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"Lets smash up your backdoor first and call you a slut!! " Good karma lol | |||
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"Not everyone who enjoys anal sex also enjoy being called a slut. If its anal you are looking for then I suggest you drop the slut word as it will increase the number of women who are likely to agree to it." If that's exactly what he wants, surely it's best to be upfront about it.. | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ?"  | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ?" That's self-explanatory surely, some people enjoy the use of terms that others find derogatory. | |||
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"Hey Guys I am from France and since I am here never met a girl looking only for backdoor job every girl says no are Irish girls anal free lol" Welcome to Ireland and congratulations on getting blocked by half the site almost immediately. Google translate really let you down. | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ?" No difference, it's all enjoyable anal. 
Some just view it as derogatory to hear or see the words anal slut. Anal princess has a nice ring to it, I think.  | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? No difference, it's all enjoyable anal.
Some just view it as derogatory to hear or see the words anal slut. Anal princess has a nice ring to it, I think. "Ding a ling a ling! | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? That's self-explanatory surely, some people enjoy the use of terms that others find derogatory." Which is exactly my point. If its anal sex hes is looking for... then his net could cast much wider if he didnt use the word "slut". | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? No difference, it's all enjoyable anal.
Some just view it as derogatory to hear or see the words anal slut. Anal princess has a nice ring to it, I think. "Anal princess is much nicer | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? That's self-explanatory surely, some people enjoy the use of terms that others find derogatory. Which is exactly my point. If its anal sex hes is looking for... then his net could cast much wider if he didnt use the word "slut". " And my point was that perhaps that is what he is looking for, up to him to clarify | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? No difference, it's all enjoyable anal.
Some just view it as derogatory to hear or see the words anal slut. Anal princess has a nice ring to it, I think.
Anal princess is much nicer "So is there any anal princesses about  that like to be called slut in the throws of passion | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? No difference, it's all enjoyable anal.
Some just view it as derogatory to hear or see the words anal slut. Anal princess has a nice ring to it, I think.
Anal princess is much nicer
So is there any anal princesses about that like to be called slut in the throws of passion "Potentially
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? No difference, it's all enjoyable anal.
Some just view it as derogatory to hear or see the words anal slut. Anal princess has a nice ring to it, I think. "This | |||
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"I love how people get so bent out of shape in the fourms about things and behave like someone just kicked their dog. I used to meet a girl many moons ago that used to love being called a slut, infact she used to insist that I call her one and tell her how much of a slut she was being. Just because you don't like something does not mean that others don't. On a side note though, she did not like anal. "Noone got "bent out of shape". A guy was given advice on how to increase the likelihood of getting anal sex. That is all. | |||
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"Hey Guys I am from France and since I am here never met a girl looking only for backdoor job every girl says no are Irish girls anal free lol" Richard Ashcroft! | |||
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"Hey Guys I am from France and since I am here never met a girl looking only for backdoor job every girl says no are Irish girls anal free lol" Genuine question: did calling someone an anal slut ever scored you some action?  | |||
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"Pretty sure there's a female fabber here with the words anal and slut in her profile. " Not related but casey lee is a 10/10 | |||
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"Pretty sure there's a female fabber here with the words anal and slut in her profile. " I did try nothing coming up for Ireland lol hence the question | |||
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"Pretty sure there's a female fabber here with the words anal and slut in her profile. Not related but casey lee is a 10/10" . Um, thanks! | |||
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"GF is an anal slut and enjoys it to the extreme " She certainly is. I've seen rhossilis video and he sure barbacked her ass until it was destroyed | |||
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"GF is an anal slut and enjoys it to the extreme " My... that is a TWFA... (Truly Well Fucked Ass)  | |||
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"Not everyone who enjoys anal sex also enjoy being called a slut. If its anal you are looking for then I suggest you drop the slut word as it will increase the number of women who are likely to agree to it." | |||
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"Back door job !!! That's as bad as getting a message asking if I take it up the misery hole "Well do ya? Lmao  | |||
