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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had a strange encounter today. I was talking to woman she is 25. We have been chatting for a few weeks I found her on a dating site. It’s been very vanilla and friendly.

But found out today that she things porn isn’t for women. That sex is very special and should always be with someone special and there should be no sex of physical stuff. for the first few months I dating.. I didn’t judge her.

I don’t really know what to say though.. she doesn’t seem to realise when done right a woman can get just as much out of sex and delving into her desires as a man.... I just though almost everyone under the age of 50 was more open to the world.

Do you think she is missing out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course she`s missing out.....but how she feels about porn and sex is her prerogative, maybe if she meets that someone special and things are going well, maybe then her views might change who knows

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Religious indoctrination probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religious indoctrination probably"
Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself."

By implication people who enjoy sex without shame or waiting for months of 1on1 dating.. dont have self respect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself."

And this attitude is why there are 100 men for every woman on this site. It's fine for you to be here, but any woman here has no self respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself.

By implication people who enjoy sex without shame or waiting for months of 1on1 dating.. dont have self respect?"
Perhaps but you say religious reasons stop having sex.How you come to that conclusion.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself.

By implication people who enjoy sex without shame or waiting for months of 1on1 dating.. dont have self respect? Perhaps but you say religious reasons stop having sex.How you come to that conclusion."

Err.. its fairly self-evident Harry. Perhaps because that's what a lot of Christian religions openly teach? Most of ireland were taught by them that sex is only for procreation during marriage, and something that a woman should endure rather than enjoy. A lot of the sexual repression in Ireland rooted in this indoctrination. This is probably an example of that.

Anyway.. I'm not planning on wasting my Sunday debating this because I think the point stands on it's own and I've got better things to do than react to troll bait. Enjoy mass Harry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself.

By implication people who enjoy sex without shame or waiting for months of 1on1 dating.. dont have self respect? Perhaps but you say religious reasons stop having sex.How you come to that conclusion.

Err.. its fairly self-evident Harry. Perhaps because that's what a lot of Christian religions openly teach? Most of ireland were taught by them that sex is only for procreation during marriage, and something that a woman should endure rather than enjoy. A lot of the sexual repression in Ireland rooted in this indoctrination. This is probably an example of that.

Anyway.. I'm not planning on wasting my Sunday debating this because I think the point stands on it's own and I've got better things to do than react to troll bait. Enjoy mass Harry."
I do believe you are Nun in previous life and you not get your cherries picked you are now rebelling against religion.That is my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself.

By implication people who enjoy sex without shame or waiting for months of 1on1 dating.. dont have self respect? Perhaps but you say religious reasons stop having sex.How you come to that conclusion.

Err.. its fairly self-evident Harry. Perhaps because that's what a lot of Christian religions openly teach? Most of ireland were taught by them that sex is only for procreation during marriage, and something that a woman should endure rather than enjoy. A lot of the sexual repression in Ireland rooted in this indoctrination. This is probably an example of that.

Anyway.. I'm not planning on wasting my Sunday debating this because I think the point stands on it's own and I've got better things to do than react to troll bait. Enjoy mass Harry. I do believe you are Nun in previous life and you not get your cherries picked you are now rebelling against religion.That is my opinion. "

Yup, that's childish trolling alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself.

By implication people who enjoy sex without shame or waiting for months of 1on1 dating.. dont have self respect? Perhaps but you say religious reasons stop having sex.How you come to that conclusion.

Err.. its fairly self-evident Harry. Perhaps because that's what a lot of Christian religions openly teach? Most of ireland were taught by them that sex is only for procreation during marriage, and something that a woman should endure rather than enjoy. A lot of the sexual repression in Ireland rooted in this indoctrination. This is probably an example of that.

Anyway.. I'm not planning on wasting my Sunday debating this because I think the point stands on it's own and I've got better things to do than react to troll bait. Enjoy mass Harry. I do believe you are Nun in previous life and you not get your cherries picked you are now rebelling against religion.That is my opinion.

Yup, that's childish trolling alright "
Lol you not lick me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met a fair number of very straight laced sexually repressed women on the dating sites over the last twelve years. Most of them come from a conservative catholic rural backround where the church still has a lot more influence than they have in the larger towns and cities. Usually one of their elder siblings inherited the family farm, and they got an education and a house in the suburbs.

Unfortunately this religious indoctrination process begins at an early age, and becomes an almost impossible cycle to break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive met a fair number of very straight laced sexually repressed women on the dating sites over the last twelve years. Most of them come from a conservative catholic rural backround where the church still has a lot more influence than they have in the larger towns and cities. Usually one of their elder siblings inherited the family farm, and they got an education and a house in the suburbs.

Unfortunately this religious indoctrination process begins at an early age, and becomes an almost impossible cycle to break. "
Like I say before some man and women's respect there bodies more than others and have nothing do with religion.

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself.

By implication people who enjoy sex without shame or waiting for months of 1on1 dating.. dont have self respect? Perhaps but you say religious reasons stop having sex.How you come to that conclusion.

