FabSwingers.com forum: Eastern European Ladies

By *um64 OP Man
over a year ago

Cork, Dublin

I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?"

Any women I have ever met on here always insist on paying half for the hotel room,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well maybe discuss beforehand with the person your meeting at a hotel if they are going to share the cost

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By *ixty eight plus oneWoman
over a year ago

Tramore

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?"

Could it not be both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a racist, but......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?"

You sound racist, OP.

I think before you meet make an agreement.

If this is once off or regular meets, first one might be on your own or 50/50

Its your choice.

I pay my half. Always. Even being with friends. If I invite for a lunch or dinner - I pay in full.

You must be clear, and stop complaining. You have made decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP

Culture and race are two completely different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty much a cultural thing in my experience, nothing more sinister than that.. It's like Irish folks abroad who live in gaa jerseys.. culture!

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By *um64 OP Man
over a year ago

Cork, Dublin

I don’t believe I’m racist, would not meet if I was and enjoyed their company. I have met 3 different ladies on a number of occasions, from Eastern Europe, and they have never paid or offered to pay for anything. I have never experienced this with any Irish lady so I’m wondering is that just their way.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP

Culture and race are two completely different things."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Eastern European.

I pay my share in full everywhere I go.

About it being cultural - Yes, men are expected to do small favours for ladies like buying a drink and opening doors. No, men are not expected to cover all expenses.

You didn't make yourself clear at the beginning and they simply assumed it was your treat. It happens.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

There are cultural differences. I find Czech and Slovakian people, both men and women, have expectations of how men should behave socially. Men should be Men! I have many Polish friends and colleagues, and I really have to check with them as to what is acceptable when we meet socially. We laugh at our cultural differences. It's not a matter of race, its culture. So, best to have the chat first, simply to avoid causing offence, or embarrassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?"

Funny you say that Im Eastern Europian and Irish guys left me with full hotel bills on numerous occassions in the past...and I share every expense..

There are women and men too I must add in every nation who if not clarified will keep quiet about sharing bills..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This it is how it’s work on our side of the world . Man pays . Asking a lady to pay is a big ofence . Only if she offers herself to share .. but the main rule is man pays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best think to do is discus this at the begging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different op. I work with quiet a few Eastern European women...they would expect a man to pay. As others have said, this isn't always the case. I would discuss this pre meet with someone. So there us no misunderstanding.

I would say this, there is NOTHING racist about the OP's post. I'm disgusted but not at all surprised it was mentioned.

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By *um64 OP Man
over a year ago

Cork, Dublin

Thanks for responses and support. I always offer to pay but don’t think I should be forced to pay for everything, one was a doctor and a lot better off than me but you live and learn. Just feel it’s kinda miserable having to ask or discuss sharing costs before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for responses and support. I always offer to pay but don’t think I should be forced to pay for everything, one was a doctor and a lot better off than me but you live and learn. Just feel it’s kinda miserable having to ask or discuss sharing costs before meeting."

Just pop on your profile...I go dutch on any hotels etc

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's not miserable to agree sharing costs up front.. its expected. It's not a date.

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By *um64 OP Man
over a year ago

Cork, Dublin

Yeah exactly my point

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Off topic. Why is it that "Eastern Europeans" are all put under the one title but anyone else from anywhere else in Europe is called by their nationally?

Irish

English

French

German

Spanish

Eastern European.

Anyone know why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iron curtain

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thin

Any women I have ever met on here always insist on paying half for the hotel room, "

Brutas your mom is very generous

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I dunno about on here, but all the women from that part of the world I have met have paid for everthing for me.

One even paid for a hotel twice, they have bought me cups of tea/coffee.

But Irish girls have bought me cups of tea too.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thin

Any women I have ever met on here always insist on paying half for the hotel room,

Brutas your mom is very generous"

now now tom

fucker

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

Eastern Europe is massive. Culture varies from country to country. If you could be more specific about what countries they came from there might be a more informed answer.

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By *um64 OP Man
over a year ago

Cork, Dublin

Latvia, Poland and Ukrainian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?

Funny you say that Im Eastern Europian and Irish guys left me with full hotel bills on numerous occassions in the past...and I share every expense..

There are women and men too I must add in every nation who if not clarified will keep quiet about sharing bills.. "

That was a nasty way to treat you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This it is how it’s work on our side of the world . Man pays . Asking a lady to pay is a big ofence . Only if she offers herself to share .. but the main rule is man pays "

Have to agree, rude to ask and so may man may end up paying all.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"Latvia, Poland and Ukrainian "

Slavic people so..i guess its a cultural thing..its a more traditional view of male female relationships..man must pay for the female to feel like a man..woman will gladly accept to feel like a lady..its ireland 40 years ago where men were dominant and women were supservient not like todays equality for all...men and women are equal in every way mantra which is total lie of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, make sure next time to discuss in advance about sharing the costs.