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"Back door job !!! That's as bad as getting a message asking if I take it up the misery hole
Well do ya? Lmao "I did DizzyRose If I remember right, he got a message back saying that clearly he hasn't got a veri due to his type of message he sends Then I got quite a long abusive message and I rolled my eyes and hit the block button  | |||
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"Lets smash up your backdoor first and call you a slut!! " Cal me anything you want | |||
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"Lets smash up your backdoor first and call you a slut!! Cal me anything you want" Anal angel sounds better from heaven | |||
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"Lets smash up your backdoor first and call you a slut!! Cal me anything you want" Anal angel sounds better from heaven | |||
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"Hey Guys I am from France and since I am here never met a girl looking only for backdoor job every girl says no are Irish girls anal free lol Welcome to Ireland and congratulations on getting blocked by half the site almost immediately. Google translate really let you down." Spot on | |||
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"Sacre Bleu! Will ye lay off the French guy ffs. In the UK and France, the word slut can be one of endearment. ie "my naughty little slut" Or worn as a badge of honor by an openly sexually confident woman, who doesn't feel the need to hide behind a veneer of respectability. Of course here is Ireland quite a lot of folk were brainwashed by the Catholic Church that sex was shameful and dirty. I personally know a lot of women from conservative Catholic rural backgrounds who are secretly dirty little sluts, but they would die of sheer embarrassment if their neighbors or the parish priest got wind they were bi-sexual or involved in any sort or polyamorous scenario "Sure some women like to be called sluts in secret. Others hate it in secret. As a brit in Ireland I havent noticed a difference in how its used. Plenty of English women feel the same. | |||
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"Sacre Bleu! Will ye lay off the French guy ffs. In the UK and France, the word slut can be one of endearment. ie "my naughty little slut" Or worn as a badge of honor by an openly sexually confident woman, who doesn't feel the need to hide behind a veneer of respectability. Of course here is Ireland quite a lot of folk were brainwashed by the Catholic Church that sex was shameful and dirty. I personally know a lot of women from conservative Catholic rural backgrounds who are secretly dirty little sluts, but they would die of sheer embarrassment if their neighbors or the parish priest got wind they were bi-sexual or involved in any sort or polyamorous scenario "I work for French company so should I feel free to incorporate the word into internal correspondence? Purely as a term of endearment of course | |||
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"Back door job !!! That's as bad as getting a message asking if I take it up the misery hole "What a charmer tho Wren how could you resist | |||
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"Back door job !!! That's as bad as getting a message asking if I take it up the misery hole
What a charmer tho Wren how could you resist "We had a lad on only this week asking if he could lick Scarlett’s ‘pink shithole’. Sadly, we are on a baby break so we couldn’t take this romantic wordsmith up on his very enticing offer. Our loss, I’m sure | |||
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"Words are very powerful in sex, calling somebody a slut or a whore can be very arousing if that is the sexual dynamic of the players. They are not necessarily demeaning words in this context. In many BDSM encounters one person will submit to another, including being debased either with words or actions. Anal sex is quite common as part of this type of play, it’s all part of the mind-set, placing yourself in a particular role." This is Ireland only a few can think out side the box , but have never used that word in play yet | |||
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"Words are very powerful in sex, calling somebody a slut or a whore can be very arousing if that is the sexual dynamic of the players. They are not necessarily demeaning words in this context. In many BDSM encounters one person will submit to another, including being debased either with words or actions. Anal sex is quite common as part of this type of play, it’s all part of the mind-set, placing yourself in a particular role.This is Ireland only a few can think out side the box , but have never used that word in play yet " Before we began our ‘kink’ life I was ultra respectable in both language and lovemaking. Now I use crude words as a form of endearment an enhancement to arousal for both players | |||
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"Words are very powerful in sex, calling somebody a slut or a whore can be very arousing if that is the sexual dynamic of the players. They are not necessarily demeaning words in this context. In many BDSM encounters one person will submit to another, including being debased either with words or actions. Anal sex is quite common as part of this type of play, it’s all part of the mind-set, placing yourself in a particular role." Yes I agree... | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? No difference, it's all enjoyable anal.