Err.. its fairly self-evident Harry. Perhaps because that's what a lot of Christian religions openly teach? Most of ireland were taught by them that sex is only for procreation during marriage, and something that a woman should endure rather than enjoy. A lot of the sexual repression in Ireland rooted in this indoctrination. This is probably an example of that.

Anyway.. I'm not planning on wasting my Sunday debating this because I think the point stands on it's own and I've got better things to do than react to troll bait. Enjoy mass Harry. I do believe you are Nun in previous life and you not get your cherries picked you are now rebelling against religion.That is my opinion.

Yup, that's childish trolling alright Lol you not lick me."

Harry are you an Alien?, as a member of the genuine male population we disown you and your outdated comments on women and sex.Long live freedom of expression,the day of shoving your ideals down the throat of modern Ireland is gone. Live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself.

By implication people who enjoy sex without shame or waiting for months of 1on1 dating.. dont have self respect? Perhaps but you say religious reasons stop having sex.How you come to that conclusion.

Err.. its fairly self-evident Harry. Perhaps because that's what a lot of Christian religions openly teach? Most of ireland were taught by them that sex is only for procreation during marriage, and something that a woman should endure rather than enjoy. A lot of the sexual repression in Ireland rooted in this indoctrination. This is probably an example of that.

Anyway.. I'm not planning on wasting my Sunday debating this because I think the point stands on it's own and I've got better things to do than react to troll bait. Enjoy mass Harry. I do believe you are Nun in previous life and you not get your cherries picked you are now rebelling against religion.That is my opinion.

Yup, that's childish trolling alright Lol you not lick me.

Harry are you an Alien?, as a member of the genuine male population we disown you and your outdated comments on women and sex.Long live freedom of expression,the day of shoving your ideals down the throat of modern Ireland is gone. Live and let live. "
I look some of your post on the forums you not shy on shoving your ideas down people throats you self.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Ive met a fair number of very straight laced sexually repressed women on the dating sites over the last twelve years. Most of them come from a conservative catholic rural backround where the church still has a lot more influence than they have in the larger towns and cities. Usually one of their elder siblings inherited the family farm, and they got an education and a house in the suburbs.

Unfortunately this religious indoctrination process begins at an early age, and becomes an almost impossible cycle to break. Like I say before some man and women's respect there bodies more than others and have nothing do with religion. "

I very much respect my body and my body tells me that it needs sex to stay healthy and sane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But found out today that she things porn isn’t for women. That sex is very special and should always be with someone special and there should be no sex of physical stuff. for the first few months I dating.. I didn’t judge her"

He just blocked her and moved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive met a fair number of very straight laced sexually repressed women on the dating sites over the last twelve years. Most of them come from a conservative catholic rural backround where the church still has a lot more influence than they have in the larger towns and cities. Usually one of their elder siblings inherited the family farm, and they got an education and a house in the suburbs.

Unfortunately this religious indoctrination process begins at an early age, and becomes an almost impossible cycle to break. Like I say before some man and women's respect there bodies more than others and have nothing do with religion.

I very much respect my body and my body tells me that it needs sex to stay healthy and sane. "
Your can't survive without food or water but you can survive without sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some interesting comments on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs here. It might be a fear for having sex as she heard stories its painful. Then it might also be religion thingy that sex outside marriage is a sin. Or it might be just a simple romantic reason: she wants to make 100% sure that the guy with whom it will be her first time is a special person and will treat her with respect afterward. There are lots of stories guys wanted a virgin , then laughed in the club how scared she was, etc...

My answer OP is give her more time, talk to her openly.

Regarding porn - I did not enjoyed watching it even 5years ago. Now I like time to time to watch a amateur video to learn new things and surprise my hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself."

Shouts volumes about you in many ways ....block button is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Religious indoctrination probably Perhaps her choice not religious.Maybe she have respect for herself.

Shouts volumes about you in many ways ....block button is great "
Me think Ireland's people get knickers in twist over little things.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Little things like being told they have no self respect? Keep digging Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Little things like being told they have no self respect? Keep digging Harry "
I no dig I say what I think.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I think you're in the wrong site if you think the women here are lacking self respect. Perhaps time to disappear again and try a new fresh start with a new troll profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel the need to make a point.

Just because your over 50 does not necessarily mean you have hang ups about sex.

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland

Harry or whatever your name is, your outdated and outmaneuvered by the women here. Take another break, maybe improve your take on the English language, preferably a permanent break. Bye-bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Harry or whatever your name is, your outdated and outmaneuvered by the women here. Take another break, maybe improve your take on the English language, preferably a permanent break. Bye-bye."
I upset the natives unintentionally of course.But I cum i go as I please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're in the wrong site if you think the women here are lacking self respect. Perhaps time to disappear again and try a new fresh start with a new troll profile."
You love Harry don't you my little cherry pie.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Your accent has slipped Harry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your accent has slipped Harry lol"
I fast learn especially when I enjoy myself.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

And yet no doubt it will be bad again in your next post. Funny that. At least try and up your game and be consistent. That's troll 101 Harry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yet no doubt it will be bad again in your next post. Funny that. At least try and up your game and be consistent. That's troll 101 Harry.