Miserable is moaning on forum. Its your fault.

People are from different cultures. And yes its was disgrace in most of the Eastern European countries asking a woman to pay a bill. Its changed. Slowly but changed.

I hope lesson learnt.

If people only want to learn about others this world will be better

What might be "normal" in the UK or Ireland might be a faux pas in other countries.

I was living in many European countries and always first thing when we landed there was learning about their tradition, language, savoir vivre.

Kissing a lady in a cheek twice might be sexual harassment here but its kind of showing a friendship and respect in other countries, same with kissing a lady's hand...

Be prepared, learn a lot, and always ask. It is not a harm to ask if you unsure.

At work often heard voices about this or that nationality. People judge others even not knowing them.

Do you think its fair? I dont think so.

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By *um64 OP Man
over a year ago

Cork, Dublin

Everyone judges, whether they admit or not. I posted the question (first ever) on the forum to see if others had experienced same and their reactions to my experience. I got what I wanted, thanks all for your reactions and comments. We all live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP

Culture and race are two completely different things."

You are right. We are actually the same white/Caucasian race.

Personally I don't like muslim people and because of that being called a racist, which is funny,as muslims can be white, yellow or black.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?"

We are Central European couple from Poland. We always pay for room fully, when Irish guys never offered or asked to cover a half. Well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iron curtain"

Lack of geographic knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im western ireland but if i say i can accomadate and meet a lady in a hotel il pay if i cant accomadate and a lady can and we agree to meet in a hotel il still pay if ahe offers to pay il still pay. If she insists on paying il let her buy the drinks. Il pay the room. No big deal. If i met a girl in a hotel nightclub and wanted to have a onenighter id just skoot to reception and book and pay for the room there and then not going to argue over a few pound. Theres too much fun to be had without worrying about a few pound.

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

The Donegal man pays with sterling...

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?"

Don’t forget Dutch women too

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Ah you're being taken for a ride by them OP!

Dinner and drinks.

Oh, hang on. Did you actually get the ride off them?

How much would that have cost if straight transaction with escort?

Probably the same, so value wise, same end result.

Better if she'd shared cost but, if you got huggies, what's the difference?

PS I'm playing devil's advocate

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Ah you're being taken for a ride by them OP!

Dinner and drinks.

Oh, hang on. Did you actually get the ride off them?

How much would that have cost if straight transaction with escort?

Probably the same, so value wise, same end result.

Better if she'd shared cost but, if you got huggies, what's the difference?

PS I'm playing devil's advocate

Jiggies not huggies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found the same thing. Think it's a cultural thing, they just expect to be looked after

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

The OP seems like a cheap person!

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By *um64 OP Man
over a year ago

Cork, Dublin

"The OP seems like a cheap person!"

I don’t think one person spending €200 on a meet and the other nothing is cheap but hey it’s all relative to what you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huggies...

Best typo ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Donegal man pays with sterling..."
is sterling change ok

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP

Culture and race are two completely different things.

You are right. We are actually the same white/Caucasian race.

Personally I don't like muslim people and because of that being called a racist, which is funny,as muslims can be white, yellow or black. "

It's more So their religious beliefs then, which could be a bit more understandable. Nothing against any religion myself, but sure there is people who have extreme beliefs even in the Catholic religion too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iron curtain

Lack of geographic knowledge. "

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t believe I’m racist, would not meet if I was and enjoyed their company. I have met 3 different ladies on a number of occasions, from Eastern Europe, and they have never paid or offered to pay for anything. I have never experienced this with any Irish lady so I’m wondering is that just their way."

Did u approach the subject before the meet about going halfs??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have paid for every single hotel meet this year. Now they were all Irish but I won't make a sweeping statement saying they are all the same!

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?"

You may hope those few ladies don't read the forums, or else all future chances of meets are ruined.

Sure if I am lucky enough to get a meet I wouldn't be complaining if I had to pay all or split the cost....

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"I have paid for every single hotel meet this year. Now they were all Irish but I won't make a sweeping statement saying they are all the same!"

All from Cavan, we're they???

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I’ve had the privilege of meeting women from outside of Ireland and there has been no issue splitting the bills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iron curtain

Lack of geographic knowledge.

How so?"

Central Europe: Germany, Poland, Czech, Slovakia, Hungary

Eastern Europe: Ukraine, Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Moldova, Russia up to Ural, Georgia, Armenia, up to Caucas

South-East/Balkans: ex Jugoslavia Countries, Romania, Bulgaria, Albania

North: Estonia, Sweden, Norway, Danmark, Iceland

South:Spain, Italy, Greece, Malta, Cyprus

West:France, UK, Ireland, Belgium, Holland

Regards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have paid for every single hotel meet this year. Now they were all Irish but I won't make a sweeping statement saying they are all the same!