Some just view it as derogatory to hear or see the words anal slut. Anal princess has a nice ring to it, I think. "Anal Delight | |||
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"Maybe if more guys knew what they doing the girls enjoy it more most just think is stick it up there and bang bang. Some man are shiet at it thats why women say no so learn how to do it and do it gentle and u don't even need to ask is as simple as that "HE probably thinks he's still back in France, thus is Ireland man, we aren't that explicit around here | |||
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"Maybe if more guys knew what they doing the girls enjoy it more most just think is stick it up there and bang bang. Some man are shiet at it thats why women say no so learn how to do it and do it gentle and u don't even need to ask is as simple as that "I actually asked a girl once, she said I'll let you "But you'll have to earn it" | |||
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"Maybe if more guys knew what they doing the girls enjoy it more most just think is stick it up there and bang bang. Some man are shiet at it thats why women say no so learn how to do it and do it gentle and u don't even need to ask is as simple as that "Just the tip | |||
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"Can I have an anal slut and Princess please. Sure you can throw in the Queen too. If she's at a loose end. " Or has a loose end?  | |||
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"Maybe if more guys knew what they doing the girls enjoy it more most just think is stick it up there and bang bang. Some man are shiet at it thats why women say no so learn how to do it and do it gentle and u don't even need to ask is as simple as that I actually asked a girl once, she said I'll let you "But you'll have to earn it" "Meaning go down and lick her ass and get it all wet for easier access | |||
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"Sacre Bleu! Will ye lay off the French guy ffs. In the UK and France, the word slut can be one of endearment. ie "my naughty little slut" Or worn as a badge of honor by an openly sexually confident woman, who doesn't feel the need to hide behind a veneer of respectability. Of course here is Ireland quite a lot of folk were brainwashed by the Catholic Church that sex was shameful and dirty. I personally know a lot of women from conservative Catholic rural backgrounds who are secretly dirty little sluts, but they would die of sheer embarrassment if their neighbors or the parish priest got wind they were bi-sexual or involved in any sort or polyamorous scenario "Oh you're talking about france with its open attitude to sex, even though they are catholic too? Even though the paris political candidate had to step aside because a sex video of them circulated? Even in the France where I lived and was waiting for a friend to arrive on a plane, and Irish girls got off in mini skirts and high heels, and all the French men/women turned and looked at them as they left the aiport, maybe making the Irish girls believe they had arrived in liberated France to sexual freedom, only for me to hear the conversation after they left, with people asking "Are they prostitutes?" If you think Salop is a term of endearment in france for anything other than close friends, say it to random women in the street, and just pray one of them is not italian or you'll lose your balls, and hope its a french woman that just looks at you like you dont exist and makes a mental note that you no longer do exist to them. French attitudes can seem more open than ours, because we see the moulin rouge on tv and stuff, and the women are allowed be women and be beautiful. Where having an interest in sex, or kink is not seen as anything to complain about, its just seen as liking oasis etc. But a french woman not caring if you are on a sex site and spank your partners does not mean they will be okay with you subjecting them to that treatment. If you tell someone in Ireland that you like to spank, and they give a positive reaction, it usually means you can start flirting. In france it means "Thats good that you have a healthy sex life", and absolutely nothing more. Do not touch them, do not flirt with them, do not show them photos, or they will treat you just like a local Irish village will treat you, as an outcast pervert. | |||
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"Hey Guys I am from France and since I am here never met a girl looking only for backdoor job every girl says no are Irish girls anal free lol" Never understood why a man would want to stick his penis up a womans arse?? A bacteria infested hole that is designed for excretion or to put it bluntly for taking a shite nothing else..if p*ssy isnt good enough for you then maybe its a boyfriend you want | |||
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"Maybe if more guys knew what they doing the girls enjoy it more most just think is stick it up there and bang bang. Some man are shiet at it thats why women say no so learn how to do it and do it gentle and u don't even need to ask is as simple as that "Truth but when you find one that knows... heaven | |||
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"Must be a new record Someone will beat it now "Give me a minute | |||
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"Hey Guys I am from France and since I am here never met a girl looking only for backdoor job every girl says no are Irish girls anal free lol" Sure you go first and show us irish girls how it's done in France | |||
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"Hey Guys I am from France and since I am here never met a girl looking only for backdoor job every girl says no are Irish girls anal free lolSure you go first and show us irish girls how it's done in France "Something to do with Kerrygold butter....and a horse  | |||
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"Hey Guys I am from France and since I am here never met a girl looking only for backdoor job every girl says no are Irish girls anal free lolSure you go first and show us irish girls how it's done in France
Something to do with Kerrygold butter....and a horse "he came a long way from France to get a horse and butter lol | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? No difference, it's all enjoyable anal.
