining there somewhere

That’s it, the over 50’s funeral plan!!! .... like as if I’m worried about who’s paying for my funeral.... I’ll be brown bread!!!

I didn't get any of those offers feeling left out now

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By * Waterford GentMan
over a year ago

waterford

to help pay for your funeral costs..yep I got them too lol..on a brighter note my mortgage finished this year too..a wee silver lining there somewhere

That’s it, the over 50’s funeral plan!!! .... like as if I’m worried about who’s paying for my funeral.... I’ll be brown bread!!!

I didn't get any of those offers feeling left out now

I’ll bin them if I start getting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to help pay for your funeral costs..yep I got them too lol..on a brighter note my mortgage finished this year too..a wee silver lining there somewhere

That’s it, the over 50’s funeral plan!!! .... like as if I’m worried about who’s paying for my funeral.... I’ll be brown bread!!!

I didn't get any of those offers feeling left out now

I’ll bin them if I start getting them

Ah now won't be too long

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

to help pay for your funeral costs..yep I got them too lol..on a brighter note my mortgage finished this year too..a wee silver lining there somewhere

That’s it, the over 50’s funeral plan!!! .... like as if I’m worried about who’s paying for my funeral.... I’ll be brown bread!!!

I didn't get any of those offers feeling left out now

They gave up sending them to me

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

to help pay for your funeral costs..yep I got them too lol..on a brighter note my mortgage finished this year too..a wee silver lining there somewhere

That’s it, the over 50’s funeral plan!!! .... like as if I’m worried about who’s paying for my funeral.... I’ll be brown bread!!!

I didn't get any of those offers feeling left out now

I’ll bin them if I start getting them

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Jack try dating sites like pof there is where the real swinging ladies are and no ifs and butts , and not many ',.,!'? Needed either and don't give up there is someone for everyone

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By * Waterford GentMan
over a year ago

waterford

to help pay for your funeral costs..yep I got them too lol..on a brighter note my mortgage finished this year too..a wee silver lining there somewhere

That’s it, the over 50’s funeral plan!!! .... like as if I’m worried about who’s paying for my funeral.... I’ll be brown bread!!!

I didn't get any of those offers feeling left out now

I’ll bin them if I start getting them

Ah now won't be too long

I still have a few years left to enjoy before then

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By *gentleman44Man
over a year ago

dublin

"I just wonder is it a waist of time on here for us

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how old would you consider old

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"I just wonder is it a waist of time on here for us

how old would you consider old"
75

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By *ack 188 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

If you didn't know how old you were,how old would you be

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

As long as your expectations are realistic op i wouldnt say its a waste. I know lots of men over 50 who get regular meets and party invites, but it does require effort on their part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a 51 cross dresser and then say that you have problems meeting people

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

If your young at heart and mature in bed and know what your at age me nothing attraction lead to good action

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By *elfastman..Man
over a year ago

belfast

The older the fiddle the sweeter the tune x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only had this conversation with a (younger) female friend today......older men with younger women....

I've found lots of younger women prefer an older man....i can't claim to know exactly why...maybe it's the confidence, the maturity, the experience, the lack of drama.....

or maybe it's just when chemistry and connection and attraction is there age doesn't matter???

I'm not at all going to question it

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Good lord. Am depressed now !!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Thank goodness I've a pussy!

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Am a DOG man myself !!

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By *ack 188 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

Pussy is king on here

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By *ardcockMan
over a year ago

Antrim

I’m having no luck up on the North coast. I would love a lady for fun nothing serious. I’m a fit youngish looking on the wrong side of 40. Good sense of humour and likes to play outside if possible. Never tried it but would like to be watched

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By *elfastman..Man
over a year ago

belfast

Older the fiddle the sweeter the tune

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By *onjuan234Man
over a year ago

Limerick

What is old though, its all relative, im old to someone in their 20s or 30s but young to someone in their 50s

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By *iviMan
over a year ago

Antrim

A lot of filters set to 50 then 55 so for anyone over that it makes contact very hard. Everyone has their own preferences that should be respected so I guess thats the way it is.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Played with more than 80 women in the last five years, many more than once, so mid 50’s is Definitely not too late.

Most of these ladies were in their 50’s or 60’s with a few younger or older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a fair few women in their late twenties to late thirties who prefer us older guys. The harsh reality is that a lot of these young fellas are in the gym lifting weights, and doing roids and all manner of nutritional supplements of dubious origin to become more muscular. Taking all that stuff really screws up their endocrine systems, and quite a lot of em can barely achieve an errection, let alone maintain one.

Oh these young ladies just love to be seen at the nite club with a ripped muscular guy, but they usually have a sexually savvy older guy to ride them senseless

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee

"Older the fiddle the sweeter the tune

This

it's all about respect hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I get older I get to know what I like,what I want,and how to have fun trying to get it...lol !

