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By *ecentguy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

nearby

What is it that turns you off someone?

After youve got past the initial messaging and face pic swaps.

What would someone say or do that instantly kills the vibe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's been called babes or honey...and the what are you into question

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Usually the laughing when I drop the boxers does it

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By *ecentguy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

nearby


"Usually the laughing when I drop the boxers does it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's hygiene nothing worse than a smell of B.O

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"For me it's hygiene nothing worse than a smell of B.O"

Especially from the pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People being too presumptious and expecting that I would want to get anywhere near their bed.

Oh and veris from certain profiles as well as explicit veris.

I genuinely much rather not knowing how one came into someone's house, pulled their hose out which was sucked like a Dyson. Upon touching a very juicy pussy someone peed their bed (sorry, squirted) in a heat of the moment and left all hallway, stairs and bedroom soaking. Repeat intercourses and godly stamina performance later leaving the lusting females face covered in creamy steamy cum.

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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Talking over is big disadvantage and rankes fourth in my book of commandments

Honestly can't stand it sorri

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"People being too presumptious and expecting that I would want to get anywhere near their bed.

Oh and veris from certain profiles as well as explicit veris.

I genuinely much rather not knowing how one came into someone's house, pulled their hose out which was sucked like a Dyson. Upon touching a very juicy pussy someone peed their bed (sorry, squirted) in a heat of the moment and left all hallway, stairs and bedroom soaking. Repeat intercourses and godly stamina performance later leaving the lusting females face covered in creamy steamy cum. "

You just shot down at least 50% of Fab veris

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By *ecentguy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

nearby


"People being too presumptious and expecting that I would want to get anywhere near their bed.

Oh and veris from certain profiles as well as explicit veris.

I genuinely much rather not knowing how one came into someone's house, pulled their hose out which was sucked like a Dyson. Upon touching a very juicy pussy someone peed their bed (sorry, squirted) in a heat of the moment and left all hallway, stairs and bedroom soaking. Repeat intercourses and godly stamina performance later leaving the lusting females face covered in creamy steamy cum. "

Im guessing this is a copy and paste from a profile

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By *ecentguy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

nearby

If i get the sense that theyre a lazy lover its a big turn off.

Ie, they ask things like, “what will you do to me, tell me how youll fuck me.”

I want to know they will actually be involved. Not just lay there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i get the sense that theyre a lazy lover its a big turn off.

Ie, they ask things like, “what will you do to me, tell me how youll fuck me.”

I want to know they will actually be involved. Not just lay there"

If a guy would ask me how active I am in the bedroom I'd block him immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its the smell of smoke when they say they don't smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People being too presumptious and expecting that I would want to get anywhere near their bed.

Oh and veris from certain profiles as well as explicit veris.

I genuinely much rather not knowing how one came into someone's house, pulled their hose out which was sucked like a Dyson. Upon touching a very juicy pussy someone peed their bed (sorry, squirted) in a heat of the moment and left all hallway, stairs and bedroom soaking. Repeat intercourses and godly stamina performance later leaving the lusting females face covered in creamy steamy cum.

Im guessing this is a copy and paste from a profile "

Pretty much a sum of all veris I've ever read on people's who I don't want to meet profiles. But yes, I admit it looks a lot like a copy paste as they all pretty much look the same...

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By *ecentguy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

nearby


"If i get the sense that theyre a lazy lover its a big turn off.

Ie, they ask things like, “what will you do to me, tell me how youll fuck me.”

I want to know they will actually be involved. Not just lay there

If a guy would ask me how active I am in the bedroom I'd block him immediately. "

There has to be a sense that both parties will have their needs met. This comes trough conversation. Not incessant questioning of someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that turns you off someone?

After youve got past the initial messaging and face pic swaps.

What would someone say or do that instantly kills the vibe?"

Instant turn off is when a guy texts "How can I help you" pisses me right off immediately lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"What is it that turns you off someone?

After youve got past the initial messaging and face pic swaps.

What would someone say or do that instantly kills the vibe?

Instant turn off is when a guy texts "How can I help you" pisses me right off immediately lol"

You should say you need help to cross the road and see how he reacts

PS I'm not slagging you off with this comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that turns you off someone?