Some just view it as derogatory to hear or see the words anal slut. Anal princess has a nice ring to it, I think. ".... Nice ring to it eh.. What a lovely pun.. Lol | |||
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"Maybe im missing something. What's the difference between an anal slut, and someone who enjoys anal sex (but doesnt enjoy the word "slut") ? No difference, it's all enjoyable anal.
Some just view it as derogatory to hear or see the words anal slut. Anal princess has a nice ring to it, I think. .... Nice ring to it eh.. What a lovely pun.. Lol"So hypothetically speaking off course/asking for a friend...if the hubby / partner in the relationship gets pegged by said wife or girlfriend....does that turn him into an anal princess... | |||
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"Hey Guys I am from France and since I am here never met a girl looking only for backdoor job every girl says no are Irish girls anal free lol" Them frenchy wans must love having their back door smashed in.. | |||
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"The key to getting what you want here is all about your approach, crude rude penis waving mail is usually ignored by women here. You'd be surprised at what you can find out if you ask nicely. I'd have no issue making a Frenchman into the finest anal slut in Ireland ." Penis waving mail. Brilliant | |||
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"The key to getting what you want here is all about your approach, crude rude penis waving mail is usually ignored by women here. You'd be surprised at what you can find out if you ask nicely. I'd have no issue making a Frenchman into the finest anal slut in Ireland ." Strange he hasn't replied to the offer lol | |||
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"The key to getting what you want here is all about your approach, crude rude penis waving mail is usually ignored by women here. You'd be surprised at what you can find out if you ask nicely. I'd have no issue making a Frenchman into the finest anal slut in Ireland ." This last sentence is everything. | |||
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"The key to getting what you want here is all about your approach, crude rude penis waving mail is usually ignored by women here. You'd be surprised at what you can find out if you ask nicely. I'd have no issue making a Frenchman into the finest anal slut in Ireland . This last sentence is everything. " Perhaps my favourite all time sentence on this forum bravo | |||
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"Lets smash up your backdoor first and call you a slut!! " Some guys like that sort of thing. | |||
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"Lets smash up your backdoor first and call you a slut!! " Well called out girl - you tell him, lol | |||
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"The key to getting what you want here is all about your approach, crude rude penis waving mail is usually ignored by women here. You'd be surprised at what you can find out if you ask nicely. I'd have no issue making a Frenchman into the finest anal slut in Ireland . This last sentence is everything. Perhaps my favourite all time sentence on this forum bravo "Better even than the phrase “leave him with a hoop like a punched lasagne”.  | |||
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Plenty of women are into degradation whether as part of a wider BDSM dynamic or simply as its own thing. This can't come as news to you if you've been on here more than a few months. You're literally just piling on him because a man said it, and I understand why it gets some people's back up, but once again, you can easily work out from context that this isn't aimed at *you* if you are not into being called derogatory names. | |||
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"Why are people so bothered by the term "anal slut"? Is it inherently bad to be a 'slut'? If so, could you elaborate as to why..? It's a sex site and yet loads of you are amongst the biggest kink-shamers I've come across. IF you find the term derogatory then the post clearly isn't aimed at you and you don't need to pass comment, surely that is pretty obvious
Plenty of women are into degradation whether as part of a wider BDSM dynamic or simply as its own thing. This can't come as news to you if you've been on here more than a few months. You're literally just piling on him because a man said it, and I understand why it gets some people's back up, but once again, you can easily work out from context that this isn't aimed at *you* if you are not into being called derogatory names."Best comment yet! Just saved me the job too so thanks lol | |||