I'm having a great time..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing it's a waste of time for the ones who aren't getting any meets. Clearly age is not the only factor!

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By *bwcouple4funCouple
over a year ago

New Ross

"I've met a fair few women in their late twenties to late thirties who prefer us older guys. The harsh reality is that a lot of these young fellas are in the gym lifting weights, and doing roids and all manner of nutritional supplements of dubious origin to become more muscular. Taking all that stuff really screws up their endocrine systems, and quite a lot of em can barely achieve an errection, let alone maintain one.

Oh these young ladies just love to be seen at the nite club with a ripped muscular guy, but they usually have a sexually savvy older guy to ride them senseless

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bingo

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Not a waste at all....I'm old and unfortunately often have to turn down meets due to time commitments. Never found my age an issue except for fab filters but anyways other chat apps seem to have replaced fab messaging as the way to get to know people so happy days.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Oh these young ladies just love to be seen at the nite club with a ripped muscular guy, but they usually have a sexually savvy older guy to ride them senseless

yeah ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh these young ladies just love to be seen at the nite club with a ripped muscular guy, but they usually have a sexually savvy older guy to ride them senseless

Not sure there's any need to big up one group by slagging off another, besides which, it's a ridiculous generalisation, not least when medical experts tell us that 40% of men over 40 suffer erectile dysfunction.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Oh these young ladies just love to be seen at the nite club with a ripped muscular guy, but they usually have a sexually savvy older guy to ride them senseless

This

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Oh these young ladies just love to be seen at the nite club with a ripped muscular guy, but they usually have a sexually savvy older guy to ride them senseless

There's a tablet for that

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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I think people have different qualities to offer at any age, I myself 40 (maybe I'm old) but never felt more sexual am very attracted to more experienced so age doesnt come into it, I agree with earlier it's about personality and positive outlook. X happy fabbing

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

When do we start to qualify for older ?

I'm 40 , told I don't look 40 deffo don't feel like 40.

So?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When do we start to qualify for older ?

I'm 40 , told I don't look 40 deffo don't feel like 40.

So?"

It's relative to the other party, you're younger to me

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"When do we start to qualify for older ?

I'm 40 , told I don't look 40 deffo don't feel like 40.

So?

It's relative to the other party, you're younger to me

Isn't it all relative to maturity or immaturity not a number we can't change ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When do we start to qualify for older ?

I'm 40 , told I don't look 40 deffo don't feel like 40.

So?

It's relative to the other party, you're younger to me

Isn't it all relative to maturity or immaturity not a number we can't change ?"

Of course. But maturity does tend to come with age and experience, although at different rates!

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By *bwcouple4funCouple
over a year ago

New Ross

"When do we start to qualify for older ?

I'm 40 , told I don't look 40 deffo don't feel like 40.

So?"
well considering my mum is in her 40s I class that as older sorry ha I've another 11 years to go himself only has 9 years an I call him old

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

aaaaa age is just a number..

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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"aaaaa age is just a number.."

I 100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you have older guys now who stay in excellent shape and they're first in line 9/10.

People say everyone has a type but any statistics you google will show even bigger women will pick an older man with a 6 pack before they pick one with a beer belly.

That's a general rule and not 100% before everyone says their preference is the opposite

It just means your chances are severely diminished.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

In the words of the Dubliners

An old man came courting me, hey ding dooram day

An old man came courting me, me being young

An old man came courting me, all for to marry me

Maids, when you're young never wed an old man

Because he's got no faloorum, fadidle eye-oorum

He's got no faloorum, fadidle all day

He's got no faloorum, he's lost his ding doorum

Oh Maids When You're Young, Never Wed An Old Man

When we went to church, hey ding dooram day

When we went to church, me being young

When we went to church, he left me in the lurch

Maids When You're Young, Never Wed An Old Man

When we went to bed, hey ding doorum day

When we went to bed, me being young

When we went to bed, he lay like he was dead

Maids when you're young never wed an old man

Because he's got no faloorum, fadidle eye-oorum

He's got no faloorum, fadidle all day

He's got no faloorum, he's lost his ding doorum

Oh Maids When You're Young, Never Wed An Old Man

When he went to sleep, hey ding doorum day

When he went to sleep, me being young

When he went to sleep, out of bed I did creep

Into the arms of a handsome young man

And I found his faloorum, fadidle eye-oorum

I found his faloorum, fadidle all day

I found his faloorum, he got my ding doorum

So maids when you're young never wed an old man

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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Love the dubliners but even they can be wrong sometimes. X

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

Some older guys rock it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go us aul bucks

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