FabSwingers.com forum: New girl

By *ncalld9 OP Man
over a year ago

santry

Hi guys long time reader first time poster (always wanted to say that lol) anywhoo I have been in contact with a female friend of mine who is looking for her 1st ffm meet. We have booked a hotel in Dublin City Centre for the 19th January. I myself am on fab years now but she isn't. Would I be better off looking for a couple more so than a single bi female as she is relaxed enough to meet with a couple also. Any input would be appreciated cheers and happy fabbing guys

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My genuine advice:

Whoever you guys decide to meet - don't be a matchmaker alone.

Let her decide if she's okay with whoever you both decide to meet. If anyone, my boyfriend included would book a hotel and just tell me tonight we will bring someone I've never seen or even spoke to before to fuck I would tell them to do one.

That's me being experienced. Anyone brand new to this lifestyle will be a lot more nervous and most likely at some point upset.

By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Go for an ffm as that is what she is interested in. Plus, she will probably be more accepting of a single female than a couple. Less to go wrong with the ffm scenario. Experienced guy here

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If ye are both looking for the meet then both should be the ones posting. One part of a couple be it fbs or whatever is hard to arrange a meet with others.

She will need to chat to whoever you are arranging to meet as well. I have know several women who have agreed to meet couples and it has gone tits up fast in a bad way due to jealously from one part of the couple.

One person should not be arranging the whole meet. If she just wants a ffm then she may not want another male involved. Talk to her an sort out what you both want first.

Hope you have fun no matter what ye decide on.