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"Why are people so bothered by the term "anal slut"? Is it inherently bad to be a 'slut'? If so, could you elaborate as to why..? It's a sex site and yet loads of you are amongst the biggest kink-shamers I've come across. IF you find the term derogatory then the post clearly isn't aimed at you and you don't need to pass comment, surely that is pretty obvious
Plenty of women are into degradation whether as part of a wider BDSM dynamic or simply as its own thing. This can't come as news to you if you've been on here more than a few months. You're literally just piling on him because a man said it, and I understand why it gets some people's back up, but once again, you can easily work out from context that this isn't aimed at *you* if you are not into being called derogatory names."I agree with your statement, but... Not everyone here are into BDSM and kink. Also as a person who is into those things - I would rather not see random Internet dom ghosts call me names. Respect, obedience and trust are things that should be earned, not just given to random passers by no matter weather you're into kink or not. Same goes for women who are into degradation- I've yet to find one who enjoys being degraded by random strangers in real life or online. | |||
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"Why are people so bothered by the term "anal slut"? Is it inherently bad to be a 'slut'? If so, could you elaborate as to why..? It's a sex site and yet loads of you are amongst the biggest kink-shamers I've come across. IF you find the term derogatory then the post clearly isn't aimed at you and you don't need to pass comment, surely that is pretty obvious
Plenty of women are into degradation whether as part of a wider BDSM dynamic or simply as its own thing. This can't come as news to you if you've been on here more than a few months. You're literally just piling on him because a man said it, and I understand why it gets some people's back up, but once again, you can easily work out from context that this isn't aimed at *you* if you are not into being called derogatory names."
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"Why are people so bothered by the term "anal slut"? Is it inherently bad to be a 'slut'? If so, could you elaborate as to why..? It's a sex site and yet loads of you are amongst the biggest kink-shamers I've come across. IF you find the term derogatory then the post clearly isn't aimed at you and you don't need to pass comment, surely that is pretty obvious
Plenty of women are into degradation whether as part of a wider BDSM dynamic or simply as its own thing. This can't come as news to you if you've been on here more than a few months. You're literally just piling on him because a man said it, and I understand why it gets some people's back up, but once again, you can easily work out from context that this isn't aimed at *you* if you are not into being called derogatory names.
I agree with your statement, but...
Not everyone here are into BDSM and kink.
Also as a person who is into those things - I would rather not see random Internet dom ghosts call me names.
Respect, obedience and trust are things that should be earned, not just given to random passers by no matter weather you're into kink or not.
Same goes for women who are into degradation- I've yet to find one who enjoys being degraded by random strangers in real life or online.
"He wasn't degrading anyone. He was asking if there are people out there who self-identity as 'anal sluts' around his area. People are just moaning for the sake of it. | |||
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"Why are people so bothered by the term "anal slut"? Is it inherently bad to be a 'slut'? If so, could you elaborate as to why..? It's a sex site and yet loads of you are amongst the biggest kink-shamers I've come across. IF you find the term derogatory then the post clearly isn't aimed at you and you don't need to pass comment, surely that is pretty obvious
Plenty of women are into degradation whether as part of a wider BDSM dynamic or simply as its own thing. This can't come as news to you if you've been on here more than a few months. You're literally just piling on him because a man said it, and I understand why it gets some people's back up, but once again, you can easily work out from context that this isn't aimed at *you* if you are not into being called derogatory names.
Each to their own "Hmmm, feel like you might be somewhat of an authority on this topic and people should listen to you...can't put my finger on why though... | |||
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