All from Cavan, we're they???

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

"I have paid for every single hotel meet this year. Now they were all Irish but I won't make a sweeping statement saying they are all the same!"

It's the 5th of January. What kinda woman are you?

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

"Iron curtain

Lack of geographic knowledge.

How so?

Central Europe: Germany, Poland, Czech, Slovakia, Hungary

Eastern Europe: Ukraine, Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Moldova, Russia up to Ural, Georgia, Armenia, up to Caucas

South-East/Balkans: ex Jugoslavia Countries, Romania, Bulgaria, Albania

North: Estonia, Sweden, Norway, Danmark, Iceland

South:Spain, Italy, Greece, Malta, Cyprus

West:France, UK, Ireland, Belgium, Holland

Regards

I think it's a grey area and not defined by geographical location on a map. Instead, has geopolitical connotations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have paid for every single hotel meet this year. Now they were all Irish but I won't make a sweeping statement saying they are all the same!

It's the 5th of January. What kinda woman are you?

Ah yes good point I forgot its 2020 still in holiday mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls are used to chivalrous behaviour. Girls don’t pay, why would they. They are to look pretty and be kissed and looked after.

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over a year ago

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

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Well it happens with people in every walk of life and yes it's not a date and men are just as bad , not been lucky enough to meet eastern ladies but am happy to buy dinner and discuss the hotel ha ha , A man can dream

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

Well it happens with people in every walk of life and yes it's not a date and men are just as bad , not been lucky enough to meet eastern ladies but am happy to buy dinner and discuss the hotel ha ha , A man can dream

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flashing sounds better then voyeurism as people look at that in the wrong context

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Arrange beforehand... and dont tar all with the same brush....

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Arrange beforehand... and dont tar all with the same brush....

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always arrange and nice to hear that " tar with the same brush its a lovely old Irish sayings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well fistly swinging does cost money so if someone can't afford it they should rethink the life style.

Men in most europe actualy take a pride in buying a cup of coffee or dinner for a lady. And more likely don't go there if they can't afford it.

Now i am eastern european and i have been in the scene for better of over 10 year. Id like to think i seen a lot. I have no problem with finances and i can well afford to buy myself coffee drinks dinner and a place to stay.

The common expectation from guys probably more in rescent 5 years is lady has to accomodate, has to have condoms and wear suspenders when himself arive in tracsuit as long as he does arive. Or even better wear suspenders for meet in a carpark.

I been taken how quick the op assesed womens he met assets she is a doctor earns more than me, im sorry but i can only think how much it took for that woman to get there at least 8 years ongoing education and fees for studies you may look up how much that is and you certainly had no input in that. Obviously not counting that.

In our part of europe is not given that man pays, but it would be very rear that man alows to pay simple as.

And now wouldn't it be nice that at age 55 you would have a place to bring lady back and dont have to go thru all the hastle of getting a hotel and then moan about expenses. I think you been lucky to meet them.Just saying

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Eastern europian ladies are really beautiful, starting with Croatians as i am Croatian, then Serbians, Polish, Lithuanians, Russians...best crack is with Irish girls let's be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well fistly swinging does cost money so if someone can't afford it they should rethink the life style.

Men in most europe actualy take a pride in buying a cup of coffee or dinner for a lady. And more likely don't go there if they can't afford it.

In our part of europe is not given that man pays, but it would be very rear that man alows to pay simple as.

Thank you my dear for bringing the education costs as well.

If I earn more money it doesn't mean I want to sponsor every man.

I think its fair to split the costs equally.

And you are also right regarding the finances and accommodation.

Im a single woman and have kids but it doesn't mean I want to invite strangers into my house which one is my children's sanctuary.

Maybe I'm fussy but I was very careful with choosing my FwBs. They respect my decision.

I was suspicious on the beginning reading OP's first post. Why he did complain about finances if: (1) he never asked a lady to share the costs, (2) with a certain age as his, he might be the owner of an own place. If he struggle to pay for a hotel, then invite ladies to your own place.

I ain't here for a long time but have a female friend who is a swinger over 15 years and told me all the tricks some men and couples do...

We all have our own experiences: bad and good. The important thing is staying positive and be patient

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By *um64 OP Man
over a year ago

Cork, Dublin

I hear what you both have to say but would respond that I always pay and offer to pay for drinks/coffee/hotel, not really an issue. My issue is that the ladies in this case never offered to even pay for a drink or a coffee even after multiple meets. The gesture of offering alone would have sufficed.

As regards education and such we or our families had to pay for same. My point there was lady was of a similar age and had the means, booked hotel for 3rd meet and then told me to pay for it. It would have been cheaper with an escort for the night! Fair is fair, no Irish lady ever treated me so.