After youve got past the initial messaging and face pic swaps.

What would someone say or do that instantly kills the vibe?

Instant turn off is when a guy texts "How can I help you" pisses me right off immediately lol

You should say you need help to cross the road and see how he reacts

PS I'm not slagging you off with this comment "

Now John if I was touché I'd say that was ageist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that turns you off someone?

After youve got past the initial messaging and face pic swaps.

What would someone say or do that instantly kills the vibe?

Instant turn off is when a guy texts "How can I help you" pisses me right off immediately lol

You should say you need help to cross the road and see how he reacts

PS I'm not slagging you off with this comment

Now John if I was touché I'd say that was ageist "

Touchy lol but I'm not

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"What is it that turns you off someone?

After youve got past the initial messaging and face pic swaps.

What would someone say or do that instantly kills the vibe?

Instant turn off is when a guy texts "How can I help you" pisses me right off immediately lol

You should say you need help to cross the road and see how he reacts

PS I'm not slagging you off with this comment

Now John if I was touché I'd say that was ageist

Touchy lol but I'm not "

Which I knew you wouldn't be but I put the PS in for safety against ageism

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By *azzdubMan
over a year ago

dublin

People thinking they have some sort of fab hierarchy because they have more veri’s Than you and have been to a few club nights, lol, nothing worse than a show off

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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago

kildare

Smoking is a big true off for us.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Textspk

Badly written messages

Toilet pics

Emojis after each line of text

Begging

Needyness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene oral and otherwise big push back from.me.. lack of eye contact too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gossiping about other named users, especially when said person uses the terms "discreet" or "respectful" on their profile, shows they really have absolutely no clue of the meaning of those words. This is my number one turn-off.

Moodiness, fits of pique, neediness, messaging instantly every time we are online, any hint of drama or spite, ignoring the fact that we are a couple. I could go on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a message or pic swap......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off - using 'mmmm' in a message .. I think it's supposed to be seductive, but it just comes off as creepy ... Someone recently sent us just mmmmm in a message - bleugh

We may be alone in this

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"What is it that turns you off someone?

After youve got past the initial messaging and face pic swaps.

What would someone say or do that instantly kills the vibe?"

Instant turn off is when you realise that you've nothing in common with the other person, sexual or personality wise.

The other time, is the person behind a list of sexual interests they've only marked as it looks good on their profile and turns out to be just bored and curious to see as many face pics as possible, from a lot of people, but with no real interest to want to meet in real life, bar the odd encounters so they can keep a couple verifications on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant turn off is when the other person starts dropping hints about being broke and any chance you could help them out. It has happened. I ran for the hills like my arse was on fire.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

When someone's trying too hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn off - using 'mmmm' in a message .. I think it's supposed to be seductive, but it just comes off as creepy ... Someone recently sent us just mmmmm in a message - bleugh

We may be alone in this"

Yes the "mmmmmmmm" sends creepy shivers down my spine

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

When a women who seems nice when chatting turns out to be so far up her own ass that there's no room for cock

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Hygiene...

Greasy hair, dressed scruffy, chewing gum

Lack of social skills...

i.e throglodyte like gruntings during coffee meet

Btw didn't meet the above on Fab

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By *ucyssbbwWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Pushiness, Bad hygiene, smelly breath and one that drives me up the wall is if I'm online at night and getting a first time message from someone asking "what has you up so late?" (gets boring after the 10th time!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad body hygiene..disrespectful attitude or as little as a look..it's all down to chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People being falsely over-assertive, i.e. trying too hard to be a bastard/bitch for whatever dumbass reason they think it’s impressive.

Small clue....it’s not.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"People being too presumptious and expecting that I would want to get anywhere near their bed.

Oh and veris from certain profiles as well as explicit veris.

I genuinely much rather not knowing how one came into someone's house, pulled their hose out which was sucked like a Dyson. Upon touching a very juicy pussy someone peed their bed (sorry, squirted) in a heat of the moment and left all hallway, stairs and bedroom soaking. Repeat intercourses and godly stamina performance later leaving the lusting females face covered in creamy steamy cum. "
sounds like a good meet ....can you point them out to me ?

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Odours, unwashed, great expectations, being TOO nosey.

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