FabSwingers.com forum: struggling to orgasm

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

a question for men & women.

Does anyone struggle with achieving an orgasm? As in it happens just takes a decent while.

Is there a ‘normal time’ to orgasm in?

Does it lead to faking or guilt over the time it takes to orgasm?

I’d love to hear others opinion and feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with orgasms.

It can be frustrating for both.

My ex blamed herself but it wasn't nothing to do with her.

For me its going on years.

Alot of it is to do with your mind.

If you try different positions.

I find now I can cum if I can pull out easy even with or without a condom.

Hope this helps

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It takes me ages to orgasm from oral and I haven't for almost 20 years, not that I look for it, quite contrary, it's boring and not very exciting.

Other than that it all depends on the person I'm with, the action and the skills. In general it can be said though if my naughty mind isn't stimulated it's not going to happen.

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By *andyman.snrMan
over a year ago

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"It takes me ages to orgasm from oral and I haven't for almost 20 years, not that I look for it, quite contrary, it's boring and not very exciting.

Other than that it all depends on the person I'm with, the action and the skills. In general it can be said though if my naughty mind isn't stimulated it's not going to happen. "

And nobody is taking notes

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

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"a question for men & women.

Does anyone struggle with achieving an orgasm? As in it happens just takes a decent while.

Is there a ‘normal time’ to orgasm in?

Does it lead to faking or guilt over the time it takes to orgasm?

I’d love to hear others opinion and feelings"

Some people are dehydrated and they dont even know they are

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By *argus12Man
over a year ago

meath dublin / london

Never heard of a man struggling to orgasm. But for me it’s always enjoyable to have a ping build up to that climax. Makes for a more intense climax

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I dont think there is a "normal" timeframe to orgasm in. every person is different so its a certain thing/action/position that will make them explode (provided its done right of course)

I prefer clit stimulation orgasms be it from fingers or oral. sometimes i orgasm very quickly. sometimes its takes a while. just depends on the day. Ive had days where ive nearly been at the point and its gone away. such is life

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