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

slovika woman very sexy

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By *olm_irishMan
over a year ago

Clonee

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?

Funny you say that Im Eastern Europian and Irish guys left me with full hotel bills on numerous occassions in the past...and I share every expense..

There are women and men too I must add in every nation who if not clarified will keep quiet about sharing bills.. "

Shame on those lads who didn't pay there bit Cara...miserable gits!!! Don't give up on us Irish lads hey

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By *erwinMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP

Culture and race are two completely different things.

You are right. We are actually the same white/Caucasian race.

Personally I don't like muslim people and because of that being called a racist, which is funny,as muslims can be white, yellow or black. "

Muslim is mot a Nationality and not liking people because if their religion is so wrong you didn't learn anything after 600 years of British occupation that you don't choose which religion you are born . Being racist is easy but being a man of values and respect you will need another life for that

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP

Culture and race are two completely different things.

You are right. We are actually the same white/Caucasian race.

Personally I don't like muslim people and because of that being called a racist, which is funny,as muslims can be white, yellow or black.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op why not go to escort site and solve the issue?

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

"Op why not go to escort site and solve the issue? "
. Or don’t meet foreigners?

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By *um64 OP Man
over a year ago

Cork, Dublin

I might as well could have gone to an escort which is the point. If you meet another consenting adult on a swinging site it should be mutual and any costs shared automatically. If either decides to pay most that is their option, not obligation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus man get over it.....

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Jesus man get over it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus im not sure what those woman were doing spending time in such a misurable company. There is no rules man just there isn't. Get over it and go to escort next time....

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By *un4fun23456Man
over a year ago

ennis

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?

Funny you say that Im Eastern Europian and Irish guys left me with full hotel bills on numerous occassions in the past...and I share every expense..

There are women and men too I must add in every nation who if not clarified will keep quiet about sharing bills.. "

mmmmm BP amazing pics fab body eastern european and pays the bills think iam in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people here both male and female assume the other is going to pay for everything. I no longer meet for coffee as I've never been offered a cup when I did.imagine men not having the manners to offer you a drink in a coffee shop! But yet expecting some sort of a fumble in my car afterwards. Get to fuck! I no longer book hotel rooms either as I've 95 Percent of the time ended up footing the whole bill myself as inevitably the fella fucks off after getting what he came for. There are decent people out there of course I just never seem to meet them charming and all as they are online they inevitably become very unattractive for making me feel like an unpaid whore .fuk that shit

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"Many people here both male and female assume the other is going to pay for everything. I no longer meet for coffee as I've never been offered a cup when I did.imagine men not having the manners to offer you a drink in a coffee shop! But yet expecting some sort of a fumble in my car afterwards. Get to fuck! I no longer book hotel rooms either as I've 95 Percent of the time ended up footing the whole bill myself as inevitably the fella fucks off after getting what he came for. There are decent people out there of course I just never seem to meet them charming and all as they are online they inevitably become very unattractive for making me feel like an unpaid whore .fuk that shit

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Maybe you should start charging then

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

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Maybe it’s an English thing. I would happily pay and wouldn’t think twice about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why we are different folks. I'm polish and I'll never let woman to pay because I Am the man! Doesn't matter if she polish, spanish or irish, man has to be a man and that should be in my opinion in normal rules of relationship on the beginning of some stage. After few meetings ok but not on first date you ask a woman to split cost.

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So why we are different folks. I'm polish and I'll never let woman to pay because I Am the man! Doesn't matter if she polish, spanish or irish, man has to be a man and that should be in my opinion in normal rules of relationship on the beginning of some stage. After few meetings ok but not on first date you ask a woman to split cost. "

I agree with your words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chivalry is alive and well it seems lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chivalry is alive and well it seems lol"

Better be Chivalry for woman then Culchie gha haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chivalry is alive and well it seems lol"

I'm old fashioned. It's about affordability too so I will always be ready to cover bills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chivalry is alive and well it seems lol

I'm old fashioned. It's about affordability too so I will always be ready to cover bills "

It's not about old fashion but about good manners! Maybe lads, let women open the door to you

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over a year ago

"Chivalry is alive and well it seems lol

I'm old fashioned. It's about affordability too so I will always be ready to cover bills

It's not about old fashion but about good manners! Maybe lads, let women open the door to you

Yes manners goes a long way in my book

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over a year ago

"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?"
If you cannot afford what is good, maybe search for cheaper options, instead public complaint. Manners for girls from Eastern countries are very important so I just doubt you met too many. Eastern European is a new N-word. Not enough respect to know even the nationality, all thrown into a one bucket. I expect the difficulties even showing where that country is on a map. You had chance to learn some good gentlemen manner's from that lady, but you decided your own way.

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