"
You my favourite couple always there for the pickings.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Harry or whatever your name is, your outdated and outmaneuvered by the women here. Take another break, maybe improve your take on the English language, preferably a permanent break. Bye-bye. I upset the natives unintentionally of course.But I cum i go as I please. "

Ffs harry u know u shouldnt be cumming outside of marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Harry or whatever your name is, your outdated and outmaneuvered by the women here. Take another break, maybe improve your take on the English language, preferably a permanent break. Bye-bye. I upset the natives unintentionally of course.But I cum i go as I please.

Ffs harry u know u shouldnt be cumming outside of marriage "
Who say I not married Ffs .

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"And yet no doubt it will be bad again in your next post. Funny that. At least try and up your game and be consistent. That's troll 101 Harry.

You my favourite couple always there for the pickings."

Odd that you try and continue the accent while simultaneously admitting you're a troll. You may as well drop that too at this point.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Ive met a fair number of very straight laced sexually repressed women on the dating sites over the last twelve years. Most of them come from a conservative catholic rural backround where the church still has a lot more influence than they have in the larger towns and cities. Usually one of their elder siblings inherited the family farm, and they got an education and a house in the suburbs.

Unfortunately this religious indoctrination process begins at an early age, and becomes an almost impossible cycle to break. Like I say before some man and women's respect there bodies more than others and have nothing do with religion.

I very much respect my body and my body tells me that it needs sex to stay healthy and sane. Your can't survive without food or water but you can survive without sex."

I've no doubt about that, Harry. I can also live without brushing my teeth, love or sunlight but it will certainly make me sick and unhappy.

Do explain to me how not having sex is respecting your body and having isn't. We would die out pretty quicky if everyone is respecting their body.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Harry or whatever your name is, your outdated and outmaneuvered by the women here. Take another break, maybe improve your take on the English language, preferably a permanent break. Bye-bye. I upset the natives unintentionally of course.But I cum i go as I please.

Ffs harry u know u shouldnt be cumming outside of marriage Who say I not married Ffs ."

So maryanne was ur wife before u ditched her for wanting to share ur cock with another man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yet no doubt it will be bad again in your next post. Funny that. At least try and up your game and be consistent. That's troll 101 Harry.

You my favourite couple always there for the pickings.

Odd that you try and continue the accent while simultaneously admitting you're a troll. You may as well drop that too at this point."
I not understand what you want me to drop.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Ive met a fair number of very straight laced sexually repressed women on the dating sites over the last twelve years. Most of them come from a conservative catholic rural backround where the church still has a lot more influence than they have in the larger towns and cities. Usually one of their elder siblings inherited the family farm, and they got an education and a house in the suburbs.

Unfortunately this religious indoctrination process begins at an early age, and becomes an almost impossible cycle to break. Like I say before some man and women's respect there bodies more than others and have nothing do with religion.

I very much respect my body and my body tells me that it needs sex to stay healthy and sane. Your can't survive without food or water but you can survive without sex.

I've no doubt about that, Harry. I can also live without brushing my teeth, love or sunlight but it will certainly make me sick and unhappy.

Do explain to me how not having sex is respecting your body and having isn't. We would die out pretty quicky if everyone is respecting their body. "

Ill respect u DH i prommise i will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Harry or whatever your name is, your outdated and outmaneuvered by the women here. Take another break, maybe improve your take on the English language, preferably a permanent break. Bye-bye. I upset the natives unintentionally of course.But I cum i go as I please.

Ffs harry u know u shouldnt be cumming outside of marriage Who say I not married Ffs .

So maryanne was ur wife before u ditched her for wanting to share ur cock with another man "
I cheated on wife I bad man.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Where is it again you're pretending to be from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is it again you're pretending to be from?"
I from timbuckto.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

[Removed by poster at 12/01/20 19:39:53]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is it again you're pretending to be from? I from timbuckto.

Oh you're African? Bet you do well here with your BBC "
I no get BBC.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Ive met a fair number of very straight laced sexually repressed women on the dating sites over the last twelve years. Most of them come from a conservative catholic rural backround where the church still has a lot more influence than they have in the larger towns and cities. Usually one of their elder siblings inherited the family farm, and they got an education and a house in the suburbs.

Unfortunately this religious indoctrination process begins at an early age, and becomes an almost impossible cycle to break. Like I say before some man and women's respect there bodies more than others and have nothing do with religion.

I very much respect my body and my body tells me that it needs sex to stay healthy and sane. Your can't survive without food or water but you can survive without sex.

I've no doubt about that, Harry. I can also live without brushing my teeth, love or sunlight but it will certainly make me sick and unhappy.

Do explain to me how not having sex is respecting your body and having isn't. We would die out pretty quicky if everyone is respecting their body.

Ill respect u DH i prommise i will "

I know you would

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I think everyone kind of jumped to conclusions. Going by what the OP said there is nothing to indicate the lady does not want or indeed enjoy sex. He just said she believes it should be special

and not rushed into in the first few months of dating

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